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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to rant!

Just hadon't a lovely message...

Being called some rather abusive names....

Why ...why you men feel the need to do this to us..

Is it because you've got low self asteem?

Because your not getting any ?

Or the fact you are complete and utter disgusting imbersile and think it's actually fun to send these messages to women?

Lovely being called fat and a twat in the space of five minutes

That is fucking all!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Breathe it out, let it go and block.

They want your ire.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I'd love to but the bugger hado blocked me before I got the chance

Coward!!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Fuck 'em....and not in a good way xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful, I don't know why they feel the need to do this. Xx

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

There's some really fucked up people in this world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's twice I've had similar abusive messages. ..within the last 2 months.

Filters are back on.

Age range lowered. You think a 40 year old with have more fucking respect.

God I'm so angry!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"It's twice I've had similar abusive messages. ..within the last 2 months.

Filters are back on.

Age range lowered. You think a 40 year old with have more fucking respect.

God I'm so angry!

"

Let it go. It's words on a screen from a stranger. Don't let them raise your blood pressure for no good reason.

I know how annoying it is - I've had similar messages. They've had their kick and if they're reading the forum they're getting another one.

Counter block them so that they can't unblock and send another message.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Sorry to hear this,think theres something in the air lately , a few threads have been about abuse.Hugs x

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why we have a block button

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Is it because you've got low self asteem?

Because your not getting any ?

Or the fact you are complete and utter disgusting imbersile and think it's actually fun to send these messages to women?

Probably a combination of all 3,

I wouldn't even block them but untick their abusive message and let them think you haven't even read it, Make a note then ignore all future messages from them

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Sorry you've had to suffer this, beats me why the 'entitled unwashed' feel the need to do things like that Sexyspecs, especially as I daresay 5 mins earlier (before you turned them down) they were probably telling you how gorgeous you were.

Just remember it says more about them than it does you, and regardless of their age they're just behaving like the spoiled brats that they are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.....

I don't normally act like this...but grrr it just really pissed me off.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i only took mine off last night and had an abusive message within a few hours, off an older guy. this time i'm not changing my filters to rule them out, sick of people forcing me to not look for what i want just coz they are douchebags.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry you've had to suffer this, beats me why the 'entitled unwashed' feel the need to do things like that Sexyspecs, especially as I daresay 5 mins earlier (before you turned them down) they were probably telling you how gorgeous you were.

Just remember it says more about them than it does you, and regardless of their age they're just behaving like the spoiled brats that they are.

"

I'd love to say that this was the case but sadly not. First message absive...

Second....

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It wasn't me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that op, think these kind of messages get to everyone at some point.

Try not to take it personally they just seem to spam everyone

Nice tits btw

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

People pick on those who they deem to be superior to them in a pathetic bid to bring them down.

Sadly as much as we would all love to take words on a screen with the pinch of salt they deserve, sometimes its hard.

Chin up lovely lady and remember that for every bad experience there are great ones too.

And lastly picture them birthing a hedgehog the next time they go to the loo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SS - sending you love and the ability to shake this off.

It hurts, I understand. It shouldn't but it does. A mix of the total injustice of it, and as often the insults are the things we beat ourselves with anyway so hearing them triggers all that self-loathing.

The fact is though, the message speaks more to the insecurities, the toxic awful headspace that individual is living in themselves. Thank the fact that you are not having to live in their head, spitting bile into the ether to feel better about yourself.

Onwards, upwards. You are beautiful inside and out. Sleep well and embrace a wonderful new day tomorrow.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Sorry you've had to suffer this, beats me why the 'entitled unwashed' feel the need to do things like that Sexyspecs, especially as I daresay 5 mins earlier (before you turned them down) they were probably telling you how gorgeous you were.

Just remember it says more about them than it does you, and regardless of their age they're just behaving like the spoiled brats that they are.

I'd love to say that this was the case but sadly not. First message absive...

Second....

"

God that's even worse then...what kid of a sick twat does that?

Again, sorry you've had to suffer it...just remember he's the one with the problem not you. For what it's worth, and at the risk of sounding like a white knight, you're worth 100 of someone like that, you're funny, sexy, have some great pics and a wonderful forumite to have around. He on the other hand is the lowest form of pondlife that has nothing going for him.

I know which of those two most genuine people would rather be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I'd love to but the bugger hado blocked me before I got the chance

Coward!!"

Yeah happens a lot on here... Ranty message then block so you can't reply... bit juvenile..

But wtf...its them with the problem not you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's where I win. I don't read my messages unless I know the sender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting irate and calling them names on here isn't going to help. People will say you're as bad as them. Why do you let the words of a stranger get to you so much?

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By *ensualguy101Man
over a year ago

Orpington

There's no excuse for such appalling behaviour by any guy on here. There's no doubt that it can be frustrating for guys on here, but there is never any excuse for any offensive rant to any woman. When you travel on public transport these days there's a poster saying don't be offensive to their staff. The same rules should apply on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard a brilliant saying on here the other day.

Pissing on my lawn to make ours look greener

His grass is dead and nobody wants to come play on it, yours is lush and it burns his arse, your beautiful. The End x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to rant!

Just hadon't a lovely message...

Being called some rather abusive names....

Why ...why you men feel the need to do this to us..

Is it because you've got low self asteem?

Because your not getting any ?

Or the fact you are complete and utter disgusting imbersile and think it's actually fun to send these messages…"

As you're making a sweeping statement by saying "You men" at least if you're going to call us names, have the decency to fucking spell the insult properly.

It's imbecile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Lovely being called fat and a twat in the space of five minutes

That is fucking all!

"

Don't worry, trolls struggle with intelligence, It takes them five minutes to type both those words into a keyboard.

Ha e a rant op. But I'm sure a good nights sleep has washed it away now. It usually does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm going to rant!

Just hadon't a lovely message...

Being called some rather abusive names....

Why ...why you men feel the need to do this to us..

Is it because you've got low self asteem?

Because your not getting any ?

Or the fact you are complete and utter disgusting imbersile and think it's actually fun to send these messages…

As you're making a sweeping statement by saying "You men" at least if you're going to call us names, have the decency to fucking spell the insult properly.

It's imbecile! "

I ranted and yes a spelling error Oh well forum spelling police better lock me up now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Lovely being called fat and a twat in the space of five minutes

That is fucking all!

Don't worry, trolls struggle with intelligence, It takes them five minutes to type both those words into a keyboard.

Ha e a rant op. But I'm sure a good nights sleep has washed it away now. It usually does. "

Thank you Misterbee it did.

And in light of some posts on here it seems a good filter too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I did say ' you men'

I don't feel the need to apologise I was venting it was not aimed at all men and yes I probably should have put that in my original post.

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Crikey, I just noticed your filters will exclude me in but 5 short months.

Time to roll out the big guns...

Hey, how you doin'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Crikey, I just noticed your filters will exclude me in but 5 short months.

Time to roll out the big guns...

Hey, how you doin'? "

I changed them last night.

I'm good thank you.

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