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 I got the offer of a fffm but it had to be at mine so I turned them down.
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"I am the *hot* friend.  "Actually I just snorted my coffee out my nose. This is so *not* true. I can't carry this post off in the slightest!  | |||
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"Yes I've had that before. Sometimes he's suggested bringing his hot (female) friend "I tend to have this one. I just say naw. | |||
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"Yes I've had that before. Sometimes he's suggested bringing his hot (female) friend "This, and it's annoying af!  | |||
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"Don't have your friends list displayed or veris from women displayed it helps massively in this regard " My friend's list is hidden a very long time now... sometimes I think even my friends forget they're on it lol. But I would be reasonably well known on the Irish swing social scene. At this stage I'm well used to people blowing smoke up my ass to get 'wexi' verified in order to get invited to clubs or parties, but I think when you're talking to someone about meeting 1-1 for the first time (which I very rarely do) it is a bit crass to ask things like this. My shutters come down straight away if I feel I'm a means to an end. | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? "nooooo he never said that | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? "To be fair, I imagine that you are that "hot friend" that gets asked for, a lot!  | |||
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"Maybe he has wanted to fuck the hot friend all along? Means to an end and all that. "Exactly. | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? nooooo he never said that "I wish I could say its only happened once.... | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? nooooo he never said that
I wish I could say its only happened once.... "awwww that's not nice can't believe anyone would do that | |||
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"Maybe he has wanted to fuck the hot friend all along? Means to an end and all that. "Exactly how I would view it, and just as I said in a previous reply. | |||
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"I am the *hot* friend.
Me too "wish I was hot but only hot if I'm in front of a fire lol | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? nooooo he never said that
I wish I could say its only happened once.... "You didn't ask if he has a hot friend he could bring? | |||
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"I am the hot friend  "I might start using you to get to Mr Lib! | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? "This often happens before even a social meet....generally that's the point I bow out of the conversation....its about dynamics, not just the use of his cock! | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? "Haha seriously? Most of us guys struggle to get A meet, then to fuck it up with that and not to mention how good it must make the original meetee feel about herself. | |||
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"I am the hot friend
I might start using you to get to Mr Lib! "how do they k ow u live with a hot friend | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? nooooo he never said that
I wish I could say its only happened once....
You didn't ask if he has a hot friend he could bring?
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"I am the hot friend yes u r hot x"Awww, thanks 
It's the slippers isn't it | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? nooooo he never said that
I wish I could say its only happened once....
You didn't ask if he has a hot friend he could bring?
I'm too fussy to allow someone else to pick who I meet... "You get to pick He shows you pics of his mates and you choose the ones you want. | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us?
This often happens before even a social meet....generally that's the point I bow out of the conversation....its about dynamics, not just the use of his cock! "Absolutely... Funny how they all agree about how important chemistry and rapport is... until some think there's a chance they might have crack at your younger/slimmer/bustier friend then suddenly there's no need to have even exchanged a hello lol. | |||
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"I am the hot friend yes u r hot x
Awww, thanks
It's the slippers isn't it "yes I so want some x | |||
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"This has never happened to me. I must not look like the type of person who has hot friends "I can be your 'hot' friend  | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us?
This often happens before even a social meet....generally that's the point I bow out of the conversation....its about dynamics, not just the use of his cock!
Absolutely... Funny how they all agree about how important chemistry and rapport is... until some think there's a chance they might have crack at your younger/slimmer/bustier friend then suddenly there's no need to have even exchanged a hello lol."Exactly | |||
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"I tend to get the "Oh, you live with your friend!? Is she single? Ever thought of doing anything with her!?" Urgh, shut up before I throat punch you. " You see, I worry about being creepy when I chat to people, but something like that wouldn't occur to me to say. I feel better now. | |||
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"Any suggestion of bringing a friend, or helping people get hooked up, is incredibly tacky in our view. " Yep. I've had a fair few bi curious guy's wanting to know if I know other guy's. Bugger off and find them yourself and then come back to me. | |||
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"This has never happened to me. I must not look like the type of person who has hot friends
I can be your 'hot' friend "Score! If anyone is looking for a couple with a hot male friend, get in touch | |||
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"No can't say it has. But if anyone would like to be our ' hot' friend just let us know "Hi | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? nooooo he never said that
I wish I could say its only happened once....
You didn't ask if he has a hot friend he could bring?
I'm too fussy to allow someone else to pick who I meet...
You get to pick He shows you pics of his mates and you choose the ones you want."Choose based on pics? not my thing.... Any guy who has managed to meet me knows I'm actually a tough nut to crack and I take my time getting to know someone first. I have maybe two long-term meets who know me very well and probably could choose someone I would approve of at this stage, but neither of them have ever suggested it. | |||
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"No can't say it has. But if anyone would like to be our ' hot' friend just let us know "I would but single guys can't be your friend lol | |||
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"This has never happened to me. I must not look like the type of person who has hot friends
I can be your 'hot' friend
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If anyone is looking for a couple with a hot male friend, get in touch" | |||
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"Does this happen to anyone else? You've been chatting to someone, maybe already met them socially, and the conversation turns to the possibility of meeting for fun... and then he drops the clanger... I know you're friends with 'insert leggy blonde's name here', would she join us? nooooo he never said that
I wish I could say its only happened once....
You didn't ask if he has a hot friend he could bring?
I'm too fussy to allow someone else to pick who I meet...
You get to pick He shows you pics of his mates and you choose the ones you want.
