FabSwingers.com forum: I love the lounge :-)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Long post, I know.

I've grown to like you guys, I don't post outside of this lounge forum. We all use this site in different ways, we're allowed to. I've come to recognise people and even been lucky to talk to most/some of you as well.

So hypertheticaly speaking I'd love to meet all of you somehow, maybe over a coffee, who wouldn't want to meet people they like? I mean, I wouldn't want to meet strangers I've never talked to before, but I feel I know some of you.

Hypertheticaly - to make things easier for everyone if we all got together at the same time, we could all socialise with each other rather than aranging singular social meets. I think this sounds super cool.

So I posted a thread a couple of days ago (it's now in the meets forum) to see if others in the lounge thought the same. I wasn't arranging anything in that thread. For anyone who knows me in here, I wouldn't do that. I've tried to get you guys to write my profile/pms/threads for me. I'd be wise enough to get a clever woman or two to sort it out for me. I'd make sure they arranged it locally for me too.

So this is a thread 'again' in here, asking how you would organise it making sure no strangers turned up. Would you pm everyone or ask them to pm you?

Would you just post a date hoping people would turn up. Has anyone ever arranged anything like this before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will there be a buffet ?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

You make me smile

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Will there be a buffet ?

Is it you who likes a good buffet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was a member of a certain fitness forum we used to meet up for forum socials, usually in London as it was the most central place for our particular group. I'd go up on the train and be met by a certain gentleman and we'd all meet up with other members later for food and me and this certain gentleman would make our excuses and leave and go to a hotel for fucking!

On here people are too spread out, like you have people from way up north, Ireland, Wales, Scotland. Couldn't expect someone from Scotland to come all the way down.

I'd like to meet lots of people on here in a friendly way but everyone's spread out too much. Plus I'd want everyone to come down to Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big forum kik group, for forum members only.

Only the good forum members though. We wanna keep the riff-raff out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should do it guest list style, whereby your name has to be down on a list. If your preparing for lots to come, you will need to think about venue so numbers would help with that.

I think also the midland would be a sensible option? Allows for people coming from Scotland, wales etc not to have to go to far?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'd turn up for a group social it would be a good way to meet chat and have a laugh with other for mites

For me fab isn't just about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will there be a buffet ?

Is it you who likes a good buffet?

What's not to like about fingering your way through cheesy balls and prawn rings

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"A big forum kik group, for forum members only.

Only the good forum members though. We wanna keep the riff-raff out!

And there the problems start

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Will there be a buffet ?

Is it you who likes a good buffet?

What's not to like about fingering your way through cheesy balls and prawn rings

Hehe thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A big forum kik group, for forum members only.

Only the good forum members though. We wanna keep the riff-raff out!

And there the problems start

Exactly pink

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you should do it guest list style, whereby your name has to be down on a list. If your preparing for lots to come, you will need to think about venue so numbers would help with that.

I think also the midland would be a sensible option? Allows for people coming from Scotland, wales etc not to have to go to far?"

Is this how you would do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was a member of a certain fitness forum we used to meet up for forum socials, usually in London as it was the most central place for our particular group. I'd go up on the train and be met by a certain gentleman and we'd all meet up with other members later for food and me and this certain gentleman would make our excuses and leave and go to a hotel for fucking!

On here people are too spread out, like you have people from way up north, Ireland, Wales, Scotland. Couldn't expect someone from Scotland to come all the way down.

I'd like to meet lots of people on here in a friendly way but everyone's spread out too much. Plus I'd want everyone to come down to Cardiff

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i could only come up to Cardiff, could only come down if I was up't north

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.

Actually what is midlands, what areas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.

Actually what is midlands, what areas?"

I've got to ask... Who were you F'ing on U*M? I promise I'll keep it a secret

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.

Actually what is midlands, what areas?"

If you build it, they will come. ??

Maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The group social is a great idea. Having a guest list is really a must for it, you have to be realistic with the venue and their numbers for safety of all.

