FabSwingers.com forum: Top tips

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.

She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.

What tips can we give her to feel included here?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I'd say just dive right in... We're a pretty alright bunch, are we not?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally, I'd say just dive right in... We're a pretty alright bunch, are we not?

Well I am...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.

This place can be as nasty as it can be nice.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Just tell her to join in and talk crap like the rest of us.

Some people are popular and some not so.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.

She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.

What tips can we give her to feel included here? "

Dunno... But if you find out maybe you'd let me know too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be herself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start. "

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start. "

You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...

You just don't have to take it to heart.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start. "

At the start?!?;

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, I'd say just dive right in... We're a pretty alright bunch, are we not?

Well I am...

Yes you are

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

There's not so many scary characters as when I fist joined lol so if it was back then, I would have agreed with her, now though? Just bloody post and to hell with it!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.

She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.

What tips can we give her to feel included here? "

Come and join The late late nocturnal thread©™ when Jim runs it. It's a nice way to start interacting and know you will definitely have a response.

Also, don't be afraid to post and say it is your first time, or you are relatively new to posting within your comment - it's a flag to people and hopefully results in them being a bit more gentle.

Understand that you will frequently get missed in a thread due to the fact everyone often posts simultaneously (especially in threads where you are trying to comment on the person above) - it is 99,99999% of times not personal. Just keep trying.

Press reply+quote on someone's comment if you are specifically replying to the post they made on a thread - or it can be very confusing.

Above all, just give us all a try.

WELCOME!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.

This place can be as nasty as it can be nice."

This.

I told Jayne to post a question she was curious about... she was a little put off by her experience of the forums.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish "

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

Create her own thread

I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums

So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So today I said "Im in" to the friend for a day thread and got talking to a lovely lady.

She hangs around the forums but finds it hard to join in sometimes.

What tips can we give her to feel included here? "

Just be herself and chip in when she fancies it. It'll evolve

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My approach was to post a lot of bobbins in the forums and join in. At first I was pretty much always igno_ed (even to the extent I'd say something in response to a thread and be totally igno_ed, then someone else would say exactly the same thing a bit later and everyone would pile in to say what a jolly good point they had!

) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!

Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd say just go for it really.

Don't be twuntish or you'll get called out on it. Depending on what side I woke up on you will even if you're not.

Nah, in all seriousness. Watcher, if you're reading this, the forums are a great place. I've met one of my best friends through this, been to a wedding and find more fantastic people to talk to frequently.

Oh and follow the forum rules and then you can't bitch about something been taken the wrong way.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.

This place can be as nasty as it can be nice.

This.

I told Jayne to post a question she was curious about... she was a little put off by her experience of the forums.

Why was she put off?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Create her own thread

I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums

So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it

Thats a really good idea. Someone pushed me to start making my own threads and it really helps boost confidence.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell her tae gee it laldy fs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell her tae gee it laldy fs"

Oh and tell her to always come up behind m1cks and say BRACE!

He loves it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"My approach was to post a lot of bobbins in the forums and join in. At first I was pretty much always igno_ed (even to the extent I'd say something in response to a thread and be totally igno_ed, then someone else would say exactly the same thing a bit later and everyone would pile in to say what a jolly good point they had!

) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!

Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility

This

although I still get igno_ed even on my own threads

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Nope not just you at all. All part of the wonder of the forum

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!

Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility

What heap of shite

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just tell her tae gee it laldy fs"

Avoid M1cks, hes our resident heart breaker

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Tell her not to worry if she seems like she has the knack of closing threads. It does not pay to over think fab at all especially the forums.

FAF?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dive in, be kind, laugh lots, and smother in BS

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.

This place can be as nasty as it can be nice."
totally agree

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What tips can we give her to feel included here? "

Always hit reply+quote when you see me post and pretend it's funny, you'll go a long way

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What tips can we give her to feel included here?

Always hit reply+quote when you see me post and pretend it's funny, you'll go a long way

what like that?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What tips can we give her to feel included here?

Always hit reply+quote when you see me post and pretend it's funny, you'll go a long way

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone gets igno_ed. The only thread starters I've seen respond to all posters constantly have been Jim, Estella and Miss Honey. So if getting a guaranteed response will make you more comfortable, go for one of their threads."

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Buy a good quality tin hat.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...

