FabSwingers.com forum: Vicious circle

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I would welcome some advice please, vicious circle here, as a single male no one is interested until I've been verified, but no one will meet until unless I've been verified if that makes sense!! Very frustrating x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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Get yer arse to a club, or go on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried attending socials or parties and getting verified by people you've met that way? My veris so far come from people I've met on a social basis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visit a club or get to a party... simple xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I haven't I'm a bit new to the scene so very nervous, thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you mean the cam on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you mean the cam on here??"

aww huni dont be nervy..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can't help it LOL

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Do you mean the cam on here??"

Yeah, or put yerself down for a social. There's usually one around your neck of the woods. Just be polite and I'm sure you will soon get a veri, maybe arrange a meet as well

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP i would recommend asking for profile advice. Most ladies (and couples for that matter) will look at your profile before deciding to talk to you.

All members start just like you with no verifications. Plenty of single men get meets and verifications - think to yourself "what are they doing that i'm not?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's really good advice, any chance you could all look at my profile any constructive criticism would be appreciated XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's really good advice, any chance you could all look at my profile any constructive criticism would be appreciated XX"
one cock pic is not good and it's not clear if you're still married or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body.and Face pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok,i'm not too comfortable putting face pics up, but will definitely add some body pics x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being verified isn't like a magic key, you still have to appeal to the people you want to meet, but getting that first one is good, kinda gets you off the mark as it were. if your nervy, try a social, you get to meet in person in a no play/pressure situation, quite probably get your veri and may even leave with a phone number or whatever

you'll get reams of ideas on here so pick and choose what suits, good luck

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?"

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok,i'm not too comfortable putting face pics up, but will definitely add some body pics x"
keep face photos private and just send to who you wish. Not many will.meet without seeing your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all I really appreciate the advice XX who knows maybe I may have some luck!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Thanks all I really appreciate the advice XX who knows maybe I may have some luck!!"

It's all about time and patience, get yerself known and all good things come to those who wait. It took me 7 months before I got my first meet on here, but it was well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send face photos and still get meets.

You definitely need more photos and something interesting to say in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social in your local area and chat with other members. Ask them to verify you based on the merits of your interaction?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

" no one is interested until I've been verified"

Not always case. I've met two newbies for a social this week. I must admit I'd prefer not to but they had an appealing profile, seemed to fit my preferences and were quite attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Brilliant advice thank you!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

First up OP always remember the three P's:

Profile - Write one that makes you stand out, reflects your personality and details what you're looking for, and more importantly what you think you can offer. Check out other single guy profiles for ideas of what might work.

Pictures - Have a range of pics that show off your body and not your cock, they don't have to be face pics, but torso or bum shots, or teasing ones are always good. Again check out other guys profiles for what might work.

Patience - You need plenty of it, the ratio of men to women here is around 15:1 possibly more, so take your time to write appealing messages that draw on a potential meets' own profile. Don't get too disheartened with lack of replies or messages deleted unread.

Next up consider attending clubs or socials which are a great way of getting to know people. Likewise get more involved in the forums, they're a great ice breaker and way of starting to chat to people and get a feel for their personalities.

Take any advice on board and act on it - too often single guys post threads like this one get lots of good advice and then are back several weeks later asking the same thing but haven't changed their profile one bit.

Finally, try and remain positive and don't start posting negative statuses or threads bemoaning your lack of meets.

Good luck

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Brilliant advice thank you!"

As long as you take it all on board and act on it, then hopefully you shouldn't have any problems.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe only having a dick pic is the reason and its not a very clear pic either and anyone can take a dick pic of the net so face is always your best bet I get lots of messages but unfortunately 90percent Anit my type but I'm gay so most probably easy for me than a straight guy but i dunno xxxx good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

i've spent a lot of time thinking about your clock too as it goes

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

i've spent a lot of time thinking about your clock too as it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

i've spent a lot of time thinking about your clock too as it goes

ya munching clockwomble ya! x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

i've spent a lot of time thinking about your clock too as it goes

ya munching clockwomble ya! x"

Chrsitos, have you got clock envy?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

i've spent a lot of time thinking about your clock too as it goes

ya munching clockwomble ya! x"

Insults I can accept, but I bet yours is no match for mine innit sis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

i've spent a lot of time thinking about your clock too as it goes

ya munching clockwomble ya! x

Chrsitos, have you got clock envy?

a little bit...between ace and flava flav, who's autobiography i've recently been reading, i'm feeling pretty inadequate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you, I'm Definitely single now, what picture should I put up?

Have a look at other guy's profiles on here. Partially clothed, bum, torso, or just wearing a pair of underwear of your choice usually gets the ladies juices flowing

definitely don't have one of your clock hanging out as a profile picture though

Awww bugger, let's face it, I spent a lot of time thinking about this one

i've spent a lot of time thinking about your clock too as it goes

ya munching clockwomble ya! x

Insults I can accept, but I bet yours is no match for mine innit sis

xx"

i refer you to my reply to lickety

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"i refer you to my reply to lickety

I have absolutely no idea who Flava Flav is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i refer you to my reply to lickety

I have absolutely no idea who Flava Flav is

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPNK0VspQ0M

the guy with the bbc (big black clock)

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"i refer you to my reply to lickety

I have absolutely no idea who Flava Flav is

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CPNK0VspQ0M

the guy with the bbc (big black clock)

Ah ok, a bit outta my zone. I'm more of a rock chick innit sis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best profiles are ones without cock pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All that advise and still not changed anything..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"All that advise and still not changed anything.. "

It rarely happens when single guys asks for profile advice to be honest, in stark contrast was the couples profile advice threads of a few months back, those who asked for it all made changes based on the recommendations made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met over 100 unverified guys in my time (social hot chocolate meets) verifications don't mean shit.

I wouldn't look at your profile and think oh he's definitely a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met over 100 unverified guys in my time (social hot chocolate meets) verifications don't mean shit.

I wouldn't look at your profile and think oh he's definitely a fake. "

Do you have shares in costa lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all I would welcome some advice please, vicious circle here, as a single male no one is interested until I've been verified, but no one will meet until unless I've been verified if that makes sense!! Very frustrating x"

There is no guarantee a verification will exponentially improve your success rate,,,

But best of luck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met over 100 unverified guys in my time (social hot chocolate meets) verifications don't mean shit.

I wouldn't look at your profile and think oh he's definitely a fake.

Do you have shares in costa lol"

I do have a Costa loyalty card and if a guy offers to pay for my hot chocolate I ask him to put the points on my card!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met over 100 unverified guys in my time (social hot chocolate meets) verifications don't mean shit.

I wouldn't look at your profile and think oh he's definitely a fake.

Do you have shares in costa lol

I do have a Costa loyalty card and if a guy offers to pay for my hot chocolate I ask him to put the points on my card!"

I'd let you have my points I might even buy a cake to go with my brew

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