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By *orny Irish OP   Man
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Why forumites join a thread were you have to send and receive messages or even pictures and then ignore those messages or even better reply and block in one go so when you reply to say thank you you are blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally, we've done that, as some see it as an open opportunity to try and get a meet out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing the same reasons people normally block.

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By *orny Irish OP   Man
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Send a message and then block or just block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because they can

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By *orny Irish OP   Man
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"because they can "

Yeah I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno. Only they know. Forum folk can do some strange and wonderful things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why forumites join a thread were you have to send and receive messages or even pictures and then ignore those messages or even better reply and block in one go so when you reply to say thank you you are blocked. "

Answer for the first part of the question .....Because it makes them happy...

Answer for the second part of the question.... There is now't as queer as folk .....

Combined answer .... Don't sweat the small stuff

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Occasionally, we've done that, as some see it as an open opportunity to try and get a meet out of it. "

Yeah this.

Sometimes I'm just there to swap pictures but guys have taken it as an indication of interest. The only way has been to block.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I might date say it's because you're not part of the forum clique, but as we know there is no clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might date say it's because you're not part of the forum clique, but as we know there is no clique "

I thought I was a cliquette.... then they blocked me

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Why forumites join a thread were you have to send and receive messages or even pictures and then ignore those messages or even better reply and block in one go so when you reply to say thank you you are blocked. "

I'm sorry

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Bad message or hair days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I didn't like about FPF was being asked for a pic by people who don't use the forums or have never joined in on any threads I had previously. Or, people assuming I want to meet them because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone send a cock with his face pic once

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't take it seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone send a cock with his face pic once "

Was it Funky Monkeys 'free dinosaur cock shot' offer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone send a cock with his face pic once

Was it Funky Monkeys 'free dinosaur cock shot' offer? "

Unfortunately no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone send a cock with his face pic once

Was it Funky Monkeys 'free dinosaur cock shot' offer?

Unfortunately no."

You've missed a treat.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"Why forumites join a thread were you have to send and receive messages or even pictures and then ignore those messages or even better reply and block in one go so when you reply to say thank you you are blocked. "

Because you have no control over who *else* joins those sorts of threads and sometimes, a very small minority don't participate in the original spirit intended. I've very occasionally had a FPF message (usually from someone never seen before on the forums) which is unpleasant - or their profile is - so I don't want to interact. Or, I'll note they live very close to me and I don't really want to be showing my face to someone I might see in Tesco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had someone send a cock with his face pic once

Was it Funky Monkeys 'free dinosaur cock shot' offer?

Unfortunately no.

You've missed a treat. "

I might badger him for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to join those 'send a picture' threads sometimes to send pics to all the guys who say they were skipped or who didn't get a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to join those 'send a picture' threads sometimes to send pics to all the guys who say they were skipped or who didn't get a pic. "

That's nice.

That'll be most men then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why forumites join a thread were you have to send and receive messages or even pictures and then ignore those messages or even better reply and block in one go so when you reply to say thank you you are blocked. "
sarcasm runs rife you'll survive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've stopped doing them. I like to keep a clean inbox and participating in those threads stresses me out. I may return when I'm feeling in a sharing and caring mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get where you're coming from OP. If you're going to publically declare 'I'm in!' in a fun thread, whilst of course it's everyone's right not to send to anyone they don't want to, you've kind of signalled that you're game to join in so it's a little against the *spirit* of the thread to then not participate!

The simple rule I apply now (particularly when sending face pics - or half a face in my case as that's all I have at the moment in my Friends only gallery! ) is that I only send if I'm happy that they might not send one back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it when forumites message me cos I feel obliged to respond out of politeness!

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

... suddenly appear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like it when forumites message me cos I feel obliged to respond out of politeness!"
just be rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like it when forumites message me cos I feel obliged to respond out of politeness!"

Then if people don't want furumites sending them a message, why they opt in with the send a message thread in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like it when forumites message me cos I feel obliged to respond out of politeness!"

Are my 50 messages a day starting to annoy you?

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