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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums!

Well it's a swinging site and the Lounge forum is a high traffic area so it's a good place to be seen but there is also a 'meet requests and parties' forum where you could post too, as the Lounge tends to be a general chit-chat forum more than a meets one.

Good luck in the search and I hope you hang around and join in with the banter on here as new blood is always welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us "

You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be honest, your profile, even though you said you tried the nice approach before, you come across as arrogant and aggressive, oh and this isn't a fuck site, it's a swinging site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, even if I was looking for what you're offering I wouldn't meet with you. Your profile is fairly abrasive and the lack of punctuation is a huge turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us

You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? "

is that am official offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, even if I was looking for what you're offering I wouldn't meet with you. Your profile is fairly abrasive and the lack of punctuation is a huge turn off for me. "

You read profiles?

Pfft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us

You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? "

Haha that's exactly what I thought!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I agree with other points op - make yourselves easy to find, understand and a pleasure to be welcomed by. You state you've been here before, so presumably know it's not fast for guys to join and have hordes of women hunt your groins down.

Your profile is too sharp and unfriendly. Lack of any photos won't draw people in - so you could make big steps to improve prospects easily.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the words ."full of themselves " spring to mind or someone late out of the pub having a windup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll be honest, your profile, even though you said you tried the nice approach before, you come across as arrogant and aggressive, oh and this isn't a fuck site, it's a swinging site "

Exactly this! If someone is aggressive on their profile imagine what they must be like in person. I wouldn't put myself in that situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Fetches the popcorn*

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

. I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops "

And breathe...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops

And breathe..."

I did when I came around after fainting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops

And breathe...

I did when I came around after fainting "

If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops

And breathe...

I did when I came around after fainting

If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me "

No it was just the op's profile it was such a turn on,I blamed my fainting on the lack of fullstops,but I lied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops

And breathe...

I did when I came around after fainting

If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me

No it was just the op's profile it was such a turn on,I blamed my fainting on the lack of fullstops,but I lied "

You're only human! Who could resist a pair of inseparable stud-muffins like that

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Good to see that's it's not just men who fail to read profiles.

OP, when you wake up, you have two options: post this on the meets forum, and put a meet request up. If you post in the Lounge then you'll just get comments on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OPS have only been on the site a short time so perhaps their profile wasn't well considered

OPs I would suggest perhaps a less aggressive approach. I'm sure you can appreciate that whilst some women will want to meet 2 men that will be a scary prospect for most. I'm not sure your profile would make that less intimidating.

Good Luck Tink

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops

And breathe...

I did when I came around after fainting

If I didn't know better, I'd say you were flirting with me

No it was just the op's profile it was such a turn on,I blamed my fainting on the lack of fullstops,but I lied

You're only human! Who could resist a pair of inseparable stud-muffins like that"

Exactly,I came over all funny like,it's rare it happens on here I tell ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OPS have only been on the site a short time so perhaps their profile wasn't well considered

OPs I would suggest perhaps a less aggressive approach. I'm sure you can appreciate that whilst some women will want to meet 2 men that will be a scary prospect for most. I'm not sure your profile would make that less intimidating.

Good Luck Tink"

I agree with this, I would find it intimidating and would prefer a much friendlier approach too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it as it is then and see how far it gets you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof "

Do let us know how you get on with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof "

The clues in the name mate

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Between the aggressive tone to your profile and your last aggressive post on here

I'd be too worried for my own safety just for a social to meet let alone to meet and fuck you, if I were your type that is I realise I may not be. Plus I prefer Bi MMFs straight ones do nothing for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure there are many women that would meet 2 guys alone, if they knew neither of them first...I wouldn't for sure

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof "

Some people do use it as a fuck site although I'm not sure how successful they are. I always say though that if an approach isn't working its possible that it's wrong.

What you're asking might appeal to some women so I don't suggest you change how you go about things or neither you nor the women you meet will get what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op to be honest yes it is a sex site but no one wants to be spoken to like a piece of meat and your profile suggests you can't differentiate between meat and people

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof "

The problem is, most of the women on the forum have been on Fab long enough to know that the OP is identical to the kind of post they wake up to, when the bloke or blokes have just got it from clubbing and are horny. It's just not that tempting.

