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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold " i don't know about it being funny in that way but it certainly is full some very negative behaviour of late in my opinion . | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold " It changes. Have patience. | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold It changes. Patience is the key. " FTFY | |||
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" Still here in the corner Get out that's my corner " I'll be over in the wank corner with my clipboard making sure people aren't having too much fun | |||
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"It's a place I come to read what's on peoples' minds. There are positive, negative and neutral comments; none of which I take to heart. " | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold It changes. Patience is the key. FTFY " Damn. I couldn't even get that right today. | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold It changes. Patience is the key. FTFY Damn. I couldn't even get that right today. " That is right, patience is the key lol. | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold i don't know about it being funny in that way but it certainly is full some very negative behaviour of late in my opinion .I guess it depends how you see it or just ignore the negative ones." When does big brother starts. That be good to watch? | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold i don't know about it being funny in that way but it certainly is full some very negative behaviour of late in my opinion .I guess it depends how you see it or just ignore the negative ones. When does big brother starts. That be good to watch? " Shag is our local big brother expert. He'll know. | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold i don't know about it being funny in that way but it certainly is full some very negative behaviour of late in my opinion .I guess it depends how you see it or just ignore the negative ones. When does big brother starts. That be good to watch? Shag is our local big brother expert. He'll know. " Yes I am the expert to and you are right, it will be a good one to watch, in a week or so | |||
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" I also like to guess who will post and what they will post, I'm normally pretty good at it " | |||
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"It has its moments! I'm not on here very often, only if I'm bored. I'm generally too busy with work and life to be too bothered by it. Very occasionally will a thread take my fancy enough to post. I do love to sit back and watch to see how some turn out. I also like to guess who will post and what they will post, I'm normally pretty good at it " If there's a thread about penis size or rimming I'm usually on it. | |||
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"I think it's a forum. Not either of those descriptions. People make it what they want it to be generally. I do think it goes through cycles of being particularly bitchy and then sycophantic but meh. Do you think you add to the positivity or help create the den of negativity OP? " I'm hardly on here of late and I'm not getting involved even when i see the usual suspects spreading a negative vide where there is not one Meli. I'm responsible for my own words in posts and i take full responsibility for those words but this is nothing to do with me in general purely a observation that of late there is a nasty negative vibe running through the forum on here in my opinion . | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? " I hate to say it but I believe the element of negativity and nastiness is ever present. I find that it varies in the level of how prominent it is, but even when it wanes it is never gone completely. For myself, I do find that my mood affects on how much it let's me notice more negative or happy chipper threads. Although I should imagine you would be wanting to look more to the light hearted content in your current situation rather than dwelling on any of the bitchy sniping stuff. If I am not feeling positive, I will try and steer clear of it lest I allow myself to become embroiled in a slagging match which would only serve to deepen my mood. Anywho, It's good to see something positive in you having found what you are looking for OP | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold i don't know about it being funny in that way but it certainly is full some very negative behaviour of late in my opinion .I guess it depends how you see it or just ignore the negative ones. When does big brother starts. That be good to watch? Shag is our local big brother expert. He'll know. Yes I am the expert to and you are right, it will be a good one to watch, in a week or so " I know I can't wait. They should put some swingers in there see what happens or do one with bdsm | |||
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"It has its moments! I'm not on here very often, only if I'm bored. I'm generally too busy with work and life to be too bothered by it. Very occasionally will a thread take my fancy enough to post. I do love to sit back and watch to see how some turn out. I also like to guess who will post and what they will post, I'm normally pretty good at it If there's a thread about penis size or rimming I'm usually on it. " You've usually started it | |||
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"Purely a observation that of late there is a nasty negative vibe running through the forum on here in my opinion ." I get it was an observation. I was asking because I was curious not because I wanted to add the negative vibe. If I feel there's a lot of body shaming threads going on, I don't encourage them if that makes sense? I wanted to know really if people who call out one thing are not that way. I thought it could be an interesting discussion within the thread. | |||
