FabSwingers.com forum: Hotlist....why?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all.

Any help out there?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I use it so I can perve their pics

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I use it so I can perve their pics

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

Wankbank

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

For me its a list of 'maybes'. I don't want to add them to friends as we've not met or haven't arranged a meet, but I want to be able to find them if I am free for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to spy on people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't use it. I'm friends with the only ones I'm interested. I'm not interested in watching others.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Well it's for people your not friends with but what to keep an eye on.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Ninja perving. People who make me laugh a lot (for a myriad of reasons). Because I want to feel sad when I see their veri pops up and it's not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A list of delights

A list of horrors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my to do list

Also, if I see a profile but don't have time to message them, I'll add them to the hotlist for later. The lucky ones graduate to my friend list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea of the point of it other than to keep an eye on someone who's been abusive or something..only thing ive ever used it for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I use it so I can perve their pics

Is that all?

They don't find out though do they?

Or is it polite to let them know. Or maintain the incognito perv?

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

"Ninja perving. People who make me laugh a lot (for a myriad of reasons). Because I want to feel sad when I see their veri pops up and it's not me.

Added

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just added you to my hotlist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotlist is for people who's pics I want to see but not necessarily meet.

Pretty sure sending a friends request to every female I like the look of wouldn't be a good idea either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A list of delights

A list of horrors

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/05/17 17:40:25]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank bank, I know I don't fit their criteria and they don't fit mine but they're still so pretty to look at

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hotlist is for people who's pics I want to see but not necessarily meet.

Pretty sure sending a friends request to every female I like the look of wouldn't be a good idea either."

I've been doing it wrong all this time.

Just adding friends to my hotlist who are extra hot. Ffs

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"I use it so I can perve their pics

Is that all?

They don't find out though do they?

Or is it polite to let them know. Or maintain the incognito perv?

Some of them can probably work it out, if I like a new pic they have posted and I am one of the first few to fab it,

But apart from that they wouldn't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a "wish" or an "if only" list. Also gives you the ability to see the latest updates from someone without searching.

Its fun to put people on the "pedestal" list......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it for people I'd like to lick and have pretty pictures but have no chance with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all. Cant spy on em if you ain't friends so hotlist is the problem solver!

Any help out there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its a "wish" or an "if only" list. Also gives you the ability to see the latest updates from someone without searching.

Its fun to put people on the "pedestal" list......

Duly noted.

Getting rid as we speak of all the gorgeous friends on my list.

You live and learn....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our list to do and to perve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame the other person doesnt get a notification that your on their hotlist !

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Shame the other person doesnt get a notification that your on their hotlist !"

There are too many people who use it as a 'Not' list for that to be comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all.

Any help out there?

I tend to use it as an 'un-hot list' You know those two faced cunts you would rather avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who I'm out of age range for, but lets me perv on them regularly, people I just fancy in general, etc. Not everyone wants to be friends haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all.

Any help out there?

I tend to use it as an 'un-hot list' You know those two faced cunts you would rather avoid."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use it for people I'd like to lick and have pretty pictures but have no chance with. "

A "Lick" list....hadn't thought about that one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us:

Perving

People with funny/interesting status updates.

A maybe list, to keep an eye on them in case they put dodgy status updates on.

Also, as a couple one of us might want to show a profile to the other, so the hotlist is a good 'holding ground'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. Learning a lot here

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I stick people in there for all sorts of reasons (sometimes I have no idea why they're there months later

Those I fancy from afar (and am usually too cowardly to tell), those whose statuses amuse me, those who I don't fancy but think are interesting nonetheless, those with hilarious pictures, or really clever/arty pics, and a whole load of what-hell-was-I-thinking types ...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

So I can keep peeping at sexy people's photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know either. It's like most things. Your given a tool. It's up to you if you use it, and some use the tool for something completely different to what it was Intended.

Sone throw the tool in a drawer because it's useless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I stick people in there for all sorts of reasons (sometimes I have no idea why they're there months later

Brilliant.

Got rid of friends and may have already added a few new ones to the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all.

Any help out there?

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just reminds you who you find attractive

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It took me quite a while to get around to using it and I only have a few on there but it helps and is useful in many ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It took me quite a while to get around to using it and I only have a few on there but it helps and is useful in many ways

Added 3 already

This could be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It took me quite a while to get around to using it and I only have a few on there but it helps and is useful in many ways

Speaking of hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It took me quite a while to get around to using it and I only have a few on there but it helps and is useful in many ways

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I agree I have only 5 at minute but very sexy they are to

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"It took me quite a while to get around to using it and I only have a few on there but it helps and is useful in many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only contact people when they are online and I have time to write them a nice, relevant message.

So if they're not online, or I'm in a hurry they go onto my hotlist. Should they subsequently become a friend, or they show no interest in me (heaven forbid, how dare they!?! Lol) then I remove them.

Occasionally, you may also go on my hotlist if I'm outside your age range and unable to contact you. Maybe you will see my interest if I keep looking at your profile and Fabbing all your lovely pics and just maybe, you will contact me before another flying pig goes past the window? But you have to be pretty tempting to get that amount of unrequited attention from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it to perce new picturrs and si I can see when sone people are in chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use ours for those attending our house parties,can't be doing with writing lists for kids to pickup lol start asking questions lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all.

Any help out there?

I put people on my hotlist that i want to avoid or people who have been a problem. I do this so i can find their profile easily and keep an eye on them and avoid being at a club at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the hotlist for the fact that they are hot so I can check there updates outo

And perv from afar

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

Clearly this is the right use!

I'm all in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have ppl who we would consider meeting in our friends list BUT the particularly hot singles/couples we would definitely meet given the chance....make our hotlist

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By *ensualguy101Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all.

Any help out there?

A person may not accept your Friends Request, whereas you can add a person to your Hotlist and then you can see what they were last on, or any Status update that they add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a list of people you plan to nail but you're too afraid to ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What exactly is it for?

I've been confused since I joined.

I get that you can add people who you'd like to see updates but doesn't the friends list do that? I can't see it serves any purpose at all.

Any help out there?

A person may not accept your Friends Request, whereas you can add a person to your Hotlist and then you can see what they were last on, or any Status update that they add. "

And this ^^^^^^

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"It took me quite a while to get around to using it and I only have a few on there but it helps and is useful in many ways

Speaking of hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eye candy

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I hide my secret crushes there until I build up the courage to do something about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is mainly for folk I've talked to who meet my criteria and seemed to have decent chat. Makes it easier to check so I can them out from the names I recognise just because they are persistent...

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

" I use it to spy on people. "

It's true tool for that if your so inclined..

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I use it so I can perve their pics

Same here to be fair!

My hotlist is two pronged tbh op!

First and foremost there are super hot chaps and couples who I've met and want to meet again - or would like to meet. If they're on the hotlist (unless they Perve in

mode like me!) you can see when they view your profile - which is useful to know (ie if someone views you pretty much every day then you can assume they're interested!

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Secondly there are a few who are on there for opposite reasons - we really don't get on and I want to keep an eye on their statuses to make sure we're not in the same place at the same time!

Hope this helped op! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit list. ..people to generally avoid but able to keep an eye on them...can't see what they're up to if blocked.

Block list is permanent.

Friends list are those I have met or would like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly use it for newbies in my area.

When they start they don't tend to put a full bio or pictures up. I hit list them and then wait a couple of week to see what they look like then message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibilities

Perving

Photos

Pricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use it so I can perve their pics

Exactly this

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Possibilities

Perving

Photos

Pricks

This...except the last one...they just get blocked or noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier to find people who u like and even though u can't meet at min are I terested in a meet so add to hotlist op

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