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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would be interesting to hear other's ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@...........

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If you can't see someone's face, how do you know they are attractive?

I have noticed a correlation between number of responses and size of tits/cock though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably why I don't get replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"@..........."

You could have at least qouted me, it would have made my day you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably why I don't get replies "

Lies!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"Probably why I don't get replies "

Hush your mouth, you're gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably why I don't get replies "

*coughs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@...........

You could have at least qouted me, it would have made my day you know!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would have been funnier if nobody had responded lol.

I dunno if it's a factor on here, some people post random rubbish that gets loads of replies, some people get loads for being offensive.. how they look in the case of the latter is probably irrelevant

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can't see someone's face, how do you know they are attractive?

I have noticed a correlation between number of responses and size of tits/cock though. "

I'm a male, I see boobs, ass, vag or even a bit of stomach and my tongue is out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't see someone's face, how do you know they are attractive?

I have noticed a correlation between number of responses and size of tits/cock though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blantantly obvious that younger, hotter people get more replies in the forums, they also get away with sometimes, somewhat misguided opinions, the white knights all come out........

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

People with vaginas do. Looks are are not important.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It's hard to gauge attractiveness without a face pic avatar. I find some people's words and senses of humour on here attractive and am pleased when I discover the visuals match up to it. They tend to, which makes sense considering attraction is more of a mental thing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about the attractive people but I've definitely had more luck in the forums. Think only one person has ever mailed me from the search perimeters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God knows ..... I think if you make people smile and come across care free and full of life and nice ... its nothing to do with how you look .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think some people are genuinely warm and regardless of their looks they'd still get quite a few posts because they just have that niceness and genuine interest about them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually. "

*holds up wife and jiggles her tits whilst waving willy*

Yes, some people have no shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, I know I'm a stunner, don't worry.

Though, especially where women are concerned, I think that the more flesh someone has on show, the more attention they'll receive on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"@...........

You could have at least qouted me, it would have made my day you know!"

That's a qoute but not reply, I'll take it. Big picture, small steps.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually.

*holds up wife and jiggles her tits whilst waving willy*

Yes, some people have no shame "

You make me snort. That's the real way to get me to respond.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas."

You're such a tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blantantly obvious that younger, hotter people get more replies in the forums, they also get away with sometimes, somewhat misguided opinions, the white knights all come out........"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By the way if I don't reply to you, it's because I'm genuienly lazy most of the time.

And to add to my discussion I've noticed a couple of what I consider very attractive people posting on the froums multiple times without getting a response.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas."

How else does one know if they are attractive or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas.

How else does one know if they are attractive or not? "

By the amount of FAF messages they get.

Over the year I've been here I actually received 1 FAF message, this must mean I'm not completely hideous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas."

In a serious answer to the question, I don't think so.

Although it depends on the thread. Poster above type things yes, you see loads of blokes and occasionally women clambering over all to reply to the hotties, snog fuck etc.

General banter and interesting threads don't work like that in my opinion.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it can depend on the thread topic to be honest....things like the Rate The Poster Above threads or Fuck/Snog/Avoid type ones definitely those who are "perceived" as more attractive get more attention, with single males falling over each other to skip each other to get to the hottie further up thread.

The more serious threads debating a particular topic I think it's fairly balanced so long as the thread remains on topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably why I don't get replies "

I'd reply to you sooo hard

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"If you can't see someone's face, how do you know they are attractive?

I have noticed a correlation between number of responses and size of tits/cock though. "

Tempted to post a pic of myself wearing one of those aprons with the 'ahem' perfectly proportioned female cartoon bodies on it... See if I get noticed more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard to gauge attractiveness without a face pic avatar. I find some people's words and senses of humour on here attractive and am pleased when I discover the visuals match up to it. They tend to, which makes sense considering attraction is more of a mental thing for me."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas.

How else does one know if they are attractive or not?

By the amount of FAF messages they get.

Over the year I've been here I actually received 1 FAF message, this must mean I'm not completely hideous "

Well that's me crawling into the corner so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the thread before deciding whether to post. The OP isn't important if the subject interests me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas.

