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By *hubaysi OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I was messaged yesterday by a young man asking if I could meet yesterday, I could not. Today he messaged again could I meet today, I could not. Then he asked when so I said I was unsure. He then asked me for an agenda of what I would be doing for the following week. He wanted a detailed list. I did not appreciate this.

Have any other members been asked this kind of request?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

No, it sounds quite intrusive.

You could have said that a week on Wednesday you'd be attending a "how to successfully interact socially"'training course and would he be attending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was messaged yesterday by a young man asking if I could meet yesterday, I could not. Today he messaged again could I meet today, I could not. Then he asked when so I said I was unsure. He then asked me for an agenda of what I would be doing for the following week. He wanted a detailed list. I did not appreciate this.

Have any other members been asked this kind of request?

"

yes.. to many pushy guyson here .. ive blocked them for now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was messaged yesterday by a young man asking if I could meet yesterday, I could not. Today he messaged again could I meet today, I could not. Then he asked when so I said I was unsure. He then asked me for an agenda of what I would be doing for the following week. He wanted a detailed list. I did not appreciate this.

Have any other members been asked this kind of request?

"
nope never

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

On a course all this week...,

.... how to win friends and influence people

So far we've learnt about blocking folk, but not tested it till now. Oops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, you are entitled to not even reply if you wish so. But the best response would be a nice version of you're not my type and I don't want to meet you.

Followed next by blocking if this continues, or if they are really rude just block and report.

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