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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I know this has been discussed many times but I'm new.

Reading the forums is fun, some topics funny some more serious but one thing that seems to filter through is the amount of abuse people say they get.....I find it shocking personally.

Yes there are rude people on here but plese if you send a message or wink and they delete it without coming back or if they come back and say no.......take that as it is.

I am not everyone's cup of tea or coffee but neither is everyone else mine and yes it's deflated me when people say no but maybe my polite rejection did the same to someone else so I take it on the chin and get on because you know why......I'm an ADULT. What makes people think that by kicking off the other person is going to say..."hey I've changed my mind your a lovely person".....get a f**king grip!!

So for the ranty tone and waffle

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Cool story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a tiny percentage of people use the forums so your advice will fall on deaf ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, I know this has been discussed many times but I'm new.

Reading the forums is fun, some topics funny some more serious but one thing that seems to filter through is the amount of abuse people say they get.....I find it shocking personally.

Yes there are rude people on here but plese if you send a message or wink and they delete it without coming back or if they come back and say no.......take that as it is.

I am not everyone's cup of tea or coffee but neither is everyone else mine and yes it's deflated me when people say no but maybe my polite rejection did the same to someone else so I take it on the chin and get on because you know why......I'm an ADULT. What makes people think that by kicking off the other person is going to say..."hey I've changed my mind your a lovely person".....get a f**king grip!!

So for the ranty tone and waffle "
hey if this rant is something related to the forums then somehow one would think the stated ' abuse' in whatever form it comes was requiring comment otherwise why mention it ,like you say we all have different opinions on things and some people love to get personal its just something in their nature ,people who come here the forums love to give advice not all but some ,some come to advertise themselves ,some to get attention ,some just to have a laugh ,occasionally threads are started that really irritate the masses the bareback one is a recent one that comes to mind and remember condoms break they are not foolproof and STDs can be caught from kissing and close sexual encounters ,you can't please alla the people alla the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alas, not everyone thinks like you, OP! It'd be nice if they did though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people with overly precious sensitivities would do well too consider whether internet profile based contact sites are the right environment for them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent post, OP

Unfortunately, as said earlier, I read on some thread that less than 2% of the members read the forums, so alas ...

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excellent post, OP

Unfortunately, as said earlier, I read on some thread that less than 2% of the members read the forums, so alas ...

- Mrs. J -"
yes and only 1% read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a tiny percentage of people use the forums so your advice will fall on deaf ears. "

Well aren't we Miss Glass half empty this morning

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Knew there was a reason I like you OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I very rarely get abuse and I also very rarely read/reply to my messages. I just bulk delete weekly. Don't know why?

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I very rarely get abuse and I also very rarely read/reply to my messages. I just bulk delete weekly. Don't know why?

PTU xxx"
tease

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Knew there was a reason I like you OP! "

Stop it!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Excellent post, OP

Unfortunately, as said earlier, I read on some thread that less than 2% of the members read the forums, so alas ...

- Mrs. J -"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well said "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hero "

Cheers cupcake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I very rarely get abuse and I also very rarely read/reply to my messages. I just bulk delete weekly. Don't know why?

PTU xxxtease"
xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a mixed bag here, Why let people get to you that you don't know ... I get a lot of mail , And I don't mail everyone back as it takes a lot of time and at times I just don't feel like it . I come here but 9 out of 10 I have loads to do . A lot are not real on fab loads playing games, As some get off on just doing that here . So don't take it to heart as a lot not worth it op. x jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a tiny percentage of people use the forums so your advice will fall on deaf ears.

Well aren't we Miss Glass half empty this morning "

Just keeping it real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a tiny percentage of people use the forums so your advice will fall on deaf ears. "

And out of that small percentage 5% Are rude or not nice ... thick skin and smile away

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