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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "

Very true

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well bloody said!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Couldnt agree more

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "

I agree, with the no body-shaming. Yes!

Not sure if you meant this, but where I (just my opinion) personally disagree with simply ignoring, is when I see a written comment that I strongly disagree with (perhaps an "-ist" attitude or an attack on a poster, I warrant I don't police the site looking for things I mean if I note something that I feel moved to challenge) then there's something that doesn't sit right with me in simply ignoring and letting it sit there permanent in its written form unchallenged. So I will counter it. Just so someone else coming across it -- let's say it is body-shaming -- who may be hurt by it, or fall into the category being slated, is aware that not everyone thinks that is acceptable. And yes, I'd do this in real life not just from the safety of a keyboard. What I wouldn't do is attack someone over PM about it - my view is to challenge, query and clarify. And if I get it wrong, or overstep or upset myself I am perfectly willing to apologise if I in turn, have caused hurt.

Sorry, just wanted to clarify that. But yes, on the whole I agree with your post.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Then we don't get no spice in the forums and can't rip the piss out of people, what fun is that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And on the other hand... every now and then we stumble across a profile and can't help keep looking at it

The stuff that's not to our taste is easy to pass by and forget, the stuff that is to our taste .... very distracting

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By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

The people that post on the forums are the minority on the site.

So the vast majority of users do just click off a profile not to thier liking and look elsewhere. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps.

I agree, with the no body-shaming. Yes!

Not sure if you meant this, but where I (just my opinion) personally disagree with simply ignoring, is when I see a written comment that I strongly disagree with (perhaps an "-ist" attitude or an attack on a poster, I warrant I don't police the site looking for things I mean if I note something that I feel moved to challenge) then there's something that doesn't sit right with me in simply ignoring and letting it sit there permanent in its written form unchallenged. So I will counter it. Just so someone else coming across it -- let's say it is body-shaming -- who may be hurt by it, or fall into the category being slated, is aware that not everyone thinks that is acceptable. And yes, I'd do this in real life not just from the safety of a keyboard. What I wouldn't do is attack someone over PM about it - my view is to challenge, query and clarify. And if I get it wrong, or overstep or upset myself I am perfectly willing to apologise if I in turn, have caused hurt.

Sorry, just wanted to clarify that. But yes, on the whole I agree with your post. "

No, I'm all for freedom of speech when done in a balanced manner, just rather tired of the trend for terribly catty and uncalled for body shaming.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "

If someone says something wrong I need to say something in reply I am not as good as they are.

People saying wrong things or things I disagree with online is literally the worst thing on earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps.

I agree, with the no body-shaming. Yes!

Not sure if you meant this, but where I (just my opinion) personally disagree with simply ignoring, is when I see a written comment that I strongly disagree with (perhaps an "-ist" attitude or an attack on a poster, I warrant I don't police the site looking for things I mean if I note something that I feel moved to challenge) then there's something that doesn't sit right with me in simply ignoring and letting it sit there permanent in its written form unchallenged. So I will counter it. Just so someone else coming across it -- let's say it is body-shaming -- who may be hurt by it, or fall into the category being slated, is aware that not everyone thinks that is acceptable. And yes, I'd do this in real life not just from the safety of a keyboard. What I wouldn't do is attack someone over PM about it - my view is to challenge, query and clarify. And if I get it wrong, or overstep or upset myself I am perfectly willing to apologise if I in turn, have caused hurt.

Sorry, just wanted to clarify that. But yes, on the whole I agree with your post.

No, I'm all for freedom of speech when done in a balanced manner, just rather tired of the trend for terribly catty and uncalled for body shaming. "

I 100% agree. (thanks for clarifying)

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Here here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

*hear hear

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!"

How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!

How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!"

You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These Shallow Narrow Minded Peeps Should Perhaps Look in a Mirror Beauty comes from deep Within Not an Anatomy To Enjoy such art as a Body one first needs to have a Brain xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say the same for threads and posts that people find offensive. If the bodyshaming threads were ignored by all those who find them offensive, they'd very quickly fizzle out. And if they don't, just leave them to it. As long as they are not breaking forum rules.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said that woman

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!

How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!

You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile. "

I used to challenge deliberate nastiness more often. It becomes disheartening after a while to do so. It also seems to come in cycles and the forum is apparently in one at the moment, hopefully short-lived.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!

How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!

You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile. "

That's good to hear,it's seriously putting me of this place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it does go on, but I always thought this as a very liberal site, maybe I have just missed the nasty bits!

How the flip have you missed them,the forum's are in abundance with body shaming thread's/nastiness at the moment or I am just being overly sensitive?!

You're not being overly sensitive. It's pretty vile.

It also seems to come in cycles and the forum is apparently in one at the moment, hopefully short-lived. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the same for threads and posts that people find offensive. If the bodyshaming threads were ignored by all those who find them offensive, they'd very quickly fizzle out. And if they don't, just leave them to it. As long as they are not breaking forum rules.

Mrs"

I sometimes find it difficult to sit back and ignore certain comments. However, I do think there are ways to diplomatically write replies to posts you don't agree with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is a cock op, I have to tell them. It's not my nature to ignore nastiness and blatant dickish behaviour.

I can ignore idiots though.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I fab love you Heels x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I fab love you Heels x"

Thank you Miss V; big snogs and booby hugs in your general scrumptious direction

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can voice any opinion they like. But they better be prepared to deal with the consequences and be an adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People can voice any opinion they like. But they better be prepared to deal with the consequences and be an adult. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Willy thread Fri was a piss take thread but I assume folk started arguing cos I got home and it was gone.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Willy thread Fri was a piss take thread but I assume folk started arguing cos I got home and it was gone.

PTU xxx"

It's all over the place....libs stalker asked to see my cock on another thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Willy thread Fri was a piss take thread but I assume folk started arguing cos I got home and it was gone.

PTU xxx

It's all over the place....libs stalker asked to see my cock on another thread "
what? Lib has a stalker? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Willy thread Fri was a piss take thread but I assume folk started arguing cos I got home and it was gone.

PTU xxx

It's all over the place....libs stalker asked to see my cock on another thread what? Lib has a stalker? xxx"

Apparently. ...don't know if she was after comparing cock sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "

Standing by you M'lady one hundred percent. Unfortunately people can't help themselves by putting their foot in it consistently for self affirmation and attention

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "

I'd like to point out that the nipple thread was actually a discussion on nipple play with a mere tongue in cheek reference to the current trend for body-shaming threads. It quickly drew the wrath of people who were concerned that someone might say something offensive (what thread doesn't run the risk of having something offensive being said?). The only thing offensive said on it was, as a result, an unnecessary insult to people's intelligence for possibly not being able to understand the concept of humour So there's another thing to love about Fab - people's readiness to judge without checking the facts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well people have needed to vent their spleens about unattractive willies, fandangos, nipples etc. How about acknowledging that we see things on Planet Fab every day, be they pictures or musings of a written form which aren't to our liking and we manage to move by them and onto something more pleasing without the need to rebuff people for it in the forums. Fab and let fab, have a little decorum peeps. "

Indeed

Fortunately we all have different tastes. Just because I'm not a fan of a certain type of body I certainly wouldn't start a thread about it

Just saying x

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