FabSwingers.com forum: How did you start?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all have a different route into swinging and why we started. I thought I'd kick off a post asking how did it all start for you?

Happy Saturday all by the way...

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Had a crap 20 year marriage and when it ended i knew there was always more to me ..meet Si on a meet and as they say the rest is history and not regretted a minute of our liberating adventure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Signed up after stumbling on to it having just got out of a seven year relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had a crap 20 year marriage and when it ended i knew there was always more to me ..meet Si on a meet and as they say the rest is history and not regretted a minute of our liberating adventure x"

That's a good one glad there was a positive outcome too.. but what made you sample the scene?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Signed up after stumbling on to it having just got out of a seven year relationship."

Wow 7 yrs is a while dude..

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband of 10 years together 19 years couldn't keep his dick in his pants so decided to give swinging a go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a very naughty man who introduced me to fab 7 years ago

Didn't stay long and was celibate for 6 years

Tried pof and got fed up of time wasters. At least you know where you are on fab

Loving my fab life x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hubby introduced tona friend of his that he knew fancied me.

It was great fun and lasted for 6 years.

When it finished he suggested we find something new so here we are

M xx"

Wow M that's horny way to jump into things sounds a lot of fun too

Can I ask why it ended? Or just run its course?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty talk during sex that became reality when we found fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My husband of 10 years together 19 years couldn't keep his dick in his pants so decided to give swinging a go x"

Ah ok a kinda of can't beat them join them eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Met a very naughty man who introduced me to fab 7 years ago

Didn't stay long and was celibate for 6 years

Tried pof and got fed up of time wasters. At least you know where you are on fab

Loving my fab life x"

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Apologies for the earlier spelling mistake, it's my pet hate too!

Hubby introduced me to a friend of his that he knew fancied me.

That lasted for six years and when it ended he suggested we try something new so here we are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dirty talk during sex that became reality when we found fab. "

Ah that begs the question "what was the dirty talk"....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apologies for the earlier spelling mistake, it's my pet hate too!

Hubby introduced me to a friend of his that he knew fancied me.

That lasted for six years and when it ended he suggested we try something new so here we are.

No problem I managed to work it out x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

The club scene is a new thing for us but have to say that I love it, especially Chams, it's fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Signed up after stumbling on to it having just got out of a seven year relationship.

Wow 7 yrs is a while dude.. "

Yeah, it was a pretty bitter break up for me. Think I was drawn to Fab because I really missed sex, and the dating apps are pretty poor

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"Had a crap 20 year marriage and when it ended i knew there was always more to me ..meet Si on a meet and as they say the rest is history and not regretted a minute of our liberating adventure x

That's a good one glad there was a positive outcome too.. but what made you sample the scene?"

Not just one thing really went to Chams on our second meet and realised life was passing me by and I wanted to sample a lot of naughty fun

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Anywebcam shut down and I needed a place to go. Missed the forums there so shuffled across to here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband of 10 years together 19 years couldn't keep his dick in his pants so decided to give swinging a go x

Ah ok a kinda of can't beat them join them eh?"

Something like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember how I heard of it.. I think someone mentioned the site on a facebook group, I joined just over 18 months ago, been on and off since

Really enjoying it this time around though, I've met and spoken to some lovely people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it started in the internet chat rooms just meeting randoms for sex back when I was 18. I found a bloke who introduced me to another swinging site. And here I am 18 yrs later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The club scene is a new thing for us but have to say that I love it, especially Chams, it's fab

Mx"

I like the choice of words to describe how good it is!

So why did you only just venture into the clubs? What did you start off doing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Signed up after stumbling on to it having just got out of a seven year relationship.

Wow 7 yrs is a while dude..

Yeah, it was a pretty bitter break up for me. Think I was drawn to Fab because I really missed sex, and the dating apps are pretty poor

I hear ya buddy been on that road as well.. so is fab better then a dating app?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had a crap 20 year marriage and when it ended i knew there was always more to me ..meet Si on a meet and as they say the rest is history and not regretted a minute of our liberating adventure x

That's a good one glad there was a positive outcome too.. but what made you sample the scene?

Oooh the plot thickens with the term "naughty fun" do tell ... we are all waiting x

Not just one thing really went to Chams on our second meet and realised life was passing me by and I wanted to sample a lot of naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anywebcam shut down and I needed a place to go. Missed the forums there so shuffled across to here.

A different reply I was not expecting

so you are here for for the cams and forum only sections?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My husband of 10 years together 19 years couldn't keep his dick in his pants so decided to give swinging a go x

Ah ok a kinda of can't beat them join them eh?

Something like that x"

well I hope you are having as much fun as he is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't remember how I heard of it.. I think someone mentioned the site on a facebook group, I joined just over 18 months ago, been on and off since

Really enjoying it this time around though, I've met and spoken to some lovely people!"