How else does one know if they are attractive or not?

By the amount of FAF messages they get.

Over the year I've been here I actually received 1 FAF message, this must mean I'm not completely hideous

Well that's me crawling into the corner so... "

Hey, it was a silhouette profile with no pics, probably a single bloke so it doesn't count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the Books. Us men are scared of books. Those fiddly letters and things...

Everyone knows that Good Omens was his best one though.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me. "

Yeah there are times that for various reasons we're ignored, overlooked, have a cloak of invisibility. Most of the time I just shrug my shoulders and move on - there are times though when it's so blatantly obviously done deliberately that you can't help but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with vaginas do. Looks are are not important. "

True story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always read the thread before deciding whether to post. The OP isn't important if the subject interests me."

Right in the feels (insert broken heart emojee here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me. "

I think you look awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm indifferent on who I reply to.

I don't care who it is. Male or female, good looking or not..or even if I like them or not.

It's not even in my head. I'm replying to what gets actually TYPED.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably why I don't get replies "

Now I'm sorry I do not believe that for a second.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Women certainly do.

Disclaimer I'm not an angry single male. Just an observation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots "

Ignoring you seems a tragedy of sorts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me. "

I have this too! Like blokes never want to reply to me on the threds, except Jim, but he's the Man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people are genuinely warm and regardless of their looks they'd still get quite a few posts because they just have that niceness and genuine interest about them."

Well I have no idea if more atractive people get replies I wouldn't of thought so I do know that _eli is right and wow what a body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Yeah there are times that for various reasons we're ignored, overlooked, have a cloak of invisibility. Most of the time I just shrug my shoulders and move on - there are times though when it's so blatantly obviously done deliberately that you can't help but "

I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots "

I'd never ignore you

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think some people are genuinely warm and regardless of their looks they'd still get quite a few posts because they just have that niceness and genuine interest about them.

Well I have no idea if more atractive people get replies I wouldn't of thought so I do know that _eli is right and wow what a body "

What a body and I'm right? I'm a boss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who stand out are the ones who don't care and will say what ever .

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I'm indifferent on who I reply to.

I don't care who it is. Male or female, good looking or not..or even if I like them or not.

It's not even in my head. I'm replying to what gets actually TYPED."

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread! "

That's where we differ. It amuses me to get all passive aggressive and douchy with the freedom of knowing no-one will probably ever notice it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone say something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

I have this too! Like blokes never want to reply to me on the threds, except Jim, but he's the Man!"

Don't give me that. You guys all have your little bromances happening!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread!

That's where we differ. It amuses me to get all passive aggressive and douchy with the freedom of knowing no-one will probably ever notice it."

Alas, I think people can tell with me. Possibly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots

I'd never ignore you "

Bunnyhoo seems one ignore I heard she's trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread!

That's where we differ. It amuses me to get all passive aggressive and douchy with the freedom of knowing no-one will probably ever notice it."

I can't ever imagine you being a douche! Ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread!

That's where we differ. It amuses me to get all passive aggressive and douchy with the freedom of knowing no-one will probably ever notice it.

Alas, I think people can tell with me. Possibly..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

I have this too! Like blokes never want to reply to me on the threds, except Jim, but he's the Man!"

Cheating bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people are genuinely warm and regardless of their looks they'd still get quite a few posts because they just have that niceness and genuine interest about them."

My earlier yes was based on newcomers, I do believe based on everything else being even the more attractive would receive the response.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

I have this too! Like blokes never want to reply to me on the threds, except Jim, but he's the Man!

Don't give me that. You guys all have your little bromances happening! "

Not anymore that Fabulous and Bearded has left !

Even Adam has gone quiet!

Oliver, you're just a special kind, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Why else would my inbox be overflowing?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me. "

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I dont think so cos most of my Threads get quite a fue reply's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots

I'd never ignore you "

You make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

I have this too! Like blokes never want to reply to me on the threds, except Jim, but he's the Man!"

He is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

I have this too! Like blokes never want to reply to me on the threds, except Jim, but he's the Man!

