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Unexpected effects that Fab's had on your life...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you learned something about yourself?

Have you gained a friend for life?

Have you fallen in lurveee, gotten married, had tiny babies?

Have you discovered interesting new hobbies?

For me... way back in summer 2015, Cute n Sassy started a thread on adult colouring. A few days later I bought a cheap little book and a big tub of felt tips... nearly two years later, my book, pencil and pen collections have exploded and I accidentally got my mum into it too. But now I colour everyday and it's had the best effects on my mental health and my anxiety's basically vanished! So thank you CnS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly some new learning and there's a thread coming later on to explain it.

And I've met some fantastic people that I'm very grateful have come into my life

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I met BlondeCaz and we got on so well we go on holidays together now. I also consider a few others, like Lickety, good friends (she may think otherwise of course ).

No babies or hobbies though.

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By *ochaLattoCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Met Silk on the cam's in the chatroom actually thought he was a bit full of himself. That impression didn't last long 6 years and 2 children later we are still going strong. Love the bones of the man. Fabs changed my life for the better in so many ways.

MissD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive probably got a bit more confidence in myself and how I come across. Ive had people say nice things about me hanging around the forums where I thought I was maybe just being annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned a lot about how I try and engage with others (positive and negative) which are useful life lessons. I've learned that I may actually be able to take a reasonable photo of myself but that this only increases my panic about being a let down in reality. I've had the opportunity to interact and learn from a wide range of people who I may not normally have rubbed up against (oooerrr) in my day to day life. I've discovered I have made some genuine friendships, both virtual online ones and some in real life, through the site. I have also discovered connections with people that have gone far deeper than I ever imagined or hoped for, and I wake up everyday thankful for this. I've also had some awesome sex thanks to the site. And I've felt less lonely due to the immediacy of human interaction afforded on the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also learned I can do a JazzFM voice, thanks BlueEyedGirl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met some interesting people, and getting out more has helped me with my social anxious. And I'm more comfortable with my sexuality.

-Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you learned something about yourself?

Have you gained a friend for life?

Have you fallen in lurveee, gotten married, had tiny babies?

Have you discovered interesting new hobbies?

For me... way back in summer 2015, Cute n Sassy started a thread on adult colouring. A few days later I bought a cheap little book and a big tub of felt tips... nearly two years later, my book, pencil and pen collections have exploded and I accidentally got my mum into it too. But now I colour everyday and it's had the best effects on my mental health and my anxiety's basically vanished! So thank you CnS. "

That's a great post Yvaine. ..and fantastic yo hear how such a simple innocent action can have such a great effect on a very complex issue. One of my daughters is particularly good at faces and I encouraged her to use that gifting in her very stressful work environment to great effect. It's helped others too.

For me I've made some very good friends. I'd say friends for life no matter what happens after fab. I've also learnt that some people have a very different personality behind the keyboard as to real life too....and some are just the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now spend more time on the forums rather than doing something constructive, which is a bad thing. I may have to leave tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have certainly experienced more situations sexually than I had before joining, even visited a few clubs which was interesting too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do "

You need to do me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

You need to do me! "

I'd love to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

You need to do me! "

Or maybe both of us?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now spend more time on the forums rather than doing something constructive, which is a bad thing. I may have to leave tbh. "

This

Also having joined after a long term relationship, I've kind of learnt to do things without worrying too much about what somebody might think. Turns out I was oddly worried about that when I was in the relationship...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Friday I send a photo to random people whom I know nothing about in exchange for theirs.

Thinking about it...that's kind of odd but fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've made some friends for life in TinyDelight and JimiUK. They might not be so thankful for having to put up with my shite though

I wasn't expecting to make friends like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site has helped me put a lot of things in to perspective, make a lot of sense of some of these and other things, and meet and interact with some wonderful people, some I'd like to consider friends now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

You need to do me!

Or maybe both of us?! "

Having trouble breathing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence has grown, I've met a couple of people I'd class as more than just a fuck buddy, people who encouraged me to do better for myself... and looked after me and helped me out massively when I was disgustingly ill a couple of weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

You need to do me!

Or maybe both of us?! "

I'll take you both! Yay, girl party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

You need to do me!

