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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

So after a few disappointing days over which I've been stood up, let down, and generally messed around, I decided to cheer myself up with a few sexy online purchases to add to my lingerie collection....

What do you do to give your spirits a lift?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Y'know I had a little think about this and I can't really think of an answer. Maybe a trip out or a walk somewhere.

I've realised I'm less materialistic than I used to be - there's literally nothing I can think of that I want, I've kind of got everything I need.

I got some money for Christmas and I've kept the cash separate for when I see something I want to spend it on. It's mid-May and it's still sat there, untouched!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take my pup for a long walk !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I listen to music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got stood up last week so I feel for you op. But I found friends on here got me over that. Friends off here always cheer me up.

I play my guitar to escape and switch my mind if things that bug me. That usually works for me. Buying things gets me angry at the prices.

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

A wee walk in the hills does wonders.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I go for walks, usually the beach. Put my headphones in and listen to music.I people watch and usually come to the conclusion I have got a good life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A walk down to the river if I'm feeling low, it's very tranquil so able to clear my mind of anything negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay on sofa, put my headphones on, forget the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay on sofa, put my headphones on, forget the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to find something at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle.

Usually my kids and Lacey of course, a good cuddle never fails to lift the spirit !

Sometimes I'll go see my mum as well, she also gives good cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to find something at the moment "

Go for a run that'll help.

I drive with my music going. Or go to the gym.

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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

Since I'm in land locked West Yorkshire, I try to get to the coast. Whatever the weather the sea lifts my spirits.

(Would be more lifted in, say Mauritius, but them's the breaks!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to find something at the moment

Go for a run that'll help.

I drive with my music going. Or go to the gym. "

I've done that. Next stop is eating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A walk with my pooch and/or my children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a spot of retail therapy and go buy more underwear ...not that I already have 3 drawers full ...but just to cheer me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym, headphones in, loud music, just focus on that one thing for a while and forget the rest of the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Retail therapy works for me. Though my wardrobes can't fit much more in x

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

This

https://youtu.be/J5qWnG5RQTk

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

This

https://youtu.be/ZwS14TiO7Pk

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

This

https://youtu.be/pZwvrxVavnQ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music,

Retail therapy,

Or a chat with my bestie usually cheers me up

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

A little retail therapy helps

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

I like all of the above generally but things like that just make me cry with laughter, not music obviously that's just uplifting, that song particularly at the minute lol

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

It's usually music and a good brisk walk for me. Or going and having a coffee and watching the world go by.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Music,

Retail therapy,

Or a chat with my bestie usually cheers me up "

Yup

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

Motorbiking down some fav local roads.

Been biking all my life and still puts a smile on my face as I whizz past all the cagers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buying lingerie is a good one for me (hence why I have such a large collection)! Also music and dancing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after a few disappointing days over which I've been stood up, let down, and generally messed around, I decided to cheer myself up with a few sexy online purchases to add to my lingerie collection....

What do you do to give your spirits a lift? "

I shop for clothes and shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

"

Oh gawd. I got ghey spotted.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up. "

Oh I do this, not with Jim though

we are ghey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Motorbiking down some fav local roads.

Been biking all my life and still puts a smile on my face as I whizz past all the cagers "

Same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I buy expensive fruits, like raspberries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The gym,really loud thrash metal metal music on and lift some heavy stuff.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I need to find something at the moment

Go for a run that'll help.

I drive with my music going. Or go to the gym.

I've done that. Next stop is eating "

Carbs!

But usually a ride or a dance or a chat with my favourite fella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

Oh I do this, not with Jim though

we are ghey. "

But you can do it with Jim too, I hasten to point out! I've no "dibs" on him, and have no issue with anyone else enjoying his splendidness --obviously he has to consent -- but you know what I mean. I'm just gheying over the fact I think he's chuffing wonderful.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I buy expensive fruits, like raspberries "

Bought some blueberries yesterday - totally tasteless, is that normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Y'know I had a little think about this and I can't really think of an answer. Maybe a trip out or a walk somewhere.

