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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I'm as red blooded as the next man..however, I do need a connection both physical, cerabal and intellectual. So the whole wham bam meets are not really my thing..now some people may think this is peculiar on a site like this, baring in mind some of the veris I read on and also the profiles I digest. So my question is due you follow this reteric or do most of you meet for, and to but it crudely and fuck and no without really getting to know your meet first??

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Some do, some don't.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sometimes do, sometimes don't. I've had fantastic sexy with a lady after chatting for months and good see with a lady in a group session whose name I didn't ask.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Replace the daft words above with 'sex'

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If meeting one to one, I'd always want to establish a chemistry and connection beforehand through messaging on here, a social meet etc as I rarely find sex satisfying without it.

Meeting in clubs is slightly different I know, but even then I'd prefer to spend some social time with the other person(s) before moving to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mental connection is a must!..otherwise it can be a very cold experience

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

No, it's not just you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need have more than just few messages with guy, need to be connected mentally and of course there has to me physical attraction as well. Then when I decide I want to know him even more I ask him for his kik and there I'm teasing my victim to find out if there would be attraction in person as well as I'm not enough body confident and don't want awkward meet.....aand that's it, that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it once , it was so awkward I had to ask him to leave

I know now for sure I need connection and I'm cool with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is just sex however I like to get to know the person a little first before meeting. As a single woman I'm not keen on club meets however when I was part of a couple, we only did club meets for the NSA sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to like who I'm meeting. I need to know who they are.

Otherwise I'll order that blow up doll ive had my eye on. (Amazon marketplace, it's a damaged one that's reduced. )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op, I have nothing to add to this thread....

Other than - your thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many different types on here it's difficult to say.

Personally i like to really get to know someone before I'd ever get near to meeting.

Hence my lack of meets because I'm far too fussy for my own good.

I'm my own worst enemy.

But i like it that way.

Just realised how contradictory i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer a social for our first meet.

People don't always turn up looking like their profiles.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok so I'm as red blooded as the next man..however, I do need a connection both physical, cerabal and intellectual. So the whole wham bam meets are not really my thing..now some people may think this is peculiar on a site like this, baring in mind some of the veris I read on and also the profiles I digest. So my question is due you follow this reteric or do most of you meet for, and to but it crudely and fuck and no without really getting to know your meet first?? "

We don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both but I much prefer to get to know someone and build it from there.

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