Don't give me that. You guys all have your little bromances happening!

Not anymore that Fabulous and Bearded has left !

Even Adam has gone quiet!

Oliver, you're just a special kind, thank you "

Too late now chum! You've made your bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if your good with words ........no matter how you look .. you will get reply s on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots

Ignoring you seems a tragedy of sorts "

Exactly! People are really missing out

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women "

Some of us prefer to focus our attention on one lady a time when trying to arrange something. When given the chance of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women "

Boo to him!

I mean, who wouldn't want to be in a motherfucking duvet fort!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

I have this too! Like blokes never want to reply to me on the threds, except Jim, but he's the Man!

Don't give me that. You guys all have your little bromances happening!

Not anymore that Fabulous and Bearded has left !

Even Adam has gone quiet!

Oliver, you're just a special kind, thank you "

Adam definitely wants your willy. For his wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm attractive and get ignored lots

I'd never ignore you

You make me "

I'd do more than that if I got the chance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think so cos most of my Threads get quite a fue reply's "

Seeside you're awesome! I'll always reply to you because I love your mustache and your shirt! And you've even given me a nametag on your 0 meets club, which I angrily threw away...sorry for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think funny or controversial people get more replies than attractive people on here.

But I think with new posters, how attractive they are can matter quite a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think funny or controversial people get more replies than attractive people on here.

But I think with new posters, how attractive they are can matter quite a bit."

Yeah, I've noticed that hot/handsome newcomers can get quite popular, we've had an example this morning

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"I dont think so cos most of my Threads get quite a fue reply's

Seeside you're awesome! I'll always reply to you because I love your mustache and your shirt! And you've even given me a nametag on your 0 meets club, which I angrily threw away...sorry for that "

Lol its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find with using a couples profile certain people get confused as to who's posting, even though I try to make it clear it's me, but sometimes forget. It's generally single males who are perplexed

-Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women "

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find with using a couples profile certain people get confused as to who's posting, even though I try to make it clear it's me, but sometimes forget. It's generally single males who are perplexed

-Mr "

I keep daydreaming about you spanking me.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Sometimes, maybe

Why let it bother you? -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think funny or controversial people get more replies than attractive people on here.

But I think with new posters, how attractive they are can matter quite a bit."

When I first started posting I got replies mostly from men only and not the most regular forumites.

Now everyone can see my sparkling personality I get actual conversations and included.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked."

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find with using a couples profile certain people get confused as to who's posting, even though I try to make it clear it's me, but sometimes forget. It's generally single males who are perplexed

-Mr

I keep daydreaming about you spanking me. "

Careful what you wish for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore everyone equally.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I ignore everyone equally."

Offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ignore everyone equally."

Thats the best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ignore everyone equally."

Sure you do....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I ignore everyone equally."

Can you make an exception for me?

I realise now that you won't hence me posting this reply is pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I just don't pay too much attention these days are quite often don't return to threads (even if I start them).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the forum i think it depends on the thread. I think there are a wide variety of folk on the forums who display interesting charachteristics such as humour, sex appeal, flirtatiousness, intelligence, sarcasm, compassion etc and although (obviously!) all folk on here have that going for them, on the forums it is displayed more openly, so you can kind of cherry pick the kind of folk you want, by quietly observing them and trying to interact on here (the forum) without going to that more personal level of a pm, where you may crash and burn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ignore everyone equally.

Can you make an exception for me?

I realise now that you won't hence me posting this reply is pointless "

Sure thing cowboy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone ignores me, wankers, all of you

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Everyone ignores me, wankers, all of you "

I'm ignoring you

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over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women."

If I was arranging to meet them and they spent most of their forum time chasing others & ignoring me then yes it would irk me.

Being ignored in general on the forums in favour of others who post similar comments is commonplace, given up worrying about that!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women.

If I was arranging to meet them and they spent most of their forum time chasing others & ignoring me then yes it would irk me.

Being ignored in general on the forums in favour of others who post similar comments is commonplace, given up worrying about that!"

Even if the meet was weeks perhaps months down the line? Would it still irk you?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women."

