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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

..if we didn't have our ages posted automatically onto our profiles to indicate how many years we have all been alive.. do you think others would truly know how old you were based on your physical appearance and mental attitudes/ outlook on life??

eg.. sum1 who typz lik dis wud make me fink they wer 12

or someone with a size 10 body, no stretch marks, gorgeous tan, pert breasts would suggest they were 20's not in fact 50's :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

interesting concept, I like it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have been told I look 19 when in fact I am 31

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

my wife is certainly nearer 50 than 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be child-like and not childish.

Lookwise, I may be able to get away with 5-10y younger.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

theyd only need to discuss music and my age would be given away straight away as im an 80s rock chick. i know about the new romantics and two tone so sets my era lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given my fairly, alright very, ugly mug (avatar is there for a reason) I'd be well up there instead of my (mere) 43..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An often used chat-up line is 53 ? ...no way? I sometimes mail back and ask what about 69 then?

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

we have swinging friends that lie about their ages,but not for us,mr asexy looks loads younger anyway lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I look 10 years younger.

And then I wake up

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

Well sugar looks fantastic at 24 but she looks her age ,myself i hate piks and i recon i look alot older than 36 ,more like 41 lol but ppl we have met have said i look much better in person so thats a thanks to them i think ha ha the point im making is that it would be impossible to tell ppls age just off they piks ,yea you may be lucky and get 1 or 2 right but overall it would be futile Mr Spock lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i just know a lot of people are very age specific (and thats their right of course) but wondered why,, when people can look/act younger/older than others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"interesting concept, I like it. "

thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An often used chat-up line is 53 ? ...no way? I sometimes mail back and ask what about 69 then? "

if i didnt know your age and that you had a son who is older than me, i would no way think you were 53..

some 53yr olds i know are frumpy, very set in their ways and miserable

so if i were a young man of 30 say and in my head set an age limit to 10years older and 10 years younger i would have presumed you would come into that for deffo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how old people 'think' I look, but I got asked for ID a couple of years ago in Tesco when I was buying a bottle of JD!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When younger, i always looked younger than i really was,it had it's advantages, now i'm older i get very defensive about telling people my age...silly i know

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

Yeah! definitely some mileage in the concept. Perhaps if the age specific entry on the profile was replaced with something more akin to the anti age discrimination definition of non specific age bands, and allow people to decide on a profile and discover someones actual age by asking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i can see why ages are put automatically onto profiles and indeed people can use the opportunity of the profile text to convince others they are indeed older or younger in their ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told I look 19 when in fact I am 31 "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"interesting concept, I like it.

thank you "

me too. Ms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im pretty certain i look and act younger than 56...im not vain about it im very lucky i hardly have any wrinkles even round my eyes and my boobies are still north of my equator .ive always looked yyounger than my age when i had my son every one thought it was my little bother i was 20 and looked about 12 ! Just hope i carry on looking younger ..but you never know do you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im pretty certain i look and act younger than 56...im not vain about it im very lucky i hardly have any wrinkles even round my eyes and my boobies are still north of my equator .ive always looked yyounger than my age when i had my son every one thought it was my little bother i was 20 and looked about 12 ! Just hope i carry on looking younger ..but you never know do you ?"

oops my little brother i meant.. he was never a bother !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i think in some respects i am older in my years (not that i would actually know because i have never experienced being older) but sometimes i act like i do when i was 18

looks wise id say i look older because i am overweight and have stretch marks, despite having a baby face.

How is a 23yr old supposed to act and look?? there are no specific criteria after all

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

we met a couple,who had on their profile.only couples who were around the same age as them.

we were exactly the same age as them.

the guy brought this up,right away.

he said,we were to young.

i pointed out,we were the same age as them.

he still seemed a bit dubious,until i said,we would be the only couple on the site,who pretended to be older,than we actually were.

we went on to have a brilliant night.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

As a taxi driver once said to me outside a nightclub sat there gawping at all

the Talent,

Old enough to bleed,

Old enough to slaughter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a taxi driver once said to me outside a nightclub sat there gawping at all

the Talent,

Old enough to bleed,

Old enough to slaughter! "

blimey i wouldnt want mydaughter to get in his cab !!!! scary !

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands


"As a taxi driver once said to me outside a nightclub sat there gawping at all

the Talent,

Old enough to bleed,

Old enough to slaughter!

"
In Ipswich by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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In Ipswich by any chance?"

i dont get it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

taxi driver in ipswich who murdered a few girls a couple of years back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"taxi driver in ipswich who murdered a few girls a couple of years back"

he wasnt a taxi driver that was the guy from swindon i think ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

spot on.

the guy from ipswich was a fork lift driver

i dont get it either then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be able to get away with saying I'm 40 if we're talking physical. Mentally I think you can tell I'm not in my 20s.

My OH is 50, physically he looks mid 40s, stamina wise much younger, much more than myself and I'm 7yrs younger. Again mentally you would be able to tell he's not a naïve 20yr old

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Some are surprised im over 40, early 40's is the oldest ive ever been told i look.

Right now i feel like im 150 and look the same. Certainly not as young as i used to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was playing a game with my one over one boss's son with his mum, and one of the rules say start with the youngest person etc...

He asked me if I am older than his mum, and I said yes, by as much as 6 years, and bless his little socks, he looked genuinely surprised!

My one over one boss had said that I may be the oldest within my department, I am certainly not the oldest in behaviour or in outlook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good point. Would you consider someone if you was attracted to them but they fell on the wrong side of your age preference? Got me thinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is no longer an issue for me. If I like a person, I would play with him, regardless of his age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very good point. Would you consider someone if you was attracted to them but they fell on the wrong side of your age preference? Got me thinking! "

I think i would.. for me my age preferences are for a general guideline. I know what i'm find physically attracted too and i just like the company of mature, well spoken men.. who know how to treat a lady. Its fair to say that those qualities can be found in a 23yr old male (who is currently under my age preferences)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 46 and I've had quite a few 'No way!' comments from people when I've told them. Whether they were being kind or genuine I have no way of knowing but I do have a young person's outlook on life, very little grey hair and can still party hard without getting a hangover lol (which pisses Siren off no end!)

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"As a taxi driver once said to me outside a nightclub sat there gawping at all

the Talent,

Old enough to bleed,

Old enough to slaughter!

blimey i wouldnt want mydaughter to get in his cab !!!! scary !"

This was donkeys years ago, before johnnie foriegner took charge of taxis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my very lower age and upper limits and to be honest those are stretching it already so if someone says they are a tad younger or older I ask to look at pics incase they look older or younger so it is about appearance for me and what look turns me on. I have seen some fab bods of very much older men than my age limit but then Im put off by face and hairstyle clothes etc so it is just a suck it and see exercise when choosing a suitable meet I think

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