I've realised I'm less materialistic than I used to be - there's literally nothing I can think of that I want, I've kind of got everything I need.

I got some money for Christmas and I've kept the cash separate for when I see something I want to spend it on. It's mid-May and it's still sat there, untouched! "

Me. You should spend it on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I buy expensive fruits, like raspberries

Bought some blueberries yesterday - totally tasteless, is that normal? "

Sometimes they are! I've found that too, but when you get a nice pack oooooh.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

Oh I do this, not with Jim though

we are ghey.

But you can do it with Jim too, I hasten to point out! I've no "dibs" on him, and have no issue with anyone else enjoying his splendidness --obviously he has to consent -- but you know what I mean. I'm just gheying over the fact I think he's chuffing wonderful. "

Jim is indeed wonderful. I meant I don't call him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I eat, and not good food, general rubbish, take always, pizzas, chocolate. I have quite a bad emotional attachment to food and when I'm stressed or sad, I eat and eat and eat.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

Oh I do this, not with Jim though

we are ghey.

But you can do it with Jim too, I hasten to point out! I've no "dibs" on him, and have no issue with anyone else enjoying his splendidness --obviously he has to consent -- but you know what I mean. I'm just gheying over the fact I think he's chuffing wonderful. "

Can I have dibs on you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

Oh I do this, not with Jim though

we are ghey.

But you can do it with Jim too, I hasten to point out! I've no "dibs" on him, and have no issue with anyone else enjoying his splendidness --obviously he has to consent -- but you know what I mean. I'm just gheying over the fact I think he's chuffing wonderful.

Jim is indeed wonderful. I meant I don't call him "

I know, I just wanted to clarify that I wasn't intending to "own" him by my comment. Which I know *you* already know. Just thought it was worth pointing out, but now I'm overthinking. Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

Oh I do this, not with Jim though

we are ghey.

But you can do it with Jim too, I hasten to point out! I've no "dibs" on him, and have no issue with anyone else enjoying his splendidness --obviously he has to consent -- but you know what I mean. I'm just gheying over the fact I think he's chuffing wonderful.

Can I have dibs on you?"

Yes

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"It's totally ghey but currently a chat with Jim is a surefire way to cheer me up.

Oh I do this, not with Jim though

we are ghey.

But you can do it with Jim too, I hasten to point out! I've no "dibs" on him, and have no issue with anyone else enjoying his splendidness --obviously he has to consent -- but you know what I mean. I'm just gheying over the fact I think he's chuffing wonderful.

Jim is indeed wonderful. I meant I don't call him

I know, I just wanted to clarify that I wasn't intending to "own" him by my comment. Which I know *you* already know. Just thought it was worth pointing out, but now I'm overthinking. Ha!"

You didn't put a collar on him yet? When you do can it say erect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plan a day / evening out, I find having something to look forward too lifts my spirits.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Poke dax until he gets his bum in gear, go shopping then its a hot bath and if its been really crappy a cuban cigar

Boo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never thought I'd hear myself say this, but going to the gym really helps if I'm a bit down in the dumps. Music is always a good pick me up for me too. I'm also finding my songwriting/poetic mojo returning. So I find that a good way of expressing my emotions too.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Y'know I had a little think about this and I can't really think of an answer. Maybe a trip out or a walk somewhere.

I've realised I'm less materialistic than I used to be - there's literally nothing I can think of that I want, I've kind of got everything I need.

I got some money for Christmas and I've kept the cash separate for when I see something I want to spend it on. It's mid-May and it's still sat there, untouched! "

That's a fantastic way to be long may it last

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Take my pup for a long walk ! "

Just back from doing the same with my nutter... Sandy pawprints everywhere!

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I listen to music"

Just saw where someone sent me a link to an old favourite of mine.... It made me smile

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I got stood up last week so I feel for you op. But I found friends on here got me over that. Friends off here always cheer me up.

