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"Not annoying OP but generally just ignored? I only clicked this as I was hopeful of some deep introspection." Yeah, that's the type of thread I was hoping for. Oh well. | |||
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"I haven't even noticed, but I'm not the observant type " Can't say I noticed ether | |||
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"Am I annoying?? Yes I thought so " You think, therefore you are. | |||
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"Am I annoying??" op has someone personally said this to you in a private message....? i will only share my thoughts on the subject if this is the case. | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all." No one has said you're boring OP. Just repetitive. People do and will talk. You're free to post what you want, people are free to respond or not as they want. | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all." Getting everyone chatting is a good thing, but the encouragement to do it via pm all of the time defeats the object of a forum where everyone chats to each other anyway. | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all." Try not to take it too personally- just see it as feedback. Your enthusiasm is admirable just adjust your approach to temper it. I got burnt a few times in my early days on the forum being a bit over-enthusiastic and overly 'helpful'. It did sting a bit but when I came out of hiding again I changed my approach. I still get times when I get a bit carried away with an idea (pics being my latest lesson) but we just get a little wiser with the feedback. Hope to see you back to your chipper self soon. | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all." I wouldn't worry about what everyone else thinks. Everyone's going to have an opinion regardless. X | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all." op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . " to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered " Unlike you handson,nobody on this thread as been insulting,iv just rrad through it and there is not one derogatory comment | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . " This is quite funny as you had a go at me once over a forum post I started. | |||
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"Am I annoying??" The fab forums are very fickle and very thick skin is a good contraceptive | |||
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"I'll have a look at your threads and let you know." He's a nosey op | |||
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"I'll have a look at your threads and let you know. He's a nosey op " Sorry I got you mixed up with bread99 | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered " empathy i read the op original post and my first thought was someone has said something to the op that has upset him . now i personally would not post anything to reinforce or back up what may have been a personal attack on the op which may have lead to this post of his . | |||
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"I'll have a look at your threads and let you know. He's a nosey op Sorry I got you mixed up with bread99 " It's ok, it happens on here | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . This is quite funny as you had a go at me once over a forum post I started. " That says more about him than you. | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered empathy i read the op original post and my first thought was someone has said something to the op that has upset him . now i personally would not post anything to reinforce or back up what may have been a personal attack on the op which may have lead to this post of his . " Maybe he looked at how many threads he'd opened and thought "Blimey, I wonder if it's annoying to some". | |||
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"Not annoying OP but generally just ignored? I only clicked this as I was hopeful of some deep introspection." Same here really......back to sleep now | |||
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"empathy i read the op original post and my first thought was someone has said something to the op that has upset him . now i personally would not post anything to reinforce or back up what may have been a personal attack on the op which may have lead to this post of his" So... you made an assumption and then judged people based on it? | |||
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"I've noticed that you post a lot of threads but it doesn't annoy me, If it's a thread I don't want to get involved in I don't. Simple as that really. You carry on OP " You sad self important fucker giving a view like that! How could you? | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all." Mate don't worry about, most will be either nice or deliberately as rude as they can be be because it massages their egos.....the people who moan just burn them off.......it's good to talk that's what a forum is for!! | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered Unlike you handson,nobody on this thread as been insulting,iv just rrad through it and there is not one derogatory comment" really i could point out a few thinly negative snide comments in here with ease. he started the post with a avatar picture he removed it after a few posts why....? because no one said a kind word for the first five or six posts. if you can not see when someone needs a pick me up then i pity the people such people interact with in the real world because lack of empathy is a very very unattractive personality trait in my opinion . | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered Unlike you handson,nobody on this thread as been insulting,iv just rrad through it and there is not one derogatory comment really i could point out a few thinly negative snide comments in here with ease. he started the post with a avatar picture he removed it after a few posts why....? because no one said a kind word for the first five or six posts. if you can not see when someone needs a pick me up then i pity the people such people interact with in the real world because lack of empathy is a very very unattractive personality trait in my opinion . " To be honest with you i do have empathy but i believe the OP in the past has asked several times on this issue and clearly not taken any noticed. In my opinion don't ask the question if you are not prepared for the answers. Im not going to bullshit people just because thats what they may want to hear. If he is that delicate and precious over people's opinion then perhaps take a back burner. I normally avoid the OP's repetitive threads and others said similar. Forum is an open interaction with other and dont like the whole 'PM me a picture' thing.. | |||
