FabSwingers.com forum: Ok till face pic!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do I always get on with people till they ask for a face pic then 8 times out of ten they block me!!

I appreciate a thanks but no thanks, which I find is just common courtesy.

I'm no perfect specimen of man but who is, but on the other hand I'm no sloth from goonies.

Rant over. If you could call it a rant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time

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over a year ago

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

This has happened to me once but on here you can get blocked for anything like not having a car...just got to keep your chin up and keep combating you way through the trenches of fabs

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By *immyb1985Man
over a year ago

bridgend

Prahaps they don't like the cut of your jib?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If someone asks for one on there profile with first message I do.

Hey ho can't be everyone's cup of tea.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time "

I'm not sure if they would appreciate one with him having sunglasses on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Prahaps they don't like the cut of your jib? "

I think I've got a nice job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yer mush on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is an attraction (from the profile) I share mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time

I'm not sure if they would appreciate one with him having sunglasses on..."

Why? Does it make my nose look big? Lol

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time

I'm not sure if they would appreciate one with him having sunglasses on...

Why? Does it make my nose look big? Lol"

just a little

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

You can't help who you're attracted to sexually - regardless of how well you get on with them otherwise. But understandably when you have already hit it off to an extent, it's extra disappointing to be rejected once you reveal your face. It's just so much easier to be turned down straight off before you've built any rapport, and that's why sending a face pic as soon as possible is best for all parties concerned. It's not especially pleasant to be the one who rejects either in that situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do I always get on with people till they ask for a face pic then 8 times out of ten they block me!!

I appreciate a thanks but no thanks, which I find is just common courtesy.

I'm no perfect specimen of man but who is, but on the other hand I'm no sloth from goonies.

Rant over. If you could call it a rant

You think you struggle I am ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe youre just not attractive to them, and rather spare your blushes by saying "youre not for me" just block you?

Who knows?

Oh, they do...

Maybe ask them... oh, nvm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone asks for one on there profile with first message I do.

Hey ho can't be everyone's cup of tea."

Why not just do that with everyone you message for the first time. Attraction can be decided from the off, and determines whether the conversation continues from there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't help who you're attracted to sexually - regardless of how well you get on with them otherwise. But understandably when you have already hit it off to an extent, it's extra disappointing to be rejected once you reveal your face. It's just so much easier to be turned down straight off before you've built any rapport, and that's why sending a face pic as soon as possible is best for all parties concerned. It's not especially pleasant to be the one who rejects either in that situation

Then it's settled face pic every time

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"Why do I always get on with people till they ask for a face pic then 8 times out of ten they block me!!

I appreciate a thanks but no thanks, which I find is just common courtesy.

I'm no perfect specimen of man but who is, but on the other hand I'm no sloth from goonies.

Rant over. If you could call it a rant

You think you struggle I am ginger

Even though Ed Sheeran made Ginger cool again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prahaps they don't like the cut of your jib?

I think I've got a nice job lol

Obviously not a sailor

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time "

This!

I think it's totally reasonable to have to fancy the face as well as the rest.,, so best get it out there. Lots will love your little chops I'm sure x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Prahaps they don't like the cut of your jib?

I think I've got a nice job lol

Obviously not a sailor

There's a joke in there about seamen.......but I just can't put my finger on it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time

This!

I think it's totally reasonable to have to fancy the face as well as the rest.,, so best get it out there. Lots will love your little chops I'm sure x "

Well not lots........but people I have met have always said your face pics are shit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be the same with willys. Everything else could be bang on and then you see the penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been blocked after face pic too.I cudnt give 2 fecks. Plenty more fish in sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a handsome man. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time

This!

I think it's totally reasonable to have to fancy the face as well as the rest.,, so best get it out there. Lots will love your little chops I'm sure x

Well not lots........but people I have met have always said your face pics are shit lol "

so get taking some pics you are happy with then..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can be the same with willys. Everything else could be bang on and then you see the penis. "

You saying I've got an ugly one......awwww he's so upset now lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time

This!

I think it's totally reasonable to have to fancy the face as well as the rest.,, so best get it out there. Lots will love your little chops I'm sure x

Well not lots........but people I have met have always said your face pics are shit lol

so get taking some pics you are happy with then..

I'm not happy with any I take. But that could just be me being picky and self deprecating

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Why do I always get on with people till they ask for a face pic then 8 times out of ten they block me!!

I appreciate a thanks but no thanks, which I find is just common courtesy.

I'm no perfect specimen of man but who is, but on the other hand I'm no sloth from goonies.

