FabSwingers.com forum: Are we still men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having re-read, I'm unsure I've explained it well as a question.

It's more of a rant, Isn't it?. It must be the natural white knight in me coming out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be myself both here and in the outside world, I don't put an act on to try and get meets, I'm not abusive or arrogant, some people may not like what I say in the forums but we can't all agree with each other can we?

So, no act from me, I am like this in the real world so, sorry guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirting maybe, but acting like a sex God tends to end in becoming an object of ridicule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be true to myself on here.

I have good days on here and bad ones. I am nice at times on here, sometimes pithy and sarky. Just like in the 'real' world.

I would hope that those that have met me would say the same (although I've never asked them) - I'm never going to be the Alpha male 'get yer knickers off luv' type either on here or real life. In fact I'm generally shit at Fab as I can't DO being (sexual) naughty very well at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt get my cock out and show it to random women in real life, so I dont do it here, either (shrugs).

Being polite and friendly on fab, is often good enough to get an initial response but I've found that people quickly get bored with normal conversation and lose interest / stop responding.

Real life is better in this respect, because the thrust and parry is much more dynamic. As a bloke, trying to make an impression is considerably harder, by ping-pong message. Managing to appear genuinely interested, while striking a delicate balance between 'relaxed' and 'pushy'.

This is a shame, because I'd much rather get to know someone as a person, before conversation turns towards physical filth.

When I'm comfortable with someone (and they with me) then I'll discuss pretty much anything you like. Most of my conversations don't get that far, before the 'zzzz' start.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like men who don't just message me about sex and actually show a genuine interest in me (not like the faf messages).

Sadly it appears that even most of the 'good' ones actually just want to chat sex and expect a reply instantly or you're crossed off their fuckit list. Or they actually have a line of women they'll meet before you but they'll talk to you because they might have you as a back up.

So I think right now I'd rather a man who is honest about what he wants and expects rather than putting a facade of being a good man to get more quim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

Yes I agree with you. But even in the outside world charm and manners always get my attention. Being a lady and a gentleman are a very rare commodity nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men who don't just message me about sex and actually show a genuine interest in me (not like the faf messages).

So I think right now I'd rather a man who is honest about what he wants and expects rather than putting a facade of being a good man to get more quim. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

Yes I agree with you. But even in the outside world charm and manners always get my attention. Being a lady and a gentleman are a very rare commodity nowadays. "

I totally agree basic good manners are lost on some men on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

Yes I agree with you. But even in the outside world charm and manners always get my attention. Being a lady and a gentleman are a very rare commodity nowadays.

I totally agree basic good manners are lost on some men on fab"

What happened to manners respect and down to earth behaviour??

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Those first few messages are very important to me and set the tone generally. I know it's a sex site but I don't think sex talk and filthy messages are a requirement. I would say stay true to yourselves and don't become what you think you should be in order to fit in or get acknowledged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the men i chat to on a regular basis don't chat filth to me. Flirting sometimes yes, but once the initial message/pics are exchanged then the majority of messages are usually every day stuff.

I think i get friendzoned

I've found the men who try to keep filthy messages going are those who don't really meet, so they are looking for extra titilation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like men who don't just message me about sex and actually show a genuine interest in me (not like the faf messages).

So I think right now I'd rather a man who is honest about what he wants and expects rather than putting a facade of being a good man to get more quim. "

Thankfully, I've never had a 'fuckit' list. My hotlist is an aide-memoire of interesting profiles I'd like to send introductory messages to (eventually).

Once the messaging process has begun, then the list is adjusted accordingly. It is an ever-changing, organizational tool - not a representation of who is currently in favour.

When I post comments about the contents of my hotlist, I should probably name names, to avoid offending the wrong people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was saying to a friend at a swinging club that the men there behaved more like gentlemen than those in a normal nightclub . In a way that seems like a paradox.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Sadly it appears that even most of the 'good' ones actually just want to chat sex and expect a reply instantly or you're crossed off their fuckit list.

Thankfully, I've never had a 'fuckit' list. When I post comments about the contents of my hotlist, I should probably name names, to avoid offending the wrong people

What are you typing on about?

