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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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Thinking of having my hair cut short (hasn't been short since my teens!)....

Pros and cons?

Major pro for me would be not waking up looking like someone had snuck in and rubbed inflated balloons on my head during the night....

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over a year ago

Damn, had my castration irons at the ready!

I love going for a radical chop on occasion! So liberating. I always have to remind myself that I can't do a fringe though as I cannot control it.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Know the feeling Mine looks like O have been connected to the mains when I wake up but I still wouldn't cut it short

I like my hair being pulled! Plus it took years to grow long

Big step so have a long think first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seriously debated cutting my hair short not too long ago. Instead I went for drastic layers. It lightened up my hair and added body without needing to chop it all off.

I think it really depends on your face shape, too. Short hair works much better on some women than on others.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never had long hair. But the pros to short are you dont have to spend hours doing it but it still looks terrible in the mornings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cons ....whilst getting out the swimming pool you catch a glimpse of yourself and realise you look like one of the Beatles

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Damn, had my castration irons at the ready!

I love going for a radical chop on occasion! So liberating. I always have to remind myself that I can't do a fringe though as I cannot control it. "

I can't control mine anyway... It looks good for about 10 minutes after I've done it and then someone waves a wand and I'm Captain Cavewoman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pros - this is why I stick with short hair....

So much cooler in the hot weather....no sweaty neck

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Know the feeling Mine looks like O have been connected to the mains when I wake up but I still wouldn't cut it short

I like my hair being pulled! Plus it took years to grow long

Big step so have a long think first "

Hmm... Yes kinda like having mine pulled a little too... That would be a definite con!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn, had my castration irons at the ready!

I love going for a radical chop on occasion! So liberating. I always have to remind myself that I can't do a fringe though as I cannot control it. "

I was thinking similar.

Remember the goodies in the pants horse? Two bricks made them jump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. Panto not pants. Although it was a pretty crap horse

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Oh hell I can't contribute rationally to this debate

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire

"Thinking of having my hair cut short (hasn't been short since my teens!)....

Pros and cons?

Major pro for me would be not waking up looking like someone had snuck in and rubbed inflated balloons on my head during the night....

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i have short hair and thats exactly what my hair looks like of a morning... the joys of having fine flyaway hair lol

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

I let mine grow long once, it almost was touching my collar!

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I seriously debated cutting my hair short not too long ago. Instead I went for drastic layers. It lightened up my hair and added body without needing to chop it all off.

I think it really depends on your face shape, too. Short hair works much better on some women than on others. "

Hmm.... Hadn't actually thought about that... l do tend to associate my long hair with my femininity. Short hair might look a bit butch on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh hell I can't contribute rationally to this debate

You think my pants horse was a rational argument?

Grand rational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had short hair for years. Long hair just goes so flat on me and isn't flattering. It is easy to maintain x

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Ive never had long hair. But the pros to short are you dont have to spend hours doing it but it still looks terrible in the mornings. "

You've lovely hair!! That's a worry though... What if I cut it off to make it more manageable... And it still rebels!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my hair long for the exact reasons you give for having short hair. If I'm having a bad hair day or don't have time to do my hair I can just put it up. I don't have the face for short hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And my hair is more easily tamed the longer it is. The weight sorts out my odd parting and kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And my hair is more easily tamed the longer it is. The weight sorts out my odd parting and kinks

My weight is a kink, for some!

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Cons ....whilst getting out the swimming pool you catch a glimpse of yourself and realise you look like one of the Beatles

Who told you I look like Ringo's secret twin?

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over a year ago

"And my hair is more easily tamed the longer it is. The weight sorts out my odd parting and kinks

My weight is a kink, for some!

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Lol. Panto not pants. Although it was a pretty crap horse

I do remember it!!! Lmaoooo

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Oh hell I can't contribute rationally to this debate

Since when have I relied on you to be rational???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it! I miss my long hair!!

So what if it was over a decade ago that I chopped it orf... I still miss it. Especially when I see that tartlet Hatter swishing his around

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Thinking of having my hair cut short (hasn't been short since my teens!)....

Pros and cons?

Major pro for me would be not waking up looking like someone had snuck in and rubbed inflated balloons on my head during the night....

i have short hair and thats exactly what my hair looks like of a morning... the joys of having fine flyaway hair lol"

Ohhh.... sometimes I wish mine would flyaway

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I let mine grow long once, it almost was touching my collar!

As long as its not ear hair...