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"Always look forward. Never look back you are not going that way. " | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? I hate to say it but I believe the element of negativity and nastiness is ever present. I find that it varies in the level of how prominent it is, but even when it wanes it is never gone completely. For myself, I do find that my mood affects on how much it let's me notice more negative or happy chipper threads. Although I should imagine you would be wanting to look more to the light hearted content in your current situation rather than dwelling on any of the bitchy sniping stuff. If I am not feeling positive, I will try and steer clear of it lest I allow myself to become embroiled in a slagging match which would only serve to deepen my mood. Anywho, It's good to see something positive in you having found what you are looking for OP " I'm having a great time in the real world as of late then I log on to fab and if I'm honest because I'm in such a great frame of mind I see the negativity as it is in stark contrast to my own positive mind set far more than i used to . a social friend has noticed the same of late and i just wondered have others noticed it to . | |||
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"I like the forum and use it all the time, it is comedy gold " It's repetative that's for sure | |||
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"Purely a observation that of late there is a nasty negative vibe running through the forum on here in my opinion . I get it was an observation. I was asking because I was curious not because I wanted to add the negative vibe. If I feel there's a lot of body shaming threads going on, I don't encourage them if that makes sense? I wanted to know really if people who call out one thing are not that way. I thought it could be an interesting discussion within the thread." i call out shit Meli as you well know when i see it regardless of the out come because that is me on line or in the real world. this post is purely a general observation brought on by social chats with someone who voice the same opinion as i have out lined in this post and i was wondering have others noticed it to . from the general tone of the responses in here others are beginning to see it to . | |||
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""The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible"" yes well put and very apt to being successful in life in general . | |||
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""The positive thinker sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible" yes well put and very apt to being successful in life in general . " Not my words but those of a man I admire greatly, me and men pffft | |||
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"Purely a observation that of late there is a nasty negative vibe running through the forum on here in my opinion . I get it was an observation. I was asking because I was curious not because I wanted to add the negative vibe. If I feel there's a lot of body shaming threads going on, I don't encourage them if that makes sense? I wanted to know really if people who call out one thing are not that way. I thought it could be an interesting discussion within the thread. i call out shit Meli as you well know when i see it regardless of the out come because that is me on line or in the real world. this post is purely a general observation brought on by social chats with someone who voice the same opinion as i have out lined in this post and i was wondering have others noticed it to . from the general tone of the responses in here others are beginning to see it to . " Yeah and other people also call out shit, I don't think you like it when everyone isn't being all crawly bum lick to you so you'll say they're negative. | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? " I like the forums to an occasional negative post and many attention seeking but really good fun as a rule ,so no I dont | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? " I spend of my time browsing the forums than browsing profiles these days because I've found ehst I'm looking for It seems to be a mix of threads that make laugh with a few that are plain bitchy/negative I have observed there ate a few cliques on here but equally you could say that's cause they're just regular forumites who know each other well | |||
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"Purely a observation that of late there is a nasty negative vibe running through the forum on here in my opinion . I get it was an observation. I was asking because I was curious not because I wanted to add the negative vibe. If I feel there's a lot of body shaming threads going on, I don't encourage them if that makes sense? I wanted to know really if people who call out one thing are not that way. I thought it could be an interesting discussion within the thread. i call out shit Meli as you well know when i see it regardless of the out come because that is me on line or in the real world. this post is purely a general observation brought on by social chats with someone who voice the same opinion as i have out lined in this post and i was wondering have others noticed it to . from the general tone of the responses in here others are beginning to see it to . Yeah and other people also call out shit, I don't think you like it when everyone isn't being all crawly bum lick to you so you'll say they're negative. " i agree..there's a big difference with someone posting something and being genuinely interested in the responses, and posting something and treating anyone who disagrees as ignorant and/or negative. | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? " I agree the forum especially the Irish one is plagued by cliques and bitchyness therefore not spending too much time on it ... but I still find what I am looking for | |||
