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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the odd occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "
nope its a struggle but you learn to live with it ha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do. "
you do oh my message me then please or am I the wrong sex again damnit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

I literally do watch paint dry. It's nothing like that.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yes I do. you do oh my message me then please or am I the wrong sex again damnit"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do. you do oh my message me then please or am I the wrong sex again damnit

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dont you roll your eyes at me young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen occasionally. Ive had a few replies to messages and have actually got a few unsolicited message from women too - the forums are your friend here, just keep it light-hearted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep women do message, I've been asked if I can ...mend the gate, what's best a Renault or a Peugeot, which channel Game of Thrones is on and could I pop and get a pint of milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do! But often I don't even get a reply just my messages get deleted, so I know how you guys feel when that happens to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, I do too.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Of course but the volume of men here usually means that those guys who are upbeat, charismatic and most alluring - attractive in many ways - will draw people to them, rather than repel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep women do message, I've been asked if I can ...mend the gate, what's best a Renault or a Peugeot, which channel Game of Thrones is on and could I pop and get a pint of milk"

Do you know when GOT is back on?

Thanks petal

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I do especially if they have an interesting thread or status update

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, some of my best meets have come from the lady messaging me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you to all the ladies that DO reply to messages.

It is frustrating when one takes time to create a message specific to the recipient then it just gets deleted but with the ratio of ladies to men, they can unfortunately afford to be.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I do reply to most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do reply to most"

As you did to me Georgie, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps some people are just not attracted to negativity....

I know I'm not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps some people are just not attracted to negativity....

I know I'm not....

Absolutely. Though it can be challenging to remain positive when it feels like messages are being ignored.

I don't get why people then get aggressive and rude about it though. No-one is obligated to reply. But it is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps some people are just not attracted to negativity....

I know I'm not....

Absolutely. Though it can be challenging to remain positive when it feels like messages are being ignored.

I don't get why people then get aggressive and rude about it though. No-one is obligated to reply. But it is nice

True

but like for many people fab is an escape from the drudgery of life and there is nothing appealing about people who play the victim card and constantly bemoan their own failures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree with you more Soxy.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Most of my meets are at result of me messaging in first and all have been great

What can I say I know what I want and I know how to get it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I do reply to most

As you did to me Georgie, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do reply to most

As you did to me Georgie, thank you.

Xx"
and me xx

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We reply but don't send the first message

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

why do you keep starting threads about how rubbish this site is?

you've only been here 9 months and you seem to be doing ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys get frustrated is all I dont really message much anymore dont need to but if I do I get replies ,I think its all about how you approach it if you use convention many women are used to that and ignore so guys try and be different ,now theirs an imponderable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do if I see any interesting profiles. Just not often you find a well written male profile with tasteful pics.

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Never had an probs reciving messages of women.

As I'm a gent I always reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to on the odd occasion. Or if I'm feeling lazy I will wink because I like to contradict myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the same thread as yesterday's 'why is it so boring here' thread that you stared.

I put a question to you, which you failed to answer. So I'll try again. Why do you remain a member of the site bores you so much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do if I see any interesting profiles. Just not often you find a well written male profile with tasteful pics.

Would you be able to give an example of a well written profile? I have tried a number of approaches but still not happy.

Any tips or advice would be most welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

Only those they think are worth messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry

Only those they think are worth messaging

One can go off people.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do. "

She's very selective, though.

This now makes it sound like you message me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that would be a strange reason to message someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry

Only those they think are worth messaging

One can go off people.....

I forget my honesty doesn't always appeal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do but generally not chelsea fans or those who say they are leaving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

We frequently start forum chats, often encouraging flirty chats, they guys frequently don't respond, so sometimes I think maybe 'you' (as in single males looking for attention, chats and fun) should spread your net to the chats offered and building friendships, maybe I can't meet you this afternoon because you want to knock one out

but it's a good way to build group friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I do. "
_eli now I lurve that new profile pic what a love tone your bum has x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged guys but only from the forum.

I think a lot of ladies like to get an idea of who you are first before sending a message (unless you happen to look like a demi god!)

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

The poor guys can't escape my constant messaging..............well they could block me I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The poor guys can't escape my constant messaging..............well they could block me I guess

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ha where is the block button didnt realise I had one

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Yes I do.

She's very selective, though.

This now makes it sound like you message me!

That's an odd idea to have at such an early time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep women do message, I've been asked if I can ...mend the gate, what's best a Renault or a Peugeot, which channel Game of Thrones is on and could I pop and get a pint of milk

Do you know when GOT is back on?

Thanks petal

I'd like to know when season 7 is out on dvd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Not a lot. But I do get mail.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

Once you become a fireman you'll be nut's deep m8..

If your still here that is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not personally, but I suppose I haven't filled out my 'about me' page so that could contribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick me, pick me!!!

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By *nglishRose123Woman
over a year ago

Swindon

When I joined the site a month ago I was inundated with messages and could not get to them all. Yesterday having some time on my hamds I went through my inbox and found a couple of gems I had overlooked so I messaged them and luckily they were still interested so am now happily chatting and hoping to meet up.

I have also messaged a few guys from the forum based on their posts here.

I guess the message is..it may not happen overnight but it can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all my meets have happened via forum chit chat, my messages pretty much all get deleted, unsurprising really given the amount of messages...... but the forum is a better place to communicate I find

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've been messaging OP he's certainly hot stuff

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"The poor guys can't escape my constant messaging..............well they could block me I guess

ha where is the block button didnt realise I had one "

That surprises me

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

I try to reply to all messages received even if it's just to say 'no thank you'...I also message first and send the occasional wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few women message me. Not just for sex but just for a laugh and a bit of banter

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I've had a few women message me. Not just for sex but just for a laugh and a bit of banter

Yep we've had lovely chats x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I suppose it's if they like the males/couples profile and there's some sort of attraction there,bearing in my deleting hundreds of messages a day must be hard work for the girls haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I suppose it's if they like the males/couples profile and there's some sort of attraction there,bearing in mind* deleting hundreds of messages a day must be hard work for the girls haha

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mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has been known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. CBA.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as we receive a wink or message from anyone we delete and block instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as we receive a wink or message from anyone we delete and block instantly."

How on earth do you meet with anyone then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as we receive a wink or message from anyone we delete and block instantly.

How on earth do you meet with anyone then?

Looks like you've been deleted and blocked !

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"As soon as we receive a wink or message from anyone we delete and block instantly.

How on earth do you meet with anyone then?

Looks like you've been deleted and blocked !"

Not by me she hasn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As soon as we receive a wink or message from anyone we delete and block instantly.

How on earth do you meet with anyone then?

Looks like you've been deleted and blocked !

Not by me she hasn't

Lucky you

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Think I have had two women message me in the 18 months I been on here but both where from couples profile so it may have been the guy sending message. It is hard to tell when message is from a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a random message off a woman on here !

Got my fingers crossed !

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Torridge area of Devon

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry "

Yes on occasion I do....is it against the rules then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Message Guys on this site because it's like watching paint dry

Yes on occasion I do....is it against the rules then

Quite the opposite. It's actually mandatory to message me upon joining the site. It's in the terms and conditions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does happen, maybe once every few months, trick is to play it cool

- i must admit I normally blow it by getting over exited and seeming desperate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare, but the last 2 I mailed I did meet them and both really nice guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few women message me. Not just for sex but just for a laugh and a bit of banter

Yep we've had lovely chats x"

Who? Me and you?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I do when someone catches my eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,I do.... Sometimes

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yep

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