A fuckit list is a list of people you want to fuck not an actual hotlist...

it can combine with the two but it's more an abstract term for those who you are talking to and wish to fuck or if that's too crass those you are interested in and speaking to.

I think you should probably read a post and if you're confused about it's meaning pm before wittering incorrectly and confusedly on about offending people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's only natural to adjust to the environment you are in as a basic means of 'survival'. But those are only minor adjustments as we find a 'pack' to run around with. Hopefully that 'pack' will carry the same morals of you.

I am probably more flirtatious here than in real life, but I am now more confident about reading body language in the real world than I was before.

I've never sent a faf message, maybe in jest, as I would never approach someone that way.

I am also well mannered, and have an interest in people, maybe if anything I am a little slow about meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

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in life we get success because of look and personality ,in this life fab you get success because of personality in a text also because youre known and also because of pics being a gent should get you far but doesn't always

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I was saying to a friend at a swinging club that the men there behaved more like gentlemen than those in a normal nightclub . In a way that seems like a paradox. "

Really?

. I'm actually really surprised by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the men i chat to on a regular basis don't chat filth to me. Flirting sometimes yes, but once the initial message/pics are exchanged then the majority of messages are usually every day stuff.

I think i get friendzoned

I've found the men who try to keep filthy messages going are those who don't really meet, so they are looking for extra titilation. "

Or more commonly known, wankfodder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you typing on about?

A fuckit list is a list of people you want to fuck not an actual hotlist...

it can combine with the two but it's more an abstract term for those who you are talking to and wish to fuck or if that's too crass those you are interested in and speaking to.

I think you should probably read a post and if you're confused about it's meaning pm before wittering incorrectly and confusedly on about offending people. "

Thanks for the education.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

I like good manners, and I'm more likely to respond to a polite message than a dirty one. Most of the people I talk to regularly we talk about everyday stuff. It's not that there isn't flirting but it's not the overriding factor for good conversation.

In real life having someone be as direct as some are on here would earn them a quick get lost reply.

I think the men who are polite stand out compared to the ones who feel the need to be openly hyper sexual about everything. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have requested for this thread to be closed as the topic no longer interests me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have requested for this thread to be closed as the topic no longer interests me "

That could have been funny if you had actually posted in it and shown interest first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 20/05/17 08:26:12]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have requested for this thread to be closed as the topic no longer interests me

That could have been funny if you had actually posted in it and shown interest first.

Trust you

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I have requested for this thread to be closed as the topic no longer interests me "

You have a very short attention span..!!

OP - I suggest go to the chat room and see for yourself.

(no - not the cam).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Initial reply to pieceofcake Removed by poster as it no longer interests MrBee at 20/05/17 08:26:12]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Initial reply to pieceofcake Removed by poster as it no longer interests MrBee at 20/05/17 08:26:12]

Don't worry. I saw what you wrote. Not that I'm interested

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"[Initial reply to pieceofcake Removed by poster as it no longer interests MrBee at 20/05/17 08:26:12]

I might have seen too... oh OP, own your laughs.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Most of the men (I said most) on here have lost their manners or maybe just don't possess them! Plus they see it as a sex site and women are meat which we are so NOT.

It's a true shame.

Come on you men, find your manners and you maybe just get some results!!!

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

I'm much the same in person as I am on here. Possibly a little less prone to random bouts of poetry.

Whatever manners I lack on here I am unfortunately lacking offline too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm much the same in person as I am on here. Possibly a little less prone to random bouts of poetry.

Whatever manners I lack on here I am unfortunately lacking offline too."

I have visions of you and Hatter wandering the Countryside quouting random verse at pretty ladies to brighten their day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

in reply to your post i have experienced both. I've met socially someone who was very open on here and then in real life was painfully shy.

Then another who was exactly as i thought they'd be. I think as a woman, our instincts do kick in and we can tell who are the genuinely nice guys and who are not.

Being flirty and acting up can and does happen but in my limited experience, the true self will eventually show. Maybe that's why i take my time and try to get to know the person first.

Interesting post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully the days of clubbing a female over the head and dragging her back to your cave appear to be over, for now at least.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm much the same in person as I am on here. Possibly a little less prone to random bouts of poetry.