Was an exercise just to see how long it would take to get any response whatsoever... Was quite amusing really...

As I said... when such things become a regular occurrence and you see patterns forming, or see certain people reacting in a particular way to the attention you give to someone, it becomes somewhat entertaining to the push buttons and see what happens

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women.

Was an exercise just to see how long it would take to get any response whatsoever... Was quite amusing really...

As I said... when such things become a regular occurrence and you see patterns forming, or see certain people reacting in a particular way to the attention you give to someone, it becomes somewhat entertaining to the push buttons and see what happens "

So like poking a hornets nest?

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over a year ago


"I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread!

That's where we differ. It amuses me to get all passive aggressive and douchy with the freedom of knowing no-one will probably ever notice it.

Alas, I think people can tell with me. Possibly..."

You came out and told me you're abrasive yourself.

People know babe.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. IWas an exercise just to see how long it would take to get any response whatsoever... Was quite amusing really...

As I said... when such things become a regular occurrence and you see patterns forming, or see certain people reacting in a particular way to the attention you give to someone, it becomes somewhat entertaining to the push buttons and see what happens

So like poking a hornets nest?"

No... A hornies nest looool.

Now next question is how many people green arrowed to see if they could figure out who I meant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women.

If I was arranging to meet them and they spent most of their forum time chasing others & ignoring me then yes it would irk me.

Being ignored in general on the forums in favour of others who post similar comments is commonplace, given up worrying about that!

Even if the meet was weeks perhaps months down the line? Would it still irk you?

"

Yeah probably, based on how the poster described it above.

It's hard for me to find time to meet so I'd rather it be with someone I felt was being responsive on all levels.

I can't say it's ever happened to me before I've met someone, it's usually reserved until afterwards when they're moving onto the next. Hands up though to being guilty of that too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread!

That's where we differ. It amuses me to get all passive aggressive and douchy with the freedom of knowing no-one will probably ever notice it.

Alas, I think people can tell with me. Possibly...

You came out and told me you're abrasive yourself.

People know babe. "

Whadda fook? Abrasive? .

Yeah, I guess they do.

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

Hello

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women.

If I was arranging to meet them and they spent most of their forum time chasing others & ignoring me then yes it would irk me.

Being ignored in general on the forums in favour of others who post similar comments is commonplace, given up worrying about that!

Even if the meet was weeks perhaps months down the line? Would it still irk you?

Yeah probably, based on how the poster described it above.

It's hard for me to find time to meet so I'd rather it be with someone I felt was being responsive on all levels.

I can't say it's ever happened to me before I've met someone, it's usually reserved until afterwards when they're moving onto the next. Hands up though to being guilty of that too "

Oh I get that, if there are intentions to meet you would want some kind of contact leading up to it not to just set a date and that be it.

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I wouldn't say so.. its a free choice everyone can join in regardless even if its a supermodel your chatting to xx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. IWas an exercise just to see how long it would take to get any response whatsoever... Was quite amusing really...

As I said... when such things become a regular occurrence and you see patterns forming, or see certain people reacting in a particular way to the attention you give to someone, it becomes somewhat entertaining to the push buttons and see what happens

So like poking a hornets nest?

No... A hornies nest looool.

Now next question is how many people green arrowed to see if they could figure out who I meant? "

People use the green arrow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. IWas an exercise just to see how long it would take to get any response whatsoever... Was quite amusing really...

As I said... when such things become a regular occurrence and you see patterns forming, or see certain people reacting in a particular way to the attention you give to someone, it becomes somewhat entertaining to the push buttons and see what happens

So like poking a hornets nest?

No... A hornies nest looool.

Now next question is how many people green arrowed to see if they could figure out who I meant? "

I can't be bothered to green arrow and search, go on just tell us who?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello "

Dannnnnnn.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually. "

What she said lol

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over a year ago


"I have to do an actual eye roll so I don't get all passive aggressive and douchy on the thread!

That's where we differ. It amuses me to get all passive aggressive and douchy with the freedom of knowing no-one will probably ever notice it.

Alas, I think people can tell with me. Possibly...

