FabSwingers.com forum: Fakes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just WHY are there so many fakes on this site?

Flippin nightmare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to fine tune your fake detector

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

fake what ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Define fake?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

_iew throws some old chicken bones into a cup and shakes and lobs them over the floor..

wait till I tell you what they say...

I see:

a rejection may have recently taken place...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a banana in your pocket or are you just pleased to see me?

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Damn this bloody diet...making my eyes go funny...I read CAKES! lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

if you mean fake as in profile isnt correct (single as a cpl ect ) then just report,block and move on . no need to wase a second thought on em and admin will deal with accordingly .

i was called fake before as i refused to meet a total stranger after he sent a one line mail and obviously not read my profile . thats not fake ,its choice . some think if you dont meet anyone or everyone who messages you your not a swinger and fake ,sorry but as i say not in my book .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"_iew throws some old chicken bones into a cup and shakes and lobs them over the floor..

wait till I tell you what they say...

I see:

a rejection may have recently taken place... "

. Me thinks so 2

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Far be it from me to judge but that is an odd choice of username.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps..... nice cock.

god I am shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ps..... nice cock.

god I am shallow"

Pmsl Yep

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

my brother goes to Turkey every year to buy genuine fakes pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my brother goes to Turkey every year to buy genuine fakes pmsl"

reminds me of Hong Kong now they have the best genuine fakes

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Just WHY are there so many fakes on this site?

Flippin nightmare!"

if you are coming up on so many "fakes" the common denominator is you.... after all you are the one doing the picking...

maybe i'd change the way you do your picking and do your due diligence...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just WHY are there so many fakes on this site?

Flippin nightmare!

if you are coming up on so many "fakes" the common denominator is you.... after all you are the one doing the picking...

maybe i'd change the way you do your picking and do your due diligence..."

As always, well said Fabio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I see it only one way to get rid of fakes is only meet @ a club, like minded people sorted

but saying that going to a club doesn't guarantee

You a shag but you could get lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Errr no rejection so try again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just WHY are there so many fakes on this site?

Flippin nightmare!

if you are coming up on so many "fakes" the common denominator is you.... after all you are the one doing the picking...

maybe i'd change the way you do your picking and do your due diligence..."
...... Try a new username

* crEepS rOunD grAveYarD *-|-

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By *ethany10Couple
over a year ago

falkirk

Nah mainland China has better ones in my experience.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Errr no rejection so try again lol

ok..

a meet today up and hoping to attract a message from someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah mainland China has better ones in my experience."
...... Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/07/11 13:41:14]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just WHY are there so many fakes on this site?

Flippin nightmare!"

Whysthatthen?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Errr no rejection so try again lol

ok..

a meet today up and hoping to attract a message from someone."

Sorry View, but surely that doesn't mean people have been rejected already and even if they had, if they want to start a thread about something that involves it they can.

This all sounds very bitchy at times especially going over peoples old posts and what they said a week last christmas.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Just WHY are there so many fakes on this site?

Flippin nightmare!"

Define fake ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Jeez.. tough crowd!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For exactly the same reason as there are 100's of fakes on all other sites too.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Errr no rejection so try again lol

ok..

a meet today up and hoping to attract a message from someone.

Sorry View, but surely that doesn't mean people have been rejected already and even if they had, if they want to start a thread about something that involves it they can.

This all sounds very bitchy at times especially going over peoples old posts and what they said a week last christmas.

agreed and asked for clarification on what was fake.

still waiting

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Jeez.. tough crowd!

Define what you mean by fake and we can all give a better _iew

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

to allow a discussion to follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeez.. tough crowd!

I think what you will find is that in the past a lot of people have confused someone who is discerning with fake. If someone says no, changes their mind, stops mailing you, bocks you or in any way ends up not meeting you its not necessarily that they are fake. You aren't the first and i am sure not the last to get frustrated on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So far my experience on fab includes

Pics not of user

Profile description misleading (age, location, height etc)

As some said I need to retune my fake-dar

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 17/07/11 14:05:47]

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Try and select verified people , either they will have spoken to/cammed/or met others from the site.

or Photo verified... they have sent a pic of themselves either facially or body shot to admin to prove a couple/single.

both of the above help minimise but don't eradicate some of the fake profiles... well, when i say fake profile, every profile is genuine, it is what the person who created does with it... if they say they want to wan to pics, that doesn't make them any less genuine to someone who shags everyday different people on here.

sometimes people are deemed fake if they longer to meet, want to chat more, get to know someone rather than a meet today.

the site is full of different types of people and you will learn that one size definitely doesn't fit all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definition of a fake = some who arranges a meet after ping pong mailing you for like 2 weeks, even exchangers mobile number chats on phone sets a date to meet up then nothing no text no phone call no fuck all.