And this is a swinging site, not a fuck site. If you don't want to be nice then go back to Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This popcorn is delicious, anyone else want some?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No we didn't come back from clubbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that "

Helpful tip - Readjust your understanding of aggression. Women need to feel safe in your presence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is "

Which forum are *you* looking at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But saying that there are ladies who like multiple Playmate's so you might need to search harder opand be prepared to travel

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is "

Has this thread resulted in many messages from women?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is

Which forum are *you* looking at? "

That's exactly what I thought too.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Good to see that's it's not just men who fail to read profiles.

OP, when you wake up, you have two options: post this on the meets forum, and put a meet request up. If you post in the Lounge then you'll just get comments on your profile."

To be fair to the OP they didn't ask for a profile critique, and it is against forum rules to critique a profile unless specifically asked for. Looks like a fair few people here breaking the forum rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use this site for sex...but I like aggressive sex, not aggressive men...being polite does not mean ya want a date

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is "

Actually women comments have also been negative, I do also agree with most of the men's comments I don't want to be made to feel like a piece if meet and that's exactly how you come across as well as aggressive

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Good to see that's it's not just men who fail to read profiles.

OP, when you wake up, you have two options: post this on the meets forum, and put a meet request up. If you post in the Lounge then you'll just get comments on your profile.

To be fair to the OP they didn't ask for a profile critique, and it is against forum rules to critique a profile unless specifically asked for. Looks like a fair few people here breaking the forum rules. "

Whoops I didn't read the whole thread so I assumed they had asked given the last few comments before I posted

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof "

Try checking the dictionary definition of 'swinging'. I assure you that it will not equate to this being a fuck site.

You've been given a lot of good advice by both males and females on this thread OP, I would suggest you heed it in order to succeed on here

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Not sure there are many women that would meet 2 guys alone, if they knew neither of them first...I wouldn't for sure "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm out of breath just reading the profile....

A lot of ladies like the attention of two guys but you come across like it's just for your benefit. Women like to feel safe when they are in those situations and, sorry, but with your aggressive tone, I personally am not feeling that!!

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus! Hadn't read your profile until now...still haven't...read about 2 lines...got to pornstar and gave up...plus...if you are worried about your safety then how do you think a single female is gonna feel with 2 guys that know eachother already and she knows neither?? Good luck...you're gonna need it!

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops

And breathe..."

Just what I was thinking.

Op, friendly before, now arrogant and disrespectful?

Not doing yourself any favours...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Op to be honest yes it is a sex site but no one wants to be spoken to like a piece of meat and your profile suggests you can't differentiate between meat and people "

This and far too cocky and aggressive ,but if it works for you guys thats all that matters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us

You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? "
I never got that message ha but if you say so x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I noticed it's not the women comments that are bad it's the men don't like our profile you know where the block button is "

Checks my boobs. Yep still a woman...

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that "

Thanks OP, your profile tells me everything I need to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look we was asking to see if anyone knows or willing maybe it came across aggressive but it's not meant like that but you lot think your genuine and easy to talk to we was asking for nice comments not dicky ones if you got nothing nice to say don't fucking comment on it.

Where not be aggressive but someone asked us about things we would be nice to them when the account got set up we got messages off men we said nicely where not interested so it shows the aggressive ones

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Look we was asking to see if anyone knows or willing maybe it came across aggressive but it's not meant like that but you lot think your genuine and easy to talk to we was asking for nice comments not dicky ones if you got nothing nice to say don't fucking comment on it.

Where not be aggressive but someone asked us about things we would be nice to them when the account got set up we got messages off men we said nicely where not interested so it shows the aggressive ones "

If you filter out men you'll not get messaged by them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that "

No one will bother, that's our point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that

Thanks OP, your profile tells me everything I need to know "

Same here. Where did I put my block button?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No cus where not like that we would be nice to anyone that's the point in why we put that up

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that

No one will bother, that's our point."

It's falling on deaf ears though

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"No cus where not like that we would be nice to anyone that's the point in why we put that up "

So you don't want men to message you, but you won't use the tools given to you by the site to prevent them from doing so? OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof "

Nope, I'm pretty certain I've only ever fucked nice people too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No where not aggressive at all you get the chance to know us you will see that

No one will bother, that's our point.

It's falling on deaf ears though "

Clearly. I'm taking bets on UNLOS?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nice comments only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice comments only "

I like pretty flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky"

Good. There's also thousands of guys that are better and you, my friend, are a small fish in a very big pond.

