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"50 shades is a prime example of how ppl in the vanilla world were influenced by something they'd seen. Ppl became wrapped up in a fantasy which they normally wouldn't have considered because of the skewed portrayal of BDSM and a dominant/submissive relationship. The reality being the movie wasn't even a remotely realistic example of either and a dumbed down version for a predominately vanilla audience to enjoy "100% agree. The amount of dim Doms that cropped up on here at the time of the books was ridiculous King | |||
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"50 shades is a prime example of how ppl in the vanilla world were influenced by something they'd seen. Ppl became wrapped up in a fantasy which they normally wouldn't have considered because of the skewed portrayal of BDSM and a dominant/submissive relationship. The reality being the movie wasn't even a remotely realistic example of either and a dumbed down version for a predominately vanilla audience to enjoy
100% agree. The amount of dim Doms that cropped up on here at the time of the books was ridiculous
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"I'd say the site is a good reflection that kink and vanilla tastes can sit side by side with each other. People do what they are comfortable with at the time. I wouldn't think people would seek out bukkake gangbangs simply because they suddenly saw a lot of people having them. Mind you tattoos took off.. who knows!" Yeah I more meant does seeing something pique an interest that maybe wouldn't have been there if they hadn't seen it. Take rope play for example, most have fooled around with restrain but would it naturally develop into more complicated rope play if they werent exposed to it? | |||
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"Trends happen. E.g. 50 shades of grey. Books and films come out. Couple have conversation about subject, decide to try it. Find out they do or don't like it and either add it to the list or don't do it again. With the allegations of Trump and watersports, I imagine there have been a few conversations about trying that, to see what the big deal is. " Well that's just a piss take  | |||
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"I don't know if it's necessarily kinks that are cyclic and influenced by others. I think that there just happens to be more visibility on some if they are brought to the spot light in anyway by the arts. I know that certain photos do well on here and they become 'trendy'? So maybe that applies to rope and names on flesh... On the other hand, maybe that exposure by the arts allows people to begin and feel more comfortable exploring something? Yeah. I'm not quite sure what it is after that. " Its hard to work out if its a natural desire or a curiosity after exposure. | |||
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"50 shades is a prime example of how ppl in the vanilla world were influenced by something they'd seen. Ppl became wrapped up in a fantasy which they normally wouldn't have considered because of the skewed portrayal of BDSM and a dominant/submissive relationship. The reality being the movie wasn't even a remotely realistic example of either and a dumbed down version for a predominately vanilla audience to enjoy "And now we have a whole load of assholes who think being a bit rough makes them "Dom"  | |||
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"50 shades is a prime example of how ppl in the vanilla world were influenced by something they'd seen. Ppl became wrapped up in a fantasy which they normally wouldn't have considered because of the skewed portrayal of BDSM and a dominant/submissive relationship. The reality being the movie wasn't even a remotely realistic example of either and a dumbed down version for a predominately vanilla audience to enjoy
100% agree. The amount of dim Doms that cropped up on here at the time of the books was ridiculous
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"i think so. i've noticed messages tend to follow a theme at times. and i've been looking for a guy to cuckold for a while and often go through stages where a lot of guys at once will show interest in that -i feel most just want to try it out because it's popular in porn and that goes for a few things (especially BDSM stuff)." So theyre not so into it they just see it and think its hot for a while? | |||
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"I was recently thinking something similar. As a single before we go together, I was on another site. In all the time I was on there, I never heard a discussion once about gushing or precum, but lots of talk about alpha men. LOTS of talk about alpha men. Yet on fab... Are the Dim Doms (I can't help but say that phrase now in a Leslie Phillips style voice...) all ex Alphas? They've all been Greyed out? Hmm x " I hadn't thought gushing a big deal before I joined here! | |||
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"i think so. i've noticed messages tend to follow a theme at times. and i've been looking for a guy to cuckold for a while and often go through stages where a lot of guys at once will show interest in that -i feel most just want to try it out because it's popular in porn and that goes for a few things (especially BDSM stuff). So theyre not so into it they just see it and think its hot for a while? " yeah i think so, they're not really a cuckold and craving that, they just want to try it out because when they had a wank they came hard or something. it's making it hard for me to choose who to cuckold really. | |||
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"I can see trends yes, but I've seen rope play and writing slut on bodies a lot for years now, I don't think it's a trend. But I remember mentioning cuckold and hotwife to people about 10 years ago, and generally people we're like 'what the fuck?' " Yeah im not sure trend is the right word and im sorry to anyone if I offended with it. I guess I meant more you see more people participating than before and finding an exploring their thing. Maybe people are just more open about trying things as they become more publically acceptable? | |||
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"i think so. i've noticed messages tend to follow a theme at times. and i've been looking for a guy to cuckold for a while and often go through stages where a lot of guys at once will show interest in that -i feel most just want to try it out because it's popular in porn and that goes for a few things (especially BDSM stuff). So theyre not so into it they just see it and think its hot for a while? yeah i think so, they're not really a cuckold and craving that, they just want to try it out because when they had a wank they came hard or something. it's making it hard for me to choose who to cuckold really." Yeah you want someone who feels it not someone just trying it out | |||