Defintion of a fake part 2...... A guy saying he's a couple just to get you to added him to msn so you can watch him wank

, or sets up a meet only to say @ the last min his partner carnt attend as her legs fell off or her mothers legs fell off or her sister cats legs fell off ...... Think I'll stop there, you get the picture

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Because this site is for entertainment purposes and some peoples sense of what this is differs.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what a lot of people call fake is actually the other party having cold feet.

I've talked to a fair few and said are you up for a meet with me, to which they say yeah sure. Then I ask ok when you free? Only to get tumbles in return.

So either cold feet, not wanting to turn a fantasy into reality, or just stuck in the forever browsing mode.

I just ignore them after that point and wouldn't consider them again. Life is to short!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the nets full of people who arent who they say they are.

especially if ur using it to pick up women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the nets full of people who arent who they say they are.

especially if ur using it to pick up women

"
....... How the fuck do you pick women up if you not who you say you are ? You go ask some else to pick them up for you ?

that's no fun ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think what a lot of people call fake is actually the other party having cold feet.

I've talked to a fair few and said are you up for a meet with me, to which they say yeah sure. Then I ask ok when you free? Only to get tumbles in return.

So either cold feet, not wanting to turn a fantasy into reality, or just stuck in the forever browsing mode.

I just ignore them after that point and wouldn't consider them again. Life is to short!"

Do and dont get that point, you understand they get cold feet, yet when you hit them with the "rite when then"? You cant understand then why they go quiet?

I never close doors on folks nice enough to show interest and if they want to meet, i kinda wait for that thing to be a mutual ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the nets full of people who arent who they say they are.

especially if ur using it to pick up women

....... How the fuck do you pick women up if you not who you say you are ? You go ask some else to pick them up for you ?

that's no fun ffs

* crEepS rOunD grAveYarD*-|-"

ffs! i meant like if ur on the net trying to score with women, ur gonna run into "fakes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can usually spot a fake profile a mile off, i.e being on for over 5months or so with no verifications and no pics and no verified genuine, these are usually people who just like looking at the pics,, thats my 2 pence worth x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fakeflingers, fancy wasting some time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to fakeflingers, fancy wasting some time

You just wanna perv my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Been on here 3 yrs and have never met anyone that was'nt what they said on their profile

Not what they looked like on their profile

Or 10 yrs older than their pics

I must have a shit hot fakedar,who wants to borrow it

£20 an hr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you can usually spot a fake profile a mile off, i.e being on for over 5months or so with no verifications and no pics and no verified genuine, these are usually people who just like looking at the pics,, thats my 2 pence worth x"

Doesnt make them a fake though.. just means they use the site how they want too. No harm to anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

though in some cases, its a year, they dont want to show their verifications and more than likely meet at clubs and only really use this site to chat to friends, some just register then do nothing, some, and mostly guys, just use it for a wank, some just use it to chat rather than message. But I do agree in some cases, they possibly are not genuine, personally I stay away from someone that has been here several month and has not been verified and has little on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Welcome to fakeflingers, fancy wasting some time

You just wanna perv my pics "

all ready perved them several times

, people complaining about being ignored pah my friends ignore me and I'm lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been on here 3 yrs and have never met anyone that was'nt what they said on their profile

Not what they looked like on their profile

Or 10 yrs older than their pics

I must have a shit hot fakedar,who wants to borrow it

£20 an hr

Deal, beats sitting in a £200 hotel suite and nobody shows,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Been on here 3 yrs and have never met anyone that was'nt what they said on their profile

Not what they looked like on their profile

Or 10 yrs older than their pics

I must have a shit hot fakedar,who wants to borrow it

£20 an hr

Deal, beats sitting in a £200 hotel suite and nobody shows,lol

ouch! you may have a freebie of my fakedar for that

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By *udolphsRocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

just to add my 2 pence worth too, only been on fab since december 2009 and in my early perhaps nieve days, I have been approached by many couples where the "wife" was always out or the cam is broken. However now my Fake-dar is properly calibrated I am avoiding the fakes much better, best way to calibrate your Fake-dar is go to a social Or go to one of the organised Club meets, the fakes don't seem go to them and I have met some great real members from here that way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Been on here 3 yrs and have never met anyone that was'nt what they said on their profile

Not what they looked like on their profile

Or 10 yrs older than their pics

I must have a shit hot fakedar,who wants to borrow it

£20 an hr

No advertising on the forums please

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Been on here 3 yrs and have never met anyone that was'nt what they said on their profile

Not what they looked like on their profile

Or 10 yrs older than their pics

I must have a shit hot fakedar,who wants to borrow it

£20 an hr

No advertising on the forums please

aaawww bum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree but at least there are some genuine people too

Just a bit frustrating to waste time chatting but the more you on here the more I think you get to know sooner who's fake etc.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Been on here 3 yrs and have never met anyone that was'nt what they said on their profile

Not what they looked like on their profile

Or 10 yrs older than their pics

I must have a shit hot fakedar,who wants to borrow it

£20 an hr

No advertising on the forums please

aaawww bum!

I must admit, we must have been using the same sort of shit hot fakedar too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly...i dont understand what it is that makes the majority decide to "defend" fakes, now ive met a few IN this forum alone in person but have to disagree in this whole "people use the site their own way, doesnt make them fake", the perception of the FAKE is also the right of the individual to voice.Lest stop jumping down peoples throats, unless they are clearly idiots like the ones that verify obviously streamed webcams, ort veify accounts without any knowledge of the FAKE... my profile hasnt changed in a while as it states about FAKES, ive been on the end of some "give them a chance" type of ways, now as a new person that really doesnt bode well if ur coming here to meet ppl does it.

Just remember all, some of us arent as internet swingy savvy as others, but dont delude others into thinking there isnt FAKES on here, or idiots who verify them or in fact those couples where the other half verifies themselves from another single profile(had a blatant n cracking one yesterday)...but i didnt report...maybe give them a chance i thought...but imagine the fucked off couples who may possibly arrange a meet and get the 'looking like an idiot', having travelled spent money on babysitters etc...

now tell them...theres no FAKES on here

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

of course there are.

but the definition differs from one person to the next.

and that is what the report function is for.

People lambast time wasters, fakes on these forums, nine times out of ten it will be because they didn't meet when they wanted a meet, or changed due to reasons deemed to be fake but in many cases may be genuine. The are people who will get their jolly mucking others about, but a few.

but I will always say there is 3sides to a story and coming on accusing people does nothing to help the site. Reporting them, MAY do.

There have been times that the subject has been discussed and informative for the OP as there may be reasons given that they had not considered. But the shouting of 'fakes fakes and fakes' doesn't help unless a brief description gives the context.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but of course they can post

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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I think fake gets shouted about all the time for lots of reasons.

I am not naive enough to think there are no fakes about on the web in general never mind on here and sites like this, but, my definition of fake is someone making arrangements to meet, not turning up and not bothering to let the other person know they are not turning up.

What I don't think is fake is someone who you have mailed with a _iew to arranging a meet and that person has changed their mind , be that you said something that they didn't like or they got cold feet and don't think they can turn the fantasy into reality.... and I think a lot of people complain that changing their mind must make them fake.

We make sure the meets we have know that either party can walk away from the meet right up to the point of meeting at the local, without any questions asked.

We start mails with people with the _iew to a meet, if that ends up in a meet all well and good...if it fizzles out for whatever reason it doesn't mean we have wasted any time as if we didn't speak to people we wouldn't know if we wanted to meet them or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fakes vs timewasters who wins lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"fakes vs timewasters who wins lol"

Neither of them

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

think that does it for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fakes vs timewasters who wins lol

Neither of them

I might have faked an orgasm or wasted time cuming, I wanna label lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"fakes vs timewasters who wins lol

Neither of them

I might have faked an orgasm or wasted time cuming, I wanna label lol"

you have one... man tart x

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"fakes vs timewasters who wins lol

Neither of them

I might have faked an orgasm or wasted time cuming, I wanna label lol"

Cumwastingorgasmfaker !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"fakes vs timewasters who wins lol"

to quote harry hill... theres only one way to find out... FIGHTTTTTTTTTTT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more concerned about fake goods than fake folk on here, get a grip and move on

psst wanna buy some erm real geunine attractive Ugg boots, one size fits all

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I'm more concerned about fake goods than fake folk on here, get a grip and move on

psst wanna buy some erm real geunine attractive Ugg boots, one size fits all

thanks, I will pass, but thanks again

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"So far my experience on fab includes

Pics not of user

Profile description misleading (age, location, height etc)

As some said I need to retune my fake-dar

If someone is sending you fake / web pics report them.

( I am guessing you mean this )

As for location, we don't give our exact location out either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more concerned about fake goods than fake folk on here, get a grip and move on

psst wanna buy some erm real geunine attractive Ugg boots, one size fits all

thanks, I will pass, but thanks again"

you would look good in Ugg boots mate

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I'm more concerned about fake goods than fake folk on here, get a grip and move on

psst wanna buy some erm real geunine attractive Ugg boots, one size fits all

thanks, I will pass, but thanks again

you would look good in Ugg boots mate

I have them...

but real ones in brown leather

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Uggs = tweenie feet

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Uggs = tweenie feet

whats tweenie feet?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Uggs= warm toasty feet for walking the dogs in the snow come the winter... I may look a twat but a cosied feet twat

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Uggs = tweenie feet

whats tweenie feet?"

The tweenies were a kids show from a while back have a google at them and their feet

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Uggs = tweenie feet

whats tweenie feet?

The tweenies were a kids show from a while back have a google at them and their feet

brb...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Uggs = tweenie feet

whats tweenie feet?

The tweenies were a kids show from a while back have a google at them and their feet

you do make a good point......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men shouldn't wear Ugg boots!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Men shouldn't wear Ugg boots!

I agree.... they could never carry it off.

but camp old queens get away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

peeps who turn out not to be what thye said they were are not fakes, just liars.

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