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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

Hope you are all well.

Just wondering for some hints and tips from all, in to what the best way to send a message is...

I usually go with the how are you part and ask what their type is if it doesnt state on profile, or normally pick something out from their bio and roll with that. But few times i just get a delete. I understand im not everyones cup of tea, but just after abit of advice from the wise

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By *ensualguy101Man
over a year ago

Orpington

Hopefully you'll get lots of good replies to your question. But in the meantime, imagine you opened your In Box on here and it you had 40 messages! And the same the next day. And the next day. You'd never have time to reply and you'd simply delete numerous messages - as happens to all of us. Anyway, a compliment is always a good place to start, but nothing crude...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something original that dont sound the same as the rest.

Your profile pic aint very original either loads look the same as that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hopefully you'll get lots of good replies to your question. But in the meantime, imagine you opened your In Box on here and it you had 40 messages! And the same the next day. And the next day. You'd never have time to reply and you'd simply delete numerous messages - as happens to all of us. Anyway, a compliment is always a good place to start, but nothing crude... "

Totally understand the overwhelming response females and couples get (tad jealous haha)... Suppose its just persistence, and if its meant to be its meant to be as they say...

Thanks

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A compliment goes a long way

Not just a hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Something original that dont sound the same as the rest.

Your profile pic aint very original either loads look the same as that too"

Profile pic is from the truth and dare thread going on in the forums... My profile pic is normally a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey there sugartits, what's occurring?

Works better than "hi" anyway.

Make it personal. Make it short. Make it lighthearted.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice."

Has that worked for you? Haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice."

If they get cross when you call them 'trout face', reply with "for cods sake it was a joke!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A compliment goes a long way

Not just a hi "

I try to compliment, sometimes its hard if they dont have a picture haha x

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

don't stand there saying hello with your cock hanging out for a start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey there sugartits, what's occurring?

Works better than "hi" anyway.

Make it personal. Make it short. Make it lighthearted.

Good luck "

Believe me, ive tried all sorts... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of insults... try to lower their self esteem and confidence. Then close with a line that in essence says you may as well meet me as no one else will want to kiss your trout face. Or just be nice. Your choice."

60% of the time, it works every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't stand there saying hello with your cock hanging out for a start

"

Oh i dunno....is that a torch in your hand or are you just pleased to see me...works wonders as an ice breaker

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"don't stand there saying hello with your cock hanging out for a start

Oh i dunno....is that a torch in your hand or are you just pleased to see me...works wonders as an ice breaker"

Dont think it would go down well with a female haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you say don't be boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a better pic that should stick out from all the torso and dick pics

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell


"Whatever you say don't be boring. "

So what do you think of the pedestrianisation of norwich city centre?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell you. But I'd have to kill you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back when I was messaging people I used to wait for a witty or engaging way to address their current status.

Worked most of the time ok

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

Starting one is easy, If they like your pictures/profile in most cases they will reply, Its keeping the messages flowing long enough that you both enjoy sending them or to arrange a social/meet that's the hard bit,

I will stop sending messages once it starts getting into dead ended replies,

Yes, No, Smiley face, Thanks etc

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