Choose based on pics? not my thing.... Any guy who has managed to meet me knows I'm actually a tough nut to crack and I take my time getting to know someone first. I have maybe two long-term meets who know me very well and probably could choose someone I would approve of at this stage, but neither of them have ever suggested it. "hope your shell ain't too tough | |||
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"I tend to get the "Oh, you live with your friend!? Is she single? Ever thought of doing anything with her!?" Urgh, shut up before I throat punch you. You see, I worry about being creepy when I chat to people, but something like that wouldn't occur to me to say. I feel better now. " On the creep scale of 1 to Piers Morgan, you are most definitely down at the bottom! | |||
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"The stupidity of men on this site never fails to amuse. At the point you are discussing meeting soneone the hardwork is done and then they fuck it up for themselves" Exactly this. Do guys not realise that arranging to meet and have sex with a guy you fancy also works the same way with women. If I want a ffm, I need to be attracted to all parties, so bringing some random woman along is never going to work! Just because they think their fb or friend is hot, doesn't mean I will. No going back from this for me and it really makes me mad. | |||
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"I tend to get the "Oh, you live with your friend!? Is she single? Ever thought of doing anything with her!?" Urgh, shut up before I throat punch you. You see, I worry about being creepy when I chat to people, but something like that wouldn't occur to me to say. I feel better now. On the creep scale of 1 to Piers Morgan, you are most definitely down at the bottom! " leave piers alone he's better than Rolf lol | |||
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"I tend to get the "Oh, you live with your friend!? Is she single? Ever thought of doing anything with her!?" Urgh, shut up before I throat punch you. You see, I worry about being creepy when I chat to people, but something like that wouldn't occur to me to say. I feel better now. On the creep scale of 1 to Piers Morgan, you are most definitely down at the bottom! " But I'm still on the creep scale, eh? | |||
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"The stupidity of men on this site never fails to amuse. At the point you are discussing meeting soneone the hardwork is done and then they fuck it up for themselves Exactly this. Do guys not realise that arranging to meet and have sex with a guy you fancy also works the same way with women. If I want a ffm, I need to be attracted to all parties, so bringing some random woman along is never going to work! Just because they think their fb or friend is hot, doesn't mean I will. No going back from this for me and it really makes me mad. " guys often think with their dicks first then the blood reaches the brain and they see sense after they have been shot down and realise they've fucked it | |||
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"I tend to get the "Oh, you live with your friend!? Is she single? Ever thought of doing anything with her!?" Urgh, shut up before I throat punch you. You see, I worry about being creepy when I chat to people, but something like that wouldn't occur to me to say. I feel better now. On the creep scale of 1 to Piers Morgan, you are most definitely down at the bottom! But I'm still on the creep scale, eh? "We're all on the creep scale! | |||
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"I tend to get the "Oh, you live with your friend!? Is she single? Ever thought of doing anything with her!?" Urgh, shut up before I throat punch you. You see, I worry about being creepy when I chat to people, but something like that wouldn't occur to me to say. I feel better now. On the creep scale of 1 to Piers Morgan, you are most definitely down at the bottom! But I'm still on the creep scale, eh?
We're all on the creep scale! "not me I'm a saint | |||
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"Arranging a 1 on 1 meet is hard enough, if the lady doesn't bring up a thressome idea by herself I'm definitely not going to ask ."Do you have a hot friend who will join us? | |||
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"Arranging a 1 on 1 meet is hard enough, if the lady doesn't bring up a thressome idea by herself I'm definitely not going to ask .
Do you have a hot friend who will join us? "i have lots lib why u offering | |||
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"I tend to get the "Oh, you live with your friend!? Is she single? Ever thought of doing anything with her!?" Urgh, shut up before I throat punch you. You see, I worry about being creepy when I chat to people, but something like that wouldn't occur to me to say. I feel better now. On the creep scale of 1 to Piers Morgan, you are most definitely down at the bottom! But I'm still on the creep scale, eh?
We're all on the creep scale! "Maybe that's where I'm going wrong, I'm not creepy enough.  | |||
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"I am the hot friend
I might start using you to get to Mr Lib! "I'll put a word in for you | |||
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"Arranging a 1 on 1 meet is hard enough, if the lady doesn't bring up a thressome idea by herself I'm definitely not going to ask .
Do you have a hot friend who will join us? i have lots lib why u offering"It's been a while since I've had me some nice pussy | |||
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"I am the *hot* friend. "Does that mean you can bring an average looking friend with you? | |||
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" I doubt guys are here for exclusivity op" And your point is? | |||
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" I doubt guys are here for exclusivity op And your point is? " He was honest about what he wanted. Makes a change from all the smoke that gets blown around here | |||
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" I doubt guys are here for exclusivity op" I'm sure it's everyone in here not just guys, it's a swingers site !
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"No can't say it has. But if anyone would like to be our ' hot' friend just let us know I would but single guys can't be your friend lol"That's not true we have single male friends. We are not looking for them. The ones we have are exceptional | |||
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"I am the *hot* friend. "You can be our ' hot ' friend | |||
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" I doubt guys are here for exclusivity op" That goes without saying. But how does that connect to the scenario in the opening post? | |||
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" I doubt guys are here for exclusivity op And your point is? He was honest about what he wanted. Makes a change from all the smoke that gets blown around here" Actually my point was that he wasn't honest about what he wanted and it has nothing to do with exclusivity (If I wanted exclusivity I'd already have it). My point is that they (as its happened more than once) blew smoke until a meet was on the cards and then ever so casually mentioned that I should bring along a certain friend (I've 2 leggy blonde friends they usually suggest, and neither of them are known for meeting single males). These are guys I've never played with before, and now never ever will. | |||
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