You came out and told me you're abrasive yourself.

People know babe.

Whadda fook? Abrasive? .

Yeah, I guess they do. "

Thing is I didn't even see it until you told me! Fuck sake Meli.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. IWas an exercise just to see how long it would take to get any response whatsoever... Was quite amusing really...

As I said... when such things become a regular occurrence and you see patterns forming, or see certain people reacting in a particular way to the attention you give to someone, it becomes somewhat entertaining to the push buttons and see what happens

So like poking a hornets nest?

No... A hornies nest looool.

Now next question is how many people green arrowed to see if they could figure out who I meant?

I can't be bothered to green arrow and search, go on just tell us who?! "

Me neither. Giz a clue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually.

What she said lol "

Are you just agreeing because she's attractive?!

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

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"Hello

Dannnnnnn. "

See.....proof that even an ugly old twat can get a reply

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually.

What she said lol

Are you just agreeing because she's attractive?! "

Better than being ignored. I feel ugly btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone ignores me, wankers, all of you

I'm ignoring you "

Yes you are (goes to sit and cry in the corner)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello

Dannnnnnn.

See.....proof that even an ugly old twat can get a reply "

Shush. You're lovely.

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

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"Hello

Dannnnnnn.

See.....proof that even an ugly old twat can get a reply

Shush. You're lovely."

Bless you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't help certain people keep changing their profile name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was the question? I was blinded by the beauty on show.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually.

What she said lol

Are you just agreeing because she's attractive?! "

No. It's because I am always right.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"What was the question? I was blinded by the beauty on show. "

Are you expecting a reply?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Alas, I think people can tell with me. Possibly...

You came out and told me you're abrasive yourself.

People know babe.

Whadda fook? Abrasive? .

Yeah, I guess they do.

Thing is I didn't even see it until you told me! Fuck sake Meli. "

I am going to make an effort from midnight to be for one 24hr period only. Abrasive be gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alas, I think people can tell with me. Possibly...

You came out and told me you're abrasive yourself.

People know babe.

Whadda fook? Abrasive? .

Yeah, I guess they do.

Thing is I didn't even see it until you told me! Fuck sake Meli.

I am going to make an effort from midnight to be for one 24hr period only. Abrasive be gone! "

I actually don't think you're that abrasive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was the question? I was blinded by the beauty on show.

Are you expecting a reply? "

Nah, I'm fuck ugly

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I actually don't think you're that abrasive? "

That's because, to the best of my knowledge (it should really be memory but that's not the saying), I haven't been towards you? I know there are a few who would disagree with that and probably justifiable to.

I'm not sure I did use the word abrasive when describing myself but am rolling with it.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"What was the question? I was blinded by the beauty on show.

Are you expecting a reply?

Nah, I'm fuck ugly "

Who said that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm uber attractive so i jolly well message myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women.

If I was arranging to meet them and they spent most of their forum time chasing others & ignoring me then yes it would irk me.

Being ignored in general on the forums in favour of others who post similar comments is commonplace, given up worrying about that!

Even if the meet was weeks perhaps months down the line? Would it still irk you?

Yeah probably, based on how the poster described it above.

It's hard for me to find time to meet so I'd rather it be with someone I felt was being responsive on all levels.

I can't say it's ever happened to me before I've met someone, it's usually reserved until afterwards when they're moving onto the next. Hands up though to being guilty of that too "

Personally I'm very focussed... once I make the decision to meet someone they'll have my attention, and I never just drop someone afterwards either... Communication is important to establish and maintain rapport... There's no point in saying 'oh yeah... You've got to have chemistry, you've got to have rapport'... and then ignoring the person you've arranged to meet... So yeah... If someone doesn't put in the pre-meet effort to maintain that initial spark and just expects to turn up 'cold', I'll simply cancel the meet. What's the point?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually.

What she said lol

Are you just agreeing because she's attractive?! "

Nope. I didn't even look at her profile..and was too lazy to write anything longer lol

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"People with more classically appealing photos can. Sometimes it's amusing to see the willy waving that goes on in a desperate bid to get an eyelash flutter. That's fucking funny actually.