Keep it by pm so only those that have asked get the details. But also be considerate of those traveling by public transport to find the venue easily.

Really hope I can make it, looking forward to meeting everyone x

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"A big forum kik group, for forum members only.

Only the good forum members though. We wanna keep the riff-raff out!

Do I make the cut?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" But also be considerate of those traveling by public transport to find the venue easily.

Really hope I can make it, looking forward to meeting everyone x

There isn't one. Otherwise this would be in the meets forum.

This is asking how to arrange it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to KinkyMinx. She (and Hatter and Diamondjoe) arranged the three very successful Secret Tea Parties that happened in London (they've a group profile set up for the administration of it), and are very tight on ensuring it's kept to only those specifically invited. And she can explain the likely pitfalls too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is asking how to arrange it!!!

Pick a location, time and date.

Advertise to generate interest. People can talk and see who else might be coming on the threads

A few days before, get people to confirm attendance. Keep the list of all those that confirm.

A couple of days before, send those that confirmed all the details.

Expect half not to show.

That's pretty much how we do the tea parties.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.

Actually what is midlands, what areas?

I've got to ask... Who were you F'ing on U*M? I promise I'll keep it a secret

I'd never say. It was a secret!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speak to KinkyMinx. She (and Hatter and Diamondjoe) arranged the three very successful Secret Tea Parties that happened in London (they've a group profile set up for the administration of it), and are very tight on ensuring it's kept to only those specifically invited. And she can explain the likely pitfalls too.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/the_secret_tea_party

I can see Hatter's given you the lowdown though!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

What an interesting idea x

I would love to meet some people that I see posting here so often.

I guess location could be hard though.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is asking how to arrange it!!!

Pick a location, time and date.

Advertise to generate interest. People can talk and see who else might be coming on the threads

A few days before, get people to confirm attendance. Keep the list of all those that confirm.

A couple of days before, send those that confirmed all the details.

Expect half not to show.

That's pretty much how we do the tea parties.

Hope that helps.

But you don't advertise the exact location -- i.e. You say Central London publically but only provide the exact info by PM a few days ahead and ask people to absolutely not publicly post it -- hence keeping it contained.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Midlands is still like 4,5 hours away from South Wales. It just isn't possible to have one mass meet because people are spread out too much.

Actually what is midlands, what areas?

If you build it, they will come. ??

Maybe? "

Midlands is a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A big forum kik group, for forum members only.

Only the good forum members though. We wanna keep the riff-raff out!

And there the problems start

Exactly pink

It's ok, we will just make squirting a banned subject to talk about and we will all get along fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" But also be considerate of those traveling by public transport to find the venue easily.

Really hope I can make it, looking forward to meeting everyone x

There isn't one. Otherwise this would be in the meets forum.

This is asking how to arrange it!!!

Well first it's finding the venue and knowing maximum numbers. Then the date. Don't try to do it all in one go. As once it's actually on the meets forum you will be swamped with the admin so a helper will be useful. Keep it to pm's so no details make it onto the open forums. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx"

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah!! I wanna come. I don't really mind where it is, if im traveling im traveling!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

Yep

Ohhh... Same one... Excellent... That'll save me a few quid on air fares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "

We know there isn't

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "

To the social you're in denial about but that's ok you don't need to come

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "

Are you not invited yet misterbee?

How awkward

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.

We know there isn't

It's all hypothetical

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged. "

Looks like you're arranging one now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.

We know there isn't

It's all hypothetical

Exactly, let's not start that again!

makes some people really grumpy

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.

We know there isn't

It's all hypothetical

Exactly, let's not start that again!

makes some people really grumpy

Yeah and it's too nice to be grumpy, a lovely day for an afternoon tea social, don't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.

We know there isn't

It's all hypothetical

Exactly, let's not start that again!

makes some people really grumpy

Yeah and it's too nice to be grumpy, a lovely day for an afternoon tea social, don't you think?