Whatever manners I lack on here I am unfortunately lacking offline too."

Less?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully the days of clubbing a female over the head and dragging her back to your cave appear to be over, for now at least."

I'm sure that is a different site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankfully the days of clubbing a female over the head and dragging her back to your cave appear to be over, for now at least.

I'm sure that is a different site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of the men (I said most) on here have lost their manners or maybe just don't possess them! Plus they see it as a sex site and women are meat which we are so NOT.

It's a true shame.

Come on you men, find your manners and you maybe just get some results!!! "
I'm a gent always and a literate one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

Don't think I've ever been messaged by any sex gods.... I've had friendly, flirty, boring, ridiculous and twuntish but never sex God.

The ones I tend to get chatting to are the friendly and flirty but that usually quickly gets me friendzoned when they try too hard to not fall into twunt territory and we end up talking about work and weather

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Most of the men (I said most) on here have lost their manners or maybe just don't possess them! Plus they see it as a sex site and women are meat which we are so NOT.

It's a true shame.

I'm a prick in real life too

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

"I'm much the same in person as I am on here. Possibly a little less prone to random bouts of poetry.

Whatever manners I lack on here I am unfortunately lacking offline too.

I have visions of you and Hatter wandering the Countryside quouting random verse at pretty ladies to brighten their day

TheHatter has the patter and the wit and charm to match

Reciting poetry to brighten any day

To fair maiden in a bonnet he is cunning with a sonnet

About him only good things I can say

Errol is more feral and lacks for wit and charm

His poetry has turned blue sky to grey

And as he loiters in the park, quoting Poe from in the dark

Pretty ladies... well they often run away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

Don't think I've ever been messaged by any sex gods.... I've had friendly, flirty, boring, ridiculous and twuntish but never sex God.

I think we talked about work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to use sex talk to bore the pants off women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm much the same in person as I am on here. Possibly a little less prone to random bouts of poetry.

Whatever manners I lack on here I am unfortunately lacking offline too.

I have visions of you and Hatter wandering the Countryside quouting random verse at pretty ladies to brighten their day

TheHatter has the patter and the wit and charm to match

Reciting poetry to brighten any day

To fair maiden in a bonnet he is cunning with a sonnet

About him only good things I can say

Errol is more feral and lacks for wit and charm

His poetry has turned blue sky to grey

And as he loiters in the park, quoting Poe from in the dark

Pretty ladies... well they often run away.

Probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not entirely sure what you were trying to say OP and I've a feeling the discussion has moved from that anyway.

Am I different here to 'real' life? Yes. Without a doubt but then that's the same with Twitter and Facebook and any other online media. I am much more comfortable and able to express me than I am in person.

Does that change how I approach people? No. I try to be helpful, to be polite and respectful.

So I don't think I am fundamentally different here or have changed. It has allowed me to be more myself though

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

OP, do you think 'men' still act like a gent in here? Or do you think they fall into the 'sex god' territory?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP, do you think 'men' still act like a gent in here? Or do you think they fall into the 'sex god' territory? "

I looked at my own profile. I written it after looking at few others to get an idea of what to put down.

It doesn't take me long to talk about sex, does it? So that covers my point there.

On the forums is what I'm going off. So many are free to start threads of what they like/can do/prefer. Banging out their preferences. I've found myself answering thinking that will put my place in the field some how.

And then we post a thread when it's not going our way.

We act like we're awesome here.

In a pub I just have a drink. Banter, and then go home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I flirt in real life too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

I was manly as fuck when I joined.

Now look at me

Look at me. Look at me. She spins she twirls she chucks up.

Why is it when you're no longer a kid does spinning induce such a reaction? It was so much fun when I was a little person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

I was manly as fuck when I joined.

Now look at me

Look at me. Look at me. She spins she twirls she chucks up.

Why is it when you're no longer a kid does spinning induce such a reaction? It was so much fun when I was a little person.

Remember when you used to look at a hill and think 'I'm going to roll down that'?

Now? I just think 'that'll hurt like a bastard'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is tied to another thread in a way. (And this is related to the way a new Sky programme -Jamestown is advertised.)

Has being on fab stopped the men from acting like men?