You just don't have to take it to heart. "

See as I said!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

What tips can we give her to feel included here?

Always hit reply+quote when you see me post and pretend it's funny, you'll go a long way

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prolific spouters of shit that we are!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dive in and post what you like (as long as you're not being too much of a dick).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't eat yellow snow

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.

In your case I think thats true!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just dive in and post what you like (as long as you're not being too much of a dick)."

*faps*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

God I've been here for 8 years and still get igno_ed, so any newbies, be thick skinned and don't take it personally your just not part of 'the clique'

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like you

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What tips can we give her to feel included here?

Always hit reply+quote when you see me post and pretend it's funny, you'll go a long way

what like that?

Exactly like that

And bunnyhop too

See, if people accept a moron like me then I'm positive you'll be fine... mystery lady

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

*Always* PM me if you think I missed you, I would never want someone to think it was deliberate (unless it was and then if you PM, I'll explain and admit I was being a douche say sorry and then fangirl over you for ever more). I try and scrutinise if I missed anyone as that would be the *worst* feeling. I do think the delay it takes to reply to everyone can confuse people though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.

True story.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.

In your case I think thats true! "

Oh I *want* you too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

Youre too sweet. You guys do an amazing job of including everyone. X

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its heartbreaking on the rare occasion they miss you though

I just fap with my tears knowing they secretly want me but need to play it cool.

In your case I think thats true!

Oh I *want* you too."

I know

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like you

Eat some carbs you mardy git.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I used to like you

Whaaaaaat?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like you

Eat me you mardy git.

Like a tramp on chips

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like you

Eat me you mardy git.

Like a tramp on chips

I would, but then you made an insensitive joke about the homeless.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced

Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

^^Agree this is now my fourth so I am now out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

I know! I've been trying to get Lib to reply to me for ages now!

There goes my chance of getting the Fab Lifetime Achievement Award

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

^^Agree this is now my fourth so I am now out

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Welcome

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

*Bunnyhop quickly replies just to be sure!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

Hello! *waves*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lib's top tip #36

PMing Lib nudes is a great way to make friends.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Don't be nervous! I've put a note on your profile to remind myself you're new and to play nicely.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

^^Agree this is now my fourth so I am now out

*Waves* Hiya

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Hello newbie

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!

Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility

This

although I still get igno_ed even on my own threads

I still rarely start my own threads. And still get igno_ed more than responded to but I doubt it's personal, just that there are other posters people want to interact with more. I just keep posting regardless; I am a stubborn sort. And I like having my tuppence worth even if only I know it's there, figuring if I can make myself laugh with a comment then that's one person happy.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uxom _edCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

*Bunnyhop quickly replies just to be sure!

You igno_ed me! Twice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Lib's top tip #36

PMing Lib nudes is a great way to join his harem.

FTFY

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lib's top tip #36

PMing Lib nudes is a great way to make friends.

Are we allowed to actually message you? I say we, I mean may I? I've never done so!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

*Bunnyhop quickly replies just to be sure!

You igno_ed me! Twice "

Hi Red!! *waves*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced

Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt "

Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Nope it's not just you. Firstly, in my case, with a few notable exceptions I am igno_ed the vast majority of the time. In my case I put it down to me posting inane drivel most of the time. That means when I do post something that I think isn't, it is likely igno_ed as more of the same.

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Welcome!! Hello!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

Always three times isn't it...

Drop dead F_ed

Beetlejuice

And now this, well I'm not risking it any more... they could be related, so before you've posted three times Ive nipped it in the bud

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"Create her own thread

I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums

So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it

Thats a really good idea. Someone pushed me to start making my own threads and it really helps boost confidence. "

I've only managed this once and it was a self indulgent thread asking for songs to put on a Birthday playlist and I LOVE that playlist! But the music threads are where I feel happiest, mostly because I'm a music tart and harvest all the tracks

I think you just have to jump in, the majority of threads are asking for opinions/thoughts and we all have them, so just share and don't worry too much about anyone responding or not

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire."

I, for one, got very distressed when you contemplated going.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

^^Agree this is now my fourth so I am now out

Saved from my third time by someone else being igno_ed... Says it all really...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A get igno_ed aw the time fs, you don't see me making a song and dance or YouTube video about it! Lightbulbmomment*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Hope you enjoy it here - you are welcome

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!

Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility

This

although I still get igno_ed even on my own threads

I like your posts and your style of writing. I think people often read and like how a poster writes but might not say so on a thread.

OP - your lady friend needs to just join in. Have a thick skin and be herself. And remember this isn't the real world.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.

I, for one, got very distressed when you contemplated going.

You my dear are one of the notable exceptions- I can only conclude you're mad as a box of frogs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.

I, for one, got very distressed when you contemplated going.

You my dear are one of the notable exceptions- I can only conclude you're mad as a box of frogs

Ribbitt

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

*Bunnyhop quickly replies just to be sure!

You igno_ed me! Twice "

I prefer innocently failed to notice I hadn't replied

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I think you just have to jump in, the majority of threads are asking for opinions/thoughts and we all have them, so just share and don't worry too much about anyone responding or not

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

) and even now I'm mostly or often igno_ed in threads. It's nothing worth fretting about!

Best thing to do is start a few threads of your own and people will respond to YOU which will help with the visibility

This

although I still get igno_ed even on my own threads

Im like this! I know its there thats all that matters

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Welcome to the forums. Have fun say hello and enjoy yourself. Watch out for the STP, it's great to meet people.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced

Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt

Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month

Also dont take it personally when your month ends

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced

Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt

Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month

Also dont take it personally when your month ends

That's providing you had a month to begin with.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading this with interest as I'm new and feeling a tad nervous

Hello! *waves*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire."

Just keep singing. I love it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

Always three times isn't it...

Drop dead F_ed

Beetlejuice

And now this, well I'm not risking it any more... they could be related, so before you've posted three times Ive nipped it in the bud

Candyman

Im still traumatised by the wasps in the toilet

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cott89Man
over a year ago

prestatyn

i would say just get involed, im fairly new and i just got stuck in, people in the forums are lovely and make everyone feel welcome x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Take it slow and with a pinch of a salt.

This place can be as nasty as it can be nice.

This.

I told Jayne to post a question she was curious about... she was a little put off by her experience of the forums.

Why was she put off? "

I don't think she expected people to be so.... unfriendly.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Create her own thread

I know it is hard to come up with interesting topics but once you see people posting on it and engaging you get a great conference boast and will feel more comfortable on the forums

So maybe we can suggest some topics or she can suggest a few and we help pick a good one so she can create a thread on it

Thats a really good idea. Someone pushed me to start making my own threads and it really helps boost confidence.

I think you just have to jump in, the majority of threads are asking for opinions/thoughts and we all have them, so just share and don't worry too much about anyone responding or not

Its always hardest to join in on those I think, often people put their point across better or your opinion matches one already written

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced

Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt

Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month

Also dont take it personally when your month ends

That's providing you had a month to begin with.

With such a beautiful quim it's always your month.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies

(I think that's where I went wrong!

)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I like pleasing everyone

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once I've been igno_ed on a thread for the third time I'm out... No point hanging around

^^Agree this is now my fourth so I am now out

Saved from my third time by someone else being igno_ed... Says it all really...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A get igno_ed aw the time fs, you don't see me making a song and dance or YouTube video about it! Lightbulbmomment*

We ignore you on purpose though

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.

Just keep singing. I love it

You too Bunnyhop can join Estella in the box of frogs

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like pleasing everyone

Harlot. But you harlot well.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are times the forums can feel daunting, cold and like your messages are not being read especially with some of the forum games being fast paced

Dont let it get to you, take things with a pinch of salt

Lots of people feel like that at times. Oh and don't play a snog, kiss, avoid thread unless you want to be skipped over the the flavour of the month

Also dont take it personally when your month ends

That's providing you had a month to begin with.

I think I did. Thank fuck thats done with!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.

Just keep singing. I love it

You too Bunnyhop can join Estella in the box of frogs

Can I still be a bunny though? We both hop!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"With such a beautiful quim it's always your month.

Nooooooooo

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit! "

I try. Its bloody hard work though!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit! "

Yeah, you are actually! Did you air quote the latter part?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish "

I didn't realise you were such a risk taker! Naked ironing?!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

Some people have fitted in much more easily than others

But yes being igno_ed is normalish

I think even when you get to the stage people know you it still feels that way sonetimes. Or maybe thats just me?

Secondly I'm a bit of an acqui_ed taste that very few ever wish to acquire.

