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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

POPCORN!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some enjoy "watersports", this isn't news. A gush of pish during climax emanating from their partners vajayjay for some men is probably pleasant considering.

Equally there are men who're not into it, different things for different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views?"
They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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don't worry about it.

remain silently smug about being another fetish men are seeking.

there's no shame in being incontinent either. and i don't feel the two are linked but even so incontinence is nothing to be shamed for or used to shame someone that men crave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to google it and find out exactly what that stuff is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's piss being forced out. I prefer to not have anyone try to get me to squirt; it can be damaging to the urethra. If I get that horrible feeling, I stop and pop to the toilet. Unfortunately, a few men felt the need to finger me so roughly, in order to make me squirt, I became ill for a long time and now have an appointment with Urology/Gynaecology coming up, to hopefully rectify my problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views? They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. "

It's actually not that difficult time do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's piss being forced out. I prefer to not have anyone try to get me to squirt; it can be damaging to the urethra. If I get that horrible feeling, I stop and pop to the toilet. Unfortunately, a few men felt the need to finger me so roughly, in order to make me squirt, I became ill for a long time and now have an appointment with Urology/Gynaecology coming up, to hopefully rectify my problem. "

Squirting is another porn fallacy that is probably damaging women's health, if a man falsely believes his partner hasn't orgasmed intensely or enjoyable and needs the evidence of "squirting" / leaking pee... He'll probably dig around "down there" and not behave with due delicacy needed and cause problems.

It's pee. Obviously women get excited down there and fluids are produced but not to the point of producing projectile streams of it at the point of orgasm.

Some are into watersports and enjoy pee so it's not really such a biggie . Some aren't.. people like what they like. Wouldn't take it personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views? They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol.

It's actually not that difficult time do. "
not all women do gush though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think! "

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views? They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol.

It's actually not that difficult time do. not all women do gush though "

Not because they can't. I didn't until some dick head (who was actually quite intelligent) decided to show me his magic trick, I think he saw on the internet somewhere. I've not been the same since. It doesn't help that I've had a hysterectomy and my hormones are creating havoc down there. The problem is, once the damage is done, it can't be rectified; the urinary tract thickens after an infection and becomes easily inflamed.

It may feel nice for some, but for others it's a nightmare. My issue is with men thinking all women want it and it's sexual. It's not remotely sexual for me, and any mention of it, from a man, puts me off instantly. I want orgasms that are a little wet or damp not a piss soaked bed that stinks if you let it dry out.

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By *1212Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I love squirters and you can squirt on me anyday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway "

Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!"

You have lots of fluid come from inside your vagina? From your cervix?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it the same as squirtng spots?

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway "

Doesn't taste like it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it the same as squirtng spots?"

Are you talking about squeezing a spot until it pops? Now that I could really get into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it the same as squirtng spots?

Are you talking about squeezing a spot until it pops? Now that I could really get into "

Fistbump

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Squirting and gushing are different things. Also it isn't pee as it doesn't look, smell or taste like it.

What happens in porn is irrelevant as it's faked /mocked up.

In real life some women squirt/gush some fluid.

But, there is also a porn induced obsession amongst some men to try to make it happen.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Incontinence isn't something to be shamed. We should celebrate ourselves and our experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway

Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good. "

That's a problem with the guy, not the squirting

Always better to have fun rather than go for one particular goal, be that squirting or an orgasm when its not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway

Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.

That's a problem with the guy, not the squirting

Always better to have fun rather than go for one particular goal, be that squirting or an orgasm when its not going to happen. "

Anyone wanting me to squirt is a problem. It is a problem for me because it spoils the actual sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs! "

What was he doing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a problem with the guy, not the squirting

Always better to have fun rather than go for one particular goal, be that squirting or an orgasm when its not going to happen.

Anyone wanting me to squirt is a problem. It is a problem for me because it spoils the actual sex. "

That's what I mean the guy is focusing on the wrong thing. He should be enjoying what he's doing and making you feel good, than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!

What was he doing?"

I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!

What was he doing?

