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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

It has come to our attention that there are alot ov ppl on ere that think that because we are swingers that there dosent have to be a phisical attraction between party's for play to resume meaning that because we do wat we do we will happily shag anyone or thing ,attraction or not,now for give me for sounding a bit ov a twat but these naive ppl need to get a grip if they think that we are gonna get naked with them just coz they are swingers coz thatll never happen THERE HAS TO BE SOME SORT OF ATTRACTION TO BEGIN WITH CAPEESH!!! So whats wrong with ppl these days comming on ere and automatically think that shags are gonna fall in they lap WTF????

Have any others noticed this??

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooh yes!

people come up with all sorts!

as we are looking for single guys only at the moment - some of them are just unbelievable! We know there are lots of genuine nice guys around but a lot of guys do think like what you have just described!

Not surprised that the nice genuine guys on here find it hard to get meetings!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

TELL ME ABOUT IT! I get this a lot as a single woman who can meet quite often. I insist on a public place meet first for mainly safety reasons. It also gives me a secure environment to gently explain if i don't feel attracted... Obviously if i want to rip his clothes off there and then we'll leave and find somewhere private! But no matter how much online flirting and nice pics are exchanged, if theres no spark then theres no fire...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed it, yes.

It's not just cpls it happens to.

Some guys do have taste too.

Although I may be no Brad Pitt I still like to be attracted to someone.

To be fair most of the women do make an effort but some of the guys (of cpls) are just unkempt.

Ahem.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some will shag anything with a pulse and reasonably warm orifice...

many, many won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't fancy the lady, I can't get aroused for her, so obviously I can't shag her.

It may be a widely held _iew that some blokes will shag anything, and maybe there is an element of truth in it, but I'm not one of them.

It's always the people you're not attracted to who come back at you with the negetive comments in the event of a rejection.

You can't fancy everyone, and not everyone will fancy you, and once you get that mindset onboard, the easier your time will be in swingland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TELL ME ABOUT IT! I get this a lot as a single woman who can meet quite often. I insist on a public place meet first for mainly safety reasons. It also gives me a secure environment to gently explain if i don't feel attracted... Obviously if i want to rip his clothes off there and then we'll leave and find somewhere private! But no matter how much online flirting and nice pics are exchanged, if theres no spark then theres no fire... "

Me too, the only way to meet new people

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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!


"oooh yes!

people come up with all sorts!

as we are looking for single guys only at the moment - some of them are just unbelievable! We know there are lots of genuine nice guys around but a lot of guys do think like what you have just described!

Not surprised that the nice genuine guys on here find it hard to get meetings!

"

We couldent agree more with you there ,its a shame coz we know some realy nice single guys who realy dont need prats like that making thing harder but its not just single guys weve had the same with cpls ,weve been massaged loads before now by cpls asking us are we interested so we reply,"thanks but your not wat we are looking for but happy hunting" then they reply back ,"whats wrong with us",nw wtf shouldent what weve said be enuff or shall we just say that your to fat,wrong colour,too old or ugly ,now these are ppl who assume we are all on ere to shag any one ,are they off they heads or wa???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed it, yes.

It's not just cpls it happens to.

Some guys do have taste too.

Although I may be no Brad Pitt I still like to be attracted to someone.

To be fair most of the women do make an effort but some of the guys (of cpls) are just unkempt.

Ahem. "

we have given up looking for couples as Paul finds it hard to find a woman he is attracted to or if he does, I dont fancy the guy lol

Even finding the right guy - IT IS SO DIFFICULT !!!

Maybe the "not-so-choosy-people" are better off??

ahhhh - dont think so! Not for us!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We dont meet anyone who isnt selective, we just think they dont respect themselves or others. Only play if the attraction and chemistry is right. Quite a few we meet we decide not to play with. Its our choice but to be honest doesnt bother us what the ones we dont match with think. Why would it?

Mistress x

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"oooh yes!

people come up with all sorts!

as we are looking for single guys only at the moment - some of them are just unbelievable! We know there are lots of genuine nice guys around but a lot of guys do think like what you have just described!

Not surprised that the nice genuine guys on here find it hard to get meetings!

We couldent agree more with you there ,its a shame coz we know some realy nice single guys who realy dont need prats like that making thing harder but its not just single guys weve had the same with cpls ,weve been massaged loads before now by cpls asking us are we interested so we reply,"thanks but your not wat we are looking for but happy hunting" then they reply back ,"whats wrong with us",nw wtf shouldent what weve said be enuff or shall we just say that your to fat,wrong colour,too old or ugly ,now these are ppl who assume we are all on ere to shag any one ,are they off they heads or wa???"

So true and so eloquently put.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oooh yes!

people come up with all sorts!

as we are looking for single guys only at the moment - some of them are just unbelievable! We know there are lots of genuine nice guys around but a lot of guys do think like what you have just described!

Not surprised that the nice genuine guys on here find it hard to get meetings!

We couldent agree more with you there ,its a shame coz we know some realy nice single guys who realy dont need prats like that making thing harder but its not just single guys weve had the same with cpls ,weve been massaged loads before now by cpls asking us are we interested so we reply,"thanks but your not wat we are looking for but happy hunting" then they reply back ,"whats wrong with us",nw wtf shouldent what weve said be enuff or shall we just say that your to fat,wrong colour,too old or ugly ,now these are ppl who assume we are all on ere to shag any one ,are they off they heads or wa???"

I never understand why people want to know why folk aren't interested! For fear of being offended, I'll never ask someone why they don't want to have sex with me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oooh yes!

people come up with all sorts!

as we are looking for single guys only at the moment - some of them are just unbelievable! We know there are lots of genuine nice guys around but a lot of guys do think like what you have just described!

Not surprised that the nice genuine guys on here find it hard to get meetings!

We couldent agree more with you there ,its a shame coz we know some realy nice single guys who realy dont need prats like that making thing harder but its not just single guys weve had the same with cpls ,weve been massaged loads before now by cpls asking us are we interested so we reply,"thanks but your not wat we are looking for but happy hunting" then they reply back ,"whats wrong with us",nw wtf shouldent what weve said be enuff or shall we just say that your to fat,wrong colour,too old or ugly ,now these are ppl who assume we are all on ere to shag any one ,are they off they heads or wa???

I never understand why people want to know why folk aren't interested! For fear of being offended, I'll never ask someone why they don't want to have sex with me! "

You telling me someone said to you they dont want to snog you ????? has the world gone mad you are well fit Frock off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer - "yes"

If it isn't there, it isn't there. If you wouldn't fancy someone in "real life" why would you here?

Not rocket science, don't know why some people have trouble with it.

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By *rs Sugar Mr Spice OP   Couple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"oooh yes!

people come up with all sorts!

as we are looking for single guys only at the moment - some of them are just unbelievable! We know there are lots of genuine nice guys around but a lot of guys do think like what you have just described!

Not surprised that the nice genuine guys on here find it hard to get meetings!

"

I agree totally!

It does work both ways.

As a single guy, I'm fully aware of how badly behaved are a lot of my peers on here and elsewhere, who actually portray themselves as total eejits!

Of course, they completely fail to comprehend how they destroy the reputation of the genuine single males and how bad they make it for us more discerning males to get on in this site!

I do know that I look like the back end of a bus ( , trying to work out which bus make and model rear end I find attractive , but I always work on the principle of "manners, courtesy and respect cost nothing!"

I follow that at all times; it is indeed a shame that other guys can't.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Don't be silly!! You do know this is a sex site don't you??

Argh the amount of times I have heard that one!!!

If I don't fancy you, then nothing is going to happen, some people just do not understand that

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