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I agree with Scarlet. I've had shortish bobs in the past and they are a bugger to maintain and look great all sleek and swooshy but with my thick hair that involves a shit tonne of time and effort. I love my hair long, despite my mother's attempts to persuade me to cut it off. When I fancy a change, layers work a treat and I think deciding to have a heavy blunt fringe put in a few years back was the best hair decision I have made in decades. Hair goes up, I blow dry my fringe and no one can tell I overslept and didn't wash it by day three.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I've had short hair for years. Long hair just goes so flat on me and isn't flattering. It is easy to maintain x "

Mine is becoming harder to manage, and I seem to keep it under a hat more often than not while I'm at sea. Low maintenance is the attraction X

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"And my hair is more easily tamed the longer it is. The weight sorts out my odd parting and kinks

Mine is naturally curly, but goes to complete frizz in heat. When I've the time to straighten mine the ends brush the top of my ass - left naturally its just beyond my shoulderblades

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Oh hell I can't contribute rationally to this debate

You think my pants horse was a rational argument?

Grand rational

Pmsl you have definitely got a point

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Don't do it! I miss my long hair!!

So what if it was over a decade ago that I chopped it orf... I still miss it. Especially when I see that tartlet Hatter swishing his around

Ok you can't just drop that on me and not follow up with proof... I'm going to need to see evidence of this long-haired Georgie

Hatter's swish is rather magnificent though....

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Oh hell I can't contribute rationally to this debate

Since when have I relied on you to be rational???

Well with no rationale whatsoever other than a stereotypical view that women should have long hair, DON'T do it

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I agree with Scarlet. I've had shortish bobs in the past and they are a bugger to maintain and look great all sleek and swooshy but with my thick hair that involves a shit tonne of time and effort. I love my hair long, despite my mother's attempts to persuade me to cut it off. When I fancy a change, layers work a treat and I think deciding to have a heavy blunt fringe put in a few years back was the best hair decision I have made in decades. Hair goes up, I blow dry my fringe and no one can tell I overslept and didn't wash it by day three.

Lmaoooo.... I like the way you think!!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Don't do it! I miss my long hair!!

So what if it was over a decade ago that I chopped it orf... I still miss it. Especially when I see that tartlet Hatter swishing his around

Ok you can't just drop that on me and not follow up with proof... I'm going to need to see evidence of this long-haired Georgie

Hatter's swish is rather magnificent though....

Good luck, most of us have been waiting ages. Months in fact

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Oh hell I can't contribute rationally to this debate

Since when have I relied on you to be rational???

Well with no rationale whatsoever other than a stereotypical view that women should have long hair, DON'T do it

My mother actually sparked this internal debate with a typically cutting 'are you not a bit old now for long hair?' while she inspected my split ends and tut-tutted over my choice of clothing... I love how she can combine so many insults into a few words, a facial expression and a gesture...

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over a year ago

"My mother actually sparked this internal debate with a typically cutting 'are you not a bit old now for long hair?' while she inspected my split ends and tut-tutted over my choice of clothing... I love how she can combine so many insults into a few words, a facial expression and a gesture...

I don't get this at all. What does hair length have to do with age?

My mother usually had longer hair than me, so I haven't been exposed to this mindset. I think I'll grow my hair out even longer when I'm older just as an 'and what?!' to society

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Don't do it! I miss my long hair!!

So what if it was over a decade ago that I chopped it orf... I still miss it. Especially when I see that tartlet Hatter swishing his around

Ok you can't just drop that on me and not follow up with proof... I'm going to need to see evidence of this long-haired Georgie

Hatter's swish is rather magnificent though....

Good luck, most of us have been waiting ages. Months in fact

For Hatter's swish??? I thought you were more persuasive than that...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Don't do it! I miss my long hair!!

So what if it was over a decade ago that I chopped it orf... I still miss it. Especially when I see that tartlet Hatter swishing his around

Ok you can't just drop that on me and not follow up with proof... I'm going to need to see evidence of this long-haired Georgie

Hatter's swish is rather magnificent though....

Good luck, most of us have been waiting ages. Months in fact

For Hatter's swish??? I thought you were more persuasive than that...

No not Hatters swish

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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I don't get this at all. What does hair length have to do with age?

My mother usually had longer hair than me, so I haven't been exposed to this mindset. I think I'll grow my hair out even longer when I'm older just as an 'and what?!' to society

I don't get it myself... I think she just needed to get in a 'bad hair/age' double-whammy while she tries to work on some new 'weight' material

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't get this at all. What does hair length have to do with age?

My mother usually had longer hair than me, so I haven't been exposed to this mindset. I think I'll grow my hair out even longer when I'm older just as an 'and what?!' to society

I don't get it myself... I think she just needed to get in a 'bad hair/age' double-whammy while she tries to work on some new 'weight' material

I think we may have the same mother.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Don't do it! I miss my long hair!!

So what if it was over a decade ago that I chopped it orf... I still miss it. Especially when I see that tartlet Hatter swishing his around

Ok you can't just drop that on me and not follow up with proof... I'm going to need to see evidence of this long-haired Georgie

Hatter's swish is rather magnificent though....

Good luck, most of us have been waiting ages. Months in fact

For Hatter's swish??? I thought you were more persuasive than that...

No not Hatters swish"

I know

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't get this at all. What does hair length have to do with age?