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"I can see trends yes, but I've seen rope play and writing slut on bodies a lot for years now, I don't think it's a trend. But I remember mentioning cuckold and hotwife to people about 10 years ago, and generally people we're like 'what the fuck?' Yeah im not sure trend is the right word and im sorry to anyone if I offended with it. I guess I meant more you see more people participating than before and finding an exploring their thing. Maybe people are just more open about trying things as they become more publically acceptable? " Oh you certainly haven't offended me. And you've made some good points. | |||
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"i think so. i've noticed messages tend to follow a theme at times. and i've been looking for a guy to cuckold for a while and often go through stages where a lot of guys at once will show interest in that -i feel most just want to try it out because it's popular in porn and that goes for a few things (especially BDSM stuff). So theyre not so into it they just see it and think its hot for a while? yeah i think so, they're not really a cuckold and craving that, they just want to try it out because when they had a wank they came hard or something. it's making it hard for me to choose who to cuckold really. Yeah you want someone who feels it not someone just trying it out " yes. people not really into it will let you down and it won't be long term. although saying that bulls tend to be genuine and more in it for the long term, maybe i should concentrate on getting one of those instead and we can laugh at the flakey one off 'cucks' that are just passing...  | |||
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"Trends happen. E.g. 50 shades of grey. Books and films come out. Couple have conversation about subject, decide to try it. Find out they do or don't like it and either add it to the list or don't do it again. With the allegations of Trump and watersports, I imagine there have been a few conversations about trying that, to see what the big deal is. " Trump and watersports. Dont think thats an image I want to conjure up. | |||
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"i think so. i've noticed messages tend to follow a theme at times. and i've been looking for a guy to cuckold for a while and often go through stages where a lot of guys at once will show interest in that -i feel most just want to try it out because it's popular in porn and that goes for a few things (especially BDSM stuff). So theyre not so into it they just see it and think its hot for a while? yeah i think so, they're not really a cuckold and craving that, they just want to try it out because when they had a wank they came hard or something. it's making it hard for me to choose who to cuckold really. Yeah you want someone who feels it not someone just trying it out yes. people not really into it will let you down and it won't be long term. although saying that bulls tend to be genuine and more in it for the long term, maybe i should concentrate on getting one of those instead and we can laugh at the flakey one off 'cucks' that are just passing... "Sounds like a plan | |||
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"i think so. i've noticed messages tend to follow a theme at times. and i've been looking for a guy to cuckold for a while and often go through stages where a lot of guys at once will show interest in that -i feel most just want to try it out because it's popular in porn and that goes for a few things (especially BDSM stuff). So theyre not so into it they just see it and think its hot for a while? yeah i think so, they're not really a cuckold and craving that, they just want to try it out because when they had a wank they came hard or something. it's making it hard for me to choose who to cuckold really. Yeah you want someone who feels it not someone just trying it out yes. people not really into it will let you down and it won't be long term. although saying that bulls tend to be genuine and more in it for the long term, maybe i should concentrate on getting one of those instead and we can laugh at the flakey one off 'cucks' that are just passing...
Sounds like a plan "probably be more fun than looking for a cuck too. ooh feel a profile change coming on. | |||
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"Do you think people's turn ons and kinks follow trends? Ive seen so much more rope play recently and things like "slut" written on boobs. Do people get caught up with the things they see elsewhere or would they have the same desires if they hadn't been exposed to them? I guess its more kink related but im guessing their are trends within the more vanilla side of sex too?" Yes people are very influenced by the internet I feel | |||
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"I've been into the same things for years and quite reluctant to try anything new. I'm quite stuck in my ways and know the things that get me going. " I guess for me I get carried up in other peoples kinks. I dont generally feel drawn to anything unless I find someone passionate about it to show me. Maybe youre the kind of person who would lead someone like me? | |||
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"Not necessarily but if something sounds interesting, I do have a desire to try it at least once "Just once? | |||
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"Do you think people's turn ons and kinks follow trends? Ive seen so much more rope play recently and things like "slut" written on boobs. Do people get caught up with the things they see elsewhere or would they have the same desires if they hadn't been exposed to them? I guess its more kink related but im guessing their are trends within the more vanilla side of sex too?Yes people are very influenced by the internet I feel" I agree. Thingscare so much more accessible these days. I guess there are a lot if things you now see in mainstream that were "taboo" before | |||
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"I've been into the same things for years and quite reluctant to try anything new. I'm quite stuck in my ways and know the things that get me going. I guess for me I get carried up in other peoples kinks. I dont generally feel drawn to anything unless I find someone passionate about it to show me. Maybe youre the kind of person who would lead someone like me? " I don't think what I'm into would appeal to many people. I like washing guys in the bath cos they look quite vulnerable when they're naked in a bath and you're standing over them! I like pretending to be a urologist giving someone a willy exam. Sucking guys dicks when they're sleeping. I like to be a beauty therapist and the guy is coming in for bum pubes removal. I like holding the guys willy whilst he has a pee and I really really like sticking my tongue in a guys arse. I like doing pampering things like face masks and clipping guys toenail so and painting his nails and massages. It's quite normal stuff but for some reason they turn me on. If a guy cries infront of me or gets upset that's the end of me it makes me really horny, that's why I like doing things where guys start talking. Like I'm quite easy to talk to and guys tend to spill their life stories and it shows a bit of vulnerability. | |||
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"Not necessarily but if something sounds interesting, I do have a desire to try it at least once
Just once? "OK, maybe twice if it's really good | |||
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