Just keep singing. I love it

You too Bunnyhop can join Estella in the box of frogs

Can I still be a bunny though? We both hop! "

Ok mad as a hutch full of wabbits

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have your say, don't worry about responses, it's just fun when you're bo_ed, most in here are friendly & fun, but some take it so seriously, but whatever is written in response are only words, let it slide....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pffft, and me. I'm all inclusive and shit!

Yeah, you are actually! Did you air quote the latter part?

You know me so well!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies

(I think that's where I went wrong!

I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.

Like this ^^^

Jokes

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies

(I think that's where I went wrong!

)

I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.

Like this ^^^

Jokes"

Look at this tragedy as an example (its more toward the end)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies

(I think that's where I went wrong!

)

I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.

Like this ^^^

Jokes"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*"

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies

(I think that's where I went wrong!

)

I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.

Like this ^^^

Jokes

Look at this tragedy as an example (its more toward the end)

I don't think you understand my soh

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*"

Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.

You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have your say, don't worry about responses, it's just fun when you're bo_ed, most in here are friendly & fun, but some take it so seriously, but whatever is written in response are only words, let it slide...."

I have slide away by oasis in my head now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell her to post something in the introductions bit. She's a woman, she'll get lots of replies

(I think that's where I went wrong!

)

I forgot to say if you do get igno_ed just tell her to quote herself.

Like this ^^^

Jokes

Look at this tragedy as an example (its more toward the end)

I don't think you understand my soh

Just ignore me, it's for the best

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been igno_ed is the surest sign you've been accepted. Right?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been igno_ed is the surest sign you've been accepted. Right?"

Right! (you've not made it yet

)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been igno_ed is the surest sign you've been accepted. Right?"

I was so close to ignoring you but I just couldn't

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.

You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble...

Oh my goodness. You can be my male-mistress (what do you call a male-mistress?!)

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been igno_ed is the surest sign you've been accepted. Right?

Right! (you've not made it yet

I didn't think this through, did I?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also. "

Damn ladies! Y'all are making me blush!

Same goes for you too Bunny. You had me at furniture making...

Think I'm making things too easy for y'all...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been igno_ed is the surest sign you've been accepted. Right?

I was so close to ignoring you but I just couldn't

So in some ways this worked, however in others, not so much

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Inclusive, or going after first pickings?

Forum, you decide!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also. "

Oh let's just have a threesome!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been igno_ed is the surest sign you've been accepted. Right?

Right! (you've not made it yet

)

I didn't think this through, did I?

Doofus.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.

You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble...

Oh my goodness. You can be my male-mistress (what do you call a male-mistress?!)"

Mr-ess?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Stop wasting your energy. Distance is the only thing keeping us apart.

You had me at Hypnotic Brass Emsemble...

Oh my goodness. You can be my male-mistress (what do you call a male-mistress?!)

Mr-ess?

Under Duress?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...

You just don't have to take it to heart. "

just join in, have fun.... post away.

Make friends, have a giggle with someone, and in my case, next time I look at their profile find they've blocked me ,

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Inclusive, or going after first pickings?

Forum, you decide!!

Inclusive.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Oh let's just have a threesome!

Please

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That ^ the more you get involved, the more you get known and the easier it becomes.

That what I said. Everyone feels igno_ed at the start.

You can be posting a long time and still get igno_ed...

You just don't have to take it to heart.

just join in, have fun.... post away.

Make friends, have a giggle with someone, and in my case, next time I look at their profile find they've blocked me ,

Come look at mine whenever you like x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Inclusive, or going after first pickings?

Forum, you decide!!

Inclusive. "

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Inclusive, or going after first pickings?

Forum, you decide!!

Inclusive. "

Yes, dear.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Inclusive, or going after first pickings?

Forum, you decide!!

Inclusive.

Yes, dear.

I have enough in my basket already

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Oh let's just have a threesome!

See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!

Told you people are lush here!

Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Inclusive, or going after first pickings?

Forum, you decide!!

Inclusive.

Yes, dear.

I have enough in my basket already

Hahaha you and your burdensome basket.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Oh let's just have a threesome!

See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!

Told you people are lush here!

Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...

ROADTRIP!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I just made a hello thread for the new folk

Inclusive, or going after first pickings?

Forum, you decide!!

