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To show verifications or not?

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By *ashwood OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

Just wondered what the female members on here thought about displaying verifications? Have always hidden mine but recently set them as public. Have a feeling it puts off as many as it attracts.

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

I show mine as it shows i am real not all of them mean they have been sexual encounter maybe just met at meets or webcam etc when i look at profiles i am fine to admit someone with 100s of great bangs in a short time can put me of cos i am weird like that but i do feel people need to understand not all verifying are meaning you have had sex etc .. I am still a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered what the female members on here thought about displaying verifications? Have always hidden mine but recently set them as public. Have a feeling it puts off as many as it attracts."

We cant see the need for any more than one??

If you are real and have a veri, whats the need??

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i don't show mine. doesn't bother me if a guy doesn't show his either. if he hides the summary as well it makes me suspicious, which is why i have my summary showing.

will admit some veries put me off meeting people. depends who they've met.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Don't think there's any right or wrong answers to this one OP...for some displaying them will be essential for others not so much. Do what's right for you would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will draw their own conclusions whatever you do. You can't control how people react to your profile whether you show veris or not . It's your profile , do as you wish ! Show the good ones , hide the ones which say "he looks like a donkey , manners of a pig and breath of a beast"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want op some people care some people don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine, I've had some people get a bit uppity because I wouldn't show them but my view is it's none of their bloody business.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Youve only had 4 seperate meets. I doubt that will put many off

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By *ashwood OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

[Removed by poster at 29/05/17 19:33:23]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We show our summary to show we're genuine but don't display the written veries.

See them as a bit of a trophy cabinet and generally find them more cringey than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can serve as an insight into the person's demeanour and persona.. it's valuable in that regard to gauge compatibility, line after line of "dirty slut" or something like that is off putting. Also veries in text speak, what's the point?

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By *ashwood OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire/London


"I show mine as it shows i am real not all of them mean they have been sexual encounter maybe just met at meets or webcam etc when i look at profiles i am fine to admit someone with 100s of great bangs in a short time can put me of cos i am weird like that but i do feel people need to understand not all verifying are meaning you have had sex etc .. I am still a virgin"

Well you have just the right amount Kitty and varied like you say. Probably why I messaged you a few days ago.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I hate to say but I read them as reviews of a product, as if I'm getting something off Amazon.

Verifications are what I meet someone because of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any to show.......yet, but am an optimist, send dick pics and they will come

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...

And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i show a few - depends on my mood

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I like to get at least one veri a year, just to prove that I'm still alive

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"I show mine as it shows i am real not all of them mean they have been sexual encounter maybe just met at meets or webcam etc when i look at profiles i am fine to admit someone with 100s of great bangs in a short time can put me of cos i am weird like that but i do feel people need to understand not all verifying are meaning you have had sex etc .. I am still a virgin

Well you have just the right amount Kitty and varied like you say. Probably why I messaged you a few days ago."

Is this u saying i have ignored u if i didn't reply its cos the message system is down if i did reply ignore what i just said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...

And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that "

Crazy how?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Just wondered what the female members on here thought about displaying verifications? Have always hidden mine but recently set them as public. Have a feeling it puts off as many as it attracts."
you shouldnt have to show any .

If you had sex with someone in the real world you would go around shouting from the rooftops about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any to show.......yet, but am an optimist, send dick pics and they will come "

your profile his hidden though - that wont help your cause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not particularly bothered posting new verifications we meet but don't necessarily post them, so long as you can prove genuine enough said , well that's our opinion each to their own really

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By *ashwood OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

Make sure it's next to a sky remote is my tip

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I prefer not to show them. Who and what, just involves to us. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do what you want op some people care some people don't "

I personally don't care much about verifications. Marc does, though. So it just depends.

I like to display ours in different patterns and see if it changes the messages we get. And I've found that it does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep this a secret...although technically there isn't a great to keep secret!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't not usually did a few weeks ago and I got a few shitty messages. What do they think !!! They can but I showed one it's like I'm a lepar. So now I don't. My friends know who I am and that's all that matter

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"[Veri Removed by poster at 29/05/17 19:33:23]"

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By *ashwood OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to meet people who are active on the swing scene, and feel that a comprehensive list of verifications are the best way of showing that. Those who hide their verifications we are more likely to pass by, unless we have met at a party or a club.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have any to show.......yet, but am an optimist, send dick pics and they will come

your profile his hidden though - that wont help your cause"

Lots of women love a mystery man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep this a secret...although technically there isn't a great to keep secret! "

Proves how much I keep it a secret....managed to post to the wrong thread!!!! What a prat!

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good


"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...

And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that

Crazy how? "

Just lies all lies lets leave it there lol

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By *ashwood OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire/London

I find if I display a veri I suddenly get viewed by loads of single guys in the area...checking out the competition I guess. Someone I met got a message saying that surely if they met me then they were miles better!

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By *ashwood OP   Man
over a year ago

Berkshire/London


"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...

And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that

Crazy how?

Just lies all lies lets leave it there lol"

I lied Kitty anyway it wasn't your veris that made me message you it was of course your cleavage...I remember now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see what someone has at least a couple but I don't really read them or look at who they are too much

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'd say show them. Fakes can do themselves veris through other fake accounts. It's fairly easy to spot, so the best way is for them to hide them.

Also it's good to see that there are play veris, not just all socials.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

We believe in showing our verifications because we want to give potential friends as much information as we can to let them judge if they want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite annoyed i had a nice big list from just friends i had made and met and they have left so their verify has gone. It might be a good thing cos they all made up stuff like i was crazy n that so actually its probably better now...

And diamond is lying she has had about 20 people up her minge in one go i was there why aint they all verified that

Crazy how?

Just lies all lies lets leave it there lol"

Am particularly fond of crazy women just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do what you want op some people care some people don't "

Exactly. There is no right or wrong

- Mrs. J -

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