What she said lol

Are you just agreeing because she's attractive?!

No. It's because I am always right. "

Pfft! . Not likely lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly get any replies to my comments. They obviously can't see my beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

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over a year ago


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings. "

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm uber attractive so i jolly well message myself "

I'd rather message pooch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think popular ones get the most attention - regardless of looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas."
of course they do and attractive women the most attractive couples a close second

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think popular ones get the most attention - regardless of looks. "

That I can agree with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it "

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track."

I remember everything.....

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track."

I do too... I have to use the 'threads you posted to' filter and then 'jump' to my last post

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm wondering if we all feel ignored at some point!?

There are a few guys who consistently ignore me in favour of the slimmer ladies. I mean, I'm only replying to something you post, I don't necessarily want your willy in me.

Happens me regularly.... I'll spend all day or days chatting to someone in pm and thinking its going somewhere... Only to hear nothing at all from them next day and be completely blanked by them in forums. I actually counted how many different times one guy (who I had been chatting to all day previously and making plans to meet - which, given the distance involved, isn't exactly a whimsical undertaking) completely blanked me across various threads today (23) because someone younger and slimmer was paying him attention.

That's the nature of the site though... And men are far more easily distracted than women

Is he on this thread?!

Tbh that would make me think twice about them, silly perhaps but I know I'd be irked.

Would you really count how many times a relative stranger had ignored you? or just take it that actually they aren't interested and some men are as guilty of talking shite as women.

If I was arranging to meet them and they spent most of their forum time chasing others & ignoring me then yes it would irk me.

Being ignored in general on the forums in favour of others who post similar comments is commonplace, given up worrying about that!

Even if the meet was weeks perhaps months down the line? Would it still irk you?

Yeah probably, based on how the poster described it above.

It's hard for me to find time to meet so I'd rather it be with someone I felt was being responsive on all levels.

I can't say it's ever happened to me before I've met someone, it's usually reserved until afterwards when they're moving onto the next. Hands up though to being guilty of that too

Personally I'm very focussed... once I make the decision to meet someone they'll have my attention, and I never just drop someone afterwards either... Communication is important to establish and maintain rapport... There's no point in saying 'oh yeah... You've got to have chemistry, you've got to have rapport'... and then ignoring the person you've arranged to meet... So yeah... If someone doesn't put in the pre-meet effort to maintain that initial spark and just expects to turn up 'cold', I'll simply cancel the meet. What's the point? "

Indeed, before or after. I've had people trying to arrange a meet with me by PM or whatsapp whilst blanking my forum posts because they were chasing some young hottie......

Bye bye Sooty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

I do too... I have to use the 'threads you posted to' filter and then 'jump' to my last post "

I only remember when the thread pops back up to the top and the writing is red. I look to see what I'd said.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

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"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

I do too... I have to use the 'threads you posted to' filter and then 'jump' to my last post "

Haha. Thought it was only me that did this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

I remember everything..... "

I remember nothing. When people go on about things others have said, or who is after whom, I'm clueless..

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

I do too... I have to use the 'threads you posted to' filter and then 'jump' to my last post

I only remember when the thread pops back up to the top and the writing is red. I look to see what I'd said. "

What red writing??

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

I do too... I have to use the 'threads you posted to' filter and then 'jump' to my last post

I only remember when the thread pops back up to the top and the writing is red. I look to see what I'd said.

What red writing?? "

Was about to ask the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

I do too... I have to use the 'threads you posted to' filter and then 'jump' to my last post

I only remember when the thread pops back up to the top and the writing is red. I look to see what I'd said.

What red writing??

Was about to ask the same "

When I look at a profile or upon a thread the writing goes from blue to red on the profile name or thread title.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Personally I'm very focussed... once I make the decision to meet someone they'll have my attention, and I never just drop someone afterwards either... Communication is important to establish and maintain rapport... There's no point in saying 'oh yeah... You've got to have chemistry, you've got to have rapport'... and then ignoring the person you've arranged to meet... So yeah... If someone doesn't put in the pre-meet effort to maintain that initial spark and just expects to turn up 'cold', I'll simply cancel the meet. What's the point?