I play my guitar to escape and switch my mind if things that bug me. That usually works for me. Buying things gets me angry at the prices. "

I need someone to teach me to play guitar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolates and ice cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a run or have cake

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

Walk/run and music seem to be the most common solutions... Both boxes ticked already today

Glad to see some of the ladies share my lingerie habit

Chat with the bestie would be lovely... If he wasn't one of the problems at the moment... So I'll skip that one....

Cake and icecream also sound good... might look into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awhhhh...

Big ((((hugggsss)))) wexi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So after a few disappointing days over which I've been stood up, let down, and generally messed around, I decided to cheer myself up with a few sexy online purchases to add to my lingerie collection....

What do you do to give your spirits a lift? "

a holiday to the sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long country walk in the hills usually straightens me out.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Same as you OP, which explains why I've got quite a bit. Gawd damn you fab guys!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm feeling down, I have a chat & laugh with friends - that usually perks me up.


"I buy expensive fruits, like raspberries "

Try growing your own. Can't beat a nice fruity little bush, which you can nibble on whenever you like


"Y'know I had a little think about this and I can't really think of an answer. Maybe a trip out or a walk somewhere.

I've realised I'm less materialistic than I used to be - there's literally nothing I can think of that I want, I've kind of got everything I need.

I got some money for Christmas and I've kept the cash separate for when I see something I want to spend it on. It's mid-May and it's still sat there, untouched! "

This sounds like me. When people give me cheques for xmas or birthdays, I file them in a drawer labelled 'aww - thanks', knowing I'll never cash them.

Even though there's nothing I lust for, it can still be exciting, when there's something good, arriving in the post.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Awhhhh...

Big ((((hugggsss)))) wexi "

Thanks Annie xx

(we really must have those drinks soon!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music.

Cleaning

And yes of course shopping

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"So after a few disappointing days over which I've been stood up, let down, and generally messed around, I decided to cheer myself up with a few sexy online purchases to add to my lingerie collection....

What do you do to give your spirits a lift? a holiday to the sun "

That would be fabulous... But not something I can do today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last 3 meets ive cleaned there house and made them food. just saying

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Motorbiking down some fav local roads.

Been biking all my life and still puts a smile on my face as I whizz past all the cagers

Same! "

Ohhh.. A hot lady on a motorbike, puts an even bigger smile on my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a ride on the motorbike and/or stuff myself with a ton of Dominos pizza

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

helloooooooo

she said suggestions for on line purchases to add to her lingerie collection

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Go for a ride on the motorbike and/or stuff myself with a ton of Dominos pizza "

Don't try this at home, unless you have an open face helmet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a ride on the motorbike and/or stuff myself with a ton of Dominos pizza

Don't try this at home, unless you have an open face helmet"

Luckily I've had plenty of practice

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination

I can do this!!! If someone else is driving.... I'll just wrap myself round you tight and dribble stringy mozzarella down your back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can do this!!! If someone else is driving.... I'll just wrap myself round you tight and dribble stringy mozzarella down your back... "

Oi! You'd best be sliding some of that under my visor too

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I can do this!!! If someone else is driving.... I'll just wrap myself round you tight and dribble stringy mozzarella down your back...

Oi! You'd best be sliding some of that under my visor too "

share my pizza??? Are you mad???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can do this!!! If someone else is driving.... I'll just wrap myself round you tight and dribble stringy mozzarella down your back...

Oi! You'd best be sliding some of that under my visor too

share my pizza??? Are you mad??? "

Well no, clearly I'll have my own. That best not be my garlic bread I can hear you munching on back there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for a climb. Falling off some rocks normally makes me feel better.

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I go for a climb. Falling off some rocks normally makes me feel better. "

I'm the same with tree climbing....

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By *ryst In Isolde OP   Woman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I can do this!!! If someone else is driving.... I'll just wrap myself round you tight and dribble stringy mozzarella down your back...

Oi! You'd best be sliding some of that under my visor too

share my pizza??? Are you mad???

Well no, clearly I'll have my own. That best not be my garlic bread I can hear you munching on back there! "

Nomphhhhnompphhnomphhh... Um... No...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go for a climb. Falling off some rocks normally makes me feel better.

I'm the same with tree climbing.... "

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