FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been with a few women much older than me, never from fab. I found them on nights out, just go to a pub or club and speak to them, there not aliens.

What you'll find is "older" women are actually easier to talk to than younger woman

*disclaimer* there is nothing wrong with younger women's attitude, it's just an observation blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have met a few on nights out but never progressed any further than kiss or texting abit, I find alot of younger girls in me experience are a night mare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advanced search.

Choose the age range you're looking for.

Click the 'I'm the age they're looking for too' box.

Send nice, polite tailored messages to the suitable women.

If you get a reply - great!

Talk some more.

If all goes well - ask them if they'd like to meet for a social - take it from there.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd not just source my sex life via a website, especially if that website wasn't predominantly aimed at that specific fantasy that I had.

Fab is generally hard for all you single men to achieve all of the sexual satisfaction that you want - so you are already starting from a position of weakness.

Improve your game here. Get out to meet people.

But it's probably helpful for you to not have prospective meets to perceive that they are wanted as a mature partner, rather than who they are and - most importantly - what their needs are.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I have met a few on nights out but never progressed any further than kiss or texting abit, I find alot of younger girls in me experience are a night mare! "

Although there is no real 'sisterhood' on here, most women are not attracted to men who big up one demographic while dissing another.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I have met a few on nights out but never progressed any further than kiss or texting abit, I find alot of younger girls in me experience are a night mare!

Although there is no real 'sisterhood' on here, most women are not attracted to men who big up one demographic while dissing another."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Apologies if that came across that way, it was more on a personal experience level as I much prefer the more mature lady, I've dated a few younger than me and it's not gone well!

Didn't mean to cause any friction it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

Really? There are 100s of single guys who manage to talk to women on here. We're human, same as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

Really? There are 100s of single guys who manage to talk to women on here. We're human, same as you."

Oh hey..we..er..ffff....drink?...er...nah...call me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

Really? There are 100s of single guys who manage to talk to women on here. We're human, same as you."

just personal experiance, from being in the chat rooms i can see alot of guys are a nightmare and put women off understandably haha

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

Really? There are 100s of single guys who manage to talk to women on here. We're human, same as you.

Oh hey..we..er..ffff....drink?...er...nah...call me

Only if there's cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

Really? There are 100s of single guys who manage to talk to women on here. We're human, same as you.

Oh hey..we..er..ffff....drink?...er...nah...call me

Only if there's cake.

Slide into my inbox and I'll see what I can do

smooth as fuck

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

Really? There are 100s of single guys who manage to talk to women on here. We're human, same as you.

Oh hey..we..er..ffff....drink?...er...nah...call me

Only if there's cake.

Slide into my inbox and I'll see what I can do

smooth as fuck"

Where did I leave that sick bucket???

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!? "

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

There's a couple of women near me that are "looking for young cubs/boys to fuck or ruin"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

Its a standard fantasy on here. And people who have been here longer than the OP have been as clueless.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"it's hard enough on here to even speak to women as it is for a single guy!

Really? There are 100s of single guys who manage to talk to women on here. We're human, same as you.

Oh hey..we..er..ffff....drink?...er...nah...call me

Only if there's cake.

Slide into my inbox and I'll see what I can do

smooth as fuck"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

sorry my wording was wrong ..... rather it not turn The forum into an argument just trying to reach out and get to know people....nevermind.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

Don't forget that a lot of younger guys see this as Instantshag.com.

It seems that they think that swingers fuck others so why not come on here, write a couple of lines, and get some sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

attend socials and clubs - group chat is easier to blend into

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

Its a standard fantasy on here. And people who have been here longer than the OP have been as clueless."

It may be a standard fantasy, but to word things and place people in boxes 'just because they want to fuck them and tick the box off' just pisses me off, and that goes for both sexes.

And for the other poster, just because others do it or say it doesn't make it right, and maybe why people struggle to engage the brain they were born with.

Just my opinion of course and why I choose not to be seen as a any hole is a goal and I don't treat any friends of mine as such.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

Don't forget that a lot of younger guys see this as Instantshag.com.

It seems that they think that swingers fuck others so why not come on here, write a couple of lines, and get some sex!"

And I wish they would just stick to tinder or what other app they think will guarantee them sex and stop clogging up this site with their 'oh woe is me, I thought it would be a lot easier than this' threads reoccurring on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

Its a standard fantasy on here. And people who have been here longer than the OP have been as clueless.

It may be a standard fantasy, but to word things and place people in boxes 'just because they want to fuck them and tick the box off' just pisses me off, and that goes for both sexes.

And for the other poster, just because others do it or say it doesn't make it right, and maybe why people struggle to engage the brain they were born with.

Just my opinion of course and why I choose not to be seen as a any hole is a goal and I don't treat any friends of mine as such. "

That's fair, just pointing out that for every younger lad you wants to fuck an older woman, there is an older woman wanting to fuck a younger lad. Something for everyone

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

"I joined fab a good while ago now mainly to fulfill a fantasy I assume everyone has the same reason! Problem is I'm still waiting!

My fantasy is to find an older women to fuck I'd just love to experience it but the fantasy has become a preference In general I just find older women so attractive!

Any advice how to move the next step!?

'To find an older woman to fuck'

That is your problem, your whole attitude stinks! And you wonder why you are struggling? I mean really?

I wont say anymore, though I would love to!

Don't forget that a lot of younger guys see this as Instantshag.com.

It seems that they think that swingers fuck others so why not come on here, write a couple of lines, and get some sex!

Agree totally.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

In my opinion although you seem inoffensive you really don't seem to have a clue

And I genuinely don't think anyone should try to give you said clue

If you cannot work out how to seduce the object of your desires I think it most dishonest and misleading for you to blindly follow advice that may CONvince a lady you are more able and savvy than you actually are

The fact you single dimensionality quest an older women illustrates a deep misunderstanding about life humans and sexual interaction and tells us a lot about you and your simplistic outlook and generalisation

What is a mature woman ? What do you quest ?

Not all women older are experienced ? Not all older are psychologically more mature in fact some are enjoying a second adolescence and looking for guidance themselves

Do you quest wrinkles? Do you quest experience , do you hope you will seem a gift to a lady you think no one else wants ?

For you to appeal to many psychologically mature ladies you will need to change a lot and those changes need to come from your observation , learning and understanding else all they see is a horny young guy cock in hand gagging to squirt xxx

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