Indeed, before or after. I've had people trying to arrange a meet with me by PM or whatsapp whilst blanking my forum posts because they were chasing some young hottie......

Bye bye Sooty! "

Its called 'scattershot' over here... Blasting away at everything with a pulse in the hopes of hitting a few. Doesn't work though... The guys who do it generally end up moaning that they can't get meets anymore and wonder why... Why? Because everyone wants to be the object, not just an option. It ain't rocket science lol.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would be interesting to hear other's ideas."

In a word...no...otherwise we'd be swamped with replies and mail.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Personally I'm very focussed... once I make the decision to meet someone they'll have my attention, and I never just drop someone afterwards either... Communication is important to establish and maintain rapport... There's no point in saying 'oh yeah... You've got to have chemistry, you've got to have rapport'... and then ignoring the person you've arranged to meet... So yeah... If someone doesn't put in the pre-meet effort to maintain that initial spark and just expects to turn up 'cold', I'll simply cancel the meet. What's the point?

Indeed, before or after. I've had people trying to arrange a meet with me by PM or whatsapp whilst blanking my forum posts because they were chasing some young hottie......

Bye bye Sooty!

Its called 'scattershot' over here... Blasting away at everything with a pulse in the hopes of hitting a few. Doesn't work though... The guys who do it generally end up moaning that they can't get meets anymore and wonder why... Why? Because everyone wants to be the object, not just an option. It ain't rocket science lol."

Exactly, there's a lot of that about - it's the nature of the site I guess, but I'm looking for more depth of friendship than that, so it turns me right off.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"

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What red writing??

Was about to ask the same

When I look at a profile or upon a thread the writing goes from blue to red on the profile name or thread title. "

Oooer!! I want red - I don't get any red!!! Who else sees red??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say so.

In some threads I get completely looked over, on others I lead a lot of the conversation.

In my opinion it depends on the content as opposed to anything else.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I think in honesty it depends who is on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

160 replies op. You must be well fit!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think in honesty it depends who is on "

Lacey's been 'on' but thankfully the end is nigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen multiple users here blank direct posts to them from me and reply to another 10 people.

I don't put that down to some shallow ignorance on their part; I think there are a few things in play. Firstly there are a lot of regular forum users who have friends who they will be wired to spot and talk to. Also the forum software is a little vague and quotes don't highlight when somebody has replied to you making it easy to miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's hit and miss, sometimes threads move that fast it's hard to keep a conversation going x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, a lot of the forum men I don't bother interacting with, because they have the hot's for the younger, more attractive ladies. They are too.busy getting it on with them to read my wafflings.

That's how I feel too...just swap out "younger, more attractive ladies" with "single women"

Honestly, though...I just post without caring who reads it or replies. I just like my opinion and decide to grace the world with it

Half the time I forget where I've posted and what I've said. I flit about too much to keep track.

I remember everything.....

I remember nothing. When people go on about things others have said, or who is after whom, I'm clueless.. "

I don't remember everything to be precise, but my long term memory is very detailed, especially visually. It's not always helpful, I don't have a lot of control over what I do and don't remember.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I think in honesty it depends who is on

Lacey's been 'on' but thankfully the end is nigh "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't necessarily think so,my first thought was yes,but thinking about it that's not true it's more down to personality. Some ugly buggers get a lot of attention in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's my lack of attractiveness that puts people off replying to me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't think it's my lack of attractiveness that puts people off replying to me "

I reply to you! But that might be because I'm a bit of a gobshite.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"Probably why I don't get replies "
you get replies off me wink wink

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't think it's my lack of attractiveness that puts people off replying to me "

Nice tits

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

I'm not sure that's true. However I do generally reply to the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's my lack of attractiveness that puts people off replying to me

Nice tits "

I was just thinking the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's my lack of attractiveness that puts people off replying to me

I reply to you! But that might be because I'm a bit of a gobshite."

That's because you know if I'm feeling feisty then I'll bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Everyone ignores me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

End of thread/

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