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" To be honest with you i do have empathy but i believe the OP in the past has asked several times on this issue and clearly not taken any noticed. In my opinion don't ask the question if you are not prepared for the answers. Im not going to bullshit people just because thats what they may want to hear. " Thanks for calling out the expected shit. I have empathy also. However, if someone asks a question, I'll directly answer that question. I think that people can miscontrue the simplest of sentences to fit their own narrative of what that poster actually means. | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered Unlike you handson,nobody on this thread as been insulting,iv just rrad through it and there is not one derogatory comment really i could point out a few thinly negative snide comments in here with ease. he started the post with a avatar picture he removed it after a few posts why....? because no one said a kind word for the first five or six posts. if you can not see when someone needs a pick me up then i pity the people such people interact with in the real world because lack of empathy is a very very unattractive personality trait in my opinion . " So he removed is avatar so what? How old is he 14? He asked the question and didnt like the answers,what did he expect,iv seen far more vitriol knocking around in other threads than there has been in this thread | |||
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"I've noticed that you post a lot of threads but it doesn't annoy me, If it's a thread I don't want to get involved in I don't. Simple as that really. You carry on OP You sad self important fucker giving a view like that! How could you? " Soz | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . " What if nobody pm'd him or said anything nasty to him and they've just answered the question he asked, ever think of that or do you. Atyrakky assume the worst of people. | |||
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"Am I annoying??" Yep. Annoys the crap outta me when people don't know when to use 'too' instead of 'to' | |||
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"Am I annoying?? Yep. Annoys the crap outta me when people don't know when to use 'too' instead of 'to' " to right | |||
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"Am I annoying?? Yep. Annoys the crap outta me when people don't know when to use 'too' instead of 'to' to right " you just said that too be awkward | |||
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"Am I annoying?? Yep. Annoys the crap outta me when people don't know when to use 'too' instead of 'to' to right " Come on now Steve. We both know it is 'write' in this context. To write. | |||
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"Am I annoying??" m YES!!! But we love you and the place wouldn't be the same without you! (*and the 'mute' facility that us Platinum Members have is very useful!! ) | |||
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"Am I annoying?? Yep. Annoys the crap outta me when people don't know when to use 'too' instead of 'to' to right Come on now Steve. We both know it is 'write' in this context. To write." Write. That's it. Forum spelling police have been called. Your taking it to far this time | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered Unlike you handson,nobody on this thread as been insulting,iv just rrad through it and there is not one derogatory comment really i could point out a few thinly negative snide comments in here with ease. he started the post with a avatar picture he removed it after a few posts why....? because no one said a kind word for the first five or six posts. if you can not see when someone needs a pick me up then i pity the people such people interact with in the real world because lack of empathy is a very very unattractive personality trait in my opinion . So he removed is avatar so what? How old is he 14? He asked the question and didnt like the answers,what did he expect,iv seen far more vitriol knocking around in other threads than there has been in this thread" oh my god your justifying bet you would justify kicking a three legged dog to if you was called out over the action . | |||
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"No, just samey. I can't get annoyed by repeated threads, not worth the effort. I just tend to ignore them. " | |||
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"And if people are a little irritated or annoyed by the OP's repeated threads, he may well get a better and warmer response from the forum in general by backing off a bit and joining in other people's threads instead. That would be my advice for HIS benefit. " | |||
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"And if people are a little irritated or annoyed by the OP's repeated threads, he may well get a better and warmer response from the forum in general by backing off a bit and joining in other people's threads instead. That would be my advice for HIS benefit. " shouldn't this really only be directed at those that find his post annoying to ......? a post clearly blaming the victim and telling the victim its your own thought how others choose to view you and behave towards you . I've got news for you victim blaming is a bullies first line of defence and the first way they try to justify there behaviour when you question a bully about there actions . | |||
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"And if people are a little irritated or annoyed by the OP's repeated threads, he may well get a better and warmer response from the forum in general by backing off a bit and joining in other people's threads instead. That would be my advice for HIS benefit. shouldn't this really only be directed at those that find his post annoying to ......? a post clearly blaming the victim and telling the victim its your own thought how others choose to view you and behave towards you . I've got news for you victim blaming is a bullies first line of defence and the first way they try to justify there behaviour when you question a bully about there actions . " Nope, I've read it twice and it still makes no sense. | |||
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"All I was trying to do is have friendly threads and get people chatting to each other,yes some of them were pointless I understand that but they were ment in good faith,I've never said a bad word against anybody,sorry for boring you all. op don't let the sad self important fuckers on here who think they can tell another human being what and what they cant do or post in a public forum upset you . i see you have removed your profile picture if you thinking of leaving please don't over the action of a few or maybe one very nasty individual who clearly has issues they are taking out on you because their a sad fucker with a sad fucking life . to be fair the OP asked a question and a few of us answered Unlike you handson,nobody on this thread as been insulting,iv just rrad through it and there is not one derogatory comment really i could point out a few thinly negative snide comments in here with ease. he started the post with a avatar picture he removed it after a few posts why....? because no one said a kind word for the first five or six posts. if you can not see when someone needs a pick me up then i pity the people such people interact with in the real world because lack of empathy is a very very unattractive personality trait in my opinion . So he removed is avatar so what? How old is he 14? He asked the question and didnt like the answers,what did he expect,iv seen far more vitriol knocking around in other threads than there has been in this thread oh my god your justifying bet you would justify kicking a three legged dog to if you was called out over the action . " three legged dogs are quite content I will have you know | |||
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"Am I annoying??" you dont annoy me I dont know you ,how could you annoy me ,have fun and don't worry how others view you | |||
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