Or maybe both of us?!

Having trouble breathing now "

Come join.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

No

No

No

And no

That wos easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The site has helped me put a lot of things in to perspective, make a lot of sense of some of these and other things, and meet and interact with some wonderful people, some I'd like to consider friends now. "

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

From bring very shy to be put into the fire of hosting events.Basically being thrown out of my comfort zone in vitually no clothing and to chat and to show people round this was to strangers would have sounded mad to me.Now a year later doesnt even bother me will chat to anyone and have a fun night and entertain.Its been a good journey thanks to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gained so much more confidence and has been amazing for my anxiety since joining Fab, I used to be quite shy and kept to myself.

Now I enjoy alone time to read, game or chill out but I'm a lot more comfortable talking to new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned more about me than I've learned about other people so in that respect it's been a real adventure, I've also had some giggles and met some Fantastic people on the way, long live fab x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

The unexpected thing for us was getting tattoos. Wasn't Bun's thing before, after starting this, she realised she liked the look of them on other women and did the same.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yvaine, lovely update from you

I've learned and seen the odd thing that I really didn't need to

I've really relaxed about messages and pressures to reply, spending time in the forum instead.

Whilst I've met many people, there are lovely people here who I've not but I've had great pleasure interacting with them.

My dad died suddenly a little while back and fab strangely was a big help in the grieving process - I ended up going out to clubs even when I thought my face looked miserable but had an uplifting time socialising.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ooh, as others have said, body confidence. The close up realisation that most women don't have perfect bodies either, they all have bits that aren't glossy magazine, photoshopped perfection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gained a stalker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I have learnt a LOT about myself in my time on fab. It's been a long journey and been both bitter and sweet.

I've made real friends, people I have THOUGHT were friends, and encountered some total knobjockeys.

Too many to name people in ten or so years I've been on here.

I do give a special mention to Insatiable Butterfly and Junoskinkyboots - they are two best friends I really couldn't be without I adore them both

Please anyone else close to me read nothing into the fact I've not mentioned you - I could be here all day naming special people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you learned something about yourself?

Have you gained a friend for life?

Have you fallen in lurveee, gotten married, had tiny babies?

Have you discovered interesting new hobbies?

For me... way back in summer 2015, Cute n Sassy started a thread on adult colouring. A few days later I bought a cheap little book and a big tub of felt tips... nearly two years later, my book, pencil and pen collections have exploded and I accidentally got my mum into it too. But now I colour everyday and it's had the best effects on my mental health and my anxiety's basically vanished! So thank you CnS. "

awww i nearly cried but then remembered i had eyeliner on xx

Thats super sweet of you to mention me.. i adore your colouring works of art

For me its Diamondsmiles who has lost vast amounts of weight and Evie!..

There's a whole backstory to Evie!.. and there was a time i was very bitter and wasnt her biggest fan but somehow that totally changed and think i am her biggest fan! Love her grit and determination and a true inspiration..

so yeah if it wasnt for Fab id not have been introduced to Diamonds or Evie x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I discovered the erotic possibilities of my arsehole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've wasted far too much time on here on occasions but on the plus side I've been lucky enough to meet some amazing people and had some great times!

It's been a genuine revelation, after years of being seemingly asexual to most women, that a tubby middle aged fella can actually still meet some ridiculously hot women every now and then - who'd have thunk it? Certainly not me!

It's also been a journey of discovery and I've done and experienced new things that I would never have done had I not joined. Overall I would describe my time and experiences on here as 'positive'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learned a few things about myself, have a bit more confidence in my body. And while I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea I am for more than I ever realised.

Made a few nice friends, and learned that I'm very flirty something I didn't think I was capable of. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned mainly negatives.

That I'm more naive than I thought

That no matter how much time you spend in someone's company you should never entirely let your guard down. Lying bastards come in all forms.

That I don't generally get along with women for a reason

The positives are that you can meet friends in the unlikeliest places

And my favourite is that it's ok to be fat as long as you're a pretty fat. That'll do me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learned that I can't spell for shit.

The earth does not revolve around me, apparently.

I've got a cute bum

I hate Manchester.

I've got a kink.

I won't fuck anything.

