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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You ever see yourself in a reflection and think to yourself "god I'm repulsive!!". I feel like that all the time (Mr here)

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I've spent a very large part of my life thinking that. I literally only ever looked in a mirror for the minimum time it took to check for food in my teeth.

I've managed to progress to 'I suppose you'll do' in more recent years but still can't admire myself - my face never looks 'right'

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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nope, sometimes i know i look rough or i know i'm not stunning but never think i'm ugly/repulsive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not anymore...sometimes think the bags under my eyes are too dark or something similar but I think I do ok for mid 40s and I am happy with that

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Sometimes I have a mental image of myself in my head as looking alright and then I catch sight in a mirror and the reality is disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pugs are adorable

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"Sometimes I have a mental image of myself in my head as looking alright and then I catch sight in a mirror and the reality is disappointing.

That's *exactly* how I feel, you worded it much better than me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never, I like myself because I'm a nice person and you can only work with what you've got ,so dont beat yourself up go buy yourself some new duds and make yourself feel good and work from their

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time but I must be someone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I have a mental image of myself in my head as looking alright and then I catch sight in a mirror and the reality is disappointing.

That's *exactly* how I feel, you worded it much better than me ..."

I know I do that but don't care enough to take notice of the difference in imagination and reality lol... I carry myself like I am bloody amazing...it works on others aswell as me, weirdly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a lass I'd definitely skip me by and move on to the next person. I'm never going to be one of those people that others think 'hello, he's a bit of alright' or nudge their mate as though to say 'check him out!'

But I've known that and accepted that from an early age and we are what we are and we have to make the best of what we've got!

Life's too short to worry about such things so just accept who you are and go enjoy it as much as you can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have many days like that and haven't ruled out a brow lift at some point in next few years. I also have dermatitis on my face in areas so it's also a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a little bit of body dysmorphia so often look in the mirror and don't like what I see.

I've been trying hard to change that and now accept that I'm ok. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do have a little bit of body dysmorphia so often look in the mirror and don't like what I see.

I've been trying hard to change that and now accept that I'm ok. X "

I often thought I have reverse body dismorphia...what I see in the mirror bodywise is much better than reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many a time I have caught a look at myself and I have literally gasped at how rough I have looked. But I really do believe my mood affects my perception of myself massively. When I am chipper and upbeat I don't get nearly so critical of myself though. So that may be the biggest factor there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You ever see yourself in a reflection and think to yourself "god I'm repulsive!!". I feel like that all the time (Mr here)"

Not in the mirror but i do not take a good photo,i look old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You ever see yourself in a reflection and think to yourself "god I'm repulsive!!". I feel like that all the time (Mr here)"

Yes. Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every morning before I've had coffee and my hair is making me look like Worzel Gummidge

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Look around..

You see beautiful people with beautiful people

You see ugly people with ugly people

You see beautiful people with ugly people.

I think that means we individually worry too much. Vast majority of people don't just go for looks

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yup. Every day. Although I think I look better in the mirror than I do in pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, fuck that, I'm awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, fuck that, I'm awesome.

Yes. Yes, you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fugly but I have a good heart so I'm happy with that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, fuck that, I'm awesome.

Yes. Yes, you are.

You're awesome, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the UK needs to take some of America's self-esteem. We have too much, you have too little....I think its time to even things out.

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

Neither of us consider ourselves anything special and sometimes lack a bit of confidence

However we've met quite a few single ladies so must be doing something right lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I think the UK needs to take some of America's self-esteem. We have too much, you have too little....I think its time to even things out.

Oh, I have plenty of self esteem. In my head I'm gorgeous. In the mirror, not so much. The two balance out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a face fit for radio! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heey I have a pug and he is definitely not ugly

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not ugly but plain but now i'm old it doesn't matter so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do have a little bit of body dysmorphia so often look in the mirror and don't like what I see.

I've been trying hard to change that and now accept that I'm ok. X

I often thought I have reverse body dismorphia...what I see in the mirror bodywise is much better than reality

I think I'm the same. In pics or the mirror I don't look too bad but when I look down the reality just doesn't look the same at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a face fit for radio! lol

Yeah that funny swirly thing ya got going on would do that!!

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By *cenario-xxxMan
over a year ago

Salford

Definitely!

All through growing up and at school I thought well my time will come...I'll fill out a bit and I'll grow my hair....unfortunately stayed skinny and suffe_ed early onset of mpb

At this rate by the time I'll have grown into my looks I'll be dead!Haha

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By *cenario-xxxMan
over a year ago

Salford

"You ever see yourself in a reflection and think to yourself "god I'm repulsive!!". I feel like that all the time (Mr here)

Yes. Always.

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No ways....! I just will not have that...you are as cute as a button!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've definitely got shallow Hal syndrome..I think I look slim and hot then clock a mirror or photo and remember that I'm fat and ugly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the opposite! I see myself in a mirror and think I'm alright, it's everyone else that thinks I'm repulsive evidently! Lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

nope, sometimes i know i look rough or i know i'm not stunning but never think i'm ugly/repulsive."

Same here

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