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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know you women get bombarded with messages. But do the women ever message the guys first on here?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have. Some have been responded to, some have not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah if I have a reason to.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Some do OP as I've had them from women. It's a total shock but very welcoming, haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if I really like someone's profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. "

Lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some of the people I talk to daily are from me messaging first

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near

"I know you women get bombarded with messages. But do the women ever message the guys first on here?"

Yes they do and I Mr CC can vouch for that as when I set up my single profile I had 3 messages the first day and have had the pleasure of meeting with one of them and will be meeting v them again on this account as a couple

Mr CC

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just thought I'd ask as I've never received one and I'm sure many other guys would say the same

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yes, if I'm interested in someone and I think they could be in me.

Lies"

I've edited it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, if I'm interested in someone and I think they could be in me.

Lies

I've edited it now.

That hurts a lot more than I thought it would

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

Yes i message people first , then pretend i got hacked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just thought I'd ask as I've never received one and I'm sure many other guys would say the same "

I get a few, not loads mind.. but not all women sit and wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens on the odd occasion. Not as frequently as fab straight fellas messaging. Then again... maybe the women are just fab straight fellas posing as them really anyway!!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message once. It was a good day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I'm not interested in men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Hello there Mrs Doyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And checks his mailbox for incoming....... Still checking.......... Yup still checking...... Just checking mobile data is on, yes.... Still checking....... refresh

Oh nothing... Try again later lol

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Once or twice

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

All the time, but not to engineer a meet. I message about forum posts predominantly, some I continue to message some I don't. That's not to say this hasn't led to meets it has but that was never my intention.

I do occasionally message a random guy late at night, if I'm not wanting to sleep and I fancy a chat. I will make sure the guy is 100s of miles away so there's no misinterpretation as to why I'm messaging. Although that's backfired when the guy tells me he's in the area on business regularly, closely followed by FAF. Then there's the other issue, you both want to meet. Then commences a military operation of epic proportions trying to organise meeting. I love Fab

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

Yep...

In fact all my conversations have come about from being messaged, rather than sending a message.

I'm hardly inundated though.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I've had first contact from ladies but usually ones that are VERY far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the time, but not to engineer a meet. I message about forum posts predominantly, some I continue to message some I don't. That's not to say this hasn't led to meets it has but that was never my intention.

Love it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

One or two have (I think ultimately to meet though I have cut things short).. I should upadate my profile but don't know what to write.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"I've had first contact from ladies but usually ones that are VERY far away

Not guilty

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By *cjacoupleCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Very rare but we hav had a few message us first x x x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I have done very recently to a gorgeous man who posts to the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never sent a message.

I've only ever replied to those I receive.

Xxxx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Yes they do OP, and I'd say it's a fairly even split, for me at least, as to who messaged who first.

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By *eistreMan
over a year ago

London/Norfolk

"Yes i message people first , then pretend i got hacked

Can I use the same excuse when sending out a crappy message to someone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! The key is to regularly spout utter bobbins on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do, mainly to people I chat to in the forums. Normally sent as a result of something posted.

Don't message with meets in mind. Just nice talking to like minded people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message once. It was a good day."

"Thank you for renewing your site subscription"

.. yeah I got that one too ..

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Yes! The key is to regularly spout utter bobbins on the forums

No no no, patience is the key fs

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Yes I often do most of my meets (with a few exceptions) are the result of me initiating contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a message once. It was a good day."

I messaged you first once!

. Compliments where compliments are due.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"I know you women get bombarded with messages. But do the women ever message the guys first on here?"

Yep! And it's fine.... had lots of positive responses

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By *rzambiqueMan
over a year ago

Edmonton

Indeed a shock but what's worse is when you start chatting then they don't respond after a while

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

"I had a message once. It was a good day.

I messaged you first once!

. Compliments where compliments are due.

I'm jealous

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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on here rarely. on other sites i will happily do that coz they usually make more effort with their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, they can't message me unless I message them first cos I have filters on so I do my own searching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, they can't message me unless I message them first cos I have filters on so I do my own searching. "

I know. I keep thinking of things in relation to another post you made and i always struggle finding the relevant place to say it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if i like the look of their cock

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have. Sometimes they reply, sometimes they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have. Sometimes they reply, sometimes they don't."

Your photo's are fab famous, how anyone can't even respond to admire your photography skills is crazy to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

I need to find a new shitty stick - this one isn't working any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, they can't message me unless I message them first cos I have filters on so I do my own searching.

I know. I keep thinking of things in relation to another post you made and i always struggle finding the relevant place to say it haha "

Just pop it on the thread if I'm active on it. I always check threads I've commented in.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do, but not often as there has to be something of interest in their profile, sadly they are normally severely lacking

So I don't bother

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Some Do,some don't lol. I get a 50/50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one once, nearly fell off my chair!

I think the average male profile compared to the average female profile shows the difference between men and woman!

Should I duck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen OP. Had one or three myself

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