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's cool we do as well lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky"

And they probably won't get laid either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool nice to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice comments only

I like pretty flowers "

I like respectful men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we both have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we both have "

I'm glad you're there for each other

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Yeah we both have "

If you hit reply and quote we know who you're replying to. Otherwise it just looks like you're barking out random comments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And we are nice guys but at the same time wed like nice women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we both have

I'm glad you're there for each other "

They'll need to be when realisation hits...UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky"
worst and we're

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Nice comments only "

It is a public forum

Anyone as the right to post their opinion within the rules of the site

Wanting to control that is just another demonstration of your arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"We put it up for everyone to have a go yes we did try being nice but am I forgetting something it's a fuck site not a dating site if you want someone to be nice go on pof "

So you think you only have to be 'nice' to people only if you are dating them?

No thanks, I would only want to meet nice respectful people on here, if not I have toys if I just want to fuck, but good luck in your quest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cockyworst and we're"

You beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear,

Whilst I agree with most,the OP's do have a rather abrupt profile...I agree with the fact it really is a sex site...for the majority...

However isn't everyone entitled to use the site how they like...within reason of course.

Good luck though OP's

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah we both have

If you hit reply and quote we know who you're replying to. Otherwise it just looks like you're barking out random comments."
haha sorry lol where new on this part lmao where just barking mad lmao

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

Even I'm out! Now that's saying something!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Look we was asking to see if anyone knows or willing maybe it came across aggressive but it's not meant like that but you lot think your genuine and easy to talk to we was asking for nice comments not dicky ones if you got nothing nice to say don't fucking comment on it.

Where not be aggressive but someone asked us about things we would be nice to them when the account got set up we got messages off men we said nicely where not interested so it shows the aggressive ones "

Block men from being able to contact you, that will resolve that.

There are women who want to meet with two or more men and some of them might even go for your approach but surely you can see from the responses that the ones who read the forum don't.

Have the pair of you thought about attending a club? Have you messaged many women in your area, if so what was the response?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Mine wasn't a 'dicky' comment btw. Maybe if you make some of you're pics public that might help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice comments only

I like pretty flowers

I like respectful men "
youd live me miss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky"

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cockyworst and we're

You beat me to it "
haha

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"And we are nice guys but at the same time wed like nice women"

Most of the women on this post (and men) have been nice and given you great advice

Your choose not act on it to what will ifbthis thread alone is anything to go by will be to your own detriment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal"

Man to man advice, all true.

The tone of the posts says different too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives"
so try and get to know us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . I'm bloody exhausted after reading your profile,I now know why I love fullstops "

I read it and realised I hadn't drawn breath

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I know you don't want profile advise but

Punctuation would help.

I've read it twice and I'm still not sure what you want buy I know you're straight and work together.

Neither of you will go to a meet alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal

Get to know us then

Man to man advice, all true.

The tone of the posts says different too. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us "

The point is that men are in the majority on here, women don't need to spend time getting to know people to find out if their first impression was wrong. They simply move on to a profile that seems nice in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us "

your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us

The point is that men are in the majority on here, women don't need to spend time getting to know people to find out if their first impression was wrong. They simply move on to a profile that seems nice in the first place."
yeah we know that but If no one likes our profile where not going to lose sleep? over it all the can do is move on

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

On a site like this first impressions are everything

You appear to be aggressive then you'll be aggressive no one will care to look further and find out you're not

Although given some of the shortness of your responses (yes I saw the ones you strategically deleted) you don't come acros particularly nice on this thread either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us

your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here."
I'm not beingfunny ddon't look then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On a site like this first impressions are everything

You appear to be aggressive then you'll be aggressive no one will care to look further and find out you're not

Although given some of the shortness of your responses (yes I saw the ones you strategically deleted) you don't come acros particularly nice on this thread either "
yeah we did delete them but where new on here and there was two many to keep up with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us "

I will bet my entire life savings that no one on this thread will bother. No need to. Plenty of nicer guys with more articulate and respectful shop windows.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us

The point is that men are in the majority on here, women don't need to spend time getting to know people to find out if their first impression was wrong. They simply move on to a profile that seems nice in the first place. yeah we know that but If no one likes our profile where not going to lose sleep? over it all the can do is move on "

We feel the same about our profile. Plenty don't like it but we sleep soundly.