Rant over. If you could call it a rant

We generally send a face pic with the first message, especially if we're sending THE first message.

Cal (Still in sunny Crete)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can be the same with willys. Everything else could be bang on and then you see the penis.

You saying I've got an ugly one......awwww he's so upset now lol"

Didn't say yours was ugly, it's a bit like a tremor in that picture, feel like I need to be on concrete or it's gonna eat me kind of thing but it's a good penis to be fair.

I'm on about in general. Guys normally have face or penis on display, it's rare that you get handsome face/big penis combos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm gonna go with the general consensus of face pic with first message and new pics.....if I can take some I like

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Some people are just like that, might not be your general attractiveness if that makes sense but just something they don't like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can be the same with willys. Everything else could be bang on and then you see the penis.

You saying I've got an ugly one......awwww he's so upset now lol

Didn't say yours was ugly, it's a bit like a tremor in that picture, feel like I need to be on concrete or it's gonna eat me kind of thing but it's a good penis to be fair.

I'm on about in general. Guys normally have face or penis on display, it's rare that you get handsome face/big penis combos. "

That's the dream but I can only work with what I've been given lol

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

you probably have a poor face pic.

Why don't you shoot better one.

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By *amesLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds City Centre Apartment

Yes I get exactly the same and was worried I was alone

You could either do this

1) stif your best face pic on as the main pic and hope for the best (and hope no one from work sees it)

2) put your best non-face pic on and chat and form what could be an incredible undying rapor with the person of your dreams, so when the time they ask to see your face if it doesn't matter if you look like that one off the goodies

That's what I do - I alternate between option 1 and 2 over a period of weeks or months

And sometimes i have had "promised" a meet from girls

But when they become time wasters

Zero meets at present and counting...

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"so why not send one out at the start and save yourself wasting time

This!

I think it's totally reasonable to have to fancy the face as well as the rest.,, so best get it out there. Lots will love your little chops I'm sure x

Well not lots........but people I have met have always said your face pics are shit lol

so get taking some pics you are happy with then..

Or do what a lot of the others do and post fake ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do I always get on with people till they ask for a face pic then 8 times out of ten they block me!!

I appreciate a thanks but no thanks, which I find is just common courtesy.

I'm no perfect specimen of man but who is, but on the other hand I'm no sloth from goonies.

Rant over. If you could call it a rant

You think you struggle I am ginger

Even though Ed Sheeran made Ginger cool again? "

Ginger has always been cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I go d this is a regular occurrence u speak for ages then the dreaded can I get a facepic u send then those fatal words sorry your not what I'm looking for and blocked and they don't even have the courtesy to send you a pic first

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By *urious247Woman
over a year ago

preston

Just send one with intial message no messing about then x

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By *amesLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds City Centre Apartment

"Op I go d this is a regular occurrence u speak for ages then the dreaded can I get a facepic u send then those fatal words sorry your not what I'm looking for and blocked and they don't even have the courtesy to send you a pic first"

Yes precisely

Loads

And "not my type"

Then they tell u their type is Dwayne Johnson with an 8 inch cock as u get a massive sense of relief that u know they are about as fukt as u are in finding what they want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site of double standards op lol average women want super fit guys and that goes double for couples if not looking for a woman u won't win as lots are shallow and say there has to be a physical attraction for them and best personality in world would change that .now wait for the tirade of people who will say opposite lol

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes precisely

Loads

And "not my type"

Then they tell u their type is Dwayne Johnson with an 8 inch cock as u get a massive sense of relief that u know they are about as fukt as u are in finding what they want lol"

What do you mean Dwyane Johnson with a massive cock?

I think you'll find there is no doubt that man is hung like a horse and ain't called the rock for nothing

lmfao

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By *amesLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds City Centre Apartment

Yes precisely

Loads

And "not my type"

Then they tell u their type is Dwayne Johnson with an 8 inch cock as u get a massive sense of relief that u know they are about as fukt as u are in finding what they want lol

What do you mean Dwyane Johnson with a massive cock?

I think you'll find there is no doubt that man is hung like a horse and ain't called the rock for nothing

lmfao"

Yeah u get the idea tho...

Also - good looking men will stoop to meet an unattractive girl but a good looking girl won't stoop to meet an unattractive guy - especially on this as it's all about sexual attraction and nothing else

The way it's going if anyone has ever had a sexual encounter of any kind just cherish the memories till the day you die as they seem to be becoming few and far between by the day... in my world anyway...

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