FabSwingers.com forum: I dont meet asians.........

By *i fem hunters OP Couple
over a year ago

london

But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a confused manner as I have no Asian heritage

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No idea, I don't have that on my profile nor do I have asian heritage.

Just Asian friends

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

More than likely..

I don't meet racists

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

I'd tell 'em no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

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if I were you I wouldn't go to meet I mean they may change their mind when youre en route

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet racists should do it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

Delete and block probably.

Nita

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I would post, define Asians, but I can't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asian is a vast and diverse continent.. there is a clear distinction culturally and ethnically between south and east.

People are entitled to their preferences but it'd be better for the person to define which Asians they're not interested in rather than unilaterally exclude an entire continent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like these kind of messages personally, it feels like they're being sympathetic or something

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

Thats ok, we dont meet Twats but you could be an exception to the rule .

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

Tell them to get stuffed, maybe

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Tell them to fuck off maybe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say, 'you don't meet me, then'.

I HATE that.

'You're not like the others. You're alright.' I've had it all my life. Like it's a compliment!

I'm not like the others. I am the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

i meet every single person who messages me, buy your the exception to the rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks, but i already have one arsehole in my pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asian is a vast and diverse continent.. there is a clear distinction culturally and ethnically between south and east.

People are entitled to their preferences but it'd be better for the person to define which Asians they're not interested in rather than unilaterally exclude an entire continent."

Totally agree

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

On Fab "don't meet Asians" almost always means brown skinned people so you figure the rest. By the way some of the best people I know and have met are brown skinned Asians so racism is down right stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say "And you're not meeting this one either" with a big smiley face to sign off with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If someone has made the effort to update their profile with information, it is respectful to acknowledge that and behave accordingly.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

I'd say "wtf, we're not asian, we're fat"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen many men shave there heads and pretend to be well let's say mixed race...and called themselves adam

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Meet them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Oh, I get something similar to this! I just smile and type 'No thank you'. If it's really horrible language used in stating their 'preference', I block.

Normally they say 'Oh we just meant the men'.

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By *rSuave88Man
over a year ago

Mirfield

Id respond with 2 fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have a choice on here. No single guys. No over 45. If they say no asians then that just sits in the same box. I have sent messages to several asians and get deleted. I also get muslim only. BBC only. Etc.

I believe in true equality all people are people. I love diversity and inclusion. Just a shame not all people are the same.

I see people and personality- not size, age, sex, skin colour, religion, or race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???"
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Who the fuck feels the need to write that..

Its surely just a given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???.

Who the fuck feels the need to write that..

Its surely just a given

That seemed to be the feeling I was getting too, think some people must feel the need to really make it even harder for us ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not Asian but as racism happens agaist White people too these days (like in Rochdale with those Muslim groomers regarding white women as filthy Kaffirs) I'll answer from that perspective : I wouldn't even reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would explain that not being desperate I don't need to compromise....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???.

Who the fuck feels the need to write that..

Its surely just a given

That seemed to be the feeling I was getting too, think some people must feel the need to really make it even harder for us ha ha"
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I like Scousers, there salt of the earth rough diamond types!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not Asian but as racism happens agaist White people too these days (like in Rochdale with those Muslim groomers regarding white women as filthy Kaffirs) I'll answer from that perspective : I wouldn't even reply."

Yes, it's just so hard being a white person these days!

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

More than likely..

I don't meet racists "

I couldn't fuck a racist

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

Yes, it's just so hard being a white person these days!

Don't be daft lol we are all equal. Juat a minority fucking it up for all of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???.

Who the fuck feels the need to write that..

Its surely just a given

That seemed to be the feeling I was getting too, think some people must feel the need to really make it even harder for us ha ha.

I like Scousers, there salt of the earth rough diamond types!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I'd say, 'you don't meet me, then'.

I HATE that.

'You're not like the others. You're alright.' I've had it all my life. Like it's a compliment!

I'm not like the others. I am the others.

Ditto this!

I'm often told I'm not like 'the other' women on fab! A lot of women on fab are friends of mine! It's never a remark that goes down well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People have a choice on here. No single guys. No over 45. If they say no asians then that just sits in the same box. I have sent messages to several asians and get deleted. I also get muslim only. BBC only. Etc.