I'm naturally well mannered, flirtatious yes, but not as direct as sending a faf message immediately to someone I don't know.

Do the guys adjust to the environment here and fall into forgetting to how to act like a gent, because flirting and acting like a sex god gets replies in here, doesn't it?

Where I think the opposite is true in vanilla life (excuse the phrase)

I was manly as fuck when I joined.

Now look at me

Look at me. Look at me. She spins she twirls she chucks up.

Why is it when you're no longer a kid does spinning induce such a reaction? It was so much fun when I was a little person.

Remember when you used to look at a hill and think 'I'm going to roll down that'?

Now? I just think 'that'll hurt like a bastard'

And sliding down the stairs in a sleeping bag?

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Good morning MisterBee, wonderful to see you being your usual happy, polite and flirtatious self around the forum this morning. I'm pleased to say you won't be alone, Toby, Swing and Dan examples from your thread whom I have regular contact with, will keep you company as always. You guys are definitely men and should make no apologies for the type of men you are. The things about yourselves that you think don't make you men, are actually what females are drawn to. You all have depth of character and message females to have conversations, you don't treat them or view them as future conquests. So to clarify, those I mentioned are still men and they're not alone, most definitely gents when you'd want them to be and this makes them real sex gods. Not the stereotypical variety, but what one should be like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was saying to a friend at a swinging club that the men there behaved more like gentlemen than those in a normal nightclub . In a way that seems like a paradox.

Really?

. I'm actually really surprised by that. "

Yes really. In a swinging club people ask first whereas in a nightclub after a few drinks apparently just grabbing a strangers arse is perfectly acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning MisterBee, wonderful to see you being your usual happy, polite and flirtatious self around the forum this morning. I'm pleased to say you won't be alone, Toby, Swing and Dan examples from your thread whom I have regular contact with, will keep you company as always. You guys are definitely men and should make no apologies for the type of men you are. The things about yourselves that you think don't make you men, are actually what females are drawn to. You all have depth of character and message females to have conversations, you don't treat them or view them as future conquests. So to clarify, those I mentioned are still men and they're not alone, most definitely gents when you'd want them to be and this makes them real sex gods. Not the stereotypical variety, but what one should be like

Totally agree pp and very well said. X

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Thats just your opinion

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Thats just your opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Yes. It's the general idea.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Yes. It's the general idea.

Thanks you Hedylogos, you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree pp and very well said. X

I totally agree. It had my name in it.

As I did say early on. I do t quite know what I was trying to ask. But, I do think it's hard to not fall into acting like another guy on fab.

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over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Yes. It's the general idea.

Thanks you Hedylogos, you.

I would have preferred Adonis. But that contradicts my point does t it?

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over a year ago

"As I did say early on. I do t quite know what I was trying to ask. But, I do think it's hard to not fall into acting like another guy on fab. "

I think watching too much porn is to blame for how some people behave.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Yes. It's the general idea.

Thanks you Hedylogos, you.

I would have preferred Adonis. But that contradicts my point does t it? "

I'm sure someone will be along to tell you you're an Adonis, don't worry.

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Yes. It's the general idea.

Thanks you Hedylogos, you.

Ooooh, apt!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Yes. It's the general idea.

Thanks you Hedylogos, you.

I would have preferred Adonis. But that contradicts my point does t it?

I'm sure someone will be along to tell you you're an Adonis, don't worry. "

Someone winked at me this morning. I took that as I sign.

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over a year ago

Totally agree pp and very well said. X

I totally agree. It had my name in it.

I'm not going to disagree either "

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over a year ago

I totally agree. It had my name in it.

As I did say early on. I do t quite know what I was trying to ask. But, I do think it's hard to not fall into acting like another guy on fab. "

Well I think that many of us ladies are happy to comment on your threads and share messages with you and a few of the men on here says that you don't act like the so called "sex gods" you think you do,

The very fact you're aware that other men behave that way makes you not like them at all, in my opinion x

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over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

I'd like to think so, but rightly or wrongly I called someone out on this the other day and they really got the hump.