Oh yes indeed, it's a beautiful sunny day, afternoon tea it is

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

This is asking how to arrange it!!!

Pick a location, time and date.

Advertise to generate interest. People can talk and see who else might be coming on the threads

A few days before, get people to confirm attendance. Keep the list of all those that confirm.

A couple of days before, send those that confirmed all the details.

Expect half not to show.

That's pretty much how we do the tea parties.

Hope that helps.

Even if people do ask constantly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

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over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ye I'm game if you sort out. Thinking about it wasn't hanky arranging something....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from

I dunno,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say there was one and it was in Birmingham and say 50 forum members turned up. Where would 50 people go? Would have to be some kind of venue that has function rooms which would incur fees. Between 50 off people wouldn't amount to much but would possibly have to explain to the proprietors what organisation we were from

I dunno, "

Book club obviously

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Alton tower's again. I've not been in the paper for a while

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you

See I do have a face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you

See I do have a face

And such a lovely face too

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you

See I do have a face

And such a lovely face too

Almost as lovely as yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged several times, and most of the time, most who say they will turn up, haven't, but that's just the luck of the draw here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you

See I do have a face

And such a lovely face too

Almost as lovely as yours

Awwww you guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Hold on there. Think she said that to everyone cos she said mine were the best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was just talking to someone on here about organised socials last night looool.

I've arranged a few socials in the past.... Never advertised, invite only....

Hope I'm on your invitation list?

I invited you xxx

???? To what??? There's nothing arranged.

Are you not invited yet misterbee?

How awkward

Do I feel sheepish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

Haha. I missed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well this has backfired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, "

We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

It's ok our song has just started playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

Haha. I missed it.

It was effectively, and quietly organised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

It was great wasn't it, great to finally meet some of you

See I do have a face

And such a lovely face too

Almost as lovely as yours

Awwww you guys!"

You're also stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

I'm the life and asshole of the party doncha know?!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

Ooops I get called trouble countless times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno,

We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub."

Did you walk round London holding an umbrella in the air? What would our symbol be, a giant double ended dildo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant idea mister bee! Though I think your plan for getting someone else to arrange has failed

looks like we're all turning up at yours then

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

That's what 'he' said... Fnarr Fnarr....

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please

I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please

I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him

Oh that's why my knees are hurting a little!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please

I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him

Oh that's why my knees are hurting a little!

These Fab socials really are eventful

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There was a popular forum social held in extasia in Birmingham 2 years ago, it was name down on a list which I flew down to, twas a brilliant night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please

I do believe we're still kneeling in front of him

Oh that's why my knees are hurting a little!

These Fab socials really are eventful

They sure are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Manchester Forum Social yesterday was brilliant, thanks all

It was lovely to finally meet you, Swing

You are so good at hugs

Hang on you said my hugs were the best

Woah there skippy! I don't see the word 'best' anywhere.

Wahhhhhhh

Well we know who isn't invited next time

Trouble makers

If you are a good girl you can come

I'm always a good girl, call me it in person though please

As you've said please, I'll do it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I dunno,

We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub.

Did you walk round London holding an umbrella in the air? What would our symbol be, a giant double ended dildo

Some people are instantly recognisable - especially if they have a face pic on here! Normally where you're meeting is specified and then you sort of make eye contact hoping someone will realise it's you before you have to take the risk of asking if it's them.

I've been to a few at Jaydees and Xtasia - they were a good laugh but I imagine somewhere less sex clubish might be better for the forum.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I think we should all go to xtasia on one of the free for fab members nights.

Premier inn next door.

*This poster is a poor person, and lives 15 mins away*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never go to a party people are daft enough to invite me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno,

We had 40 people at the last tea party, just in a pub.

Did you walk round London holding an umbrella in the air? What would our symbol be, a giant double ended dildo

I've been to a few at Jaydees and Xtasia - they were a good laugh but I imagine somewhere less sex clubish might be better for the forum.

