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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

We dont beleive in giving anybody a vari unless weve met them personally either for a drink in a local or at a social event or after playing because if they have made the effort to come meet u at a local then there is a genuine effort happeneing and the same as social events and play meets speak for them selvs but we feel that varying someone purley cause uve seen them on cam or spoke on phone means absolutly nowt to us coz any 1 can flash the gash on cam and say they gen on the fone but that dosent mean a thing but meeting in person is somthing else so what do you guys think????

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I think that if we could only verify people after meeting them in the flesh there would be a lot of single men with no verifications at all, then people would be complaining about single men with no verifications.

If you don't want to verify someone then don't. It's not a huge deal really, is it?

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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"I think that if we could only verify people after meeting them in the flesh there would be a lot of single men with no verifications at all, then people would be complaining about single men with no verifications.

If you don't want to verify someone then don't. It's not a huge deal really, is it?"

But its like saying that somthing you heard on the radio or seen on tv smells nice although you aint actually smelled it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer the terminolgy of ive MET u lol...but I have veried cam and phone, but its a rare instance for it to happen, and I wouldnt just phone/cam to get oir give a veri, there should be some sort of conversation etc etc laughs n all that.I see alot of cam veries and phone ones....and they mean nothing when i see that there is a massive list of the phone/webcam veries, unless they actually just prefer the nonmeeting side of fab

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If someone is on here for cam fun then a person with cam veris will be right up their street. Someone on here for phone sex might want to see phone veris. I like to meet in person, so am only really interested in in person veris. But each to their own. At least a webcam/phone veri means they exist.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"If someone is on here for cam fun then a person with cam veris will be right up their street. Someone on here for phone sex might want to see phone veris. I like to meet in person, so am only really interested in in person veris. But each to their own. At least a webcam/phone veri means they exist."

+1

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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"If someone is on here for cam fun then a person with cam veris will be right up their street. Someone on here for phone sex might want to see phone veris. I like to meet in person, so am only really interested in in person veris. But each to their own. At least a webcam/phone veri means they exist."

but it dont mean they are genuine at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone is on here for cam fun then a person with cam veris will be right up their street. Someone on here for phone sex might want to see phone veris. I like to meet in person, so am only really interested in in person veris. But each to their own. At least a webcam/phone veri means they exist.

+1"

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+2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are what they are, end of the day if you feel the need to verify someone then do it, some people meet others based on them, other people use common sense and are capable of making choices and decisions for themselves based on conversations with that person.

They aren't everything but do help some on here. People get accused of being fake too often and if i only had verifications based on meets, im sure id be classed as fake too despite many users of the forums seeing me on cam and speaking to me on the phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock's been 'verified' a few times, so has my dressing gown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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but it dont mean they are genuine at all"

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Define genuine.

As already indicated, cam verification confirms the person/couple actually exist(s).

Peeps should make up their own mind about a potential meet in the first place, and should not rely on verifications alone, IMHO!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"

but it dont mean they are genuine at all

.

Define genuine.

As already indicated, cam verification confirms the person/couple actually exist(s).

Peeps should make up their own mind about a potential meet in the first place, and should not rely on verifications alone, IMHO! "

+1 im seriously to lazy to use my own mind today

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"but it dont mean they are genuine at all"

Why not? Are you saying you know that people on phones and cam are definitely fakers?

OK, YOU don't like people with cam/phone veris. Does that mean they should be denied verifications? I don't agree, and it seems to site admin is with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with cam/phone verifications IMHO, and when one leaves such verifications, it will be listed as such, so what is the big deal?!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't give much value to any verifications.... though seeing what they write about other people can be insightful sometimes.

However, I have seen quite a few profiles with a noticeable number of ‘by phone’ verifications and to be quite honest it puts me off or at least makes me cautious. I can’t work out if it is them being all talk or some sort of neediness in an attempt to show they are popular or whatever….. I just don’t see the point or reason for having a string of them.

But I guess it’s their profile and they can do what they want with it…. if they feel they have something to prove and this helps them prove it…. happy phoning.

