FabSwingers.com forum: 300 unread messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I've been on and off here over 4 years, been lucky and had success previously, lots of meets with couples n single women.

I get the feeling I've met everyone local who is likely to meet me so I'm looking at repeat meets or new members?

Had a woman join today lives close to me, lovely pics, in my age range, sent a decent message with face n body pics.

Message is unread, her status says 300 unread messages and she has blocked single men.

Fab has become an impossible task for the genuine single men? I'm wondering out of those 300 messages how many would actually meet her?

I'm saying no more than 30? That's 10%. What do people think?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think I want a nice cold beer in the garden. It's too hot for worries like these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care, I don't message people who just joined, everyone does that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd question the motive for making such information public ..... It sounds a tad needy me, almost like inverted attention seeking ...... I just don't see the point.....in-fact it would put me off

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I think I want a nice cold beer in the garden. It's too hot for worries like these. "

I want a nice garden to enjoy this cold beer in

Op I recon more then 30 would meet her given the chance, How many of the messages was just a friendly, Hi, Welcome to the site type message,

Oh and you was one of the 300

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go on Tinder. That's easier than fab but much more boring.

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

Well good for her, she will soon be moaning when it dries up as she hasn't answered anyone. Really what's the point of being on here if you don't reply to people. I try to reply to everyone wether it yes or no. Only message?s I don't answer are if the profile pic is a cock pic but even then if there's a good message I will look at profile and answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why they boast on how many messages they get. What do they want, a pride of Britain award?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand why they boast on how many messages they get. What do they want, a pride of Britain award?"

I don't think they boast, just something to let people know that their message is unlikely to be read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few women messaging me at one time on another site and it became a bit of a chore. Put me off login in.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Local Updates is full of status's like that. 90% fake, will be unlos soon I'm sure.

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away

"Don't care, I don't message people who just joined, everyone does that..."

Me neither, too many are bombarded with messages and scared off within a day or two of joining.

And what's wrong with repeat meets?

Sounds like it's a last resort?

When I was on here before, I met almost all my meets, a number of times, usually each better than the last.

.....Oh it's too hot for this, I'm off for a cold beer in the garden too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thought when I see such statuses is 'why don't you try reading a few of them then'

I appreciate that ladies are often inundated, especially when they first join up.

It would seem that when a lady first joins fab, there is a flock of guys who bombard her with messages even though she may have no pictures or description.

I usually wait until they've been here a while, but even then, if they haven't bothered to upload any pictures or written something about themselves, I feel there's very little to go on and it's difficult to know what they're looking for or if they're someone who will appeal to me.

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