Yup if you are able to catch to the good ones it can be bloody fantastic! I remember my first time on here some years back met some cracking couples and lovely ladies who were laid back up for fun and we all had a real blast x what are you on here for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me it started in the internet chat rooms just meeting randoms for sex back when I was 18. I found a bloke who introduced me to another swinging site. And here I am 18 yrs later. "

sounds like things have moved on a bit since then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying out a few fantasies, misters workmates showed him the site so we signed up, didn't really know what to expect but had our first meet and was hooked x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trying out a few fantasies, misters workmates showed him the site so we signed up, didn't really know what to expect but had our first meet and was hooked x "

Caught by the sheer fun and horniness of it all ?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"Anywebcam shut down and I needed a place to go. Missed the forums there so shuffled across to here.

A different reply I was not expecting

so you are here for for the cams and forum only sections?"

I dont cam here unless there is a Forum chat on. Its pretty grim in chat rooms.

Yep just the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anywebcam shut down and I needed a place to go. Missed the forums there so shuffled across to here.

A different reply I was not expecting

so you are here for for the cams and forum only sections?

I dont cam here unless there is a Forum chat on. Its pretty grim in chat rooms.

Yep just the forums."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Signed up after stumbling on to it having just got out of a seven year relationship.

Wow 7 yrs is a while dude..

Yeah, it was a pretty bitter break up for me. Think I was drawn to Fab because I really missed sex, and the dating apps are pretty poor

I hear ya buddy been on that road as well.. so is fab better then a dating app?"

So far yeah haha I've had much better conversations and actually met more people (read: one

) than I have from the apps.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Been single sometime after a disasterous time on regular dating sites came across fab and have had much more fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Signed up after stumbling on to it having just got out of a seven year relationship.

Wow 7 yrs is a while dude..

Yeah, it was a pretty bitter break up for me. Think I was drawn to Fab because I really missed sex, and the dating apps are pretty poor

I hear ya buddy been on that road as well.. so is fab better then a dating app?

So far yeah haha I've had much better conversations and actually met more people (read: one

) than I have from the apps."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been single sometime after a disasterous time on regular dating sites came across fab and have had much more fun x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying out a few fantasies, misters workmates showed him the site so we signed up, didn't really know what to expect but had our first meet and was hooked x

Caught by the sheer fun and horniness of it all ?

Yes, the thrill of watching each other is very addictive. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trying out a few fantasies, misters workmates showed him the site so we signed up, didn't really know what to expect but had our first meet and was hooked x

Caught by the sheer fun and horniness of it all ?

Yes, the thrill of watching each other is very addictive. X

Ah yes it sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it started in the internet chat rooms just meeting randoms for sex back when I was 18. I found a bloke who introduced me to another swinging site. And here I am 18 yrs later.

sounds like things have moved on a bit since then? "

Yeah they have had a a break to have a family but came back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a ffm (or two!) with a couple I knew who in real life who were already on the site. The male half triggered my sexual awakening, and here I am

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Ended an 8 year relationship and just wanted to have some fun without the drama. So my mate(male) said try it out. The rest is history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

22 year marriage failed a friend said have a look and still here

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By *onnicCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Had many a chats about it .. after 6 years of being together we thought we would give it ago .. 6 weeks in and never looking back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a ffm (or two!) with a couple I knew who in real life who were already on the site. The male half triggered my sexual awakening, and here I am

Ooooh that sounds fun.. so what have you done so far during this "awakening"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ended an 8 year relationship and just wanted to have some fun without the drama. So my mate(male) said try it out. The rest is history

I see and how long you been on here for? What have you gotten up too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying out a few fantasies, misters workmates showed him the site so we signed up, didn't really know what to expect but had our first meet and was hooked x

Caught by the sheer fun and horniness of it all ?

Yes, the thrill of watching each other is very addictive. X

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can I watch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"22 year marriage failed a friend said have a look and still here

Sorry to hear about your marriage.. what have you gotten up too on here? Anything you would not have done if you were married?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had many a chats about it .. after 6 years of being together we thought we would give it ago .. 6 weeks in and never looking back

xx "

so what have you guys tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suggested I look here by someone I was seeing casually.

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I was inducted to it by an older man a vanilla friend introduced me to (having no idea what he was really like!). He was massively into the scene and introduced me to and set up a lot of different experiences, and we stayed very close until he died. I've had two unsuccessful relationships with swingers since then, but a lot of fun both in relationships and as a single, and made a lot of friends. So glad I discovered this.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

By a work colleague who was a very hot wife......, her hubby was a great guy who did as told....

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

10 year marriage ended and my best mate suggested fab Never looked back

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