FabSwingers.com forum: Do women get bored quickly?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Spoiler alert - lots of generalisations.

I know both sexes enjoy sex here, we wouldn't be listed as looking for meets otherwise. But as guys generally have to do the chasing, and have very few women falling at their feet. I think I could safely say. We're mostly "up for it! "

On the flip side. Does that fact that women's inboxed are inundated with offers/dic pics/and the amount of males trying to grab your attention, make you bored of sex talk and sex as a whole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't ever get bored, sometimes I look and I'm like meh but I never get bored and I send first messages as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I do x

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I send first messages, but I'm a bbw so not to everyone's taste as you know

SB happy mudder!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm no woman but Fab and t'interweb in general is so full of porn and nudity and sex that I get desensitised and bored of it to be honest.

I never quite get it when people declare on here that they're 'horny ALL the time' - I couldn't think of anything worse than having the constant horn! Time and a place and all that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get bored of reading filth in messages from people I dont know. If I get a teasing message from someone Ive been talking to and built rapport with who knows just what gets me going then I wont get bored.

Sometimes I think Ive become desensitised to the sexiness around here. Naked photos and flirting has become the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I send first messages, but I'm a bbw so not to everyone's taste as you know

SB happy mudder!!"

Thank you lovely, we're on our way there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking to meet guys at all and I've now had to filter messages from single guys due to the parade of cockatars in my inbox who didn't think I was serious when I said I was only looking to meet women. It's a shame because I'm not opposed to friendly chats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get bored too easily, I take the chat to another platform pretty quickly if I'm interested so the messages don't get lost in a sea of dick pics and "Wanna fuck?" messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im not bored at all. I dont have my filters on which i am pleased about as i have had some great guys message. I find it handy that the first part of the message shows before opening it as it can in itself filter out a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not looking to meet guys at all and I've now had to filter messages from single guys due to the parade of cockatars in my inbox who didn't think I was serious when I said I was only looking to meet women. It's a shame because I'm not opposed to friendly chats. "

It's a curse. There's a few I'd love to chat to with no intentions to meet (this is in no way a hint, it's just something I've noticed). But, that's why the filter is there. Use it, it's your choice.

*One day MsValient will succumb to such a hint, she might ask me to be her Freind too.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No. I'm not bored of sex or sex talk. I wouldn't be on here if that was the case. I'm not that bored of dirty messages from randoms either - I have filters on and ones that get through don't arouse enough emotion in me to be boredom.

And I do the chasing of men I like. Geez, your threads really are generalisations from a different era at times!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I do the chasing of men I like. Geez, your threads really are generalisations from a different era at times!

I warned you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get inaudated with messages. My profile tends to scare most away.

I don't like bullshit talk and usually can tell if the guy is all talk but no action. In saying that there are some pros out there and I have fallen for the odd ass who just wanted phone sex which frankly isn't for me.

I don't get bored I just don't want timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get bored very easily leave then rejoin

Fab is kind of addictive

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not bored of the right sex or attention. It's easy to be bored of the desperate, tedious contact and demands from those for whom even writing fancy a fuck seems beyond their communication expertise. And incessant demands to meet now to service their sad needs - whether I'm working or back in the USA, whilst they're thousands of miles away. Some men here lack simple intelligence and empathy it appears.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don't get bored but it just doesn't mean anything to me if I don't know or generally chat to that person. It's the person that makes it what it is, not the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get bored. I actually like cock pics too but i actually don't get sent many. I also don't message first anymore after someone thought i was giving him sympathy attention and pissed all over my rainbow.

My main gripe is men who think a sexy message should read like a bad porn film script, instead of adding in some teasing, passion and lust.

Make me feel like my boobs are the first pair of boobs you seek out of a morning. Don't tell me you want to fingerblast me till i'm so sore i can't walk.

That's just boring (and off putting!).

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Spoiler alert - lots of generalisations.

On the flip side. Does that fact that women's inboxed are inundated with offers/dic pics/and the amount of males trying to grab your attention, make you bored of sex talk and sex as a whole?

Yup, it's all too shallow and ephemeral to hold my interest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, an emotionally intelligent man will always pique my interest, shame they're few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't say bored at all. Some of it is repetitive, and some messages just make me roll my eyes.

But I think I'm lucky that most people I speak to can hold a good conversation, and generally flirt when it's mutually agreeable.

I do initiate first contact sometimes but for couples it seems to be different than for singles as your never sure at first who your talking too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really bored - though my filters are all up, so I pick and choose for myself who I want to talk to, and at any one time I'm only often talking to one person who I plan to meet.