I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!! "

I had a feeling it was that. That instruction video went viral very quickly, and is still going, so it seems. That was how I got a bad kidney infection that took 3 courses of antibiotics over 6 weeks to clear. I've had a weak bladder since, and it's getting worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!"

So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!

What was he doing?

I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!!

I had a feeling it was that. That instruction video went viral very quickly, and is still going, so it seems. That was how I got a bad kidney infection that took 3 courses of antibiotics over 6 weeks to clear. I've had a weak bladder since, and it's getting worse. "

Hell fire that's not good.. won't be meet him again in a hurry.. had to cancel a really hot date (and much more gentle) cos of him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!

So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it "

No it doesn't obviously means she's enjoying herself. Would you tell someone you pissed all over them, or pretend you had an orgasm and loved it?

Did you do any biology at school?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One guy I met recently made me gush so much it started to hurt so he thankfully stopped! Not great pleasure for 3/4 days later.. put me out of action ffs!

What was he doing?

I think he was trying to get his fingers through my belly button!!

I had a feeling it was that. That instruction video went viral very quickly, and is still going, so it seems. That was how I got a bad kidney infection that took 3 courses of antibiotics over 6 weeks to clear. I've had a weak bladder since, and it's getting worse.

Hell fire that's not good.. won't be meet him again in a hurry.. had to cancel a really hot date (and much more gentle) cos of him! "

I stipulate now that I won't allow forceful fingers, anywhere near my bladder or urethra (which is situated next to the roof of the vagina).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having enjoyed reading this thread we can only cum to the conclusion that as usual everyone is different... Ana gushes a lot during sex but we equip for that with a waterproof mattress protector and she always has very shaky legs after. Kev loves it and there's the bonus of a soapy shower together after

Happy Fabbing everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been very lucky to bring a women to an intense climax with the gush follow up and the legs uncontrollably shaking.. it was an amazing feeling An I wouldn't change it for the world but I would also agree not every women is capable and would still enjoy intense orgasms.. gushing does not equal to a more intense orgasm

It is all done the the women's body.. I have made a women orgasm extremely hard without the gush effect and was most enjoyable!! Bringing a women to climax in any which way is a feeling to treasure... all hail the orgasmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway

Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good. "

It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame..

If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant.

It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms.

It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to squirt or gush. It ruins sex for me, luckily its many years since guys have tried to do that to me. It causes physical problems for me when a guy tries to make me gush or squirt. I end up having to take more antibiotics than normal. My urologist (sp?) has said that i shouldnt allow guys to try to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I first joined Fab less than 3 years ago I'd never heard of squirting. Seriously (yeah, yeah I know, how naive of me!).

It didn't used to be a 'thing' as far as I recall growing up. Yet nowadays EVERYONE seems to be squirting everywhere!? How has THAT happened?

Maybe it was always out there and everyone was doing it, but they just didn't mention it? Who knows!

One of my very first Fab meets asked me to finger fuck her to make her gush (I'd said pretty much the same thing on a thread back then - that I'd never heard of it before and she wanted to prove the point!) - and we soaked the Travelodge bed!

As Mrs Lib said above, it involved a lot of frantic finger fucking and it's not really my thing!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My first thought is that its ok to not like something but not ok to be rude about those that do.

My second thought is why are so many women putting up with guys doing something they don't enjoy and which causes them discomfort and not telling them to stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirt. Don't squirt. We're all different.

Ifs a woman climaxing that turns me on. Not the fact she's wet the bed.

I'm not demanding that you squirt and nobody should.

I'm not demanding you don't squirt, and nobody should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!"
correct. I think there's a difference between squirting /gushing. Squirting does come from where you pee but gushing comes from the inside.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol. "

Nail

Head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have probably never made a woman squirt or gush lol.

