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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are a couple who appreciate fabs on our pics ( especially Kinky) as it is good for her see esteem. Looking at the top few pages of fabs pics it seems that almost always it's the slimmer ladies that appear there. Nothing wrong with this at all and some of the ladies are simply beautiful but does this mean that us larger ladies are not appreciated enough to appear on the top fabbed pages. We appreciate that larger ladies are not for everyone and we are also aware we cannot always be everyone else's cup of tea, but there are many forms of beauty. Thanks in advance for your replies and while we encourage constructive criticism please do not post negative comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

* self esteem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the hot pics should be removed from this site all together. I believe it does the very opposite to people's self esteem. Being told you are beautiful is different to believing you are beautiful. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the hot pics should be removed from this site all together. I believe it does the very opposite to people's self esteem. Being told you are beautiful is different to believing you are beautiful. Xx"

I agree! I rarely post a new pic because of the response from randoms that mean nothing. I know you can turn off fabs but I like to see them be appreciated from those around me like my friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the hot pics should be removed from this site all together. I believe it does the very opposite to people's self esteem. Being told you are beautiful is different to believing you are beautiful. Xx"
This

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"We are a couple who appreciate fabs on our pics ( especially Kinky) as it is good for her see esteem. Looking at the top few pages of fabs pics it seems that almost always it's the slimmer ladies that appear there. Nothing wrong with this at all and some of the ladies are simply beautiful but does this mean that us larger ladies are not appreciated enough to appear on the top fabbed pages. We appreciate that larger ladies are not for everyone and we are also aware we cannot always be everyone else's cup of tea, but there are many forms of beauty. Thanks in advance for your replies and while we encourage constructive criticism please do not post negative comments "

Just fabbed a few of my favourites - you're very pretty op!

I think quite a few 'larger ladies' do very well on hot photos. They tend to have pretty faces (like yours) and/or big boobies (hell yeah I'm jealous! )

Hope you get lots more fabs op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blokes top pics. =

Ripped, & cock out!!

There's a trend, but sometimes the trend breaks now and again with is always refreshing. . I rarely look at them if I'm honest, it's normally the same people anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'm a larger, not classically attractive lady (not ladylike in the slightest but I'm going with it) and I've appeared quite a few times up there without doing any of the typical behaviour.

I think that the majority of regulars have a fanbase.

And I think to a certain extent, as much as people say about slim women not being appreciated on the site, they really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When any of my pics have climbed to the giddy heights of the Men's hot pics they have got there mainly through the forum members, not because they think I'm beautiful or fit, but because they thought the picture was a bit different, a bit creative or just a bit funny.

I liked disrupting the body beautiful, big cock monopoly on page 1 with something unexpected. Not because I dislike looking at beautiful bodies or big cocks but because it demonstrates there are other things to value.

However I do think there is a downside to hot pics, in reinforcing certain stereotypes, but I think the self esteem issues about how we look would remain whether it exists or not.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We are a couple who appreciate fabs on our pics ( especially Kinky) as it is good for her see esteem. Looking at the top few pages of fabs pics it seems that almost always it's the slimmer ladies that appear there. Nothing wrong with this at all and some of the ladies are simply beautiful but does this mean that us larger ladies are not appreciated enough to appear on the top fabbed pages. We appreciate that larger ladies are not for everyone and we are also aware we cannot always be everyone else's cup of tea, but there are many forms of beauty. Thanks in advance for your replies and while we encourage constructive criticism please do not post negative comments "

We both think you are gorgeous.

I think you shouldn't get too hung up on the "hot pics" section, we barely give it a glance, preferring to perv.... erm, I mean appreciate the profiles we see in the forums that catch our eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the hot pics should be removed from this site all together. I believe it does the very opposite to people's self esteem. Being told you are beautiful is different to believing you are beautiful. Xx

I agree! I rarely post a new pic because of the response from randoms that mean nothing. I know you can turn off fabs but I like to see them be appreciated from those around me like my friends. "

I have been seriously thinking about turning mine off as I disagree with the whole thing. Although I like to fab pictures to keep my favourites in one place I don't like all the leader board crap in hot pics. It's dangerous for those people with a low self esteem and i don't want to be taken part of encouraging it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the hot pics should be removed from this site all together. I believe it does the very opposite to people's self esteem. Being told you are beautiful is different to believing you are beautiful. Xx

I agree! I rarely post a new pic because of the response from randoms that mean nothing. I know you can turn off

fabs but I like to see them be

appreciated from those around me like my friends.

I have been seriously thinking about turning mine off as I disagree with the whole thing. Although I like to fab pictures to keep my favourites in one place I don't like all the leader board crap in hot pics. It's dangerous for those people with a low self esteem and i don't want to be taken part of

encouraging it. "

Here here

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We've fabbed yours before OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey I'm not slim or skinny, but the pics get up there. Face pics generally seem to be most popular..

pics fabbed xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honey I'm not slim or skinny, but the pics get up there. Face pics generally seem to be most popular..

pics fabbed xxx"
agreed...the face pics specially the eyes do it for me, and a well taken shot also

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Honey I'm not slim or skinny, but the pics get up there. Face pics generally seem to be most popular..

pics fabbed xxxagreed...the face pics specially the eyes do it for me, and a well taken shot also"

I think this is very true...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you very much for your comments everyone and thank you for keeping it positive

Kinky

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Honey I'm not slim or skinny, but the pics get up there. Face pics generally seem to be most popular..

pics fabbed xxx"

You're also one of the ladies with pretty/beautiful faces I was referring to earlier! Love your photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a curvy woman I don't expect my pics to make it to the hotlist, and that's fine with me. Not sure if I'd want any of them to.

I agree it does seem the slim and pretty ladies on there, but I very rarely look. You're very pretty so easily doable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honey I'm not slim or skinny, but the pics get up there. Face pics generally seem to be most popular..

pics fabbed xxx

You're also one of the ladies with pretty/beautiful faces I was referring to earlier! Love your photos! "

Thank you so much xx

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Warks.

I like getting fabbed, it's great for the self esteem. I wouldn't give much thought to the top fabs, you're more likely to get fabbed the higher up the list you are and those at the top usually have a following as mentioned.

P.S I've fabbed some of yours OP

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