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By *rushman OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Has this happened to anybody else where you've had such a positive look for the weekend with meets lined up then all of a sudden you somehow end up spending the night with your cock in your hand or with your vib (if you're a lady)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Can't say I have, but then I wouldn't want that many meets 'lined up' to be honest, and certainly not all for one weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still working on achieving one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people are good at breadcrumbing so keeping you interested when really a meet is never going to happen.

Until you are actually there face to face I never have assumed a meet will actually take place.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford


"Can't say I have, but then I wouldn't want that many meets 'lined up' to be honest, and certainly not all for one weekend."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I line five up per week coz I know they won't turn up or go unlos (tongue in cheek before anyone gets negative!)

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By *rushman OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"Can't say I have, but then I wouldn't want that many meets 'lined up' to be honest, and certainly not all for one weekend."
Not 8 diffrent meets lol mainly parties. I dont think anybody would have the stamina for 8 diffrent meets in one weekend haha

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Telford


"I line five up per week coz I know they won't turn up or go unlos (tongue in cheek before anyone gets negative!)"

In all seriousness when I first joined this site and hadn't yet acquired the talent to spot timewasters and fakes I'd line up 3 in a week and be unsurprised when only 1 meet materialised!

Wiser now so stick to regular fun and only new meets are at clubs

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I line five up per week coz I know they won't turn up or go unlos (tongue in cheek before anyone gets negative!)

In all seriousness when I first joined this site and hadn't yet acquired the talent to spot timewasters and fakes I'd line up 3 in a week and be unsurprised when only 1 meet materialised!

Wiser now so stick to regular fun and only new meets are at clubs"

A good way of looking at it, personally speaking, and circumstances do play a part, (although even if they were different I don't think my approach would change) I'd much prefer to have a few regular meets that I had spent time getting to know a little, rather than a string of 'possibles'

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We'd rather have one or two that are regular meets, rather than arrange to meet 8 on the same day and not meet any of them.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say I have, but then I wouldn't want that many meets 'lined up' to be honest, and certainly not all for one weekend."

I can't even manage one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tumble @@@@@@@@@@........@@@@@ lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it as the men here that say they can't are hot... me no understand

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sometimes...theres a lot of fantasists and timewasters here....that said the last time I wanted to meet I got three different guys in one night and all turned up...a good time was had by all!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was meant to meet someone but he let me down three times, he's now blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I line five up per week coz I know they won't turn up or go unlos (tongue in cheek before anyone gets negative!)

In all seriousness when I first joined this site and hadn't yet acquired the talent to spot timewasters and fakes I'd line up 3 in a week and be unsurprised when only 1 meet materialised!

Wiser now so stick to regular fun and only new meets are at clubs"

When I first joined, if everyone who said they would meet did, then i could have had several a day. But... I'm fussy and won't meet just anyone who offers plus a majority are going to be time wasters.

This is my second time on here and i know how it all works.

Much prefer a couple of good quality meets rather than lots of random one off's.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I had a potential 6 meets lined up for the weekend just gone. O materialised for one reason or another . I ways knew that all 6 wouldn't go through but c'mon you'd have expected at least bloody 1 to come through.

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By *aughtyinguMan
over a year ago

swindon

Its extremely rare I get any interest in me :/

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By *omez42Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Last week, things were looking pretty dire, then I suddenly had so much interest that I was getting confused. As they dropped by the wayside, the least likely turned up trumps, at an hours notice, and ticked something off the bucket list.

I had to turn down an offer Friday, due to work, a great social with a fabber on Saturday, then a surprise evening where new things were tried.

And there was me thinking I was getting nowhere

It ebbs and flows, get yourself known, be polite, don't be pushy, follow every avenue open to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has this happened to anybody else where you've had such a positive look for the weekend with meets lined up then all of a sudden you somehow end up spending the night with your cock in your hand or with your vib (if you're a lady)"

Yes. Two weekends running x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Have you considered further spreading your bets?

Meeting people via other channels if you're getting poor results or changing your tactics? I'd not tolerate 8 meet failures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these meets I keep reading about?

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