FabSwingers.com forum: smart or casual

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys just a bit of advise needed potential meet coming up in the near future ! Should i wine and dine with shirt and tie or should it be relaxed and casual in a nice pub? What do prefer???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer relaxed and casual. Its not a date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id prefer relaxed and casual. Its not a date.

Cheers bunny good point ! I do like my t's and jeans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not shirt and tie. It's far too formal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id prefer relaxed and casual. Its not a date.

As above

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Smart casual?

Shirt (oxford mebbes), no tie, trousers, boots or shoes.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Depends where you have agreed to meet.. generally smart casual.. ofcourse if you going to a posh theatre attire may be different. Enjoy fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah shirt and tie might be a bit OTT , cheers for the advice !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Smart casual?

Shirt (oxford mebbes), no tie, trousers, boots or shoes. "

Like it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say hit the middle ground and go jeans with a short sleeved shirt. T-shirt underneath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only bother with suit and tie if it's something you've both spoken about it being a turn on, otherwise go with what you feel confident and comfy in. Your username says you're a geek, release that geek

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Smart casual?

Shirt (oxford mebbes), no tie, trousers, boots or shoes.

Like it ! "

Also; It's how I dress most of the time when I'm not at work or at home, so maybe I'm biased...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Or maybe go for the "Clarkson" look in a pair of smart shoes, jeans, shirt but no tie, and a suit jacket

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Or maybe go for the "Clarkson" look in a pair of smart shoes, jeans, shirt but no tie, and a suit jacket

NO.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd only bother with suit and tie if it's something you've both spoken about it being a turn on, otherwise go with what you feel confident and comfy in. Your username says you're a geek, release that geek

Yeah she does kinda like me suited and booted but dont want to look strange lol

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Casual in a nice pub for me personally for a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Casual in a nice pub for me personally for a first meet."

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Smart but casual look, I hate men in suits, I see them every day and so unsexy in my eyes

Love the jeans and shirt look though (but no bloody trainers)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah she does kinda like me suited and booted but dont want to look strange lol "

You could always ask her which she would prefer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Smart but casual look, I hate men in suits, I see them every day and so unsexy in my eyes

Love the jeans and shirt look though (but no bloody trainers)

What about a pair of converse??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah she does kinda like me suited and booted but dont want to look strange lol

You could always ask her which she would prefer? "

True! But shes a bit of a minx id turn up in a shirt and tie and she would be casual just for the giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah she does kinda like me suited and booted but dont want to look strange lol

You could always ask her which she would prefer?

True! But shes a bit of a minx id turn up in a shirt and tie and she would be casual just for the giggle"

Oh a game player. Well go with what makes you comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a man in a suit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah she does kinda like me suited and booted but dont want to look strange lol

You could always ask her which she would prefer?

True! But shes a bit of a minx id turn up in a shirt and tie and she would be casual just for the giggle

Oh a game player. Well go with what makes you comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as much as i loveeeeeee and adore lusting over guys in suits.. think a meal might be a bit formal..

still think you could go smart but go for drinks and conversation in a bar.

if that potential meets anything like me on a first social.. shed be nervous trying to to say the wrong things let alone trying not to spill food down her haha..

whack a suit on in the bedroom if she is lucky enough to get you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a man in a suit"

I love a hyperactive nerd.

I feel safe in a suit!

OP you can't go wrong with the smart casual look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"as much as i loveeeeeee and adore lusting over guys in suits.. think a meal might be a bit formal..

still think you could go smart but go for drinks and conversation in a bar.

if that potential meets anything like me on a first social.. shed be nervous trying to to say the wrong things let alone trying not to spill food down her haha..

whack a suit on in the bedroom if she is lucky enough to get you there."

Cheers sassy alway the voice of reason

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Smart but casual look, I hate men in suits, I see them every day and so unsexy in my eyes

Love the jeans and shirt look though (but no bloody trainers)

What about a pair of converse??"

They would work is they look clean and newish rather than the lived in look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

facial fluff or smooth??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart but casual look, I hate men in suits, I see them every day and so unsexy in my eyes

Love the jeans and shirt look though (but no bloody trainers)

First the midges and now this!

Why oh why Scotland...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"facial fluff or smooth?? "

I tend to have a shave if I'm planning on meeting anyone/going out in public. Its force of habit I s'pose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyways OP.. what do you prefer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"anyways OP.. what do you prefer?"

Smart casual , with my converse :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyways OP.. what do you prefer?

Smart casual , with my converse :D "

to be fair i think u should try on loads of combinations and let us choose..

this is for your benefit not ours

its like market research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a suit would be over the top but a t-shirt underdone. Love a guy in a shirt and decent jeans, converse are cool.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"anyways OP.. what do you prefer?

Smart casual , with my converse :D

to be fair i think u should try on loads of combinations and let us choose..

this is for your benefit not ours

its like market research"

il have to out up some casual pics lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Always smart casual, shirt & trousers or shirt and smart jeans. Can't go wrong with either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think a suit would be over the top but a t-shirt underdone. Love a guy in a shirt and decent jeans, converse are cool. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual but smelling nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Smart but casual look, I hate men in suits, I see them every day and so unsexy in my eyes

Love the jeans and shirt look though (but no bloody trainers)

First the midges and now this!

Why oh why Scotland...

What are you moaning about? Midges are only out in the country, man up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^ no idea why i asked cos its unlikely id know it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"^^ no idea why i asked cos its unlikely id know it haha

Bit of joop is good

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Smart casual?

Shirt (oxford mebbes), no tie, trousers, boots or shoes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"^^ no idea why i asked cos its unlikely id know it haha

Bit of joop is good

oh god yeah.. went through a craze where every guy had it but it still does wonders for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?"

Millionaire x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey guys just a bit of advise needed potential meet coming up in the near future ! Should i wine and dine with shirt and tie or should it be relaxed and casual in a nice pub? What do prefer??? "

Casual meets always a bar or pub pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

Millionaire x"

lol no idea but sure its lovely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"^^ no idea why i asked cos its unlikely id know it haha

Bit of joop is good

oh god yeah.. went through a craze where every guy had it but it still does wonders for me

Devine smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a man in a suit

I love a hyperactive nerd.

I feel safe in a suit!

OP you can't go wrong with the smart casual look."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

Millionaire x

lol no idea but sure its lovely x"
sorry meant million by paco rabanne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

Millionaire x

lol no idea but sure its lovely xsorry meant million by paco rabanne"

That's nice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

Millionaire x

lol no idea but sure its lovely xsorry meant million by paco rabanne

That's nice too

Oops

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

Millionaire x

lol no idea but sure its lovely xsorry meant million by paco rabanne

That's nice too

Oops

I do that all the time too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with a mankini.

She gets to see everything she needs to see right away. Winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

Millionaire x

lol no idea but sure its lovely xsorry meant million by paco rabanne

That's nice too

Oops

I do that all the time too

Was slip of the finger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Casual but smelling nice

I always smell nice !

*sniff sniff*.. what is your aftershave of choice?

Millionaire x

lol no idea but sure its lovely xsorry meant million by paco rabanne

That's nice too

Oops

I do that all the time too

Was slip of the finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Converse. Hmm... Not sure about that.

Tom Ford or Bulgari soir for aftershave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smart but casual look, I hate men in suits, I see them every day and so unsexy in my eyes

Love the jeans and shirt look though (but no bloody trainers)

First the midges and now this!

Why oh why Scotland...

What are you moaning about? Midges are only out in the country, man up!

Noooooo way!

I heard the Highland Midges go everywhere! Eek

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