And you can find friends in the strangest of places.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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One incredible thing but is that fuck being disclosed on here.

I've learnt that it's possible to learn more about myself and my abilities than I thought.

I've met the best friends I didn't think I would ever. And I've been to the only wedding that has ever made me cry.

I've learnt that people are just people; as much as they wish to portray a certain image they can be weak and vulnerable too. And not as great as they would like to portray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just learned that I am apparently in the clique! Who knew?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping I've made some genuine friends it certainly feels like I have at the moment but I still consider myself a newbie in fab land so only time can tell

I've learned im not really cut out for fab life, im far too naive, not nearly confident enough and far to inexperienced but that I also enjoy the few interactions I have with people, those of you that do reply regularly to my rubbish messages thank you.... You are all beautiful people inside and out

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I've just learned that I am apparently in the clique! Who knew?! "

I wanna be part of it! I fear I may never be though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just learned that I am apparently in the clique! Who knew?!

I wanna be part of it! I fear I may never be though. "

Seriously, I don't want to be a member of anything that would have me as a member! I think other people tell you you are in it - so on that note, you are in! I say so. But there's no perks. You just get told you are no longer allowed to have an opinion or agree with others as it's cliquey, whereas non-clique members can act like the clique with no recourse. Seems like accusing someone of being in the clique is actually a way of failing to be accountable for your own behaviour. But then again, what do I know?!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Great thread OP

Where to start?

- Made some genuine friends

- Lost my most debilitating inhibitions

- Learned to admit to myself, and others, that I love sex

- Learned what I will and won't accept from other people and have ditched a couple of very negative influencers on my life

- Learned some great life lessons from some of the awesome people on here

And more that I can't even go into

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've just learned that I am apparently in the clique! Who knew?!

I wanna be part of it! I fear I may never be though.

Seriously, I don't want to be a member of anything that would have me as a member! I think other people tell you you are in it - so on that note, you are in! I say so. But there's no perks. You just get told you are no longer allowed to have an opinion or agree with others as it's cliquey, whereas non-clique members can act like the clique with no recourse. Seems like accusing someone of being in the clique is actually a way of failing to be accountable for your own behaviour. But then again, what do I know?! "

Oh and discovering that me and Estella may be the same persons in a different plane of existence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

made some great friends - realised im bisexual - been hurt - laughed til ive cried - the list s endless

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"made some great friends - realised im bisexual - been hurt - laughed til ive cried - the list s endless

"

this

Plus realised I'm not as uniquely fucked up as I thought I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just learned that I am apparently in the clique! Who knew?!

I wanna be part of it! I fear I may never be though.

Seriously, I don't want to be a member of anything that would have me as a member! I think other people tell you you are in it - so on that note, you are in! I say so. But there's no perks. You just get told you are no longer allowed to have an opinion or agree with others as it's cliquey, whereas non-clique members can act like the clique with no recourse. Seems like accusing someone of being in the clique is actually a way of failing to be accountable for your own behaviour. But then again, what do I know?!

Oh and discovering that me and Estella may be the same persons in a different plane of existence "

Ma sista from another mista!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not the person I thought I was 2 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"made some great friends - realised im bisexual - been hurt - laughed til ive cried - the list s endless

this

Plus realised I'm not as uniquely fucked up as I thought I was "

haha - loveit xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I met BlondeCaz and we got on so well we go on holidays together now. I also consider a few others, like Lickety, good friends (she may think otherwise of course ).

No babies or hobbies though."

Of course she thinks the same.

Fab has given me:

Friends across a wider demographic than I would ever have come across in my day to day life;

Mr Man - he's not mine but in the six years I have known him he's been there when I have needed a friend;

A whole new language - play, meet/meeting, social and bullet no longer mean what they did 7 years ago;

The forum - I hadn't communicated in this way before 2012. It's still the only one I use;

And, of course, the sex. Not quite enough but still gratefully received.

Thank you all.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun "

You should post more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun

You should post more "

she should - on my friends list through forum posts

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun

You should post more "

Thank you x I do try

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

You need to do me!

Or maybe both of us?! "

Can I join in too sound fun

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun

You should post more

she should - on my friends list through forum posts "

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun "

I'm glad you're enjoying your journey...x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun "

Never let ANYONE put you down or knock your confidence. It's just their insecurities they are putting on you.

