FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Everything needs balance: fat thin black white hot cold real fake

That's why. Anyway, if it's half then it's me and you and I'm real, so, with elegant logic......

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Stick to the well verified ones.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Use filters and go on cam live before meeting, to help validate people. Otherwise expect to chat prospectively with many more people than you'll ever meet - that's to be expected.

Report inappropriate users to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything needs balance: fat thin black white hot cold real fake

That's why. Anyway, if it's half then it's me and you and I'm real, so, with elegant logic......"

What about 3 of us? This is why I do t have face pics. My face is fake, the rest of me is real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick to the well verified ones. "

If you can get verified that is.......

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is......."

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal opinion is simple ....

I see very little benefit for any individual publicly announcing they attract the attention of timewasters or bemoan how they've repeatedly failed to identify the sort of behaviour potential timewasters engage in before entering prolonged communication with them....

That's all I've got ..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"My personal opinion is simple ....

That's all I've got ..

You've bloody wasted 3 seconds of my life reading that!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

A timewaster is someone who arranges a time n place but doesn't turn up.

You are getting loads of people who don't show? Then maybe you need to look at how you choose your potential play mates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal opinion is simple ....

That's all I've got ..

You've bloody wasted 3 seconds of my life reading that!

Is that proof there's one born every day.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult. "

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"

Mainly because the site is free to join and use. Use the usual caveats about chatting to, and meeting people, and all will be well

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never encountered a time waster, that I know of. Everyone who arranges to meet, shows up.

Is that weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define a timewaster ?

If you chat with somebody at length and then suddenly decide they don't want to take it any further, that's not a timewaster.

A timewaster is somebody who leads you up the garden path, there is a big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?"

After sending over 100 well scripted messages, all individually written. I get deleted. I am happy to meet for socials, take people out for meals, happy to chat. Etc, etc etc. Absolutely no joy. So back to my original statement. O yes it is.

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By *oodprincess69Woman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

Have you tried to get verified by going into the chatrooms and chatting on cam?

I hear that is a good way if you are struggling to get meets

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

You've only been here 5 weeks. You've realised the reality of triumph of hope over expectation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

You've only been here 5 weeks. You've realised the reality of triumph of hope over expectation. "

Previously I was on here for two years and gave up.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

You've only been here 5 weeks. You've realised the reality of triumph of hope over expectation.

Previously I was on here for two years and gave up.

Oh. Didn't you get any meets in 2 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to an organised social, or a club meet, or go on cam to chat to someone and hey presto, a veri!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

Would some more relaxed photo's help ? Three cock photo's are repetitive, and your cock wouldn't be taking the ladies out for dinner. Just sayin'

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Actually, don't answer that. You need to start your own thread on this as it's unfair to the Op to hijack is. Bad form, you know.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

Would some more relaxed photo's help ? Three cock photo's are repetitive, and your cock wouldn't be taking the ladies out for dinner. Just sayin'

I agree, but due to my job, I cannot put my face on here. So I have to be careful. Maybe no pics would be best .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you have a verifcation.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've blocked newbies. Most usually disappear in a day or two anyway; the ones who stay on are no longer newbies after a few days

We have also blocked unverified accounts and those without a profile photograph

Nor do we allow contact from non-site supporters. It is only £5 for 60 days and we think that someone who doesn't want to spend 8 pence per day is unlikely to ever meet us in a club

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

Would some more relaxed photo's help ? Three cock photo's are repetitive, and your cock wouldn't be taking the ladies out for dinner. Just sayin'

I agree, but due to my job, I cannot put my face on here. So I have to be careful. Maybe no pics would be best . "

You need to start your own thread.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"

Sorry op it's far to early for me.

yes there are time wasters on here but there are a lot of lovely genuine fabbers too.

PTU xxx

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe

"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"

No doubt the result of some extensive research. Based on your claim then if I know that my account is genuine then out of the two of us yours must be fake.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Seven years I've been on site. During that time not once have I encountered a time waster. As I don't require a total strangers opinion of who to fuck most of my meets have been unverified.

I'm self aware enough to recognise if something I keep doing isn't bearing fruit I'm the common denominator and doing something wrong. Moaning about others would be the easy option for those unable to take personal responsibility.

Just a thought.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"My personal opinion is simple ....

That's all I've got ..

...indeed!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"A timewaster is someone who arranges a time n place but doesn't turn up.

You are getting loads of people who don't show? Then maybe you need to look at how you choose your potential play mates."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've never encountered a time waster, that I know of. Everyone who arranges to meet, shows up.

Is that weird?"

No...my experience too...not hard is it, and I could only dream of having your figure.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I ask them a couple of questions:

A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,

B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?

Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.

It's good to have a fool proof method on place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy and free wank material.

It's easy and free to find people to make money from, by taking them off site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them a couple of questions:

A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,

B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?

Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.

It's good to have a fool proof method on place. "

Blue....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I ask them a couple of questions:

A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,

B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?

Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.

It's good to have a fool proof method on place.

Blue....

See? It works, get ya coat, pet, youse pulled big time.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Stick to the well verified ones.

If you can get verified that is.......

That's not difficult. It can take time but it's not difficult.

In true panto style - all together now:-

O yes it is.

Really? Why is that then?

Most will look at the profile first. Not one single public photo (doesn't have to be face, your right buttock would suffice), unable to accommodate will put people off as you've found. They won't open the message just delete without reading.

There's a glut of men here with pics, can accommodate...that's what you're up against I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask them a couple of questions:

A) Star Wars or Star Trek? And if they get the answer right, as to avoid luck,

B) what colour is the handle of Obi Wans Lightsaber?

Soon sorts the wheat from the chaff and the serious from the ne'er-do-wells.

It's good to have a fool proof method on place.

Blue....

See? It works, get ya coat, pet, youse pulled big time. "

Ah but who would win a naked wrestling match between Duncan from Blue and H from Steps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Iv met three people but not one has verified me ??????

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Met three people and not one has verified me

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Met three people and not one has verified me "
did you ask them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tenerife is maybe too far for most to travel to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm actually in Birmingham now

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'm actually in Birmingham now"
you could be accused of wasting people's time who want to meet a guy in Tenerife!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha tenerifes my holiday home I'm in uk all the time haha

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'm actually in Birmingham now you could be accused of wasting people's time who want to meet a guy in Tenerife!

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By *r-Cum-AgainMan
over a year ago

Whitefield

With a body that you have I can see why nobody waste your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"

Define a timewaster?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Why are there so many time wasters on here half the accounts are fake ??"

Oh my you're pretty, are you fake?

If only I could be arsed reverse image searching you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus he's pretty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *xxx40Woman
over a year ago

chester

"Stick to the well verified ones. "

I'm not well verified, does not mean I'm

Fake tho x

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By *xxx40Woman
over a year ago

chester

"Haha tenerifes my holiday home I'm in uk all the time haha"

Does that mean your fake then?

You have Tenerife as where you live but live in U.K.?!

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By *aughty_kittyWoman
over a year ago

finger licking good

I been called fake loads of times today, i don't care

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