Nail

Head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want to squirt or gush. It ruins sex for me, luckily its many years since guys have tried to do that to me. It causes physical problems for me when a guy tries to make me gush or squirt. I end up having to take more antibiotics than normal. My urologist (sp?) has said that i shouldnt allow guys to try to do it."
I have no control with gushing. It just happens during sex. My hubby loves the feel of it going down his balls. He knows I'm thoroughly enjoying myself. Plenty of towels under you is best though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have a gorgeous body, would love to have you squirt anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been reading a thread about squirting and a few guys said they don't like it and the females that do it are incontinent. In my experience guys love it if I squirt and it feels good for me too. Its also not something that can be controlled, so is quite nasty to say its a girl peeing herself?! Whats everyones views?"

never had a woman squirt or gush and me thinking its pish!- beds will often show the end result in a stain or smell if someone has.

I like to finger, yes it can result in sqgush..but I also like to lick AND finger...which can of course be much more sensual and slow

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not bothered if a woman squirts or not as long as she is satisfied and has fun I don't care and as long as I cum am happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happened to just enjoying things and not trying to achieve anything other than good feelings ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway

Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.

It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame..

If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant.

It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms.

It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more.

"

It sounds like you're one of those men who confuses being a good lover with making something unnatural happen through putting pressure on a body.which can also happen during sex. Basic biology and knowledge of a woman's lower abdomen will tell you all you need to know. It wasn't one experience, It's been many, over the years; it was the first incidence that caused the problem, and now doesn't take much effort to get me pissing over a bed. Of course the men who do it think they have some amazing sexual gift, so they keep doing it. I put them straight and tell them I've just pissed a bit om your bed, you can have that side. To stop it happening I don't drink as much before or during sex and make frequent trips to the toilet. It's not a shame; what is a shame is that the porn industry made this a thing in the first place; men fixated on it, and women went along with it. The problem with it is you don't know if someone is going to go from slow, gentle fingering (which I love), to a quick stabbing of the fingers, up and against the bladder. As soon as I feel any pressure against my bladder or urethra (and it doesn't take much now) I politely stop them.

I much preferred it when it was plain old water sports and I got to decide when to use my bladder.

Fortunately, there are still plenty of men who have have no desire to make my body perform like Moby Dick, and are very good at real sex,

They are the ones I want in bed.

My opinion is, if you both enjoy it, do it. If not, leave it alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to just enjoying things and not trying to achieve anything other than good feelings ? "

It's still very much around, thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can make men squirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can make men squirt "

Pervert.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I do love to see a squirter. I'm not one of those guys who tries to make every woman squirt though. If a woman squirts, great, if she doesn't, still great!

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

I see squirting and gushing as a natural sexual response for some ladies and if they choose to share that experience with me then lucky me.

I would enjoy the experience as much as I could. The last thing I would want to do is make her feel self conciouse or ashamed about the way her body behaves and reacts.

We are what we are. Embrace and enjoy it.

I love a gusher/squirter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can make men squirt "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be proud to squirt! I'm overly jealous I don't posses the skill myself..haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!"

So I'm I. WB loves it too.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!

So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it

No it doesn't obviously means she's enjoying herself. Would you tell someone you pissed all over them, or pretend you had an orgasm and loved it?

Did you do any biology at school? "

You're projecting an extremely strong opinion here - based on your own experiences admittedly - but not everyone feels the same and I think it's unfair to 'take on' every person who doesn't share your view!

I gush with the 'right' finger technique! It doesn't hurt (if the guy's too rough I make him stop), it doesn't smell of urine, and personally I find it very sexually pleasurable! I also cum a lot during normal penetration - so it's not a 'lazy way out' for the guy at all!

You and others can call it piss all you like! If 99 people tell a dog it's a rabbit - it doesn't make it a rabbit!!

Peachy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!"

You should be proud! I LOVE being squirted on and you can do it to me any time you like!

It's NOT piss, however, you can piss on me too if you so wish lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Is it quite a recent trend for women to squirt,I know that sound's daft and it does typing it out or was it generally something that wasn't talked about thirty year's ago?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Is it quite a recent trend for women to squirt,I know that sound's daft and it does typing it out or was it generally something that wasn't talked about thirty year's ago?"