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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"but it dont mean they are genuine at all

Why not? Are you saying you know that people on phones and cam are definitely fakers?

OK, YOU don't like people with cam/phone veris. Does that mean they should be denied verifications? I don't agree, and it seems to site admin is with me."

For us the proof is in the pudding (at least meeting in person)which then would warrent a vari off us but seeing on cam or speaking on fone only tells you that they are real which is a far cry from being a genuine swinger and lets be fair this site is calle fab swingers not fab cammers or fab fone callers dont you think???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site caters for peeps who have different requirements about what float their boats.

What suits one person may not suit another.

Diversity is what makes FAB fun and great IMHO.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"but it dont mean they are genuine at all

Why not? Are you saying you know that people on phones and cam are definitely fakers?

OK, YOU don't like people with cam/phone veris. Does that mean they should be denied verifications? I don't agree, and it seems to site admin is with me.

For us the proof is in the pudding (at least meeting in person)which then would warrent a vari off us but seeing on cam or speaking on fone only tells you that they are real which is a far cry from being a genuine swinger and lets be fair this site is calle fab swingers not fab cammers or fab fone callers dont you think???"

Ah, you seem to have a different view of what a verification is. The site itself makes it plain - the link is called 'verify as genuine'. So if you talk to someone or see them on cam then you can verify them as such.

I don't cam or do phone sex, but others do. Swinging covers such a large amount of sexual shenanigans I would think it unfair if I wasn't included because someone else didn't agree.

Anyway, half the time people are saying I can't be a swingers cos I am single. Does thats top me from using this site how I want to? Nope.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We dont beleive in giving anybody a vari unless weve met them personally either for a drink in a local or at a social event or after playing because if they have made the effort to come meet u at a local then there is a genuine effort happeneing and the same as social events and play meets speak for them selvs but we feel that varying someone purley cause uve seen them on cam or spoke on phone means absolutly nowt to us coz any 1 can flash the gash on cam and say they gen on the fone but that dosent mean a thing but meeting in person is somthing else so what do you guys think????"

me thinks some people are now so wrapped up in the "be all and end all" that is verification that they have forgotten about the most important bits... gut instinct and finding out for themselves

in effect what verification has done is taking the "due diligence" out of it.. after all someone else has now done it for them....

and so people wonder why there is a mini backlash going on now... because some hold them with so much high importance that they forget what we all did before them...we went and found out for ourselves!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a single straight fem who play with single gents, as genuinely single as I can ascertain, and do not consider myself as a true swinger as I do not swing.

FAB has a place for me, and I have had some great times via phone as well as cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dont beleive in giving anybody a vari unless weve met them personally either for a drink in a local or at a social event or after playing because if they have made the effort to come meet u at a local then there is a genuine effort happeneing and the same as social events and play meets speak for them selvs but we feel that varying someone purley cause uve seen them on cam or spoke on phone means absolutly nowt to us coz any 1 can flash the gash on cam and say they gen on the fone but that dosent mean a thing but meeting in person is somthing else so what do you guys think????"

I take no notice of cam or phone verifications as they mean very little in a swinging world.

To me a verification should mean they turn up, they look similar to their picture, they are a man woman or couple as their profile says and the description is accurate. They are not to be relied on totally but they are from someone who has physically met them not watched in a blurred cam in half light.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"If someone is on here for cam fun then a person with cam veris will be right up their street. Someone on here for phone sex might want to see phone veris. I like to meet in person, so am only really interested in in person veris. But each to their own. At least a webcam/phone veri means they exist.

but it dont mean they are genuine at all"

They will be genuine for cam fun and phone fun if that is what they are into

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

but it dont mean they are genuine at all

.

Define genuine.

As already indicated, cam verification confirms the person/couple actually exist(s).

Peeps should make up their own mind about a potential meet in the first place, and should not rely on verifications alone, IMHO!

+1 im seriously to lazy to use my own mind today "

I might be lazy with you

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