FabSwingers.com forum: Going to a club as a single male

By *rushman OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

What do you talk about when you approach a couple or a woman in a club lol?

I'll be going to a club tonight as a single male for the very first time and want to be as social as possible.

In the past I've been to clubs but was accompanied by a woman so didn't really have to make an effort to chat to other people as we were constantly being approached

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

People talk about any old crap lol.

It's no different to going to a pub and talking to someone you don't know.

Just be polite, friendly and respectful. Don't jump straight in with sexual talk remember to chat with both halves if it's a couple.

Have a good night OP

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Have fun, and chat like you would in a pub. I'd avoid bringing up the smelly fanny topic from your other thread though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we are at a club we find being approached and spoken to about their honest expectations to be the best way. We got talking to a fella last Friday who introduced himself, asked how we were then went on to tell us he'd love to join us both somewhere we could all enjoy some time together. He wasn't pushy, he then went away saying if we felt the same at any point in the evening to just give him the nod. He was polite and friendly. We were not at the time lookingbto play with a single man but if we were then his approach would have been right for us.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"When we are at a club we find being approached and spoken to about their honest expectations to be the best way. We got talking to a fella last Friday who introduced himself, asked how we were then went on to tell us he'd love to join us both somewhere we could all enjoy some time together. He wasn't pushy, he then went away saying if we felt the same at any point in the evening to just give him the nod. He was polite and friendly. We were not at the time lookingbto play with a single man but if we were then his approach would have been right for us. "

Same here. We've only met one single guy, he was similar. Just chatted and we knew he would be a good match. We messaged on fab and played the next visit to the club.

The non-pushy way is best. Not sat in a corner on your own type non-pushy though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you talk about when you approach a couple or a woman in a club lol?

I'll be going to a club tonight as a single male for the very first time and want to be as social as possible.

In the past I've been to clubs but was accompanied by a woman so didn't really have to make an effort to chat to other people as we were constantly being approached

And which opening lines and direction of conversation did they start with? If it worked then adopt their tactic

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Typical hellos and introductions, then play it by ear - all parties are responsible for the conversation, not just the person initiating it.

I'm upbeat socially, chatting as I would with new people I meet anywhere. It's fine to be a little flirty.

As others say, don't join a group, couple etc, without chatting to all of them.

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