I'd get a t shirt made with a picture of a fab lolly on it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Brilliant idea mister bee! Though I think your plan for getting someone else to arrange has failed

looks like we're all turning up at yours then

Peach x"

Or near me. I can settle for near me. Manchester even. Hypothetically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely think there should be a little tally list made of members in that particular area.

Like South Wales has say 20 people or midlands has 15 people, up north has 10 people. Oops majority wins, needs to be in Cardiff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brilliant idea mister bee! Though I think your plan for getting someone else to arrange has failed

looks like we're all turning up at yours then

Peach x

Or near me. I can settle for near me. Manchester even. Hypothetically.

Hypothetically that's a weekend away for us but hypothetically doable...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I genuinely think there should be a little tally list made of members in that particular area.

Like South Wales has say 20 people or midlands has 15 people, up north has 10 people. Oops majority wins, needs to be in Cardiff. "

haha.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"I genuinely think there should be a little tally list made of members in that particular area.

Like South Wales has say 20 people or midlands has 15 people, up north has 10 people. Oops majority wins, needs to be in Cardiff. "

At last some sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might arrange one in Reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you should do it guest list style, whereby your name has to be down on a list. If your preparing for lots to come, you will need to think about venue so numbers would help with that.

I think also the midland would be a sensible option? Allows for people coming from Scotland, wales etc not to have to go to far?

Is this how you would do it? "

Yes definitely x

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over a year ago

"I might arrange one in Reading

Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.

Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I might arrange one in Reading

Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.

Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness. "

I feel so cheap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might arrange one in Reading

Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.

Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness. "

Cardiff to Reading is two hours away but it's more expensive than I thought it would be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might arrange one in Reading

Reading is on the way to London isn't it, I passed it a few times on the Paddington train. I'd be ok with Reading.

Actually I'd be ok anywhere if it was close to a main train station, just would like the ticket to cost less than 50 quid, I like you all but not over 50 quids worth of fondness.

Cardiff to Reading is two hours away but it's more expensive than I thought it would be

But if I bought a ticket to Paddington and got off at Reading it costs less; doesn't make sense!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some good ideas.

Thanks for the suggestions, and this could be something I (someone else) could arrange. Hypertheticaly speaking.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"I might arrange one in Reading

Perfect! Selfish bint that I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some good ideas.

Thanks for the suggestions, and this could be something I (someone else) could arrange. Hypertheticaly speaking.

. "

Come on then crack on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we should all go to xtasia on one of the free for fab members nights.

Premier inn next door.

*This poster is a poor person, and lives 15 mins away*"

They have a Black Country Social at Flirts once a month I think.

I want to get to a forum social this year,if a train can get there fairly easily then I'll be there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.

A mahoosive Lounge social?

I'd probably stand outside umming and ahhing about going in for half an hour before chickening out .. I'm too socially awkward to break the ice with relative strangers so while the idea of meeting you all appeals, it would be kind of hell to actually have to walk in to the room on my own with you all there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might arrange one in Reading

Sounds like a plan! Make it a weeknight and even I might turn up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.

A mahoosive Lounge social?

I'll hold your hand Dan. (Your hand

)

Don't be shy. Jump in. ( I copied this from one of my messages ). We're all in the same boat meeting people. Just do it.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.

A mahoosive Lounge social?

Me too

I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!

If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.

A mahoosive Lounge social?

Then don't walk in on your own... Arrange to meet someone beforehand 1-1, chat, relax and then go in together... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.

A mahoosive Lounge social?

Me too

I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!

If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand

And thanks to Mister Bee too, I appreciate the offer dude but, to be perfectly honest, this hand holding offer appeals a little more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go if I wasn't such an antisocial twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

#swingswing

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

Cough... I take back my earlier statement... I've erm never attended any kind of social event whatsoever... I need a wingspan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

Cough... I take back my earlier statement... I've erm never attended any kind of social event whatsoever... I need a wingspan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.