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over a year ago

I find the internet a horrible way to try and meet people, which begs the question why I stay, I know? Morbid curiosity maybe? In the real world I don't seem to have a problem, and yes I am always open about my situation once I get talking to someone I am interested in. With so many men one here maybe the only way to stand out is play the Sex God. Whether they can live up to it is another matter. Also it's very easy to be rude to someone on the internet and most people will say stuff they would never say to their face. Hiding behind a keyboard is easy...

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over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

I'd like to think so, but rightly or wrongly I called someone out on this the other day and they really got the hump. "

Yes, there's a few posters who seem to feel they're the authority on a subject. The condescension is pretty funny at times.

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over a year ago

"I'm much the same in person as I am on here. Possibly a little less prone to random bouts of poetry.

Whatever manners I lack on here I am unfortunately lacking offline too.

I have visions of you and Hatter wandering the Countryside quouting random verse at pretty ladies to brighten their day

TheHatter has the patter and the wit and charm to match

Reciting poetry to brighten any day

To fair maiden in a bonnet he is cunning with a sonnet

About him only good things I can say

Errol is more feral and lacks for wit and charm

His poetry has turned blue sky to grey

And as he loiters in the park, quoting Poe from in the dark

Pretty ladies... well they often run away.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

Yes. It's the general idea.

Thanks you Hedylogos, you.

Ooooh, apt!"

I've given most forumites mythological references as names now.

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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

"I was saying to a friend at a swinging club that the men there behaved more like gentlemen than those in a normal nightclub . In a way that seems like a paradox.

Really?

. I'm actually really surprised by that.

Yes really. In a swinging club people ask first whereas in a nightclub after a few drinks apparently just grabbing a strangers arse is perfectly acceptable. "

I have not been to a actual swingers club yet but what is being said here is making it sound very appealing. Certainly when I go other to vanilla bars and clubs I spend half the night warding off men who think it it is ok to grab my arse! Although I find they stop doing it when I respond by grabbing there arm and whisper in their ear "either move your hand or I will break it off!"

Works everytime!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

I have a strong belief in manners and etiquette.

And I like to make sure a woman is satisfied before I am.

But I'm not a gent or sex god.

I'm not an alpha male or a beta male.

I'm just me.

Yes there are some incredibly disrespectful people on here, but some guys are 'over steering'

We've had guys say to us 'sorry for messaging you' - what's all that about?

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over a year ago

"I was saying to a friend at a swinging club that the men there behaved more like gentlemen than those in a normal nightclub . In a way that seems like a paradox.

Really?

. I'm actually really surprised by that.

Yes really. In a swinging club people ask first whereas in a nightclub after a few drinks apparently just grabbing a strangers arse is perfectly acceptable.

Works everytime!"

Find nicer clubs! It's a long time since I went clubbing, but is that normal behaviour now?Sounds more like indecent assault..

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over a year ago

"I was saying to a friend at a swinging club that the men there behaved more like gentlemen than those in a normal nightclub . In a way that seems like a paradox.

Really?

. I'm actually really surprised by that.

Yes really. In a swinging club people ask first whereas in a nightclub after a few drinks apparently just grabbing a strangers arse is perfectly acceptable.

Works everytime!

Find nicer clubs! It's a long time since I went clubbing, but is that normal behaviour now?Sounds more like indecent assault..

Sounds like times have changed. It was the ladies pinching men's arses in the clubs in the late 90's/early 00's

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over a year ago

"I feel like all posts should say 'in my experience' and 'in my view'. That's a given though isn't it?

I'd like to think so, but rightly or wrongly I called someone out on this the other day and they really got the hump.

Yes, there's a few posters who seem to feel they're the authority on a subject. The condescension is pretty funny at times. "

Well I couldn't help be condescending in return. But it was warranted I think, lol.

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By *ucilleWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

"I was saying to a friend at a swinging club that the men there behaved more like gentlemen than those in a normal nightclub . In a way that seems like a paradox.

Really?

. I'm actually really surprised by that.

Yes really. In a swinging club people ask first whereas in a nightclub after a few drinks apparently just grabbing a strangers arse is perfectly acceptable.

Works everytime!

Find nicer clubs! It's a long time since I went clubbing, but is that normal behaviour now?Sounds more like indecent assault..

Yes it happens an yes it has always happened. And it happens in all clubs been to all types and it still happens.

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