I believe in true equality all people are people. I love diversity and inclusion. Just a shame not all people are the same.

I see people and personality- not size, age, sex, skin colour, religion, or race.

You are only allowed be choosy with certain groups. You know this. In fact, talking shit about certain demographics is ingrained into the cultural fabric of FAB. "Why do single men do this?..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's just so hard being a white person these days!

Actually, most a of the a homeless are indigenous

a men and those performing worst in schools is working class white boys. Though, this will come as a shock to you because "whitey got it good" ...apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's just so hard being a white person these days!

Actually, most a of the a homeless are indigenous

a men and those performing worst in schools is working class white boys. Though, this will come as a shock to you because "whitey got it good" ...apparently.

Oh, it doesn't come as a shock, don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???.

Who the fuck feels the need to write that..

Its surely just a given

That seemed to be the feeling I was getting too, think some people must feel the need to really make it even harder for us ha ha.

I like Scousers, there salt of the earth rough diamond types!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

Delete and block.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Opening myself up to abuse here. Neverertheless in i go with my tin hat on.

I have a preference for white girls. Always have always will. However i have seen some stunning asian ladies and also some stunning black ladies. There will always be someone who comes along that is outside your normal criteria that is just too good to pass up if you have the chance. I dont follow that you cant make exceptions from time to time. Yeah ok i probably wouldnt put no asians on my profile so its kind of a mute point i suppose. But thats what people do and i recall posts from the past where the general feeling has been thats fine its your preference. I dont agree it makes someone a twat or an arsehole if they break their own rule from time to time.

Just my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

North or south asia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love how every one is getting offended telling them to say fuck off etc.

Yet not one would bat an eye lid at the incredibly common line "not looking for single males unless you're exceptional".

I dont see the problem with the position at all.

They don't normally fancy asian people but they do the op.

I dont nornally fancy blokes except for the odd exceptional one should they be offended cause I dont shag a load of ugly blokes before them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???.

Who the fuck feels the need to write that..

Its surely just a given

That seemed to be the feeling I was getting too, think some people must feel the need to really make it even harder for us ha ha.

I like Scousers, there salt of the earth rough diamond types!

Question is who did they nick that uncut diamond off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive just seen 'dont meet scousers' on a profile!

Wtf is the world coming to???.

Who the fuck feels the need to write that..

Its surely just a given

That seemed to be the feeling I was getting too, think some people must feel the need to really make it even harder for us ha ha.

I like Scousers, there salt of the earth rough diamond types!

Question is who did they nick that uncut diamond off though."
stereotyping is very annoying!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say, 'you don't meet me, then'.

I HATE that.

'You're not like the others. You're alright.' I've had it all my life. Like it's a compliment!

I'm not like the others. I am the others.

I just saw your pics, I wouldn't say "you're not like the others" I would say " like no other " god Damn woman you beautiful, and I'm not one to dive in and say something like that, but you are the type of women that makes me glad to be a man x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy Asian lady delights....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non Asian brown skin here - I'll just take what I can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand how having a preference automatically makes you racist.

I don't meet black men wither does that make me racist against myself or?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Limiting yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ignore their message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it racist to say don't meet Asians I don't meet bisexual men does that mean I'm homophobic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it racist to say don't meet Asians I don't meet bisexual men does that mean I'm homophobic "

Do you message bisexual men to tell them you don't meet them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's opinionated these days and everyone's an idealist...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand how having a preference automatically makes you racist.

I don't meet black men wither does that make me racist against myself or?"

Why dose everyone jump straight in with racisam as the answer to everything..

Many many profiles on here state will only meet black men.. by the Sam rational dose that not make them racist against all others ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it racist to say don't meet Asians I don't meet bisexual men does that mean I'm homophobic

Do you message bisexual men to tell them you don't meet them ?"
no because there not what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it racist to say don't meet Asians I don't meet bisexual men does that mean I'm homophobic

Do you message bisexual men to tell them you don't meet them ?no because there not what I'm looking for "

So what was the intent behind your post ?

The OP established they were contacted by someone who indicated they did not normally meet Asians ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asian ladies....

Not many around unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd meet Indians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the sexy woman tho

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"Don't worry, you still don't meet Asians, love"

Don't understand how people's preference can disregard an entire continent of people.

