FabSwingers.com forum: Stand out male profiles...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning fab peeps...mainly aimed at the ladies of fab. We all know man out number woman on here, so was wondering what makes the successful male profiles stand out? Ie certain types of photos, content of bio or verifications...or have I just answered my own question? That said there are some profiles who don't seem to have much of the about ie not even one pic, that seem to be incredibly successful when it comes to meets. I must point out I'm not looking for multiple veris as my profile states, just curious.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The answer is nothing and everything. Everyone is different so what a lady might like from one profile, the next lady might not. You can't please everyone and if you try, you'll please no one. Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The answer is nothing and everything. Everyone is different so what a lady might like from one profile, the next lady might not. You can't please everyone and if you try, you'll please no one. Just be yourself. "

Poetic! Thanks buddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning fab peeps...mainly aimed at the ladies of fab. We all know man out number woman on here, so was wondering what makes the successful male profiles stand out? Ie certain types of photos, content of bio or verifications...or have I just answered my own question? That said there are some profiles who don't seem to have much of the about ie not even one pic, that seem to be incredibly successful when it comes to meets. I must point out I'm not looking for multiple veris as my profile states, just curious. "
youre curious? Oh well that reduces interest from women normally

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only make very vague and general observations, but the 'successful' single guy profiles I see are guys who go to a lot of socials and clubs.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Copy mine, you'll go far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I like a profile that shows some wit and humour (but not overtly crass) or some genuine vulnerability/openness which makes the chap feel more rounded/less daunting, and where his personality shows through. If I'm moved to laugh my snark or wit, or moved by genuine feeling then you've started my mind to connect. If my mind is tickled, and then you've some decent pics (which is a broad area but mostly means you took care and made the pics look appealing) then I'm intrigued.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I like a profile that shows some wit and humour (but not overtly crass) or some genuine vulnerability/openness which makes the chap feel more rounded/less daunting, and where his personality shows through. If I'm moved to laugh my snark or wit, or moved by genuine feeling then you've started my mind to connect. If my mind is tickled, and then you've some decent pics (which is a broad area but mostly means you took care and made the pics look appealing) then I'm intrigued. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have one of my favourite bios... x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick. "

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick.

Even got my you're right. One less dick mark on me

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick.

Even got my you're right. One less dick mark on me

Say what?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick.

Even got my you're right. One less dick mark on me

Say what? "

Nevermind, was attempting humour. My grammar is usually terrible.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Well yours would appeal to me op! Ever considered relocating to the North West?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick.

Even got my you're right. One less dick mark on me

Say what?

Nevermind, was attempting humour. My grammar is usually terrible. "

I got you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that advice applies to any profile, not just single guys.

Too much self deprecating is a turn off. But when see profiles where people bang on how awesome they are, we just move on.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick.

Even got my you're right. One less dick mark on me

Say what?

Nevermind, was attempting humour. My grammar is usually terrible.

I got you!

If I could blow a kiss.

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

Just out of long term relationship.

Been on several times befor .

It says alot .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris.

Women are more social and need more social confirmation : the man is a worthy man, set apart from the other scum because Jenny and her bingo wings left a veri and said so. Even if Jenny is a rotter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris.

Women are more social and need more social confirmation : the man is a worthy man, set apart from the other scum because Jenny and her bingo wings left a veri and said so. Even if Jenny is a rotter."

I take veris with a pinch of salt. They wouldn't be why I'd think a particular profile was good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veris.

Women are more social and need more social confirmation : the man is a worthy man, set apart from the other scum because Jenny and her bingo wings left a veri and said so. Even if Jenny is a rotter.

I take veris with a pinch of salt. They wouldn't be why I'd think a particular profile was good.

Reliable veris then. It's well documented in the big five personality traits. Women require more confirmation from the group. Simon Baron Cohen has even compared autism and associated traits to be an extreme "male brain"

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"I can only make very vague and general observations, but the 'successful' single guy profiles I see are guys who go to a lot of socials and clubs. "

Really?

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"It has very little to do with a profile a and a lot to do with reputation. Words mean nothing if in person you're a dick.

I LOVE this thread.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Veris.

Women are more social and need more social confirmation : the man is a worthy man, set apart from the other scum because Jenny and her bingo wings left a veri and said so. Even if Jenny is a rotter.

I take veris with a pinch of salt. They wouldn't be why I'd think a particular profile was good.

How about a recommendation from a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define success?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is looking for something slightly different. What do you think your profile lacks OP?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

An intriguing avatar, sexy pictures (not that say 'hey, look at my cock') a friendly profile that has humour and no cliches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your pics do the talking for you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice of mine, it is just copied and pasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will be a short thread I reckon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teasing pictures. Smart funny profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This will be a short thread I reckon!"

Not as short as single males profile

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