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"Is there such a thing as responsible listening? Let me start by making clear that this question has nothing to do with those who incites hatred, intentionally offend or do not care one way or the other whether they offend. But.....what about when someone who is attempting to engage in debate or conversation in good faith with absolutely no intention of offending or insulting anyone, says something that YOU take as being offensive. This could be because of their lack of awareness, lack of knowledge or just plain ignorance. The point is they would be oblivious that they have caused offence. I appreciate in these circumstances you have been offended by what the person has said, but to be offended you must have decided to 'take offence'. If the offender is genuinely oblivious, what responsibility if any do you have?" There is such a thing as 'active listening'...used in counselling and psychotherapy. That obviously applies to actual listening though, not the medium of web forums. Maybe 'responsible reading' could be more appropriate? Always the same with forums...many people 'scan' the contents of a thread/post, see the part that they disagree with and fail to respond in context and having taken into account the full content. | |||
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