My mother usually had longer hair than me, so I haven't been exposed to this mindset. I think I'll grow my hair out even longer when I'm older just as an 'and what?!' to society

I don't get it myself... I think she just needed to get in a 'bad hair/age' double-whammy while she tries to work on some new 'weight' material

Why do they do this?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Don't do it! I miss my long hair!!

So what if it was over a decade ago that I chopped it orf... I still miss it. Especially when I see that tartlet Hatter swishing his around

Ok you can't just drop that on me and not follow up with proof... I'm going to need to see evidence of this long-haired Georgie

Hatter's swish is rather magnificent though....

Good luck, most of us have been waiting ages. Months in fact

For Hatter's swish??? I thought you were more persuasive than that...

No not Hatters swish

I know

My skills of persuasion have gone to shit

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I love long hair on men and Hatter's is divine

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Christ, thats a massive decision! How long is it now and how short are you thinking? Sorry, I've not read the whole thread.

I had mine chopped off once, really short everyone said I looked like a lesbian. I liked it but felt a bit naked

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

My hair was down to my shoulders on Saturday so went for a trim. Ended up being a lot more than a trim. But it's more manageable and less faff.

Shaved my head once. Exit shower and shake. Perfect

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By *elson61Man
over a year ago

WELWYN GARDEN CITY

My weight is a kink, for some!

Really?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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It's hair...it grows back.

If only the hair on our heads grew as fast as the hair on our legs or vag.

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over a year ago

"It's hair...it grows back.

If only the hair on our heads grew as fast as the hair on our legs or vag."

I dunno, the hair on my head grows very slowly !!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It's hair...it grows back.

If only the hair on our heads grew as fast as the hair on our legs or vag.

I dunno, the hair on my head grows very slowly !!

There is a shampoo that can help you.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Depends on your hair type and face shape.

Try wigs on to see what will suit you.

I personally look shocking well like crystal tips with shorter hair. Long hair you can always tie back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's hair...it grows back.

If only the hair on our heads grew as fast as the hair on our legs or vag.

I dunno, the hair on my head grows very slowly !!

There is a shampoo that can help you."

I think I'm past it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can take years to grow back.

I've gone short but it's not such a big deal

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Christ, thats a massive decision! How long is it now and how short are you thinking? Sorry, I've not read the whole thread.

I had mine chopped off once, really short everyone said I looked like a lesbian. I liked it but felt a bit naked

Left in its natural curly state... Just below my shoulder blades... Straightened... Brushing the top of my ass.

I wonder would it affect my sense of balance???

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Christ, thats a massive decision! How long is it now and how short are you thinking? Sorry, I've not read the whole thread.

I had mine chopped off once, really short everyone said I looked like a lesbian. I liked it but felt a bit naked

Left in its natural curly state... Just below my shoulder blades... Straightened... Brushing the top of my ass.

I wonder would it affect my sense of balance???

Wow, it must be really curly!!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"It's hair...it grows back.

If only the hair on our heads grew as fast as the hair on our legs or vag.

I dunno, the hair on my head grows very slowly !!

There is a shampoo that can help you."

Would it work on pubes do you think?

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Christ, thats a massive decision! How long is it now and how short are you thinking? Sorry, I've not read the whole thread.

I had mine chopped off once, really short everyone said I looked like a lesbian. I liked it but felt a bit naked

Left in its natural curly state... Just below my shoulder blades... Straightened... Brushing the top of my ass.

I wonder would it affect my sense of balance???

Wow, it must be really curly!!

Think Irish dancing curls...

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By *ryst In Isolde OP Woman
over a year ago

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"My hair was down to my shoulders on Saturday so went for a trim. Ended up being a lot more than a trim. But it's more manageable and less faff.

Shaved my head once. Exit shower and shake. Perfect

There have been times when the head-shave has been tempting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was debating wether to grow mine again but I've decided to keep it short

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I keep my hair long for the exact reasons you give for having short hair. If I'm having a bad hair day or don't have time to do my hair I can just put it up. I don't have the face for short hair. "

This is so me! Can just stick it on top in hot weather and wrap it round my neck in cold weather

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By *rTouretteMan
over a year ago

Muswell Hill

I had waist-length hair until I was about 31. However, nature told me to cut it off - that and being called 'Bill Bailey' twice in about a week at the height of his fame

Weekly head shaves now

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

just have a few inches off and see how you like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had pixie cuts a few times and it's so much easier to style. I toyed with the idea of shaving it off when my Mum got poorly but she didn't lose her hair.

As your hair's long, maybe go to a mid-length style first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not get a wig and see if it suits x

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford

"Know the feeling Mine looks like O have been connected to the mains when I wake up but I still wouldn't cut it short

I like my hair being pulled! Plus it took years to grow long

Big step so have a long think first

Hmm... Yes kinda like having mine pulled a little too... That would be a definite con! "

Yeah can't beat a good hair pulling when you're getting done doggy style

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