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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay not sure if this has been wrote before but would like to see peoples opinions. I see on profiles people put no bi Guys ? I understand its personal preference but is there real reasons behind it do share them. Do straight guys in a couple think am gonna jump them because am bi, especially as the last guy was upset i Didnt fancy him lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

As you said.....it's their personal preference....you already have the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you said.....it's their personal preference....you already have the answer."

^^^^^^ agreed ^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know its personal choice i just meant the reasons behind this choice. There must be some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I can do things to a man that any other woman can do to turn him on and please him. If he likes cock - well I don't have one. Although being bisexual he likes the fact I don't - that's ok for him but in the back of my mind I will feel as if I am lacking a bit he likes playing with so although he's with me, I feel he might be secretly thinking a bit of cock would round this off nicely then I will have been a bit of a disappointment. I don't want to be in this position of thinking 'is he thinking of a men right now and what I lack. So I suppose it's my hangup, not his.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

The thought of man2man fun makes them go giddy.

Higher risk group

Homophobia

And a load more reasons.

Loads of couples/ladies do meet... So there are meets for all on here.

Tall short black white gay str8 ....

Honesty on profiles saves time all-round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know its personal choice i just meant the reasons behind this choice. There must be some "

Maybe this thread has a few answers for you

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/63516

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never get it either

so long as the single bi guy whos meeting the couple respects the male isnt bi i really cant see what it matters who else he plays with when they not around

just my thoughts on the matter tho

personally id sooner meet bi guys so send any my way you dont want lol

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"i never get it either

so long as the single bi guy whos meeting the couple respects the male isnt bi i really cant see what it matters who else he plays with when they not around

just my thoughts on the matter tho

personally id sooner meet bi guys so send any my way you dont want lol"

lol nymph, sending Soapy over now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i never get it either

so long as the single bi guy whos meeting the couple respects the male isnt bi i really cant see what it matters who else he plays with when they not around

just my thoughts on the matter tho

personally id sooner meet bi guys so send any my way you dont want lol

lol nymph, sending Soapy over now "

he needs to bring a friend, ones no good :P

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"i never get it either

so long as the single bi guy whos meeting the couple respects the male isnt bi i really cant see what it matters who else he plays with when they not around

just my thoughts on the matter tho

personally id sooner meet bi guys so send any my way you dont want lol

lol nymph, sending Soapy over now

he needs to bring a friend, ones no good :P"

I'll send a nice scottish one down for you, once I have given them a trial run to make sure they are up to your standards

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

"

just human nature i suppose

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

just human nature i suppose "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

"

nor do i but fuck it im bored so im joining in

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

nor do i but fuck it im bored so im joining in "

Am watching Benidorm on Itv2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

"
maybe he is not questioning but trying to understand? nowt wrong with being curious?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

maybe he is not questioning but trying to understand? nowt wrong with being curious?"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will never understand why people need to question other peoples preferences...

"

Seems par for the course on here most days! Even forbid one should have personal preferences: we're swingers after all: everything goes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ITS PROBLY COS PEOPLE THINK THERE IS MORE DANGER WITH HIV AS A BI GUY GOES WITH OTHER GUYS MABE GAY GUYS ALSO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ITS PROBLY COS PEOPLE THINK THERE IS MORE DANGER WITH HIV AS A BI GUY GOES WITH OTHER GUYS MABE GAY GUYS ALSO"

eeek caps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quick turn the sound down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont straight people have unprotected sex then ? I dont Think theres any greater risk of stds even hiv, bit extreme though, from being bi. Im not questioning peoples preferences we all have them just wanted a wee incite into the reasons behind them. As i Didnt understand how a bi guy would be different to a straight guy to a straight couple or fem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some things will help put us into the 'zone' whilst others will take us out of that 'zone', so simply if the thought of a potential partner being bi turns one off then that's their reason, simple, choice.

My ex partner really was turned off in a big way by the thought of guy on guy, so if she was aware the potential playmate was bi it would turn her off, so no point meeting in our minds.

Now don't get me wrong she didn't frown on anothers choice but she had and made choices too, I guess the thought of guy on guy questioned the masculinity of the man/men and as her choice tends to be masculine, well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I for one respect and never question anyone's personal choice

And really don't need to know their reasons

That is their personal preference and there are plenty more people with different choices xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I know its personal choice i just meant the reasons behind this choice. There must be some "

Lots probably....but to be honest, it gets a bit tedious when the bi men offended by not being in someones preferences asks " do you they think I am going to jump them"

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"I know its personal choice i just meant the reasons behind this choice. There must be some

Lots probably....but to be honest, it gets a bit tedious when the bi men offended by not being in someones preferences asks " do you they think I am going to jump them" "

exactly...its just as likely that they might think the guy's a fugly or the donny osmond undercrackers put them off

any resemblance to a bi guy living or otherwise is purely co-incidental. No bi guys were harmed in the making of this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know its personal choice i just meant the reasons behind this choice. There must be some

Lots probably....but to be honest, it gets a bit tedious when the bi men offended by not being in someones preferences asks " do you they think I am going to jump them" "

Yep and after a simalar post I realised how pedantic that sounded and removed it from my own profile xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

whos Donny Osmund ??

Any who seems a perfectly genuine question has caused offence.

apologies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know its personal choice i just meant the reasons behind this choice. There must be some

Lots probably....but to be honest, it gets a bit tedious when the bi men offended by not being in someones preferences asks " do you they think I am going to jump them" "

Personally never been offended by someones preferences. Was just a general pondering.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"whos Donny Osmund ??

Any who seems a perfectly genuine question has caused offence.

apologies "

No offence caused at all. Do a forum search for bi guys,... You will loads of answers, some already mentioned above, some not.

Good luck on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont straight people have unprotected sex then ? I dont Think theres any greater risk of stds even hiv, bit extreme though, from being bi. Im not questioning peoples preferences we all have them just wanted a wee incite into the reasons behind them. As i Didnt understand how a bi guy would be different to a straight guy to a straight couple or fem x"

each to their own as far as I'm concerned, got no probs with whatever anyones preferences are, I know what my limits are as does everybody on here . . . . . . . random bit of info regarding whats been said about stds etc, did you know that if two men have had unprotected sex (oral/anal etc) then they can never give blood??? whats that all about!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was random Wow so thats why vampires are never gay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was random Wow so thats why vampires are never gay lol "

ha! maybe!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we get pissed off with the "do they think I am going to jump them" fallacy.

Yes, it is a fallacy and, among the people we know who won't meet bi guys, probably the least reason for not meeting.

One of the main reasons, which has already been mentioned and also goes for us too, is just the thought of the guy your meeting having or having had sex with another guy is a complete turn off for both partners of the couple.

The last reason, in most cases, is a fear of the guy being jumped.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally we get pissed off with the "do they think I am going to jump them" fallacy.

Yes, it is a fallacy and, among the people we know who won't meet bi guys, probably the least reason for not meeting.

One of the main reasons, which has already been mentioned and also goes for us too, is just the thought of the guy your meeting having or having had sex with another guy is a complete turn off for both partners of the couple.

The last reason, in most cases, is a fear of the guy being jumped.

XXXX"

Thanks x

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