FabSwingers.com forum: Who keeps it a secret?

By *orn Kinky OP TV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

Your enjoyment of swinging and all it's related charms that is. In day to day life I am a very manly, straight, masculine well, man. But for me my greatest sexual fulfilment comes from cross dressing and indulging in all sorts of weird and wonderful kinks with all sorts of weird and wonderful people. The only ones who know about this are the people that I've met through this and other sites. I have to admit, I kind of like the fact I have a suitcase full of filth under the bed and nobody knows...

So, who else revels in their secret life? Or do you wish everyone knew the "real" you?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nope *this* life is kept very much private from my friends and family for various reasons although does make me grin on the odd occasions that swinging or related activities come up in conversation and I sit there and think "how little you know"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having 2 sides. People who know me often comment on my "sweet and innocent" persona and ill admit I sometimes use it to my advantage, I probably get away with things that others wouldnt.

Some of my closest friends know Im sexually very open but have no idea some of the things I have or want to do.

Only one person knows Im on here, she is too and we often share our secrets, its good to share but also naughty that its just us.

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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I keep this and being Bi a secret to friend and family.

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By *orn Kinky OP TV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

"I love having 2 sides. People who know me often comment on my "sweet and innocent" persona and ill admit I sometimes use it to my advantage, I probably get away with things that others wouldnt.

Some of my closest friends know Im sexually very open but have no idea some of the things I have or want to do.

I get that completely. I love the fact I have experienced things (and loved them) that my vanilla friends share videos round group chats saying how fucking weird it is haha.

Only one person knows Im on here, she is too and we often share our secrets, its good to share but also naughty that its just us. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My nickname at work is "swingerman"..... you can guess what my attitude is to it then.

It's part of who I am....I see no reason for it to be a secret.

It is, however a "separate" part of my life and has no effect on day to day things.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm lucky, I met some of my best friends here, so yeah, my friends know.

I have a few "vanilla" friends that are aware though, for the safety side of things. They dont know who, or anything like that, just enough for them to know I'm safe, the same as I would on any other kind of date/meeting.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Your enjoyment of swinging and all it's related charms that is. In day to day life I am a very manly, straight, masculine well, man. But for me my greatest sexual fulfilment comes from cross dressing and indulging in all sorts of weird and wonderful kinks with all sorts of weird and wonderful people. The only ones who know about this are the people that I've met through this and other sites. I have to admit, I kind of like the fact I have a suitcase full of filth under the bed and nobody knows...

So, who else revels in their secret life? Or do you wish everyone knew the "real" you?"

We love it, a few select friends know but it gives us such a buzz when we hear a comment from someone telling us we need to get out and blow away the cobwebs.

We just look at each other and grin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Janus-faced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few friends who know I am on here.

Although yesterday I did confess all to my cousin as she was aware something wasn't quiet right with me (had a bad experience). She was so shocked you could see everything running through her head. She actually said to me that she thought she knew me well but this had blown her socks off.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I'm a bit passed it now but only my meets know my dirtiness.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

It stays very much separate from my day to day life but mainly because of the type of people I work with. I have some friends that know and some don't but I like the convos from those that don't know, I didn't realise there was so many old wives tales about swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep this completely separate and secret from our friends and family. Some of my friends have made comments about swinging previously and it's a conversation I keep out of. We both can't be open because of work. X

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nope no-one knows,I hope.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My 'ordinary' life is completely separate to this side to me, and the people who know me outside of this would be shocked to discover it

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

One person (from work) recognised me on here so he now knows.ive since hidden my face pics for future reference lol.

We don't talk about it much though as I prefer to kee it private away from family and my daughter.

I'll share with potential meets

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"One person (from work) recognised me on here so he now knows.ive since hidden my face pics for future reference lol.

We don't talk about it much though as I prefer to kee it private away from family and my daughter.

I'll share with potential meets

I would be happy to be completely open about it if it wasn't for my job... If the kids at school found out, then it could cost me my job.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More people are aware of it now than ever but I'm quite a private person overall so I'm not one to shout about any aspects of life.

It's no bugger elses business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before Christianity etc people had orgies in city centres. They invented sex torture aka sado maso... thing. I read somewhere that there was a Dionsion cult going around. They found a way to have some kind of special orgasm where they'd lose all control and laugh and cry and have a kind of fit. Rumer is women were being naughty with snakes. And this is when civilisation was at its zenith. Intellectual giants such as Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, to name a few belonged to that era.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter knows I'm on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one friend that knows but she's shared plenty of personal thing with me. There's a lot of love and trust there.

Other than that, I don't think I'd mind if any of my friends found out I was here.

I haven't had to deal with it though and don't really have anything to hide (apart from my secret kinks and fantasies) so I'm in a lucky position...

I'm not going to go shouting about it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I've had no action. Not really much to keep a secret.

I think I'm doing it wrong.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"To be honest, I've had no action. Not really much to keep a secret.

I think I'm doing it wrong. "

Possibly but you may never know it don't ask buy not here it would be the wrong thread for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on own here. I've spoke about it/things with a close friend. But my fab life is oretty much a journey on my own.

And with you guys of course.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

I am quite open about it all, saves any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest, I've had no action. Not really much to keep a secret.

I think I'm doing it wrong.

Possibly but you may never know it don't ask buy not here it would be the wrong thread for that

I'm not really fussed for meets. I just like the chat. Probably where I'm going wrong.

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"To be honest, I've had no action. Not really much to keep a secret.

I think I'm doing it wrong.

Possibly but you may never know it don't ask buy not here it would be the wrong thread for that

I'm not really fussed for meets. I just like the chat. Probably where I'm going wrong. "

Just keep doing what you are doing someone should bite soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it tricky sometimes when my friends are talking about swinging and I'm sat there thinking just how little they know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never tell anyone this is my secret life.

I was having a conversation with friends about a TV programme about swinging last year I think it was.

"Ohhh yes those fucking dirty freaks, I watched it for a bit, fucking filthy bastards, full of aids the lot of them..."

I changed the subject to football after that

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By *earandmonkeyCouple
over a year ago

uxbridge

Our grown up children know and some friends i guess it dosent help in hiding it as we prouly wear badges that say swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our grown up children know and some friends i guess it dosent help in hiding it as we prouly wear badges that say swinger"

That's brave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope *this* life is kept very much private from my friends and family for various reasons although does make me grin on the odd occasions that swinging or related activities come up in conversation and I sit there and think "how little you know"

Haha yes same

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By *earandmonkeyCouple
over a year ago

uxbridge

"Our grown up children know and some friends i guess it dosent help in hiding it as we prouly wear badges that say swinger

That's brave. "

The badges are small and most of the time go unseen his is on one of his caps mine is on one bag so its not everyday that they can be seen. We see swinging as kust another life style choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're exactly the same

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Nobody knows. It's better that way. My private life is my own concern.

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

Some of my friends know... think my niece has an idea... would never tell my mom.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it secret, I still live with my ex while we try to sell the house and I'll be honest its just for less hassle.

But I do find myself looking at people and trying to guess if they are on here and what they'd be into haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much private...does make me smile from time to time.

How people think they know me.Little do they know. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep this a secret although not too much to keep secret if truth be told!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I wouldn't mind 1 person knowing, because at moments where you want to shout about it, there is that 1 person who you can trust.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Although I don't go shouting it from the rooftops, most of ma friends know that I'm on here

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