A mahoosive Lounge social?

Me too

I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!

If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand

Yes, I remember that. Try and brave the next one and I can come and meet you wherever is easiest for you.

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over a year ago

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate

How very dare you?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate

Your point being??? Some of us appreciate 'art' you know

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over a year ago

"If I can make it to STP and survive then you others can too. If I can make the next one I'll hold hands with people if you want

You'll hold hands with people

Take the uninitiated under my wing yes

That's akin to 'come dear, let me show you my etchings' you reprobate

Your point being??? Some of us appreciate 'art' you know

In that case, Swing, carry on

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I think we should all go to xtasia on one of the free for fab members nights.

Premier inn next door.

*This poster is a poor person, and lives 15 mins away*"

I like the way you think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A masquerade ball in Blackpool, a tad cliche, but ever so fitting

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

Would be interesting to see if a certain poster chats as much rubbish in real life as he does on the forum.

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over a year ago

"My 'pie-chart' of Forum use would probably be 75% Lounge, 20% Swingers Chat, 5% others. The Lounge seeks the natural first place to head for me.

A mahoosive Lounge social?

Me too

I wanted to brave the STP, but was too shy to go on my own!

If there is a Reading one, I'll come hold your hand

I'd go with you if you wanted. I'm in Reading so not far. We can be shy together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were me and we were all such close friends, I'd have their phone numbers by now and just ask them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it were me and we were all such close friends, I'd have their phone numbers by now and just ask them.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If it were me and we were all such close friends, I'd have their phone numbers by now and just ask them.

You're a hoot GrumpyArse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it were me and we were all such close friends, I'd have their phone numbers by now and just ask them.

You're a hoot GrumpyArse!

How is that grumpy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want to say that I haven't been here that long but I've loved hanging out here. I doubt I would've stuck out Fab if I hadn't found you guys, so thanks.

And thanks to you Bee for starting this thread.

I'd jump at the chance to meet you all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it were me and we were all such close friends, I'd have their phone numbers by now and just ask them.

You're a hoot GrumpyArse!

He's flipping right though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made some great friends on here !.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lounge is nicer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My lounge is nicer..."

How does one get invited to said lounge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My lounge is nicer...

How does one get invited to said lounge

You guys don't even have to ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you thought the lounge is amazing, our bedroom blows minds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My lounge is nicer..."

Prove it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be the shy guy in the corner admiring how good you all look in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to attend a forum social,but I fear I may well fall into the unwelcome riff-raff category

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over a year ago

After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.

okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.

I think this might go ahead.

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over a year ago

"After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.

okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.

I think this might go ahead.

Good news, hope it's a great success x

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over a year ago

"After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.

okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.

I think this might go ahead.

Enjoy

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over a year ago

"After hours and hours of begging and pleading, I've decided to let MissRed and Sexy Brunette help me organise this.

okay, i might have asked them, but it was the only way i could get those two in the same room as me.

I think this might go ahead.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in

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over a year ago

"we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in

Yes. That's it isn't it. Keeping things manageable. I think sometimes strangers should stay strangers and such. I don't mind meeting people I know a little about already. But you I wouldn't want to talk to 50 people that don't know of each other already. I can't be the only one who thinks that?

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over a year ago

"we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in

So just your forum "mates"then?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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So you want to get some of your fab friends together for a coffee?

Aren't you better off just asking them?

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over a year ago

"we have had a few forum socials - some large groups - some just a handful of ladies for lunch - the main thing is to keep the exact location secret - im up for it by the way if it fits in

So just your forum "mates"then?"

Not my 'mates'. Everyone's mates. But someone has to know someone.

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over a year ago

"So you want to get some of your fab friends together for a coffee?

Aren't you better off just asking them? "

I am.

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over a year ago

"So you want to get some of your fab friends together for a coffee?