You are a fabulous, gorgeous friendly lady and I'm sooooo glad you said hi! Head up girl and flick any haters a pair (and I'll be stood behind you doing the same)

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Twofold...

First, I've learnt I quite enjoy writing poetry and that I'm not completely terrible at it. Prior to joining Fab (and since leaving school) I hadn't written a word of it.

Second, the first couple we met through Fab have become close family friends. Completely unexpected and unplanned but I guess that is how things go.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun

I'm glad you're enjoying your journey...x"

Thank you lovely. You know I couldn't have done it without you and a few other very lovely people that have taken me under their wing x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm glad you're enjoying your journey...x

Thank you lovely. You know I couldn't have done it without you and a few other very lovely people that have taken me under their wing x "

Looks like you can fly solo now

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun

Never let ANYONE put you down or knock your confidence. It's just their insecurities they are putting on you.

You are a fabulous, gorgeous friendly lady and I'm sooooo glad you said hi! Head up girl and flick any haters a pair (and I'll be stood behind you doing the same) "

Aww thanks Hanky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just learned that I am apparently in the clique! Who knew?!

I wanna be part of it! I fear I may never be though.

Seriously, I don't want to be a member of anything that would have me as a member! I think other people tell you you are in it - so on that note, you are in! I say so. But there's no perks. You just get told you are no longer allowed to have an opinion or agree with others as it's cliquey, whereas non-clique members can act like the clique with no recourse. Seems like accusing someone of being in the clique is actually a way of failing to be accountable for your own behaviour. But then again, what do I know?! "

Bloody typical clique response

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I'm glad you're enjoying your journey...x

Thank you lovely. You know I couldn't have done it without you and a few other very lovely people that have taken me under their wing x

Looks like you can fly solo now "

Let's hope so Kinky x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them...."

I'll wear my freak badge with pride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun "

That's a lovely post

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

I'll wear my freak badge with pride! "

There's freaks and there's freaks your kind I gladly call friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised you haven't got loads with that body...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm glad you're enjoying your journey...x

Thank you lovely. You know I couldn't have done it without you and a few other very lovely people that have taken me under their wing x

Looks like you can fly solo now

Let's hope so Kinky x "

I remember when I 1st seen you on a morning thread. If I see the change in you I'm sure other's do to. It's good to watch

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Surprised you haven't got loads with that body..."

Obviously you mean me but click the bottom right reply+quote and everyone will know who you mean

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"To post or not to post??

When I first joined Fab my confidence had a real boost and worries over body image diminished but unfortunately that has been short lived and now I'm left with a bit of a crisis of confidence. What goes around, comes around, so hopefully at some point I will be back on track.

I'm shy, very shy actually. It's a big deal to comment on here and put myself out there. Being on Fab has certainly made me take that particular issue in hand I'm working on it!

Every day on the forums I laugh at something or someone. Yes, there are moments when I close my eyes and stick my fingers in my ears whilst thinking 'oh dear' but nonetheless it's fun.

I interact with some amazing people and have had some wonderful experiences. My views and boundaries have been challenged and tested in positive ways.

Ultimately, it's been an eye opener, a revelation and fun

That's a lovely post

"

Thank you x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I'm actually sexy! Who knew

I've made some friends, a couple of which I would like to think will stick around for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some incredible people.

I have become more confident with my body. I've learnt I have an alter ego the minx who only comes out with the right person. Everything happens for a reason.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm actually sexy! Who knew

I've made some friends, a couple of which I would like to think will stick around for a while."

Fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

I'll wear my freak badge with pride!

There's freaks and there's freaks your kind I gladly call friends"

oh yep found a few odd huggers too

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I've just realised another thing.

My new neighbours are unpacking (outstandingly gorgeous young people) and my thought is that I hope she's not a screamer if they christen their new home tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found my current partner here when neither of us was looking

Kinky

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've just realised another thing.

My new neighbours are unpacking (outstandingly gorgeous young people) and my thought is that I hope she's not a screamer if they christen their new home tonight.

"

Oh no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just realised another thing.