But I did notice at one point last year that fab was really cheapening sex for me, as all the fantasy talk and wank material on here seemed very far removed to actual real life sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bored at all. It can be difficult to work through all of the messages to find the decent ones, but never bored xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spoiler alert - lots of generalisations.

On the flip side. Does that fact that women's inboxed are inundated with offers/dic pics/and the amount of males trying to grab your attention, make you bored of sex talk and sex as a whole?

Yes definitely. Plenty of eye rolling too

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Well I'm no woman "

Me either. How bizarre !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I wouldn't want any sex talk at all, even if I were meeting men from here still. I would still want the illusion that whoever I was talking to, wasn't just trying to get in my knickers.

Besides, a man is unlikely to get into talking sex with me if he's chatting me up in real life, so I wouldn't expect or want it here.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I don't appreciate some random person I've never spoken to before or rarely spoken to sending me explicit mail telling me what they'd like to do, or that they're wanking over my pics, etc., its a complete turn-off. But when I've been chatting to someone and established that there's rapport, mutual attraction and a genuine intent to meet, then I think its only natural for the conversation to turn a bit hot and steamy at times... Its foreplay... And its also a good way to find out what someone does or doesn't like, so that when the time comes there's no little voice in your head saying 'I wonder if I did 'this' now would it kill the mood or freak him out?'... Not that I'm particularly freaky... often...

Its also incredibly flattering to be told once in a while that you've the ability to turn someone you like on...

I know its a sex site and everyone assumes that a girl just has to show up online for guys to get a hard-on, but when someone you like singles you out and makes you feel special, you just float on air for the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For all those that are not bored easily....come talk to me, I'll bore the pants off ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex talk does bore me. Phone sex does too.

Sex itself with someone who really turns me on , that'll never bore me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get bored of reading filth in messages from people I dont know. If I get a teasing message from someone Ive been talking to and built rapport with who knows just what gets me going then I wont get bored.

Sometimes I think Ive become desensitised to the sexiness around here. Naked photos and flirting has become the norm

You can get desensitised to anything if you are exposed to it enough. I'm sure many women must get so many messages that they stop looking unless they feel the urge at a particular time. Even then, I expect sorting out the wheat from the chaff gets boring..You can see why people give up and just chat on the forums instead.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i'm very stable. the only thing i get bored of is bullshit.

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

"I send first messages, but I'm a bbw so not to everyone's taste as you know

SB happy mudder!!"

The only thing that put me off you...is actually that we live far...and..actually don't put me off at all!! Most of the time put you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never got bored with sex with my partner

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started reading...but....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so. I was talking to a woman who lives local to me and she was up for meeting for a social, but due to work and family I could never find the time, eventually she said she wasn't up for it anymore

I'm not saying that's a woman thing, but I think eventually we all get a bit fed up

Look at the amounts of threads we see with men kicking and screaming because no ones meeting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spoiler alert - lots of generalisations.

On the flip side. Does that fact that women's inboxed are inundated with offers/dic pics/and the amount of males trying to grab your attention, make you bored of sex talk and sex as a whole?

In all seriousness, flip this round...if you were receiving endless offers, vag pics and had a vast number of females trying to grab your attention, would you be bored of sex talk and sex as a whole?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get bored with the predictable messages and the cliched `youre gorgeous' `stunning' etc etc.

You dont even see my face and yet they say the above.

I get bored with those types of meessages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oddly enough we love the messages some are odd and creepy others really make us laugh and others intriguing we read most the ones we get sent.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Sex talk does bore me. Phone sex does too.

Sex itself with someone who really turns me on , that'll never bore me. "

I can so identify with this.

Sex talk in a first message results in an automatic 'no thanks' no matter how hot the sender appears to be.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes I get bored, wow I love your pics, wow you are stunning, wow wow wow.......

They say they are up for a social meet first, it gets arranged, they then cancel the social meet because something has come up, mostly to do with work.

Then they think oh well we had already arranged to meet a few days ago, so shall I just come straight round to yours then? Even though it is the middle of the week and I have already stated I only meet at weekends and only after a social.

The above has been my experience by 4 x different men this year so far, after I have been speaking to them for a while, so yes, long story short I do get fed up with the bullshit and of men trying to manipulate me and how I meet, and to this date I have never met any of the 4 men above, and never will.

So the bullshit doesn't work with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit I do x"

I do too. Tend to hide my profile and take a break when that happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I get bored, wow I love your pics, wow you are stunning, wow wow wow.......

They say they are up for a social meet first, it gets arranged, they then cancel the social meet because something has come up, mostly to do with work.

So the bullshit doesn't work with me

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