FabSwingers.com forum: What makes someone stand out?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many people say they want someone who engages their mind but what is it that does it for you?

Sense of humour? Kindness? Honesty?

Or is it purely the body youre after? fs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean on the forums, or on fab in general?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who understands my very morbid sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm a sucker for a man who is kind and loving,,

a loving dad is deffo a winner in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large penis, handsome face, same taste in films and music. I like a little bit of arrogance but not too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarcasm is the biggest one for me in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm told it's my eyes and humour.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

"Sarcasm is the biggest one for me in general."

Oh reaaaaaally

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i think, for me, it means i feel like this person understands me and can respond appropriately to my needs during conversation and i can to him. it definitely can give you a feeling of being more compatible (or not, depends what you talk about also), which makes for a more relaxing environment overall, and all of this means that sex will be better than with someone who might possibly be looking at me as a hole to cum in.

i can do animalistic sex also, but the guy still has to keep me turned on so it will be more looks based than anything else.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

So many things. But as soon as I see an ism or body shaming or something like that I lose interest.

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

Confidence, being sociable, sense of humour dark or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nicely worded profile. A very optimistic profile makes me take interest. Looks matter but not too much.

I've been messaging and putting effort in and have been receiving replies from women and couples but the replies have been rubbish!

"hi xx", "hey there", and "you'll be busy" etc

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word "woman" at the side of the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goddamn. I hate typing on a phone.

So many errors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me."

This - said better than I could too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me."

I knew I should have stuck with the regular workout

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me.

I knew I should have stuck with the regular workout

Haha. I quite enjoyed the special workout and we did talk cheesecake afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me."

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way somebody posts and what they say wil capture my attention. That's how they stand out. It's pointless clicking into profiles nowadays. You've either filled it with sarcasm, a one line profile or your hidden. So all I'm left with is your ass pic or boobs.

If I ever get lucky to talk with you, you'll stand out even more if we have the same outlook and similar interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good sense of humour, can engage my brain and not just my body. Is able to hold an intelligent conversation. And makes me laugh.

Somebody that can turn me on with imaginative words than crudeness. X

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me.

This - said better than I could too

Although it does help if they have amazing quads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean on the forums, or on fab in general?"

Both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour is the most important thing to me, and someone down to earth who doesn't think too highly of herself.

And someone who doesn't pout is always a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone's eyes, smile and sense of humour

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me.

I knew I should have stuck with the regular workout

Haha. I quite enjoyed the special workout and we did talk cheesecake afterwards

Roger that, that being said I'll definitely need to buy a lot more cheesecake next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the first thing is looks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you mean on the forums, or on fab in general?

Both x"

On the forums humor, wit, and intelligence stand out to me.

On fab in general - an attractive face.

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Someone that can shock me in a good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me.

This - said better than I could too

Although it does help if they have amazing quads

I'm sure you'll find plenty of those around here somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the traffic cone on my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who actually reads my message and replies at the moment

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

"So many people say they want someone who engages their mind but what is it that does it for you?

Sense of humour? Kindness? Honesty?

Or is it purely the body youre after? fs! "

Definitely a sense of humour,you will need it if you meet me

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me.

This - said better than I could too

Although it does help if they have amazing quads

I'm sure you'll find plenty of those around here somewhere

I'm perving on some right now

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sense of humour, I love quick wit and quirkiness. Someone who I find physically attractive but has the ability to talk about utter shite or act in a "silly silly" way without being embarrassed (You know what I mean, not silly pathetic, just silly)

Sarcasm is good when not offensive.

Musical taste is also high on my list.

An understanding side and a caring nature.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"So many people say they want someone who engages their mind but what is it that does it for you?

Sense of humour? Kindness? Honesty?

Or is it purely the body youre after? fs! "

All of that yes, but what I find irresistible is someone playful who really wants to connect with me at a deep level in an authentic way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sense of humour, I love quick wit and quirkiness. Someone who I find physically attractive but has the ability to talk about utter shite or act in a "silly silly" way without being embarrassed (You know what I mean, not silly pathetic, just silly)

Sarcasm is good when not offensive.

Musical taste is also high on my list.

An understanding side and a caring nature.

You just described me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Sarcasm is good when not offensive.

Musical taste is also high on my list.

An understanding side and a caring nature.

You just described me

But what is your musical taste?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sarcasm is good when not offensive.

Musical taste is also high on my list.

An understanding side and a caring nature.

You just described me

But what is your musical taste? "

I listen to lots of different bands-I'm going to see leftfield on Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who makes me laugh and doesn't take themselves too seriously always works for me.

Also someone who is comfortable to talk random nonsense and not just about sex is important to me.

This - said better than I could too

Although it does help if they have amazing quads

I'm sure you'll find plenty of those around here somewhere

I'm perving on some right now

He's a very lucky guy

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There's so many factors, not only in here but in life in general, sure a physical attraction comes into it and may be the final deciding factor between whether that attraction is purely platonic, or taken to another level.

Beyond (and before) that however personality comes into it, whether a person is kind, thoughtful, considerate, inclusive, non-judgemental, has a good sense of humour and much more.

Not sure there is a way of defining it completely but all of the above and more are all definitely strong contributory factors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hemorrhoids

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