My new neighbours are unpacking (outstandingly gorgeous young people) and my thought is that I hope she's not a screamer if they christen their new home tonight.

Oh no "

lets hope theyre too tired - but you might find out tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found my current partner here when neither of us was looking

Kinky "

That's great, I like situations like that

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've just realised another thing.

My new neighbours are unpacking (outstandingly gorgeous young people) and my thought is that I hope she's not a screamer if they christen their new home tonight.

Oh no "

I'm a terrible person. I want them to have a happy sex life but...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt how far unhappy, bitter, vindictive people will go to spoil your fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found my current partner here when neither of us was looking

Kinky

That's great, I like situations like that "

Thank you

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

I'll wear my freak badge with pride!

There's freaks and there's freaks your kind I gladly call friends

oh yep found a few odd huggers too "

Haha hope the ribs healed ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learnt how far unhappy, bitter, vindictive people will go to spoil your fun

"

Yes .. This too . ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has made me lose weight, having someone to stay in shape for I find a big motivator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

I'll wear my freak badge with pride!

There's freaks and there's freaks your kind I gladly call friends

oh yep found a few odd huggers too

Haha hope the ribs healed ok "

yep but the vertigo took some getting over though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a new found confidence and understand more about myself, my likes, dislikes and wants/needs.

I've met some amazing people on here and gained some great friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

I'll wear my freak badge with pride!

There's freaks and there's freaks your kind I gladly call friends

oh yep found a few odd huggers too

Haha hope the ribs healed ok

yep but the vertigo took some getting over though"

Be glad it wasn't my lad he's 6ft8

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

As I said up there. Freaks

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I've left Facebook as a result of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

I'll wear my freak badge with pride!

There's freaks and there's freaks your kind I gladly call friends

oh yep found a few odd huggers too

Haha hope the ribs healed ok

yep but the vertigo took some getting over though

Be glad it wasn't my lad he's 6ft8 "

i am never going to offer to do your ironing - will take forever

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've made some fantastic friends as well as 1 or 2 freaks. I've been to countless socials both in and out of clubs but the biggest shock has been how women can react when they realise some men don't live there life ruled by there cock. He'll really does have no furry like some of them....

I'll wear my freak badge with pride!

There's freaks and there's freaks your kind I gladly call friends

oh yep found a few odd huggers too

Haha hope the ribs healed ok

yep but the vertigo took some getting over though

Be glad it wasn't my lad he's 6ft8

i am never going to offer to do your ironing - will take forever "

Why do you think I'm still single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

No

No

And...no

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

Oh, we also gained a dog due to Fab. Paco, a 15 year old Lhasaraptor. Dumb as a box of rocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just realised another thing.

My new neighbours are unpacking (outstandingly gorgeous young people) and my thought is that I hope she's not a screamer if they christen their new home tonight.

Oh no

I'm a terrible person. I want them to have a happy sex life but...

"

Surely what you've learned from Fab, is that you may get invited to join....look on the bright side!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

((hug))

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've just realised another thing.

My new neighbours are unpacking (outstandingly gorgeous young people) and my thought is that I hope she's not a screamer if they christen their new home tonight.

Oh no

I'm a terrible person. I want them to have a happy sex life but...

Surely what you've learned from Fab, is that you may get invited to join....look on the bright side! "

Fab has also taught me that a) never on your doorstep and b) tall, blonde couples in their 30s don't invite me to join them. (He has lovely big, strong hands from my brief handshake earlier.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

I hope in the future your good experiences outweigh the bad. some of that sounds really rotten, x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

All of life condensed, and through the lens of casual sex.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

Sending you a squishy huggle - never let any shitbag put you down lovely. You are better than that and never forget it x

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

I do hope your ok xx i too have had really bad experiences but you wise up quickly the fun times have now out weighed the bad and have lots of friends who look out for me And a couple of very special friends xx

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !

Sending you a squishy huggle - never let any shitbag put you down lovely. You are better than that and never forget it x"

xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've left Facebook as a result of fab"

Oh yes, that too

People you may know

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I'm glad you're enjoying your journey...x

Thank you lovely. You know I couldn't have done it without you and a few other very lovely people that have taken me under their wing x

Looks like you can fly solo now

Let's hope so Kinky x

I remember when I 1st seen you on a morning thread. If I see the change in you I'm sure other's do to. It's good to watch "

Thank you x

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

still fairly new but so far I can say-

found out that apparently I can be sexy even if I have been told otherwise in the past and struggle to see it myself

forums and chats have helped me in a difficult time when it was hard to communicate to others in real life

opened my eyes to some beautiful sexual experiences that I never thought I'd enjoy

that I enjoy banter and flirting

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Fabs liberates me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread OP.

I think I've learnt a lot about myself as a person. Additionally I also think that I've learned a lot about other people. Both of these have been hugely positive.

I've always made some great acquaintances via the forums and some really sound people that I can lean on when I need advice, guidance and just someone to rant at.

Not bad for a site I joins as a laugh because a friend was showing off their profile

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I'm actually sexy! Who knew

I've made some friends, a couple of which I would like to think will stick around for a while.

Fuck you "

Love you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn.. more confidence, changes in viewpoints towards others in regards of choice and moreso freedom of choice, questioning my codes of morality..

Oh and loads of laughs and more

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love "

Knew. It.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !

I do hope your ok xx i too have had really bad experiences but you wise up quickly the fun times have now out weighed the bad and have lots of friends who look out for me And a couple of very special friends xx"

Licketysplits was born after I was stalked off the site by a woman. I realised that my response was exactly what she wanted and Lickety arrived to deny her that pleasure.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Met my other half here almost four years ago. Apart from that it hasn't impacted on my life at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've realised that friends made on here can be flakey or solid as in every part of life but we've been lucky enough to share happy memories with some that will last a lifetime and met some that we hope to keep as friends for the same.

Oddly and honestly, regardless of the shenanigans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love "

Yay

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love "

See above love you to sweet

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love "

How lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

Bloody hell some of that sounds horrible. I hope that your experience becomes much more positive x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

Knew. It.

"

You'll never guess

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

Knew. It.

You'll never guess "

Georgie?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

Knew. It.

You'll never guess

Georgie? "

What?!

Myself...actually my boobs. I didn't like them much at all and now I think they are quite splendid.

No need to save for the lift now

Loving a person? What?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love "

I fear I may have caught the ghey too.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

Knew. It.

You'll never guess

Georgie?

What?!

Myself...actually my boobs. I didn't like them much at all and now I think they are quite splendid.

No need to save for the lift now

Loving a person? What?!"

Can't backtrack now.... you've already admitted to human loves above!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

Knew. It.

You'll never guess

Georgie?

What?!

Myself...actually my boobs. I didn't like them much at all and now I think they are quite splendid.

No need to save for the lift now

Loving a person? What?!

Can't backtrack now.... you've already admitted to human loves above! "

Everyone loves Bladey. Even if he ignores you at socials.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

I fear I may have caught the ghey too. "

You love me don't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

I fear I may have caught the ghey too.

You love me don't you? "

Yes. Yes I do. Thank you.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

I've learnt OP that I'm more bi than curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for that unexpected moment to haplen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a little ego boost but that's about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Done things I'd never ever thought I'd do

You need to do me!

Or maybe both of us?! "

Oh my Why yes of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a little ego boost but that's about it "
oh and I went on a roller coaster!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oh

This is a big one.

I have fallen in love

Knew. It.

You'll never guess

Georgie?

What?!

Myself...actually my boobs. I didn't like them much at all and now I think they are quite splendid.

No need to save for the lift now

Loving a person? What?!

Can't backtrack now.... you've already admitted to human loves above!

Everyone loves Bladey. Even if he ignores you at socials. "

I was playing hard to get but some stuffy fucker sneaked in there when I turned my back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel all mine have been negative. I can't be the only one?

I've learned people say one thing, but mean another.

People are generally more fickle than I thought.

It's easier to talk openly and honesty to strangers, than it is to my family and close friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learned that sex is a commodity and that its not important in sustaining life, its for some the beginning of life especially when the condom breaks ,its extremely pleasurable ,its desirable ,its a moment the important things are that you enjoy the people you meet ,that you like the people you procreate with and that everyone moves on thinking that was so worth it

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I feel all mine have been negative. I can't be the only one?