As the original post suggested, this person does fancy some Asians, so why make a point of saying they don't meet Asians in the first place.

I don't fancy all women, but I don't discount all females because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how every one is getting offended telling them to say fuck off etc.

Yet not one would bat an eye lid at the incredibly common line "not looking for single males unless you're exceptional".

I dont see the problem with the position at all.

They don't normally fancy asian people but they do the op.

I dont nornally fancy blokes except for the odd exceptional one should they be offended cause I dont shag a load of ugly blokes before them?"

Stating that you're looking for exceptional guys is not the same as stating you're not into blacks or Asians. Being exceptional is subjective.

The rejection of people based on ethnicity has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't understand how having a preference automatically makes you racist.

I don't meet black men wither does that make me racist against myself or?"

I'm with you!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don't want to meet anyone from North Korea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how every one is getting offended telling them to say fuck off etc.

Yet not one would bat an eye lid at the incredibly common line "not looking for single males unless you're exceptional".

I dont see the problem with the position at all.

They don't normally fancy asian people but they do the op.

I dont nornally fancy blokes except for the odd exceptional one should they be offended cause I dont shag a load of ugly blokes before them?

Stating that you're looking for exceptional guys is not the same as stating you're not into blacks or Asians. Being exceptional is subjective.

The rejection of people based on ethnicity has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion. "

^^^ this. Feeling the need to express such a preference may not be overtly racist but it does look it.

If people are happy to be seen as such that's up to them.

I just think I'm unlikely to get on with someone happy to appear prejudiced and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive heard the term "you are different from others" so many times in my 42 years i just take it with a pinch of salt. If someone wants to chat i will happily chat to them and the from my own opinion if it will lead to anything more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not overly fond of humans at the moment, so don't care if someone else does or doesn't like people from one continent more or less than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But youre an exceptional to the rule... how would you respond?

The exact same was as I respond to a females profile that says ' I don't meet single men but you're an exception to the rule'. I won't and simply wish them all the best and just pass over. Too many piss takers and players on fab to get caught messaging and finding out they're not what the say they are.

It's born out of having had two no shows from responding to simular messages.

I may loose out as I know there are some ladies who get hundreds of messages and so they now filter out single men and search themselves. I just accept that as potentially my loss but then again there are many more to search for, message, chat and meet.

It's a risk they take and I'm sure there are many guys who'll respond differently so they don't loose out much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love how every one is getting offended telling them to say fuck off etc.

Yet not one would bat an eye lid at the incrediblarey common line "not looking for single males unless you're exceptional".

I dont see the problem with the position at all.

They don't normally fancy asian people but they do the op.

I dont nornally fancy blokes except for the odd exceptional one should they be offended cause I dont shag a load of ugly blokes before them?

Stating that you're looking for exceptional guys is not the same as stating you're not into blacks or Asians. Being exceptional is subjective.

The rejection of people based on ethnicity has been happening for a long time, and whether you state it as preference, it still looks incredibly bigoted and small-minded - in my opinion. "
people disciminate blondes and reds too

bur thats a hush hush

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

" people disciminate blondes and reds too

bur thats a hush hush

I'm yet to see anyone with a profile stating "I don't meet blondes", some people have a preference for ladies with a certain look, but that's not the same as discrimination.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Preference" pops up again lol

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

""Preference" pops up again lol"

Do you suggest that everyone should just have sex with whoever's asking?

Does not wanting to have sex with blokes or TV/TS's make me predjudiced too?

Personally, I've no preferences for skin colour, country of origin, or religion. Everyone is entitled to decide who they won't have sex with though.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Preference" pops up again lol

Do you suggest that everyone should just have sex with whoever's asking?

Does not wanting to have sex with blokes or TV/TS's make me predjudiced too?

Personally, I've no preferences for skin colour, country of origin, or religion. Everyone is entitled to decide who they won't have sex with though.

Cal"

Or even to socialise with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Returning member - when here before I met several ladies who's 'preference' was white only, but they still met me as I had engaged then in the correct way/ manner.

For a majority of people it is a non-attraction to Indian men - I get that

But some have been put off by past meets with idiots, I simply restore faith.

Be attentive, be yourself, be the best you can be. Ignore the colour of my skin, ignore the stereotypes, open your mind.

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