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How do the clubs even work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love some advice on what people look for etc. I've met a couple of people, but the club side of things (Kestrels etc.) I am none the wiser! I feel like my Grandad with an IPhone. I would really like some guidance with how it all works. Many thanks!

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

it's a club in which people have sex...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Some differences between clubs but you have a mix of social and play areas generally. You can meet people in either but chatting - using your standard social skills - is a good first step.

Clubs have rules which must be followed.

Don't touch others without consent ever. Wait for invitations.

You will learn a lot from watching others there, you need no instructions if you are socially able.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

Follow the dress code too, typically smart casual for men.

Don't expect to play on any visit - go for the experience overall

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I gathered it wasn't a chess club haha, just wondered how you join or get invited

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But how do you find these clubs? Do you need to get invited?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I gathered it wasn't a chess club haha, just wondered how you join or get invited"

Contact the club to join, ask for invitations. It's really not that difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how do you find these clubs? Do you need to get invited?"

There's a club section on fab. Each club has a link to their websites. On their websites each club usually has membership information. As a single guy it's also imperative that you call the club and ask about their policies towards single guys...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But how do I find a club? Apologies for sounding thick and naive. I understand you saying contact your local club and that its not difficult, but how do I find my local club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But how do I find a club? Apologies for sounding thick and naive. I understand you saying contact your local club and that its not difficult, but how do I find my local club?"

https://m.fabswingers.com/clubs

Go to your region of the country, click on the club names and they will have website information. Click on the various websites and look at the contact information.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhh yes just found it, thanks for your help!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I may start my own club, cant get more local than your own back garden I suppose! I'll get a wheelie bin and a swingball set

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"it's a club in which people have sex... "

Thanks..im sure that's cleared it up for the OP . . We're going to have to have words lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even the abbreviation 'OP' has thrown me, what does that stand for? Lol. Original Poster? Old Pensioner?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's a club in which people have sex...

Thanks..im sure that's cleared it up for the OP . . We're going to have to have words lol"

Even the abbreviation 'OP' has thrown me, what does that stand for? Lol. Original Poster? Old Pensioner?

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Even the abbreviation 'OP' has thrown me, what does that stand for? Lol. Original Poster? Old Pensioner?"

so you know how often I googled or tried in other ways to find out what all of this means? and yes, it is original poster. good luck with your clubs btw!

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"it's a club in which people have sex...

Thanks..im sure that's cleared it up for the OP . . We're going to have to have words lol"

did I not tell the truth?

...what kind of words did you have in mind?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Even the abbreviation 'OP' has thrown me, what does that stand for? Lol. Original Poster? Old Pensioner?

so you know how often I googled or tried in other ways to find out what all of this means? and yes, it is original poster. good luck with your clubs btw! "

Haha yea trying to google abbreviations is a nightmare, but thanks for confirming. Thanks! Just joined a bowls club, hopefully me and Deidre will hit it off

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