I've learned people say one thing, but mean another.

People are generally more fickle than I thought.

It's easier to talk openly and honesty to strangers, than it is to my family and close friends. "

You have since made friends of those strangers though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main thing is to not be so anxious about the way I look. I'm lucky to have had a few compliments telling me that I'm good looking, (whether they're genuine or not) but its given me a little bit of self confidence.

I've gained a few friends, yeah... For life... Thats a long time off, but hopefully! Haha

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I met Jack here so that would be my life changer,we weren't looking for more than fun but it just happened.We now live together and have just had our first hol abroad.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel all mine have been negative. I can't be the only one?

I've learned people say one thing, but mean another.

People are generally more fickle than I thought.

It's easier to talk openly and honesty to strangers, than it is to my family and close friends.

You have since made friends of those strangers though? "

Your alright. oh go on. I'll be your mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot to mention, yes I now have a few gorgeous and kind friends thanks to Fab. It took a while to find them but worth the wait.

Thanks to the Forumites who have made lovely comments and sent nice messages re my post. It's very much appreciated and made me smile lots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a few terrible experiences. My confidence has been knocked and I have been subjected to bullying tactics from catty women who have tried to fuck the guys I have met to get "one up" on me. I have been humiliated in Forums by people I have fucked and made to feel like I'm a piece of shit. Aside of that crap, I have had some amazing meets, socials and have mixed and mingled with some really great people. It's been a roller-coaster but more positive than negative experiences. It can be disheartening, as human nature to crave being "accepted' but I'm just plodding on as best I can to have fun and get from Fab what I really crave which is great sex. It's made me happy/sad/frustrated/elated and acutely aware that we are all human beings, but oh so different !"

Erm...

It's your new'ish friend from London! D you will know how hard it is for me to not make a silly/cheeky comment because I soo want to! There are a few things in your post that I can really get stuck into.

But...

I will say the following instead:

I am not a "forumite" in terms of being associated with known groups. However it is not difficult to connect the dots because a bully is predictable.

You can't block, delete, report most troublemakers because they have safety in numbers. Therefore work in a pack taking turns to poke you and ware you down... drain you emotionally... try to suck the fun out of your experiences...

Me personally I love picking those "types" off one by one, but get bored easily because they are not a challenge. So I ignore anything to do with negativity or on occasions step in to nudge people who go over the top!

Dana you know why you joined. You know what you want. You know how to get it. You have good genuine friends. Best thing to do is ignore people who upset or make you sad.

Now...

You have always been respectful since the time I have known you. Then you allowed me to stay overnight with you. I am incredibly loyal and only associate myself with good positive people. You always make me smile and I am lucky to be your friend. Xx

Therefore...

Whilst it is good to vent and release frustration from time to time... I know another method... I will share it with you... no not that silly...

PILLOW FIGHT !!!

Please make sure you're frustrated to the max when we meet because you will need to bring your A game.

Oh you're going down...

Respect

Your friend,

Adam aka chatterbox

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Fab saved my life in 2012 when I came on here as a Fake profile ( yes Flower was a fake ) to set up a honey trap to, at the time my long term boyfriend .

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Fab saved my life in 2012 when I came on here as a Fake profile ( yes Flower was a fake ) to set up a honey trap to, at the time my long term boyfriend .

"

Now you are a real, beautiful lady (and profile!) and a good friend of mine xx. Win

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Fab saved my life in 2012 when I came on here as a Fake profile ( yes Flower was a fake ) to set up a honey trap to, at the time my long term boyfriend .

Now you are a real, beautiful lady (and profile!) and a good friend of mine xx. Win "

Oh Hanky you Always cheer me up . Mwah xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I forgot to mention, yes I now have a few gorgeous and kind friends thanks to Fab. It took a while to find them but worth the wait.

Thanks to the Forumites who have made lovely comments and sent nice messages re my post. It's very much appreciated and made me smile lots x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you learned something about yourself?"

Apparently I have a nice bum.


"Have you gained a friend for life?"

Yes I have. She's held my hand, pushed me into things outside my comfort zone, listened to my problems, and we've laughed and chatted like two life long friends.

I've also met some lovely people on here, as well as some nasty vindictive people.

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