Well it was certainly happening 30 years ago but talking about it seems to be an internet thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway

Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.

It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame..

If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant.

It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms.

It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more.

It sounds like you're one of those men who confuses being a good lover with making something unnatural happen through putting pressure on a body.which can also happen during sex. Basic biology and knowledge of a woman's lower abdomen will tell you all you need to know. It wasn't one experience, It's been many, over the years; it was the first incidence that caused the problem, and now doesn't take much effort to get me pissing over a bed. Of course the men who do it think they have some amazing sexual gift, so they keep doing it. I put them straight and tell them I've just pissed a bit om your bed, you can have that side. To stop it happening I don't drink as much before or during sex and make frequent trips to the toilet. It's not a shame; what is a shame is that the porn industry made this a thing in the first place; men fixated on it, and women went along with it. The problem with it is you don't know if someone is going to go from slow, gentle fingering (which I love), to a quick stabbing of the fingers, up and against the bladder. As soon as I feel any pressure against my bladder or urethra (and it doesn't take much now) I politely stop them.

I much preferred it when it was plain old water sports and I got to decide when to use my bladder.

Fortunately, there are still plenty of men who have have no desire to make my body perform like Moby Dick, and are very good at real sex,

They are the ones I want in bed.

My opinion is, if you both enjoy it, do it. If not, leave it alone.

"

I take a bit of exception to that.. my perception of whether I'm any good is based upon the opinion of others, not myself nor whether a specific thing takes place.

But thanks for your blind judgement

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By *rofessormarkyxMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

I came across it when I was about 25 I was with an older ex girlfriend and during normal sex it just happened, since then I've had various women do it with anything from kissing and caressing (nothing below the waist!) licking, playing gently and as I've said straightforward sex. It's never tasted of pee, but there's 2 different tastes. One is quite bitter and the other is sweet. It's never stained like pee but has taken the colour out of a few blankets. If it happens then it happens, none of the women that have done it have had any problems and some of them even agree that they dont suffer cystitis with if they've gushed/squirted which is a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this thread taking the piss?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"It doesn't come out of the same place you pee anyway. I love being a squirter and I'm proud. There, I said it!

So you should be, I love it when a girl squirts it obviously means they're enjoying themselves so I can't see why a guy wouldn't like it

No it doesn't obviously means she's enjoying herself. Would you tell someone you pissed all over them, or pretend you had an orgasm and loved it?

Did you do any biology at school?

You're projecting an extremely strong opinion here - based on your own experiences admittedly - but not everyone feels the same and I think it's unfair to 'take on' every person who doesn't share your view!

I gush with the 'right' finger technique! It doesn't hurt (if the guy's too rough I make him stop), it doesn't smell of urine, and personally I find it very sexually pleasurable! I also cum a lot during normal penetration - so it's not a 'lazy way out' for the guy at all!

You and others can call it piss all you like! If 99 people tell a dog it's a rabbit - it doesn't make it a rabbit!!

Peachy xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask yourself the following:

Are you enjoying yourself?

Is he enjoying himself?

If the answer to both is yes, who gives two hoops what randomers off an Internet forum think!

This x100

If everyone enjoys has had fun then that's all that matters. It's when the guy doesn't leave the woman alone if she hasn't squirted that the main issue I've heard.

And as far as I'm aware, its got urea in it, but it's not pee. Certainly doesn't smell like it anyway

Unfortunately, some men think that making a woman squirt is satisfying her sexually. It's not an orgasm, but because it's easier to make a woman squirt or gush than have her orgasm during sex, they go for the squirting, to make themselves feel good.

It sounds like you've had a bad experience and are effectively generalising it now.. which is a shame..

If some bloke turns up and thinks he can just make you squirt cause he saw it online, then he's and idiot! and without it taking place somewhat of its own accord, I can see how it may not be pleasant.

It however DOES NOT require anything rough or damaging to take place.. it happens during sex as well as at other times and with my partner's at least, after/alongside multiple orgasms.

It's about the right spot at the right time... Nothing more.

Exactly this !!

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