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"It's a reflection of life and society I think. A mix of positive and negativity, but mostly somewhere in between. Some of the threads are sickly sweet, others depressingly negative and I tend to avoid the extremes where possible. Other threads are just too damn repetitive for me - e.g. the daily snog, fuck, avoid or PM someone you fancy threads - and I mostly avoid them but even so I will dip in now and then if the mood hits me right and participate for a bit! At the end of the day it's just pixels on a screen for me, nothing to get too worked up or frustrated by! " Snog | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? I spend of my time browsing the forums than browsing profiles these days because I've found ehst I'm looking for It seems to be a mix of threads that make laugh with a few that are plain bitchy/negative I have observed there ate a few cliques on here but equally you could say that's cause they're just regular forumites who know each other well" yes when your less interested you do tend to notice far more and who is always posting negatively in who's posts a by product of being out of the rat race is your more chilled out and there for it seems more observant well that's how its working out for me. | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? I spend of my time browsing the forums than browsing profiles these days because I've found ehst I'm looking for It seems to be a mix of threads that make laugh with a few that are plain bitchy/negative I have observed there ate a few cliques on here but equally you could say that's cause they're just regular forumites who know each other well yes when your less interested you do tend to notice far more and who is always posting negatively in who's posts a by product of being out of the rat race is your more chilled out and there for it seems more observant well that's how its working out for me. " I do enjoy browsing the forums Find it interesting reading a different perspective on certain topics A great distraction when home alone and nothing interests me on the TV I got no interests in finding more single men but I chat to couples from time to time and I enjoy the social banter | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? I spend of my time browsing the forums than browsing profiles these days because I've found ehst I'm looking for It seems to be a mix of threads that make laugh with a few that are plain bitchy/negative I have observed there ate a few cliques on here but equally you could say that's cause they're just regular forumites who know each other well yes when your less interested you do tend to notice far more and who is always posting negatively in who's posts a by product of being out of the rat race is your more chilled out and there for it seems more observant well that's how its working out for me. I do enjoy browsing the forums Find it interesting reading a different perspective on certain topics A great distraction when home alone and nothing interests me on the TV I got no interests in finding more single men but I chat to couples from time to time and I enjoy the social banter " I'm in the same boat I'm exclusively topping some special lady i now log on possibly two or three times a week to check up on fab friends maybe post the odd forum topic like this one as a way of passing a hour or two and that's it . | |||
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" Still here in the corner Get out that's my corner I'll be over in the wank corner with my clipboard making sure people aren't having too much fun " shhhh don't tell anyone, but that's where all the fun is, remember the wet wipes | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? I spend of my time browsing the forums than browsing profiles these days because I've found ehst I'm looking for It seems to be a mix of threads that make laugh with a few that are plain bitchy/negative I have observed there ate a few cliques on here but equally you could say that's cause they're just regular forumites who know each other well yes when your less interested you do tend to notice far more and who is always posting negatively in who's posts a by product of being out of the rat race is your more chilled out and there for it seems more observant well that's how its working out for me. I do enjoy browsing the forums Find it interesting reading a different perspective on certain topics A great distraction when home alone and nothing interests me on the TV I got no interests in finding more single men but I chat to couples from time to time and I enjoy the social banter I'm in the same boat I'm exclusively topping some special lady i now log on possibly two or three times a week to check up on fab friends maybe post the odd forum topic like this one as a way of passing a hour or two and that's it ." Oh I've got the best of both worlds A really good friend and amazing sex but we're not exclusive we like clubs/meeting others too I guess it's whatever works for the individuals involved I'm on here most days browsing forums or chatting to couples | |||
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"Recently its been very negative with people starting negative threads about it being negative recently " Negativity does breed negativity according to the OP though. | |||
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"a beacon of positivity or a crack den of negativity . I'm on here less and less due to having found what I'm looking for maybe that is the reason why I've come to _iew fabs forum as of late as a den of negativity . anyone else finding the forums less and less appealing of late due to many thinly hidden nasty and in some cases not so thinly hidden nasty posts ....? " There's a definite undertone you pick up on | |||
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"I think the lounge dynamic has suffered since politics was given its own forum.. I also think a lot of former long term lounge regulars have either left the site or reduced their forum participation... I guess newbies have every right to reprise thread topics that are maybe fresh to them and I'm sure they are enjoying that interaction with other members... That's all I've got really .. " The voice of wisdom, right there | |||
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"Recently its been very negative with people starting negative threads about it being negative recently " two negatives make a positive .....physics | |||
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