Aren't you better off just asking them?

I am. "

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over a year ago

To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

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over a year ago

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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "

You don't need a personal invite to socials.

And I'm sure you have been before.

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "

If you organise something I'm sure a lot will come depending on dates and where abouts

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

What would like it to be?

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

What would like it to be? "

I'm asking you...

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why. "

I invited you to attend the Tea Party. But you couldn't because it's too 'far'.

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

What would like it to be?

I'm asking you..."

I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.

I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one

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over a year ago

keep it simple -id say yourself and your 2 helpers just set a date and a central place of your choice ( you are never going to please all so if people want to and can get they will) - put a thread on here saying date and the town and time ish etc - whoever is interested post their names - then its pms nearer the time with actual details - dont start the swapping things cos so and so cant make it

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

What would like it to be?

I'm asking you...

I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.

I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one

A good way to meet a group of people is by doing what Kinky/Hatter/DJ do and organising a group social. You have to be exclusive of everyone though and it may mean you meet those you don't want to. Otherwise, why not just message those you want to meet privately and see what they say.

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over a year ago

Hey Mister Bee, if you want to organise something then crack on and have fun. I think it's the rather long-drawn out deliberations in public and control-freak-esque need to seek advice but not be wanting to do it yourself, and confusion as to are you doing an open-invite to anyone seeing the post or only those you've interacted with and want there (how do we know who is deemed known enough or not by you?) and then if you're not organising it then why are you still banging on about it, and chill out when people feel a bit whatevs, they're entitled to, and yay there does appear to be people interested and please cut out the indecisive ambiguity and do it or not, and are we at 175 posts yet of it all that 'may' be mildly irritating some.

Have a lovely Thursday.

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over a year ago

I got the impression it was for the forum regulars who he chats to a lot,im probably wron and usually am,but good luck and hope it works out

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over a year ago

"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

What would like it to be?

I'm asking you...

I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.

I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one

You'll wrap yourself in knots unless you keep it simple.

You've got some glamorous assistants to help out so decide on what you want to do and then post it. I'm sure lots of people will be interested

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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

What would like it to be?

I'm asking you...

I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.

I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one

You'll wrap yourself in knots unless you keep it simple.

You've got some glamorous assistants to help out so decide on what you want to do and then post it. I'm sure lots of people will be interested"

Me and miss red will sort things, miss red is going to put a post up later today

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

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"To make this clear. It's not about me. I've asked you all to meet me. You mostly all say no.

So. I'm sure youd all like to meet up with others that are around on the forums. This is what I though. I never got a personal invite to any socials, so I thought I'd arrange this one.

And you might have wondered why I was reluctant to start organising this on my own and why I asked advise? These two comments above are why.

I'm lost. Do you want to arrange a social that's open to everyone like the STP or do you want to arrange something more exclusive?

What would like it to be?

I'm asking you...

I started this thread to ask advise and what people fro the lounge would like or have preferred in the past. That's why I'm asking you.

I do have a preference. Meeting you all 1 by one

You'll wrap yourself in knots unless you keep it simple.

You've got some glamorous assistants to help out so decide on what you want to do and then post it. I'm sure lots of people will be interested

Me and miss red will sort things, miss red is going to put a post up later today

Thanks ladies xxx

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"Hey Mister Bee, if you want to organise something then crack on and have fun. I think it's the rather long-drawn out deliberations in public and control-freak-esque need to seek advice but not be wanting to do it yourself, and confusion as to are you doing an open-invite to anyone seeing the post or only those you've interacted with and want there (how do we know who is deemed known enough or not by you?) and then if you're not organising it then why are you still banging on about it, and chill out when people feel a bit whatevs, they're entitled to, and yay there does appear to be people interested and please cut out the indecisive ambiguity and do it or not, and are we at 175 posts yet of it all that 'may' be mildly irritating some.

Have a lovely Thursday.

You too.

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