FabSwingers.com forum: Answer me now!!

By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anyone else had this from members? Like you're just sat waiting for messages from them and have to immediately reply?

How does one deal with such demands? Tips needed please...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore.....block

Or send something sarcastic back

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I'd block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block, report move on and message me instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Anyone else had this from members? Like you're just sat waiting for messages from them and have to immediately reply?

How does one deal with such demands? Tips needed please...

Simple! Ignore....it really is that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely ignore, if they don't like it, tough.. block em.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

You give them just 10 minutes?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

I'd answer one word per message

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"block, report move on and message me instead

Enigma Bonny Scotland is too far, I'm a Yorkshire lass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People reply in their own time at their own pace. If they get abusive when you aren't paying them immediate attention would you want that in a real life situation?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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ignore. wouldn't even reply to them.

don't block if you get a buzz of watching them get more demanding and insultive over time.

there's one dick round here who kept messaging me and demanding i block him if i wasn't interested, i ignored him for weeks and left him to spam my inbox instead. i'm not here to be told what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

You give them just 10 minutes?

12 if I really fancy them

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd answer one word per message "

Absolutely loving this and I'll certainly put it into action...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blockety block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"block, report move on and message me instead

Enigma Bonny Scotland is too far, I'm a Yorkshire lass

Im not far from you, but alas im out of your age range... booo.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"I'd answer one word per message

Absolutely loving this and I'll certainly put it into action...

I used to have a pen friend at school (no email then!) and I sent her a 5 page letter but cut it up and sent her a bitsta time. My brother said I was a serial killer in training but it made it worth the wait. She was from Puerto Rico. I still have her photo

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"block, report move on and message me instead

Enigma Bonny Scotland is too far, I'm a Yorkshire lass

Im not far from you, but alas im out of your age range... booo.

Percy currently age is negotiable!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't talk to people like that

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Wouldn't bother blocking.

It will annoy them more if you just ignore it

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Wouldn't bother blocking.

It will annoy them more if you just ignore it

I'll try that one too....

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'd answer one word per message

Absolutely loving this and I'll certainly put it into action...

So my question is do you partake in cereal killing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

Damn it took me 12

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

"I'd answer one word per message

Absolutely loving this and I'll certainly put it into action...

So my question is do you partake in cereal killing??

Only at breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

You give them just 10 minutes?

12 if I really fancy them

Oh there is still hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

But I like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

You give them just 10 minutes?

12 if I really fancy them

Oh there is still hope

I'll let you off...this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

But I like you

Haha, you like to tease me

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden

Reply back saying you fancy them and want to me.

Ask them to reply in 10 seconds with their phone number.

Then send another message

' buzzzzzz - time up. Bye'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and delete

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I put 'Christ, there are some demanding men on here' as a status the other day because I didn't answer someone's message and he could see I was online! My bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else had this from members? Like you're just sat waiting for messages from them and have to immediately reply?

How does one deal with such demands? Tips needed please...

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someone you know and chat to regularly or an unknown?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore it

If they are generally interested in fun and want to meet you they will be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wished no one replied to this thread.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wished no one replied to this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wished no one replied to this thread.

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but did you rub the genies belly 3 times ?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Anyone else had this from members? Like you're just sat waiting for messages from them and have to immediately reply?

How does one deal with such demands? Tips needed please...

someone you know and chat to regularly or an unknown?"

An unknown but thinking about it ones I know have demanded an immediate reply...hhmmm

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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I wished no one replied to this thread.

Cheeky boy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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over a year ago

Central

I get around to messages in my own time and demanding messages will usually get the lowest priority.

If someone repeats unreasonable behaviour then I discontinue contact, however good in some respects an offer may have appeared.

If they can't show respect early on, then it will be potentially missing all of the way with them.

Quickest low stress option is to block and delete, then forgetting that they ever tainted your life.

I may explain to some that I don't usually meet quickly and am often unable to reply quickly.

Petulant, immature me-me-me people generally can go and play with themselves. I am not their carer nor parent to help them navigate the adult world, with their large needy baby self to disfigure my existence.

My advice is to cut your losses quickly.

Or we could arrange a mass get together of them, whilst we pelt them with something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wished no one replied to this thread.

but did you rub the genies belly 3 times ?"

You named yours genie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wished no one replied to this thread.

but did you rub the genies belly 3 times ?

You named yours genie? "
geniecum now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

But I like you

Haha, you like to tease me

Is it bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

But I like you

Haha, you like to tease me

Is it bad?

No, thing is...I can do that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

But I like you

Haha, you like to tease me

Is it bad?

No, thing is...I can do that too

I can do it better though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't reply within 10 minutes, I assume you don't like me

But I like you

Haha, you like to tease me

Is it bad?

No, thing is...I can do that too

I can do it better though

I can't deny that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else had this from members? Like you're just sat waiting for messages from them and have to immediately reply?

How does one deal with such demands? Tips needed please...

I am a very good replier... lol... i offer a 24/7 service lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

These are the people who filter themselves out

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Shan't"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Never.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury / Lee on solent

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