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By *lwaysdiscreet OP   Man
over a year ago

Ashford Kent and Dartford

Why is it that because there are a few guys that are time wasters on here.

And give it all the chat that they will turn up etc then let people down.

Then you got the guys that want to meet but we get tar with the same brush all the time.

So my question is how do i convince the lady or couple that i am true and wont let them down.

Because i am finding this very hard because of being in the same group as the others.

When i am nothing like them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Other men don't. You're not one blob of crappy mencocks who let people down. You're an individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First, you make the money.

Then, you get the power.

Then, you get the women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are looking to meet single men then send a message showing your personality and hope they respond.

Bear in mind they will get loads of messages and you may not be the only genuine person.

Its a tough competition for guys around here, even if people didn't have the issue of time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I understand where you're coming from, the only person I blame for my lack of success on here is myself.

If there's so many time wasters and idiots out there then a 'good' guy should stand out over and above them all - if I'm not doing enough to get replies and meets then I guess I'm not doing enough on my own profile and in the way I message people to present myself in a favourable light over everyone else.

Therefore I know that I need to work harder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give everyone a chance. If they don't sound like they'll turn up or I think they're too good to be true I just tell them to meet me in my local KFC car park. It's literally 5 minutes drive away and if they do t turn up I just get a fully loaded box meal.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I give everyone a chance. If they don't sound like they'll turn up or I think they're too good to be true I just tell them to meet me in my local KFC car park. It's literally 5 minutes drive away and if they do t turn up I just get a fully loaded box meal.

"

Can we meet then. I loooove kfc lol. We can just eat and chat.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You're not getting tarred with the same brush, it's just very competitive, because there are so many single guys on here.

Ask for some profile advice maybe and see if upping your game helps.

Good luck.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Why is it that because there are a few guys that are time wasters on here.

And give it all the chat that they will turn up etc then let people down.

Then you got the guys that want to meet but we get tar with the same brush all the time.

So my question is how do i convince the lady or couple that i am true and wont let them down.

Because i am finding this very hard because of being in the same group as the others.

When i am nothing like them "

You have ten meets, seem to be doing alright for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There'll be a variety of reasons for lack of meets, one could be that you don't accommodate. Right or wrong there's the assumption you're in a relationship and cheating. Perhaps state why you cannot accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember the guy that blew me off on the first day of Wales' first game in the World Cup?

I bought and cooked sticky chicken skewers from Iceland, wedges, onion rings, garlic bread, got those frozen woo woo cocktail things and he never turned up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First, you make the money.

Then, you get the power.

Then, you get the women."

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"There'll be a variety of reasons for lack of meets, one could be that you don't accommodate. Right or wrong there's the assumption you're in a relationship and cheating. Perhaps state why you cannot accommodate."

Or it could just be that they don't like the look of them and they like the look of somebody else. Accommodation is sometimes an issue but if you want to meet someone, you meet them.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We wouldn't tar any group of people with the same brush, there are good and bad in all.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Remember the guy that blew me off on the first day of Wales' first game in the World Cup?

I bought and cooked sticky chicken skewers from Iceland, wedges, onion rings, garlic bread, got those frozen woo woo cocktail things and he never turned up! "

Maybe he didn't like onion rings?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Remember the guy that blew me off on the first day of Wales' first game in the World Cup?

I bought and cooked sticky chicken skewers from Iceland, wedges, onion rings, garlic bread, got those frozen woo woo cocktail things and he never turned up!

Maybe he didn't like onion rings? "

How can somebody not?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"We wouldn't tar any group of people with the same brush, there are good and bad in all. "

He's tarring the tarrers who tar him because of the other guys.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We wouldn't tar any group of people with the same brush, there are good and bad in all.

He's tarring the tarrers who tar him because of the other guys."

Oh....

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"1.First, you make the money.

2.Then, you get the power.

3.Then, you get the women."

I've had 1 and 2 for a while but 3 has never happened

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"We wouldn't tar any group of people with the same brush, there are good and bad in all. "

When tarring a group of people it's better to use different brushes, using the same brush takes too long imo

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Remember the guy that blew me off on the first day of Wales' first game in the World Cup?

I bought and cooked sticky chicken skewers from Iceland, wedges, onion rings, garlic bread, got those frozen woo woo cocktail things and he never turned up! "

i remember that.

forgot why i am in this topic now though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely if we all tarred all single men with the same brush no one would be looking for single men?! The unreliable guys on here should make it easier for the genuine guys who make an effort to shine.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Easy to blame others for your lack of success rather than doing something about it?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Meet at clubs and socials, so you've got some purchase with having met in person, rather than an unknown entity on the internet.

It's a numbers game here - message many, rather than pin hopes on one or two. People eventually get meets

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