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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why are women more understanding than men I have found a great woman on here but this past week I've been a total pain in the ass yet she is still with me she is a rock to me i can talk about anything and everything with her no boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they is daft init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make sure she knows how much you appreciate her and try no to be a pain in the ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's in their genes to be that way, maternal instinct to mother and look after people. Some have a stronger instinct than others, mother Teresa and Myra hindley are probably good examples of either end of the scale.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

We is angels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She won't put up with it for long though. I went 6 months putting up with an arse then one day I realised I was worth more then that. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why op. I don't understand them.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I used to be .....but ive become wiser now .... some men are idiots....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some men are worth taking the rough with the smooth. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you all for taking time to read and post in this thread i appreciate it god bless you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends how much of a pain you've been and how long you're like it!

It's good that you recognise it but she'll only tolerate it for so long! Good behaviour now!

I would think men and women can do the whole 'give and take' thing to a degree. Solid friendships / relationships are built on the realisation that we all have our flaws and to tolerate them - to a point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some men are worth taking the rough with the smooth. X "

Very very true ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some men are worth taking the rough with the smooth. X "

You are so right angie. There are some good men out there and when you find one you do anything to keep them happy because they make you happy...... Morning angie XX

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"why are women more understanding than men I have found a great woman on here but this past week I've been a total pain in the ass yet she is still with me she is a rock to me i can talk about anything and everything with her no boundaries "

I hope you've told her this.

People, not just women, will tolerate bad times as long as the good times are worth it (I'm not including abusive relationships in this).

You seem a little surprised she's hung around, don't push your luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some men are worth taking the rough with the smooth. X

You are so right angie. There are some good men out there and when you find one you do anything to keep them happy because they make you happy...... Morning angie XX "

Good morning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some men are worth taking the rough with the smooth. X

You are so right angie. There are some good men out there and when you find one you do anything to keep them happy because they make you happy...... Morning angie XX "

Good morning x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"She won't put up with it for long though. I went 6 months putting up with an arse then one day I realised I was worth more then that. X"

That is so true. I spent 10 years being understanding. These days i'm far less tolerant of guys being an asshole and would walk after a couple of months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She won't put up with it for long though. I went 6 months putting up with an arse then one day I realised I was worth more then that. X

That is so true. I spent 10 years being understanding. These days i'm far less tolerant of guys being an asshole and would walk after a couple of months."

It's such a breath of fresh air when out of a relationship like that. Why is it though that the guy is always so surprised when we finally find our voice to end it. I heard all the bullshit telling me he would change but at that point I was over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men are worth it and they have to put up with our crap too so it's a 50/50 deal .

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