If your approach works, stick with it. I wouldn't advise you to change it because as I said before you won't get what you want, neither would anyone who met you.

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over a year ago


"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal

Man to man advice, all true.

The tone of the posts says different too. "
I get told my face pics are very aggressive something I will need to address but I need someone to take pics when I'm not concentrating on looking moody lol

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over a year ago


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us

your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here. I'm not beingfunny ddon't look then "

You have invited people to look in a public forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal

Man to man advice, all true.

The tone of the posts says different too. I get told my face pics are very aggressive something I will need to address but I need someone to take pics when I'm not concentrating on looking moody lol"

Use your timer! Your face pics can't be comparable to this situation surely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a rental basis, long-term lease, hire-purchase or outright purchase?

- Mrs. J -

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Look you want to block us that's fine but bet there are worsts men on here where just cocky

you say you would be 'nice' to someone you met, but women will not get that impression in the first place, so i would imagine you may find it very difficult with the current attitude your profile gives so try and get to know us

your profile is the first place people will look at to 'get to know you'...i wouldn't look at a rude, arrogant and aggressive profile and think 'oh i'll chat to him because i expect he's really nice under all the the swearing and aggression'..why would i bother? Your profile is there to give people a first impression, and if that's the impression you are giving,i think you'll find it very hard work on here. I'm not beingfunny ddon't look then "

Youve asked for people to be interested those People have to look at your profile in order to know if they'd be interested, doesn't mean they'll look again after doing so

That's just logical

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look there's to many to keep up with but all we want was nice messages yeah our profile is a bit forward but at the end of the day it's our profile not your lots I wouldn't? ask for you lot to change then start acting like a dick with you.

Yeah the profile is forward sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't there's no need for this

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over a year ago


"Op your basic approach is off putting I hear you when you say your not aggressive but your profile says different and for that reason you won't get meets and yes I think any woman willing to meet two strange men for sex at the same time needs to be sure she will be safe and sorry your persona ain't conveying that pal

Man to man advice, all true.

The tone of the posts says different too. I get told my face pics are very aggressive something I will need to address but I need someone to take pics when I'm not concentrating on looking moody lol

Use your timer! Your face pics can't be comparable to this situation surely!"
yep I've been told I look aggressive so wouldn't meet but people do look beyond the face now and then but a profile needs to grab attention bit not in the way the ops has

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The op has expressly asked that their profile isn't critiqued. Can we stop now please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The op has expressly asked that their profile isn't critiqued. Can we stop now please."

It is against the site rules too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look there's to many to keep up with but all we want was nice messages yeah our profile is a bit forward but at the end of the day it's our profile not your lots I wouldn't? ask for you lot to change then start acting like a dick with you.

Yeah the profile is forward sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't there's no need for this "
forward yes and if you think you will get what u want that way fine but the majority here feel u won't and I believe you will end up frustrated and either change it or leave but hey it's down to u

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Look there's to many to keep up with but all we want was nice messages yeah our profile is a bit forward but at the end of the day it's our profile not your lots I wouldn't? ask for you lot to change then start acting like a dick with you.

Yeah the profile is forward sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't there's no need for this "

No ones specifically telling you to change it, they are merely suggesting that it may help to considerably improve your chances if you do

You're choosing that you don't want to change it and that's fine, just be aware that comes at a price

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I'll be honest, your profile, even though you said you tried the nice approach before, you come across as arrogant and aggressive, oh and this isn't a fuck site, it's a swinging site

Exactly this! If someone is aggressive on their profile imagine what they must be like in person. I wouldn't put myself in that situation. "

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey don't know if where on the right thing to post on here but where looking for a woman to take both of us we got pictures if interested please message us

You know your post makes it seem like you want a woman to fuck you both with a strap on right? "

Maybe that's what they want lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look there's to many to keep up with but all we want was nice messages yeah our profile is a bit forward but at the end of the day it's our profile not your lots I wouldn't? ask for you lot to change then start acting like a dick with you.

Yeah the profile is forward sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't there's no need for this

No ones specifically telling you to change it, they are merely suggesting that it may help to considerably improve your chances if you do

You're choosing that you don't want to change it and that's fine, just be aware that comes at a price "
yeah but we wanted nice comments not dicky ones where not aggressive guys

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Ok I'm closing this now. The ops didn't ask for profile critiques.

Ops if you want to start a new thread do.

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