Inclusive.

Yes, dear.

I have enough in my basket already

Hahaha you and your burdensome basket.

Worse than a shopping trolley with a gippy wheel

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Oh let's just have a threesome!

See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!

Told you people are lush here!

Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...

I'll watch and give you Strictly-style reviews at the end.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Oh let's just have a threesome!

See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!

Told you people are lush here!

Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...

I'll watch and give you Strictly-style reviews at the end. "

Surely we'd get a Phwoooaaaaarty!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

just join in, have fun.... post away.

Make friends, have a giggle with someone, and in my case, next time I look at their profile find they've blocked me ,

Come look at mine whenever you like x"

Winked, fabbed all pics and loved Wow

Thank you x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a watcher for ages before I started to post anything. I'm a little shy and don't have much confidence. I started with an introduction thread because I felt rude just joining in without saying hello first. I was feeling brave that day. Now I can't shut up.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was a watcher for ages before I started to post anything. I'm a little shy and don't have much confidence. I started with an introduction thread because I felt rude just joining in without saying hello first. I was feeling brave that day. Now I can't shut up.

I should start reading introduction threads more often

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I was like this too, read the forums for ages before actually posting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Oh let's just have a threesome!

See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!

Told you people are lush here!

Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...

I'll watch and give you Strictly-style reviews at the end.

Surely we'd get a Phwoooaaaaarty!

For that pun you do!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dear Bunny's friend (and all newbies!)

Come and join us! We're mostly a lovely bunch. Just ignore the dickheads and come say hello!

I wasn't sure how long I'd stick around on Fab until I took a look here. Now this place keeps me too occupied to message bomb all the ladies...

*insert my crude attempt to fuck you here, I can't be bothe_ed to think of one, but don't want to miss the chance to continue my war of attrition, ya know?!*

Can you add a bit in for me? I can't be bothe_ed just now but I'd like to continue my campaign also.

Oh let's just have a threesome!

See here new people? After sending thousands of carefully crafted unsolicited messages, a threesome has just landed in my lap without the idea even entering my mind!

Told you people are lush here!

Estella, I'll pick you up on the way to Scotland...

ROADTRIP!"

I'll put the kettle on x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We're glad you did x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're glad you did x"

Aww thanks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Just dive in and comment. What's the worst that can happen?

And after she's read her 10th girth Vs length thread she'll officially be a forumite.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

did she join in?

tell her not to be sca_ed of all the men who fawn over her while she's a novelty, it'll soon pass when they feel rejected.

and don't post in opinion topics or debatable ones coz these won't produce much chat as everyone just posts their opinion or disagrees with yours.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Hmmmmm not been here that long myself, I think I just parked myself and refused to move

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just dive in and comment. What's the worst that can happen?

And after she's igno_ed her 10th girth Vs length thread she'll officially be a forumite. "

FTFY

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"did she join in?

tell her not to be sca_ed of all the men who fawn over her while she's a novelty, it'll soon pass when they feel rejected.

and don't post in opinion topics or debatable ones coz these won't produce much chat as everyone just posts their opinion or disagrees with yours."

She did yeah. Im sure she'll get more confident and pop up more often now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lib's top tip #36

PMing Lib nudes is a great way to make friends.

Still no nudes.

Seems no one wants to make friends these days.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

"did she join in?

tell her not to be sca_ed of all the men who fawn over her while she's a novelty, it'll soon pass when they feel rejected.

and don't post in opinion topics or debatable ones coz these won't produce much chat as everyone just posts their opinion or disagrees with yours.

She did yeah. Im sure she'll get more confident and pop up more often now "

cool.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lib's top tip #36

PMing Lib nudes is a great way to make friends.

Still no nudes.

Seems no one wants to make friends these days."

Bloody filters

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

She should spend a night of debauchery with us. We'll intersperse the fun with gems of wisdom, we are kind like that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read through the whole thread and agreed with every post. Can't quote + reply every single one though and if I pm everyone they will think I'm insane.

Join in. People will like you or they won't.

If there was a 'like' button for posts I think people would be surprised that actually they *are* noticed.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I just do my own thing and it works for me. Sometimes people respond to my comments and sometimes not. I don't ever take it personally and I just continue in my own happy little way

I've chatted to some lovely people by joining in and every day something or someone makes me laugh, so I would say just try it and see

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread